0:09

Just just okay, real quick test Mike, test me test test all of

0:34

them, all of them. Okay, Hello, Hello, for the record,

0:40

which is which is which is for the record with me Angelina. But

0:45

we do have the returning guest here and Nge Lake what's up? And the

0:49

freaking heard her two episodes ago a b in the house like Selena's brother.

0:56

Oh that's cute story, which her soft Graham per usual. In this week's

1:03

episode, and for the culture, we're talking about Drake breaking the Internet,

1:07

and let's talk TV. Disney announces a big one that we did not see

1:11

coming. And in Bitch we're talking all things of Valentine's Day, So by

1:15

all means, let's get to it. This is for the culture, for

1:25

the culture, for the culture. This is where we pick a headline and ask if they, she or he did it for the culture. Uh,

1:30

this week Drake had the Twitter and it's so we all saw. I just

1:42

got on board with what you just saw. You want to see it again?

1:46

I got it. It was like, person was Drake trending? Then

1:49

it was like damn Drake trending, Like literally the words damn and the words

1:53

Drake saw that it was trending. Went straight to Twitter. And you know

2:00

what I will give Twitter. Well, first, okay, if you're living

2:02

under a rock this past week, I get it, you're busy, you

2:06

have a life. We don't. But Drake was turning on Twitter after a

2:09

riskue video leaked. He was pleasuring himself. If you will no one thing

2:16

I will give Elon Musty Dreads would never like I could really count on good

2:23

old Twitter to have those that video immediately. Yeah, I did same thing.

2:25

I didn't google Google dot com. No, I went to my Twitter

2:29

search bar, took my little fingers put Drake Leak, scrolled like for two

2:32

point seconds and was like, boom, there it is. There, it

2:35

is, it is. It's not only the video that's so great, but

2:38

then the reactions like and that is one reason I truly would never give up

2:40

Twitter. Yeah, it's in these moments that Twitter really is goaded. There

2:46

was a hell a good picture. I'll show it to you, but for

2:51

you, for you people, it's like this true. Yeah, let's just

2:58

say he wasn't a fully equipped because you know, loaded, But for honey,

3:06

I'm okay with it. I was okay with its shadow. Oh no,

3:14

that is a confident man. And now I know why. Now I

3:17

know why he got head at himself. You know, he was like,

3:23

I don't even care. He's trying to beat the BBL allegations. I'm making

3:30

it my god honestly though, I love it. I love it and it's

3:35

definitely Drake. I mean people are kind of speculating, is it really Drake?

3:38

It looks a lot like oh yeah, and like he's on his private jet, like you could hear like the humming of the Yeah. I didn't

3:55

really. I had my team. We were like you I we you know,

4:00

had a three day yeah, but yeah, you know, I just

4:04

must say. You know, I'm kind of a size queen right now.

4:08

That's kind of my thing. I love a big dick, but you know,

4:12

I'm like a thick girl. I'm really like a thick girl right now.

4:15

It's giving really long and skinny, which I'm not mad at. But it wasn't fully like, it wasn't there, not dick shaming, but no,

4:23

I think if it was there, it would be she could have been

4:25

thicker. No yeah, no, no, but I think it could be

4:30

though. Yeah, you're right, you're right now, No, not only

4:33

theoretically, I mean, like if something happens to it. It was flaccid.

4:38

You know, it wasn't on. He didn't he didn't flip the switch.

4:41

But when he does really like paid attention to this video, huh is

4:46

no, I've been analyzing it for forty eight hours. I couldn't have a

4:54

full investigation. So there we go. I'm into the peen the pe and

5:02

it was great. Shout out to his parents. Oh my god. Oh

5:06

yeah, I saw on Twitter they were like, he's talking about it at

5:10

his concert and he was like, oh, I know you guys heard the

5:13

rumor. No way is here, like he he like, I hate ye

5:18

see the guys that are blessed like that, that are so corny. Maybe

5:21

the corny is w like Drake is so corny and we know that. And

5:26

he continues to be so corny. But a lot of people thought like,

5:28

maybe it wasn't real. That's why he's so confident and corny, because that's

5:33

that's God's plan. Good for him, an say, he really took care

5:45

of himself. You take care of me for sure. This is good.

5:53

No, that was God's fine for sure. Alright, all right, let's

6:00

talk t V you guys. This Sunday is the season finale of Taylor Swift

6:06

and Travis Kelsey's relationship. They're gonna get renewed though for sure, like immediately

6:13

next year. They're going for ten seasons. It's gonna happen. But this

6:17

Sunday Broad partying them breaking hearts. She's definitely going to the game though.

6:23

I think she is. Oh right, I saw that she's got like,

6:25

uh, she's on tour in Hong Kong or something. Yeah, yeah,

6:29

she's fine straight there. Yeah. People think like he's gonna propose and they're

6:33

gonna win. They're not gonna win. He can still propose after they lose.

6:36

Wait, why did they have his mom on CNN or her mom?

6:40

They had her mom on CNN asking about if she's gonna get married, and

6:45

she's like, whatever's right for her. It as long as she's happy.

6:47

I'm like, oh, that's what her That was her answer. Yeah,

6:49

But what Also, why the fuck Taylor swifts mom on CNN talking about them

6:54

getting like it's too much like she she goes, she does press, press

7:01

friends. But in actual TV news, Disney announced Mowana to the sequel.

7:11

But I'll give to them, like no one saw that coming, right,

7:14

Like that was a good thing, Like usually there's some leaks going on, like some rumors they said, and this November like no business ship dropping this

7:21

year. We've been working on it. It's probably finished end of the year.

7:26

It's here. I saw it pretty cool. The star she posted on

7:30

her Twitter and it was like it was like a video of friend. She was like, when your friends find out from Disney and Pixar that Moanitu is

7:38

coming out and from not from me? Oh yeah, So like it was

7:42

just like everyone's oh, yeah, they probably signed all what's it called the

7:47

things they gotta sign so they don't say nothing. Yeah, they because Disney

7:53

would get their asks. My god, did you guys see the There's like

7:57

a theory. I don't know if it came out right after they announced the

8:01

second movie or what, but about her being the first transgender princess, like

8:05

like supposedly that's Mohana. Yeah, that's supposed They would never do it.

8:15

I don't know if they do that, but I mean maybe doing it,

8:18

But I don't know about what Molanna. What do they do? They don't

8:22

they don't do LGBT characters, just saying it's all queer except the redhead one

8:28

brave lesbian. Yeah, let's be honest, you flaying arrows. You're kind

8:35

of a little elsa little too close with her sister, if you know what

8:39

I mean. You don't brush her hair that much. The Caveman one,

8:48

I think I never watched it, like an Irish because her husband. Also

8:54

there was a Monsters one and like they had like the LGBTU. It was

9:01

a cop. Remember Lena Waite was the We talked about that. Yeah,

9:05

oh yeah, yeah yeah, but she was like she was barely gay and

9:09

it was a girlfriend or something like that. Yeah, that was like she

9:13

was gay, but also whatever, it didn't count, It didn't count,

9:18

It didn't make it much. That would be crazy though. I just I

9:22

don't see that working or I don't see that happening. But maybe, yeah,

9:26

I don't know, be down. I don't know. I think maybe

9:28

doing that. I don't see it with Malana. Yeah, you can't show

9:31

me that. That week, they they saw that Malana was popular as fuck.

