While I’ve always had an inclination for solitude, I still found myself occasionally buying into the narrative, during my youth and adulthood, where I believed it was one of the worst things that could ever happen to me. Today’s episode is abou

Hate is heavy to live with: when you cant stop ruminating

Nov 27th, 2023 23m 8s

Listen to this when you can't get over how much you hate a person, place or thing and want to take your mind back.

Re-Romanticizing your life: yeah, it's gonna take a few tries.

Jun 12th, 2023 28m 7s

Re-romanticizing is the name we’re going with today because this shit is a life practice that never stops. Today’s topic covers 11 talking points of how to treat it like one. Whether you arrived at this place from heartbreak, job woes, toxic c

When they wont let you move on

Jun 1st, 2023 14m 22s

Nothing I say can ever prepare you for the logic that will inevitably fly out the window if you feel even a slither of emotion for someone you’re trying to move on from. Let’s start there. However, I am not going to make you feel bad about it.

Deciding who you are after the breakup: Alone at last

Nov 21st, 2022 17m 41s

So you went through a breakup. Now what? Well, it’s time to decide who you are (you know, after you peel away from all the parts of you that you became while dating that person).No, this isn’t a long episode about how you need to “just love yo

When you just dont want to move on - but how to get there

Oct 7th, 2022 25m 35s

You don’t want to move on, but everyone around you is telling you it’s been time to. And yet, here we are. I’m not here to shame you, because I’ve been you. Outer circle of people begging me to move on and all. Here’s an understanding take on h

Ghosting: Why they do it, How to deal with it and Bounce back

Oct 3rd, 2022 26m 23s

The infamous topic of ghosting has arrived. Ghosting sucks and you’re totally normal for being affected by it. In today’s episode, I attempt to address the need for feedback, closure, answers, an apology, and how to make sense of it all and bou

Stop identifying with the anger and pain of a unfortunate moment, bad event, and separation

Sep 21st, 2022 21m 56s

In today's episode we discuss making an identity out of pain and how we end up letting moments of rejection, separation or unfortunate situations unnecessarily define us. How this can be harmful to us, why we shouldn't do it, and allowing ourse

Audio Version - Moving out for those who never left their parents - A guide on getting your first place/apartment - Video Edition

Sep 7th, 2022 37m 40s

Moving out of your parents for the first time? This video podcast starts with financial expectations and the general amount to have saved. We discuss moving (getting boxes, moving companies vs task rabbits and renting a van). The topic then

Video Version - Moving out for those who never left their parents - A guide on getting your first place/apartment

Sep 7th, 2022 37m 33s

How to know you are in a situationship

Sep 3rd, 2022 25m 28s

You might not even realize you're in one. You might be thinking "he said he likes me" or "he said he loves me", and you might think that situationships are only for the people in one sided dynamics. Well my friend, I'm here to expand your view.

Why I don't like dating apps

Aug 15th, 2022 16m 55s

So many reasons to dislike them, where does a girl even start? Today's episode is a rant styled list of reasons of why I dislike dating apps and have discontinued my use of them.

Situationships end when you stop asking how they feel and start asking how you feel

Aug 11th, 2022 25m 19s

In today's episode, we talk about how we find ourselves in situationships. How they thrive under our noses, and how we can either push them forward or keep it pushing all together. The main theme: it's not about how they feel about you, it's ab

Personal upload + Life update: Why I'm not giving weekly/daily updates on my move across the country anymore. (TW: sad)

Aug 2nd, 2022 9m 26s

I'm sorry for the bad vibes in this release and how out of line it is with everything else I've uploaded on this podcast until now, I don't know where else all my followers watch and listen to my stuff in one place where they can catch it in li

Having expensive energy and protecting yourself from energy vampires

Jul 30th, 2022 23m 55s

No, we're not just talking about a dollar value and who you date. This is about the intrinsic value of your time and mental energy and being intentional with it across the board of whoever you deal with, and how to recognize when it's being dra

The "need" behind the meaning (recognizing your needs)

Jul 29th, 2022 17m 27s

That tense, heightened, intense feeling that makes you wonder if you're crazy? Yeah, that’s your needs and emotions demanding to be recognized. Today we break it down, and talk about how you can recognize yours.

Cut throat attitude towards disrespectful people (negging and flaw exploiters)

Jul 2nd, 2022 24m 2s

What they said was kinda mean, but that’s just how they are… SIKE! They’re a**holes. Today’s episode is talking about negging, and people who use flaw finding and flaw exploiting as a conversational device. This addresses a range of people, i.e

If you love them let them go (real talk)

Jun 23rd, 2022 15m 43s

Ok, literally *everyone* says this. But seriously, a large part of moving on is acceptance, and today’s episode is a walk down the brutal streets of acceptance lane. Why leaving someone alone who doesn’t want you in their life is the nicest thi

Being a Doomer (why you should stop)

Jun 15th, 2022 49m 49s

It’s a trying *ss time to be a positive person. Is this what living through history feels like? Today we’re talking about spiraling into a doom mindset and being a doomer. Making doom your identity and the center of all your conversations (with

Girl where have you been? A personal upload

May 19th, 2022 14m 48s

Today's episode is answering FAQ and is a pre-episode as an intro to season 2 of the Fleekazoid podcast. We discuss where I've been, where I'd like to go, and give an update on my personal life (trigger warning: scorpio mention jump scare alert

Safety in sugaring - scams, red flags, what to look out for.

May 5th, 2022 26m 2s

This episode discusses scams, red flags, and things to look for when dating beneficially and sugaring. These are things that cross over into vanilla dating and can be helpful in scenario's outside of just regular sugaring.

Blocking and unblocking: Breaking the cycle

Mar 6th, 2022 42m 19s

So you blocked and unblocked him? Maybe you've done this more than once. Maybe you've even done it over the course of years. Whether you did it unprompted or if he resurfaced and elicited you to do it, today's episode is for the girls who are s

No man = No value? Why this isn't true.

Feb 13th, 2022 38m 4s

Today's episode addresses the topic of feeling like we don't have value until a man decides to see it in us by dating, or committing to us. This episode fights back against the idea that you can't have excitement, purpose, and fulfillment in yo

Block him and never look back

Feb 6th, 2022 42m 26s

Debating on if it's time to block that man? Today's episode will push you over that cliff you're staring down. But first, two personal story times by Fleeksie! One based off a man from a previous podcast episode (Limerence and emotional dysregu

Defining "dusty": What even is a dusty?

Feb 4th, 2022 56m 52s

The word dusty gets thrown around so often, but what does it even mean? It seems like the ultimate insult, but is it an actual archetype? Today's episode defines dusty in the way fleeksie uses it and the ways it can be embodied by a man. We als