9:37

Kids love I mean even adults. Everybody loves Molana. So they're like, we're making a sequel, and I really hope they like throw away the

9:43

whole live action because I know that was like a rumor. I mean,

9:48

it's like yeah, give us a sequel. We don't want that. Damn live action. I'm not into the Disney live actions. I've seen that fake

9:52

commercial with Dwayne the Rock Johnson in it. They're like, he's gonna be

9:56

He's gonna play the character that he voices. Yeah, and it should be Jason Mamala. I'm kidding the Rock obviously already it'd be perfect. I heard

10:03

they do live action Disney movies so that Disney could keep the rights to the

10:09

character. Sure. Yeah, that's the only reason why they do it,

10:13

because it's like seventy years or something something like that. Yeah, you have

10:18

to like like the whole Mackey Mouse I just heard. Yeah, Mickey Mouse

10:24

the Steamboat Willie version is public now. Anybody can use it live action,

10:30

like they can make it into a scare movie anything that makes sense. That

10:33

one. Yeah, I'm not here for it. Minus a Little Mermaid,

10:37

But like Lion King, that was like a less Beyonce is gonna be there

10:39

in physical forms. It doesn't have the same Yeah, I would like to

10:43

more of like Beyonce actually showed up like she was the only human in the

10:45

movie. Ye, so much better. Yeah, I didn't like it,

10:52

but my nieces actually love that one. Okay, that's my favorite movie,

10:58

Like Lion King has always my favorite movie, and when they came out,

11:01

I think I had higher expectations, like Go to the Zoo. Li King

11:03

is the superior Disney movie, like Lion King is always number one, then

11:07

it's the rest. But yeah, I'm really excited. My niece is also

11:11

obsessed with Wana, so is my mom. Like anytime I come over,

11:15

it's on to this day. They love that movie. A movie between Wanna

11:18

and a Conto like that is on repeat at my parents house. Coco.

11:26

I like Coco too, and I want Conto was more successful though, which

11:30

makes you sad because you know Mexican, but I think they're both pretty Like

11:33

they're both pretty successful, and Conto was definitely literally be like, yeah,

11:39

the sound try to be like number one, like out of what was it

11:43

frozen? If you let it go, it is guess while Mighty Friend,

11:48

I was literally playing we Don't talk about Bruno on the radio, I interviewed

11:54

like the character, Yeah, was like huge. I mean, I love

12:00

Coco. Coco is never one in my heart, though I don't like I

12:03

didn't cry respectfully. Yeah one time, Yeah, I would buy I think

12:11

it's like I don't know, Like for me, it was perspective because like

12:18

for Coco, I think because I'm Mexican too, Like I think I was

12:22

expecting to be able to relate to it a lot, and I did,

12:26

but there were some parts that I was like, Okay, that doesn't apply

12:28

to like how I was raised, the like traditions that we had, like

12:31

we never celebrated he low key and I related more than conto. Like when

12:37

I was talking to the girl, I was telling her how like how they

12:39

treated Brunos, how they treated I don't think I've seen the movie me familiar. No, No, it's like it's like a hood like Mexican movie.

12:46

Yeah, it's like you have a long Jennifer Lopez. Yeah, everyone's in

12:50

it. It's long as hell, like all the famous like Mexican actors in

12:52

it. Oh yeah, but like not as gangster's button but out but it

12:58

is a little there's some gangster scenes. But one of the brothers to show

13:03

was like always like the outcast, and I was like, this time were like the PG version. And I literally told Adasa that when she's on that

13:09

place, who's the sister that like knowsh it or like whispers or whatever.

13:13

I know the secrets. No. I told her that theory and she was

13:16

like, no, absolutely one. She allow felt me. I was like,

13:20

period, No, okay, I agree. I agree with the A

13:24

B. But Coca was beautiful. I do love the whole do you do.

13:28

It's more those like theme colors, like when I saw that, let

13:33

me a little alter, I know, let me let me get more in

13:37

the spirit, Let me get more in the spirit. No, was fire.

13:41

Not to pick on you, ab because the chance this snarana has heard

13:45

some crazy What was the other conspiracy theory you told us? I was like,

13:50

crazy he has earlier? That was a crazy one? Which one you

13:54

had a lot of. We're talking about Selena, Frozen one, Taylor Swift

14:01

one. See, I'm telling you he has so many. The Frozen one was the theory about, oh yeah, that they created the movie Frozen all

14:07

to like change the s c O on Google. So like a lot of

14:13

people were googling allegedly like Disney Frozen to see if it was true that they

14:18

frozen Walt Disney like that every day. So so apparently they supposedly did this

14:26

movie so that whenever you google it, it's like frozen like to erase that

14:31

theory because it could be fair. Okay, but his head is frozen in

14:35

the matter horn. I don't know, they say, they say, and

14:39

that's the about original was about the same thing that this one's crazy. She

14:46

just wanted to date one of the jets, so that a player from the

14:52

Jets, so that when you searched her up, I guess she was one

14:56

of like back to back years we talked about this. She's like the environment

15:00

with her target everyone. Her private jets are the ones that have been like

15:05

adding a lot to like the Ozone. I don't know, but supposedly that

15:09

was giving her bad publicity. And supposedly she dated or she wanted to date

15:13

someone from the Jets, or they wanted her to date something from the Jets

15:16

so that when you googled it it would just be it would just be like

15:20

her and like the rumors of them dating. Whether you know what it is,

15:24

my my Instagram reel spiral that night, like that algorithm changes I'm saying,

15:31

I don't know, I don't want to say. I was just watching

15:35

and watching and then I get into like this deep hole of like all these

15:37

theories that contribute each other but I will leave them all sometimes. Oh Jomas

15:43

Casey would not be happy with that. He's like, I need my bag,

15:46

Do not leave me, Taylor, I didn't get my I need my

15:48

bags. God damn jets. Speaking of we'll just mention this really quickly.

15:54

Clowns though. Uh the oxygen they're giving Yolanda all the bitch that kills Selena

16:00

a documentary they just give everybody week. It's so disgusting and like, if

16:07

you watch the trailer, her main thing is like, oh, but she had a secret, which I don't care what secrets she had. You murdered

16:11

her. Like my friends have mad secrets, but I still can't get away

16:15

with murdering them and being like it's justified because that bitch had a secret.

16:18

We all got secrets. It's just girls care about what she has to say.

16:22

Yeah, I don't watch that ship. I think a lot of people

16:25

are still going to see just to like yeah last yeah, yeah, I'll

16:32

watch the highlights. I'm not going to go on Tiktoka. I'll go.

16:38

I wonder if she gets paid for that though, absolutely, and her pearls

16:41

coming up yeah next year. Yeah, I want to see what kind of

16:44

guns she used. Like, what what are we going to find out?

16:48

So see, that's even more disrespectful. Yeah, it's disgusting. Don't watch

16:53

that ship. And then I saw Netflix they like put out like they try

16:56

to promote the series, like right when the teaser dropped, it's like,

17:00

we're still watching your wag a series. Netflix, Like yeah, it's like

17:02

Yolanda, but that series was trash. We will not be revisiting that.

17:07

That's terrible. Did you watch the series? Yeah, kind of like I

17:11

thought it was good. Yeah, like it was like the story, like

17:15

I heard a lot of controversy, it was kind of corny. I like

17:18

that thing was terrible. The wigs were terrible, and the green ski the

17:22

green screens were terrible. Crazy. Where was the budget? And that's like

17:26

the corn part was when they added that little Beyonce meeting her part, because

17:32

like like Beyonce said in an interview once that that happened, So I guess

17:34

when they did, when they did the series they added that part. I

17:37

think that was like I feel like that part wasn't necessary for her story,

17:42

you know what I mean. They were just trying anytime they can, you

17:48

know, the only thing I will give it. And obviously then still make

17:52

me sad because it's a sad story, Like hard to not be sad about

17:55

that. But the corny part when she first meets Chris and opens the door

17:57

and it's like no more even like so like every time they were in the

18:06

car, I was like, I can't get over the screen. Screen It's terrible. It was so cute. It was cute. One thing I kind

18:11

of liked that they did, though, it was like the truth. Like

18:14

in the movie when she does her Grammy speech, you know, she's like,

18:17

my husband, Chris, thank you baby, But in real life, she actually never thanked him and they had a fight over it, and they

18:21

show that in the in the series. So wow, there's some cool stuff

18:25

that got right. But for the most part I wouldn't rewatch it. But

18:30

I said, bitch, if you wanted to go to Taylor's, just tell

18:34

her brother you want to go to Taylor's. Nice You said that? Oh

18:37

hell yeah, man, I laid it out right, I said, I

18:41

said, I says, I said, bitch. All right already, guys,

18:47

m bit okay, shout out to our first ninety five listeners last week

18:52

you'll know what I'm talking about. I did decide to edit a thing something

18:56

out just because I don't know for some reasons. Anyways, what are we

19:03

talking about? Anyways, guys, I went on a date two weeks ago.

19:08

Actually I kind of updated you. I know you guys aren't hear this.

19:11

I'll tell you again. I went on day two weeks ago and it

19:14

went amazing. I didn't know. We did all the things like god drinks.

19:18

We were gonna leave that spot because it wasn't popping. We ended up

19:22

staying there for like two hours talking like such a good conversation. Then we

19:25

got tacos and then we went dancing like it was perfect. So then after

19:29

that he started texting me again and then we went on another date. Well

19:33

it wasn't a date. We're still good. The movies I fvited him over,

19:36

but we ended up watching like three movies, like Legit, watching it

19:41

like actually watching, like had a whole conversation and there's like little stuff that

19:45

he was saying. I was like super cute. That like was a good

19:48

I don't know, he has a good character. That was on Sunday though,

19:52

you guys, and he does not text me since should I be overthinking?

19:56

And okay, so pretty sick Chris just said, why don't we hit

20:00

him up first? Are you talking to them like producer Chris No, It's

20:03

okay, he's probably a little shy. Okay, this is what I will

20:07

say. So from the first time we hung out, I was like,

20:11

okay, should I text the first? And I actually don't mind. So

20:14

I did hit him that Wednesday, and like he is like a very natural

20:17

texter, like he'll text me like for he's not one of those people that's like, oh, I'm like you have a player about it. Like he'll

20:21

text me like five texts in a row. He'll ask me questions back, like super easy to talk to you. Yeah, I love that. So

20:26

it made it easy for me. So like that Wednesday that I hit him

20:29

up first and great conversation. That's when he was like, hey, let's go to the movies, like let's let's lake up like this weekend and like

20:33

made plans and then I ended up having like plans that went overboard whatever,

20:37

but like maybe plans to hang out. But I do kind of feel like

20:41

like after I saw him Sunday, it's like, well, I text him first last time, Like I feel like he could text me like it's that

20:48

big of a dot I ain't cat nothing wrong with it. Well, let

20:52

me give you a new slash woman. Also like the attention read a fucking

20:57

book and deserve And I feel like I'm giving him that energy, Like if

21:06

you're thinking about you shouldext me, you know, if it's your problem, don't hit him off about it. No, see, I don't want to

21:10

do all that. It's like it's too early out twice you know what I mean. I'm not I'm not gonna. It's like I just I want you

21:15

to want to hit me up. I don't want to be like, oh

21:17

text to me like that's that's doing too much Sunday. It's the middle of

21:22

the week. It's literally Thursday. It's technically it's Friday. Fine minutes week.

21:30

You've seen him twice, Like, it's fine, don't trip out,

21:33

you know what, just take a long walk off a short bridge, like

21:36

it's fine, just to play some traffic. You'll be fine from it might

21:44

be too early. But did you ever talk about like if you guys are

21:48

dating multiple people? No, no, no, that's that's like we're smart.

21:56

But but what I will say? What he so? I know I

22:00

honestly other than this, like and I'm not gonna be crazy. I mean

22:03

I am, because overthinking is my middle name. I mean it's like we're

22:06

the overthinkers. Okay, I'm gonna do that every single time, like naturally,

22:10

but I'm not acting on the craziness, you know. So like in the beginning, I'm like this, like I definitely enjoy this. I'm like,

22:15

wow, this is so fun, Like I'm hanging out with someone that

22:17

actually enjoyed their company and like matching each other's energy for the most part.

22:21

Like it's literally only hung out twice. But I will say, maybe he

22:25

does say things that like you like include me in future plans. Like for example, I like made a joke about, oh, I told him about

22:32

our Grand Syer resort trip, Chris went to the Gransy Air Resort and we

22:34

swear at Spinny Vegas, like we swear by this way, we weren't one.

22:40

So I was just telling him all that, right, and then I'm

22:44

I know, I'm trying to show him and like the overviews were terrible,

22:47

Like he was like, I don't know about your suggestions, but he was making a joke like, oh, let's take it, like let's go somewhere,

22:52

and like we were like children I got my older cousin like by us, a bottle of mouth like now wo wrong, and a gator the go

23:00

cards and then that's when like Limitless came out. They had a movie theater

23:03

and that's why because we're gonna watch limit lists. And I was like,

23:06

me and my cousin great because the theater was like three dollars and I was

23:10

only playing that in the Lincoln Lawyer and we're like, should we watch another

23:12

movie or should we go watch this movie ten more times? Because it was

23:15

so great Bradley Cooper's last good movie. Honestly, Okay, that's how we

23:22

let him to Barborn. Hold on, okay, Oh you're right, you're

23:26

right, You're right, you're right. Stars Warn is great. But he

23:30

was like from that, he's like, oh, we should take a trip, and like saying like, oh, what when are you free? Like

23:33

we like literally like booked a march in our calendar. It's like little future

23:37

plans, like another thing that was really cute. He's not really into football

23:41

or basketball at all. He's like strictly soccer. He was he knows I'm

23:45

a Niner fan, so he's like we should make a bet, like if

23:47

the Niners win, I'll buy you your coffee table. And I thought it's

23:49

usually like if I'm saying I'm gonna take a bet, it's gonna be my

23:52

thing, like oh, if we went to bet, you owe me dinner. Yeah, a coffee table. Because I was just telling him, like

23:59

what's left in my apartment that I was like, oh, I want to get a new coffee table and he's like, oh, let me see,

24:03

and I showed him, like the one I had like in my Amazon cart that's cute. No, it's not that expensive. It's like almost two hundred

24:10

dollars. That's expensive. Well the real the real one I want on what

24:15

Films six hundred dollars. But I just thought it was cute that he's like,

24:22

let's make a bet. The thing you want, I'll get and like you pick mine, you know, like you just want to say something cute

24:26

like I'll buy your coffee table. Girl, that's cute, But I would

24:30

say the future plan thing like I don't believe it until it happens. Oh

24:36

yeah, totally. No, absolutely, we're just talking shit. No,

24:41

But I like us both being delusional in the moment, you know, like, oh my god, what are running? Let's run it? Like I

24:48

think it's cute. Yeah, like are we gonna do that? Who knows? But I like that you're like just speaking about me in the future like

24:52

that. It's just cute. Shit, No, that's what I'm saying.

24:55

Like the vibes are great in person, and like, honestly, even now in my head, I'm just like, Okay, if we're just having fun,

25:00

that's fine. But I am, like, I guess I'm kind of

25:03

just like a little guard like, you know what, let me if he's

25:06

not texting me like that, Like I'm just a little sign I'm not. I'm not saying like I'm cutting him off. He ain't like he doesn't love

25:11

me. He doesn't like me at all. You know, I'm not saying

25:14

all that, but I am a little like be guarded. But maybe he's

25:17

busy. He's busy. You know. I'm busy too. I'm busy as

25:21

all cut him off. It's literally so pretty so Chris So when he first

25:27

sad why when he first met he has to pay on Instagram? And I

25:32

told him no, yes, yeah, yeah yeah, and that you worked

25:34

at Zara's and then I worked at zara Yes, And he said, what

25:42

did you do as you know that. Yeah, let me take the security

25:48

thing off for you. Do you want to back? Do you want to

25:52

the person? Do you want to sell? Do you have a worse Do

26:00

you have a worse number? I love Sara? So he knows you have

26:07

to Instagram now right, he knows you have. We don't have each other's

26:10

Instagram. I mean I know his because I'm crazy and I socked him and

26:12

found it. But it's private each other. No, No, he doesn't

26:17

want to. I want to overthink real quick. Let's overthink. What if he found out that you had an Instagram and he's like, oh, this

26:22

base lied to me. I know everything she does. I feel like he

26:26

knows. Yeah, He's like, I listen to you every night. I'm

26:30

listening to this podcast right now. Yeah, I'm reading you two stars.

26:36

I know this girl. Okay, Well, if you're listening, what would you tell him? Hey, there out there, if you're listening. Okay,

26:44

this story leads to a topic and it's not necessarily to me, but

26:47

let's say tomorrow he texts me and we're texting every day and we like go

26:51

on a couple of dates, and then Valentine's Day approaches. The question is

26:56

when you're talking to someone early or dating someone early, and Valentine's Day happens

27:00

to pop up. Is it too early to ask that person to be your

27:03

Valentine or to even like make plans on that day, or do you kind

27:06

of like avoid that day altogether? Like, oh, butch, I was sleeping all of February fourteenth. I just woke up and it's February fifteenth.

27:11

It's too early. You have to pretend you were like in a coma for

27:17

a day. Just just say Happy Valentine's there's too much like Verde thirteenth.

27:19

You're talking February fifteenth. Oh my god, you will never believe this.

27:22

I dropped my phone in the middle of the sea. Just bought a new

27:26

one. How was your day yesterday? I don't know about that analogy of

27:30

the phone falling into the sea. If someone doesn't text me back like what,

27:33

they either died or their phone dropped in the middle of it depends.

27:41

What do you think. I feel like. I feel like I've actually like

27:44

I feel like I've been on a date with somebody, like a little bit before Valentine's Day and like it was coming up and was like, let's go

27:49

have dinner. Again, it's not like be my Valentine, you know,

27:52

yeah, what you do for the rest of your life exactly. Like I

27:56

feel like if it lines up like that, like that's really cute and it

28:00

could be like that's cool. I think that's cool organically, like it just

28:03

right, like it's happening, like it could just be uh, it could

28:07

be just a day on the fourteenth, that's what happens. And that's even

28:10

kind of keeps to my friend. Yeah, that's okay, but that could be cute to you, like, yeah, we've been my Valentine. That

28:14

that's hell, Like you eat that ship up right, and it's like guaranteed

28:18

right, you didn't take me out of Valentine's Day. Calm down, I

28:29

mean if for men and men and mostly we're still in the pandemic guys,

28:33

remember that producer Chris, What does that mean? We're pandemic? So wear

28:38

a mask while you're doing it? Wrap it up. No, I don't

28:44

know. I think I would. I wouldn't do it anymore. When I

28:49

was working at Lows like two years ago, three years ago, okay,

28:53

I actually asked this girl coworker of mine to be my Valentine. Oh that's

29:00

like talking or dating like that. It was just like text messages kind of

29:03

like that blirting, little flirting but not crazy. You haven't with he or

29:07

anything. No, no, no, okay, the story kind of it

29:11

goes downhill. But I asked her to be my Valentine. She said yes,

29:17

Valentine's Day. Like I got this like nice like tulip okay thing because

29:22

like you don't want to do roses, right, that's too because you want

29:25

her to lips and then like some little chocolate things that she used to like

29:37

and what always talking about? Right, and like I asked her out to

29:42

dinner that night she said yes, whatever. She was like, oh,

29:48

like call me before you head out, so I know you're on your way or whatever. Right, why are you laughing already? He probably already knows

29:55

it's gonna go. Oh, so I'm ready to go, and I I'm

30:00

gonna overthink her just like you. And when like, I'm very bad,

30:04

I'm very intentional when it comes to like call me or text me. Like

30:07

when I say one or the other, I mean one or the other.

30:10

Right, let me know if you made it home safely. No, like

30:12

like if I tell you text me later or call me lator like there's a

30:15

reason I use text or call, like it depends on what I'm going to

30:18

do. I'm intentional with that kind of stuff. So whenever she told me

30:22

she said call me before you head out, I was like, wait,

30:25

like, does that really mean called? Does that mean text? So I was going back and forth on what to do. But I was like,

30:30

let me just text her, let's go. And it was weird because it

30:36

was like the first time I was ever going to go out with her, Like that, right, what's your sign? I don't even know? I

30:41

know, So I text her, didn't get a reply, and I decided

30:45

to call like thirty minutes later or something like that, maybe forty and no

30:51

answer. And then I get a text like two minutes after that and she was like, hey, sorry, I ended up going out with someone else

30:56

tonight. And I was it crazy. I was like, that's crazy.

31:04

I was feeling yes, yes, So so in the moment, I was

31:07

kind of like, okay, like you're telling me the truth. Cool,

31:11

So I just replied, it's cool. Maybe next time. That's all I

31:14

said. I don't know what to say, and like, so, but

31:19

check this out. The next day at work, I found out that the

31:23

person she went out with was another coworker. God that's and like on her

31:33

story, it was like a story of like the rose bouquet that she got

31:36

that night, and like in the car, I'm assuming he picked her up.

31:40

I don't know. And so ever since then, I like, you

31:42

feel like crap, right, Like in the moment, I was kind of

31:45

like, damn, like you could have. Well, that's when that's when

31:49

I realized, like I made the mistake of like first never never asked someone

31:55

on the first she went with another Low's employee, as I never stop improved.

32:02

He was from pro Services, way like I did. But then I

32:13

mean obviously nothing ever happened, but it made me kind of very like very

32:19

and very like like now I'm like on Valentine's Day, I'm good. No,

32:23

she's kind of her but that's so fund up unless I'm actually dating you

32:28

or something like that, like I'm not about to ask you at least for

32:31

now, I don't know. It's like I gotta see you don't sha where

32:36

you eat? Just that that's really that's even really hard. Yeah, I

32:42

only shout at home people, so that that is true. Because after that,

32:49

never again, like I never like talked to a coworker like that before

32:52

never okay, and I did learn like, okay, you really got to

32:54

be careful with that. My heart broke saying someone every day like that,

32:59

ain't it? Oh yeah? Because you had to see her the ana am yeah on the next day, different departments, so it was like like rare

33:06

when you cross backs, but damn the one her. She was on my

33:08

team, so yeah, like did you what you did? You ice her

33:12

out? You tell her like like, I didn't engage in that in that

33:17

topic anymore. I kind of just kept pushing it, like you kind of

33:22

just have to own it at that point, and like who I was back

33:25

then, I'm trying to what I was her in that situation, Like if

33:30

she was if they were talking talking, I would have preferred her to tell me before like hey, I'm kind of talking to someone, But that was

33:35

really weighing out her eyes, like she really was. She I'm not gonna

33:38

let it take me on a date tonight, she felt back, and I

33:40

didn't want to say yeah, but I'd rather would have gotten the yeah.

33:45

Then I would stand me up and then let me know that you actually had

33:49

other players. She was waiting and I don't know she was for sure waiting

33:53

and she's like, who am I going to go out first? You know,

33:55

I don't you know what This is going to sound sucked up, But

34:00

she might have really been into other dude and he might have been playing games and you asked her and she was like but then he finally crept around and

34:05

was like, actually, bitch, I'm gonna ask you. Stay surprised. She was like, oh, thank god, I mean they didn't work out.

34:12

Oh no, Like when you work with somebody like you hear it,

34:16

You're like, I don't know, I don't know. Yeah, never stopping

34:21

proving, you're like, how's your relationship, Chrissy? Not good? That's

34:27

cool, that's crazy. So yeah, I don't know. I'd rather say

34:31

the little Valentine's thing for like someone that you're at least dating a little more

34:37

than just yeah, you know, the very beginning to answer your question.

34:40

So when I worked at Lake shel A, this never happened because Valentine's Day

34:45

is like the worst day to work at a restaurant, like Valentine's Mother's Day,

34:49

Like you're planning to be there at three in the morning, but overbuked,

34:52

like they say they scheduled it correctly and they organized this year. No,

34:55

they're not your boss is gonna fuck you. It's gonna be madness,

34:59

but like we're all going through it. There was this one kid that was like the host. I mean hi were like he was like probably a year

35:04

younger than me. He was so cute, but I'm like a workaholic,

35:07

and he was one of those people that like did not care about work, which I'm respected, you know, fuck the man, but it's just like

35:12

not my weird we didn't see I'd eye on that part. But he was

35:16

so cute, Like I remember one time we hung out and like we like

35:19

stopped at the gas station and like the clerk was like, you guys are

35:21

such a cute couple, and he was like thank you, Like we would have been so cute. But I'll never forget. We like were slaving this

35:28

this episode this uh shift, and I remember he made like a He's like

35:31

Anglin and I made us reservations at Scott, like Scott's like we're gonna go,

35:35

And in my head, I really like that would have been but of course he didn't because he's broken, does not work hard. But in the

35:40

moment, like daydreamed him was dululy for a second, like how cute,

35:44

Like I'm so tired right now from the shift, Like how cute would that been if your ass really made his reservations? I mean we didn't get off

35:52

to like one, like there's no way, Like there was no follow up after that, like okay, you still want to go to Scott's. Yeah,

35:57

I guess it was a joke. Could be diferent days, like a

36:02

different yeah, but no, no, I'm follow up just talking you still

36:06

at the lake? No, I don't think so. I don't think anyone's there anymore. I went there and I was like, who works here?

36:14

That's but I feel like that story, Abe, you should not let that

36:17

stop you from like making spontaneous decisions and dates like that's cute. Yeah,

36:23

that was bold and it took a lot of courage because I was back then

36:30

definitely super a lot shyer. Yeah. See, you take that as a

36:34

lesson of like, Okay, at least that taught me how to like take

36:36

that stuff, you know all the time. There's no shame in that story,

36:39

But I don't know, No, I'm not saying shame. I think

36:43

more as a win, like, oh that was my first time finally branching out like it sucks that it didn't work out, But I honestly think that

36:49

she had some other shady ship going with that guy, Like he probably was

36:52

playing her the whole time, and she had it stirring along and then finally you made like someone else, so it was it was perfect, but then

36:57

he came around Like it sounds fucked up, but that's what it was.

37:00

But that has nothing to do with you, which is why I'm saying any

37:04

other woman would be so happy that someone made spontaneous just like I said.

37:07

I was like doolu in ahead on. My coworker said that, I was

37:09

like, am I gonna fall in love with this person ten nights? Like?

37:14

Is this our story? Is this how it starts? Like anyone would

37:16

love to hear I made? Do you want to go out tonight? So

37:20

don't let that stop you from that? Yeah, So our conclusion that is

37:24

never tually like for the Valentine's plans, No, I think it just depends.

37:30

I feel like what you said about like if it happens organically, if

37:32

like in your case for example, like if the third date happens to land,

37:37

you know, on the fourteenth, that could be cool let's still do

37:40

something Valentine's Day, Eve, though you don't have to say you are a

37:43

Valentine. But it's also like to go to some balls, you're taking out

37:46

all Valentine's Day you are. We're just gonna ignore the fact that it's Fabruary

37:50

fourteenth, Like the restaurant probably has a V Day set menu. Everyone turned

37:53

fucking Valentine's exactly, yeah, exactly, Like we don't know what today is

37:59

exactly. Oh, we're just and I think it's it's like being an adult.

38:05

Yeah, and it's like it doesn't mean anything. It's Valentine's Day.

38:07

It's literally a hallmark day. It can be ordinary if that's what works for

38:15

you. Okay, so we talked about too early. Let's say you and your partner have been together for a long time, like going on a decade.

38:22

Do you so ask your partner to be your Valentine? Absolutely? Yes, I would say yes, absolutely, Yeah, that's so cute. Yeah,

38:30

I personally, whoever you are out there in the future, I would

38:34

like you to ask me every single year. No, I agree with you

38:37

because I never forgot this thing. I forgot where it saw it was on

38:40

TV or something where they said like never stop dating your partner. Yeah you

38:45

know what I mean, like like always be boyfriend girlfriend? Yeah, you

38:49

know like that initial I I love all that, and I agree it does

38:53

all that. But I will say I was in a relationship for a long

38:55

time and I think it did get to a point where I mean in I

38:59

had on like bitch you, but give me a gift today and like we've got and we're definitely having sex today, Like you know, there's like those

39:04

things are like definitely, But I think I wasn't like that pressed to be

39:06

like asked me to be your valentine? Oh no, no, we're hanging

39:10

out, you know, And it takes away that sincerity of it if you

39:15

asked me to ask you you know what I mean. Oh yeah, so

39:19

just now to do it, Like I'd rather like hurry up and have it

39:22

come from me than no. But there are some people in both relationships where

39:27

you got to tell them because eventually that gets lost and you got to be

39:30

like, hey, yesterday, I'm about to break up with you, asked yesterday my boyfriend he did ask me, how do you do it? How

39:37

do you like? So like he didn't ask me to be his valentine,

39:40

but he was like, so like Valentine's Days next week, Like what do

39:45

you want to do? Like, do you have any ideas? Do you want to do anything? Yeah? In the back of my mind, I'm

39:49

just thinking like I'm broke as fuck you do anything. It's like I felt

39:52

really stressed, but I'm just like, yeah, like we should go get

39:55

dinner, like we should go go get massages that we've been saying we were

39:58

gonna do, like I gotta coop. Yeah. He was like yeah,

40:04

yeah, yeah, let's do it. But like I was like, loving

40:07

ship, it's crazy. Yeah, there's plans for the fourteenth. There are

40:14

plans for the fourteenth. And I was like in that moment, I was like, wow, I haven't really I feel I do feel feel really lucky

40:20

like he said it it's a week away or whatever. And you know,

40:23

so if he hadn't asked would you do it? Oh yeah, definitely,

40:30

definitely yeah, And then you would ask him like yeah definitely, or I

40:34

would say like what do we do, Like let's let's let's make plans.

40:36

Yeah, okay, And I think we're we're talking about like do we ask

40:39

people to be our Valentine's or we do we talk about plans, and I

40:44

think that asking to be your valentine is so corny, but I would love

40:46

that. Sometimes corny is necessary. Yeah, but it's necessary, Baby and

40:52

Andy, like just regular. I think that's cool too. Like it's like,

40:57

are we going to acknowledge the elephant in the room. It's like we

41:01

both know we get dinner every Friday, but this one is February fourteenth.

41:06

You know, even if you don't go out that day because some couples wait

41:09

till that Friday week, or if you're long distance, you plan it.

41:14

You schedule a day, I don't know. No, something got to be extra special with it, like you showing up with flowers, your two lips

41:19

for my two lips, you know, like a box of something that signifies

41:24

I understand today is a holiday and I need to celebrate our love. Man

41:30

is very romantic, so I love romance. I love Jorney Church this time

41:35

because it's ash Wednesday, so all day. No yeah, no, no,

41:42

no, I'm not going to that day regardless I want to. Why

41:47

not? I want to get someone else wants on their forehead. No better

41:52

recognize on religious the giant put it someone before you God exactly. I was

42:02

gonna say something about Chris. Oh no, I just it's so crazy seeing

42:06

Chris in like a committed relationship. Oh, Like there was a time,

42:10

okay, I can only relate it to like, there was this time when

42:13

I was at like Shela, you guys, I swear to god, I went over two years with like no sex, and like in my mind,

42:17

I was like, I may never have sex again, like I really thought

42:22

I would never Like I was like, oh, this is it for me. There's a time when Chris was so single. I literally was like and

42:28

not even like feeling bad or anything, but I was like, I think

42:30

Chris is going to be single forever. I think that's his journey. But

42:35

I cannot imagine him serious about any person because I was just like everybody and

42:42

you were so set in it, like you standing out on Bennis like which,

42:45

I'm single and I'm gonna be single and I don't understand. Like it wasn't like funck love like it was. It didn't come from a bitter like

42:50

the fuck around like I'm gonna get mine, but like I don't need a

42:52

man the way I get the way. It wasn't even like oh I'm standing

42:57

like because I want to be a hoe or because I hate love, or

42:59

like it was not that there was like no thing attached to it. It

43:02

was just very much like he just needs to like that's him. That's what

43:06

he's gonna be forever, single, Like like I was almost becoming okay with

43:09

it, like you know, I don't plan to be in Chris's wedding because

43:12

it's not gonna happen, you know, Like I almost had to be at

43:15

peace with it. In love, He's like in love, only it's only

43:23

been two years. Yeah, it'll be two years, like in March or

43:28

I don't know that March April no. I held at the other day we

43:32

were with other people, they're like, oh, wins your anniversary, Like

43:36

you know when is That was like it's like April tenth, and then like

43:39

an hour later he was like, it's March tenth or something like it's in

43:45

my calendar. I forget it's March. I forget it. That's how I

43:52

remember as there, Oh it's April ten, table tenth ten. So if

43:59

you have a partner bitch as some to be your Valentine, have you guys

44:01

ever got like a super wat gift for Valentine and you're like mm hmmm.

44:07

Is there an expectation to get a little some some I think there shouldn't be,

44:12

but there is. But yeah, you know what I mean. I don't want to be this way about it, like I think, because even

44:16

like giving a gift, I think you like, for example, me myself,

44:21

I have an expectation of what I want to give. You know, like you want to I'm a big gift. I want to think about it

44:27

or you know, I don't know. It's like you got all you knew

44:29

this holiday was coming up every year February fourteenth. Guess what it is and

44:35

if you can, right, Like there's times where I guess you really can't. That's okay, but I can't even man gets and I'm like, this

44:42

has never happened to me before. I've never got flowers one time. I'll

44:46

never forget. It wasn't in Valentine's Day. We were like walking on the

44:50

street and we were passing like a flower like market or something. He yeah,

44:53

he made me a bouquet. Nobody gives me. I started to cry

44:57

like this I would cry too. I don't want to, but like it's

45:07

Valentine's probably gift and like, what's an example of like what's your respect want

45:16

an AirPod? Air force together? It depends how long we've been together.

45:22

I guess if you're good like first year gifts, there's good three year gifts

45:30

about like for example, like between I guess okay, yeahs down back and

45:35

okay, I'm not expecting the new iPhone your love language receiving gifts I'm giving

45:39

okay, okay, okay. Honestly, I'm like I think about my past

45:45

relationship and I'm like, like, is that if I repeated that gift to

45:47

someone else just because that's how bomb it was? You know what? That's

45:51

actually a good point the whole like love language thing, because like if you're

45:53

not yours is like quality time or whatever, and I give you a gift

45:58

like that might not be a special to you as planning something that's more it's

46:02

like we're gonna hang out. I love quality time too, But I mean

46:07

that's a good point. Like someone if you know someone likes I would like

46:10

to unwrap a box. And I feel like if I was like in a

46:15

year or two relationships and we have got Valentine's and all you got if someone

46:21

if someone gave me flowers and like a handwritten card expressing their love and devotion

46:28

to me and like telling me how much they love me and what they love

46:30

about me. That is I would cry, yeah, I mean cry.

46:37

Yeah, that would make me definitely giving over here yea. And it is

46:57

sad to say, but I guess like maybe when we're like down the bro

47:00

like we've been together for a long time, then yeah, I guess you could just give me some flowers or whatever, because you know, I know

47:04

you want in the beginning, I need some cute gifts or like uh and

47:08

vice versa, or like if you like planned like a day for us,

47:14

like we'd go out, like oh, I'm yeah, Like that kind of

47:16

makes up for it a little bit, like like if that's the gift quality

47:21

time together, He's like, And honestly, I think God counts as a

47:24

gift. But you know what am I geting on an echo sad dinner?

47:28

Okay, a moment from all this ship? I really I can't It's so

47:34

open here. No, I love it, I love it, but I'm

47:37

just like I can't wait for the day. I guess. Okay, what

47:39

if you got your partner of bomb ass gift and they just gave you flowers,

47:43

You're fine with that. I don't like, I gave you a new

47:47

iPhone and you got me flowers. I know they probably picked up on the

47:52

way here. I think it depends because what like there's some people that's right

47:57

exactly, That's what I'm saying. You have all your you know, Valentine's

48:00

put up every February fourteenth. It's not like each You're like, oh,

48:05

what does it fall on again? I know it's a Sunday, but what day? Like, No, it's February fourteenth every single one year for christ

48:09

the last Christmas or two Christmases ago, I gave my give him a fuck.

48:15

He gave me like such a meaningful get first of all at Christmas,

48:20

he gives me. I have a tattoo on the back of my uh whatever.

48:23

I have a tattoo and it is I'm gonna be a sign ingguage interpreted

48:28

so it is it's actually hands that the tattoo is of hands in my favorite

48:32

sign. And anyways, he makes me a bracelet that it has hands that

48:37

makes some silver like this is the you can't see that the sign is content,

48:45

just google it content and it's in a bracelet. I literally got him

48:49

a jockstrap no, baby, I I got Okay, we were going we

49:09

were going to Disneyland that year, so it was like the gift is a

49:14

Disneyland and going to get in the hotel and driving Christmas and his moms and

49:21

I gave him the jock shrap like before novels that I'm not giving this you at your mom's and what did you get up? Oh my god, so

49:29

mad. Literally you gave him the gift before. Yeah, you got yours,

49:32

Yeah, before I got mine. Okay, I can hold up like

49:35

yeah, yeah, so I'm got mom's giftless and he gives me like the

49:38

gift of the fucking so so for this year. So I had the topic

49:45

this year this year, what did you get? Oh, I guess he

49:49

writes. He writes scripts. He's like a playwright, and so I got

49:52

that his script, like the PDIA version. I got the ship made into

49:55

a book. Now we're talking always yeah, show you later, he cried.

50:04

Yeah, it's secondar and you are giving good gifts. So you guys

50:06

are throwing shade at me about the gifts. But look at you. If

50:08

you just got the flowers, I'd be trash, you know, to give

50:12

a good gifts act like we're not above good gifts. We're gonna top each

50:15

other now every year. I don't know, I don't really I'm not big

50:20

on gifts like that, Like I really don't care. Like now that I

50:23

don't, it doesn't. Yeah, like if you got me something that it

50:27

wasn't what I did. Like it's very bad guests. This is a Valentine's

50:30

Day, I mean, I will tell let me tell the story real quick.

50:34

Christina, Well, there's always a Christina story. I wish she was

50:37

here today. No. For Christmas, her and her cousin are really close.

50:39

They literally live together their roommates. They're super tight around the same age.

50:44

For Christmas, she got her a cat, a support animal, like

50:47

a whole pet order for the rest of her life. Emotional yes, and

50:52

like some other cute little guests So Brita. I mean, Christina's cousin got

50:55

her makeup whites and not even the double pack. The single makeup stoped at

51:06

the gas station was like cleaning her face last night. She's easy. Oh

51:14

my Godlina was dripping makeup. Is crazy. Emotional support your face got her

51:22

an emotional support animal, and she got me make Wait was she mean?

51:30

Like what was like how was her reaction. Did she she just had a

51:34

lie because she I think her cousin always gives her Like really honestly, maybe

51:37

the cousin isn't a gift. Like even this year she my cousin, my

51:42

cousin, my friend was like telling her like, oh, you're my sick

51:44

Chrisanna, like you know, here's like send me a list of all the stuff you want whatever. And then like the cousin was like, oh,

51:49

I forgot, I got you. I forgot we had each other. Christina

51:54

has like a Google dog. She could get her cousin Like that's just too

52:00

different. Personalities. We're born on the same day April nineteen, were the

52:04

same Mary, so we're like gift givers. Like I always love giving a

52:08

big, like expensive like gift, like oh he's gonna love this, but

52:12

also like a thoughtful one. Yeah. For example, one fire ass gift

52:16

that my ex I gave him. He was a big Ice Giants fan and

52:20

I'm an Ace fan. I got him against the Dodgers behind home plate and

52:24

we still always watched the office. So I got him a Dundee Award,

52:28

so like a thoughtful one and then a bomb ask on that, oh you

52:32

know he gave me and I shout to my mom. I know, Mom

52:35

got convinced him. But one time he bought me a new iPhone and a snow perfume and flowers Jesus Christ with that one, Yeah he did. He

52:52

didn't go that year. And we're like bro college students. So okay,

52:55

don't get me wrong, I'll take a nice yeah, but you know I

53:01

thought that counts. I'm says quality time. That's what I care about.

53:10

What about like attle bit? Okay, so like back then, like the

53:14

prison even talk about it, but like you're talking about, but the passion

53:17

was like hell alone. Like she would always tell you dot never write me

53:20

notes about for like three years, right, and then like that fourth year,

53:23

like I made like a big ass photo bit with like hell of our

53:28

pictures on our phone, right, like I had to go to CBS and

53:30

water ship. That costs me hell of money. I even go cap there's

53:32

a lot of pictures, every single picture that's like, see that's sweet.

53:37

Like you took her notes, She gave you notes she wanted. She was

53:42

like I want this, you don't give me this, and then you got

53:45

it for her? Did she cry? Yeah? See, I try to

53:51

he's weird about crying though. Yeah he's still to handle a therapist. Yeah

53:59

that's like therapist. You don't going to get my boyfriend this year, this

54:05

pussy see. But yeah, I mean I like all that other stuff too.

54:10

I feel like we people. I like I get a gift. It's

54:14

like it's like I like giving good gifts. I like receiving them. It's

54:16

not like I'm not above that stuff. And honestly, if my boyfriend my

54:20

partner was really down bad, like I understand those things, but not every

54:23

year, Like okay, okay, you know when I'm giving you these bomb

54:28

as kiss, that's fair. You should want to return the love. As

54:32

what I'm saying, I'm going to give you the gifts, my boyfriend,

54:37

the gift whatever my man's wants to get, Like he could ask me for

54:43

whatever, I'll buy for him, but my thing like for me, I'm like, I'm giving you this every night, so like it's nothing special,

54:49

like I we have sex, you know what I mean, Like, yeah,

54:52

maybe I'll wear a sexy lingerie or something, but like it's not like,

54:55

oh, this is a present something we did yesterday. You know,

54:59

that's that's what you asked for. Like in that case, that's that's an

55:04

easy gift if that's what you want. Yeah, easy, easy, peasy,

55:07

you got it. I'll sex is not a gift that we need to

55:14

make a PSA Valentine's Day. Sex is not a gift, And I feel like it's definitely a lot of guy thing of like, of course, on

55:20

the guys minds, like I know, I'm about stuck with my girlfriend tonight, like that is something they do look forward to and that's why they're doing

55:24

the other things, so they could get that. I get that. But

55:28

when it's just like I guess, when you're like later, I feel like that's what happened to me, Like later, it's like okay, it's not

55:34

just get boring. Okay, we're just gonna have sex and dinner. Like

55:37

it doesn't make a special like okay, but we all that like sexy lingerie,

55:45

Like no, I get it, that's something a little spicy extra. But guys and women like that's not a price, like I got you something

55:53

like No, that's not a gift. Hey, that's someone here. Wait

55:57

he's gonna join us. Sex is not a gift. Ps. It's so

56:07

cheamy. We always have sex. How is that a gift. That's fine.

56:12

That's that's a cheap way out. It is a cheap way out.

56:15

It's just to be like, oh I got you something like I don't know,

56:19

you know you didn't. Bottom line, Angelina needs a gift. It's

56:22

a necessity any better. But even for my girlies and boys out there who

56:28

are on like they like quality time and all that stuff, if that's your

56:30

partner, still sex is not a gift. That's all I'm saying. Okay,

56:37

there's nothing romantic about saying I got you this dick for Valentine's Day when

56:40

you got me that dick on a Wednesday night, even if it's flopping around

56:44

like Drake, like you got an enhancement, like yeah, if you're sure

56:46

grew five inches and sure if you got a new dick, wow, I

57:00

cannot it was going around there. He definitely casts it a shadow. Good

57:04

for him. Wosday? Well, I hope everyone has a great Valancine's Day.

57:19

Does it fall on like a weekend at all? Or not? Oh?

57:21

It's a Wednesday, hope day home day. That sucks on a weekday.

57:28

It does make it a little harder. I feel like a lot of couples will be like well, we're doing something this Saturday or the next Saturday.

57:35

I know a lot of people who are doing because we work in and

57:37

that kind of helps because like if you want to do a reservation or something like, it kind of leaves like you have like Friday, Saturday, Sunday,

57:44

and everybody's gonna choose one of those days, so like it kind of spreads it out and you don't have to go somewhere that's super packed. Right.

57:52

Well, everyone treat your partner special this Valentine's Day. If you're broke,

57:55

that's fine. If you only have this dick or this v to give

57:59

their partner, spice it up. You know, I have some lingerie, have the Drake dildo. Whatever you're gonna do, make it a little more

58:06

special, make it a little more special on Valentine's Day. Okay, okay,

58:13

the Drake dildo. Don't forget about it. You don't forget about it. This is today in the Bay with your hosts and Ngelina. Valentine's Day

58:34

in the Bay. There are some good places, I okay, me and

58:37

my Frank Garcina, we're such a lesson for each other. No, literally

58:42

every year though we do go to Lamacha in Brooklyn. I literally, so

58:49

I go back. So I don't think we're gonna go this water Marca,

58:52

Lamarca La Marcia. I don't know, Marcha. It's march It's Marca.

59:01

It's Marchia or Marca, I said, Marcia. Okay, okay, I

59:05

think it's you think it's Marca, like the wine like Lamarca. No,

59:10

no, no, no, no, it's La Marcia. But yeah,

59:15

the topest place I would want to go there, Lamarca La Macha. We

59:21

want, yeah, I want to go there. That place is cute.

59:24

That's one of the first places that I went on a date with Julia.

59:28

Is actually, oh really that is the day spot. Yes, yes,

59:32

I'll actually I'm going to say this here because it's never really been said before

59:37

since then, okay, but it was like one of our first days.

59:42

We were probably like like two months in and we were like we were we

59:46

were like crazy for each other, like I mean, we still are,

59:51

we still, but it was just that like living, eating, breathing,

59:54

you never forget. I'm putting this sh on the record right now because for

59:59

the record, right he said, And I don't know if if you remember

1:00:05

saying this, I don't know if this is my delusional brain remembering. But

1:00:07

he's like, should I just buy the ring already? I love because I

1:00:17

do. So he was like in that moment, bitch, I love you.

1:00:21

Just get married right now. That's so cute. So I sometimes think

1:00:25

about him, like did he really say that? I think he did?

1:00:29

He did? He did? Yeah, No, I've never brought it up.

1:00:32

I don't be crazy. I'm crazy and tell you. But if you

1:00:36

listen to this podcast, maybe you will look into the camera looking to the

1:00:39

camera if you're listening and watching. I think she said, let me buy

1:00:45

the ring already. So yeah, I think he definitely said it, but

1:00:47

I don't think he met. Like, but I'm going to marry you maybe

1:00:51

in the future, but no, definitely it's gonna We talked about that's the

1:00:57

cutest thing to say, like you're my wife, like like yeah, yeah,

1:01:00

yeah, literally. Anyways, that's cute. That place is cute.

1:01:05

It's fucking good food. I remember that other time two we've been there,

1:01:07

Remember once I was fucked up? You know every time because we stay there,

1:01:13

we go through a couple of bottles, a couple of free sangrias,

1:01:15

and then the owner sat out to Sergio, he'll like hang out with us,

1:01:17

give us more bottles. But yeah, the last time he kind of

1:01:21

did a dirty because he like bought some fucking uh incredible hulk, you know

1:01:24

what I mean, mixed up with the dark and makes ship turned green like

1:01:28

we had hypnotic. It was like a hypnotic bottlem Were you for thereb That

1:01:31

was Christina, Yeah, I think it was my birthday. I don't remember.

1:01:34

That was remember one time I was there and I was like, what

1:01:37

is going on? We were here for a long time, and I was

1:01:40

every time we go there, we stay after hours, like we sit there

1:01:45

for hours, like like oh we've been here for five hours. It was so fun. But yeah, it's such a cute restaurants. All the food's

1:01:51

good, all the coquettas are good, Like every tapa is fire, every

1:01:54

is fired. Everything. I love that. I want to go there.

1:02:00

The place really turned me out because I mean, I love San Francisco. Now I live here. Now, I mean I live here, but I

1:02:05

work here. Now you know, I know more all the bombs food spots

1:02:07

are here. But growing up, like I was such an Eastpake girly,

1:02:10

Like if me my friends went out, we're going to Oakland when I going

1:02:13

to San Francisco, and like the only time I would ever go to San

1:02:15

Francisco is if I went to I Love And I think they're more I think

1:02:21

they're more a Cuban or spot. They're not necessarily Spanish tap us, but

1:02:24

they do have tap us, you know, Like I think it's good,

1:02:28

but like similar like San Gria, same like tapas. Yeah. But after

1:02:32

once I found that place in Berkeley, I was like, oh goodbye.

1:02:37

Yeah, I mean I'll go there, but I haven't been in so long. I've went on a date there one time. It's such a good day

1:02:44

spot. Wait, shout out to Christina again because recently she got asked to

1:02:46

go on a date there and she thought it was like She's like, is

1:02:49

that basic? And I'm like, Chad's is such a perfect day night spot.

1:02:52

You guys, remember that where this girl wouldn't go Like she was like,

1:03:00

it's too basic because like everyone goes, And I'm like, I think

1:03:04

Child is such a good first date spot. Like it's screams first date,

1:03:08

San Gria, the Shrimp, you cannot go wrong. It's cute. I

1:03:13

don't know, you guys guess that like, oh if it's too popular a spot like no, no, no, it's basic. The food is fire

1:03:21

and the sangra really is and I love like, I think I like you

1:03:24

more if you're down for whatever. Yeah, I love I love that because

1:03:28

I'm very like, yeah I'm not. One time, that's cute. Yeah,

1:03:35

I was like, why do you like the city so much? I'm

1:03:37

like, because I grew like my whole my half, Like actually, when I turned seventeen, I moved to Essex, so like my whole adulthood was

1:03:42

like over here. And then she was like, so, what's your favorite

1:03:45

spot. Every was like, don't be like it's just kind of like a regular like it's like, no, it's like a like I mean, it's

1:03:50

not like a fair. So the first time, like we went on a day it is like, let me take you over there real quickly, she

1:03:54

went to beefs Man. It was like she liked it. She really liked

1:03:59

it though. She was like, damn, this is really good. Yeah, that's very cute. First, it's not like a real like like a

1:04:04

deal place. She takes someone on the first day, top of ship. It's like a hole in the wall. It's beach burgers. Though that ship

1:04:11

is fired is good. It is good. Oh my god. Not Beach

1:04:15

ChIL A bees Burgers like the apostrophe. Like I said, beach like swimming

1:04:23

the beach on the same page the beach said. Beach beach Burgers is it's

1:04:31

once and it's like it's across the food. It's really good. I bought

1:04:36

it last week. Yeah, but I like to beach beachil A is like

1:04:41

cha sister restaurants San Francisco, and its two stories and it's over looking the

1:04:44

water. Cute. Oh my god, I know exactly where. Yeah,

1:04:48

that's like, that's a hell good related first be ChIL A like and Honor,

1:04:54

barn and Rebel, also a sister restaurant, Fun Facts, Learn something

1:04:58

New every is also a really cute What are you guys doing for Valencine's Day?

1:05:06

There a Nito's backyard in Oakland near Jack London. I think we this

1:05:10

year, we're just doing like a little I think we'll have like a drink

1:05:14

special, just like one fun, cute little drink. It's like usually pink and split serves cue. But our sister restaurant, Odin is going to have

1:05:21

like I think tickets are almost sold out actually, but it's like a little

1:05:25

mescalaria and they're gonna have like a full, like for three or four course

1:05:29

meal with like mescal pairings and like that kind of thing. So yeah,

1:05:33

I think if you honestly, Odin is like the date spot again. The

1:05:38

food is like it's like kind of small food items. If you're hell hungry,

1:05:42

I want to go there. But you can order, Yeah, you

1:05:47

can order a lot of You should run that checkout. Yeah, yes,

1:05:51

but like you're going for the mescal and the drinks for sure. The drinks

1:05:55

are fire second Spot exactly exactly. It's cute. But Odin me is pretty

1:06:00

good. See you know what the guy that was talking to me up.

1:06:04

I want to do something VAL's Day. I want to go get drinks,

1:06:12

but I guess I couldn't because I have to work anyway. So it doesn't

1:06:15

have to be to be like a putting my tracks in from the restaurant.

1:06:19

Ye there you go. Okay, we're gonna make it happen if he ever

1:06:26

text me, like what if he just never text me again, never talking

1:06:31

to I want to give you the opportunity to if that's what you want to

1:06:34

do. I don't want to stop you. My time is way too present

1:06:38

for you to gost me. Time is money and money not yeah. If

1:06:44

you no, no, no, no, you ain't playing me, son,

1:06:47

No, I'm gonna let you. It's not no like anyone that plays

1:06:50

me plays themselves. You're not playing me. But if you want to go,

1:06:54

I'm gonna give you the opportunity to. I don't like, I believe

1:06:58

in karmel. I don't ghost people, but you're gonna ghost me. I

1:07:01

hope gets you, bitch. He's gotta go therapy. He's got to go

1:07:05

therapy. We're healing right now. But I'm just saying. I mean,

1:07:14

I've been ghosting, but I hit them. I'm like, bro, what you want? I can I still hit them up? He's like, my

1:07:19

text agree, but I'm gonna still keep texting her. He comes back.

1:07:27

I resurrector what is some other good Valentine's Day? Spot? Like, what

1:07:30

is your ideal first date? Or V Day in the bay. He's like,

1:07:40

like, I know, it's fine. Honestly, I do love the

1:07:42

view. I love Chris. You honestly like and you could restaurant. I'm

1:07:47

kind of a sucker for a brewery. I like, I do like it.

1:07:50

I like, yeah, it's yeah, it's like, like, what's

1:07:56

again casual. It's definitely more low key casual. I love that too.

1:08:01

I love it if we can talk to each other. I don't want to

1:08:04

be super fancy, like white tablecloth on a first day too much for me.

1:08:09

It's a littleised. It's scary. It's scary, and I'm going to

1:08:13

think, like, Okay, this guy has high expectations, or maybe he's

1:08:15

rich and I'm not, or just like the overthinking over grabbing the bill,

1:08:20

or yeah, I'm gonna get the stakes salads. I don't know. I've

1:08:29

gone to a brewery multiple times for multiple first days. It's ten out of

1:08:33

ten would recommend right a beer lover, Yeah beyond love it right, Oh

1:08:43

yeah, okay, and that's I love that one too. You were there

1:08:45

for like two hours, Like San Leandro. Super cute. They also have

1:08:49

like a little food track that you can like do that. Even Drake's Dealership

1:08:53

in Oakland, that's how cute. They got fire pants outside. Yeah,

1:08:57

fucking fire ass pizza. I always hear out that when I go there.

1:09:00

It's outside. But the rats are dogs. That's not a rat family,

1:09:11

that's my that's my co workers trying to take your order the table for you.

1:09:18

There's a new one in San le right next to Sola Celebrity the fields

1:09:27

working. That's where I like going there is good. Yeah, there's I

1:09:40

think it's like on the other side of where Levi Stadium is, Bye by

1:09:44

that star Wucks we went to the other day. It's yeah. The day

1:09:47

of was like the Levi's thing. It's it's called bear Bottle. Oh yeah,

1:09:53

yeah, I think that. I think I drank like the way they

1:09:58

have it set up. It's indoor and outdoor, really open, but it's

1:10:01

it's good. Another good tip. I feel like if you want to exactly

1:10:05

maybe not the pressure of going to a fancy restaurant, like maybe things they're

1:10:08

too early, but you still want to press them, Like you can never go wrong with the rooftop bar, because that kind of came to like it's

1:10:14

kind of casual, but we're still fancy out here. Get the view, you get the views. Probably nice drinks in Mexico in the mission what is

1:10:23

it called the rooftop bar. It's called the roof in Spanish. It's just

1:10:32

went there, she recommended. As the food is good, the drinks are

1:10:39

good. It's you like a fin Angelik's favorite spot. It is Caya rooftop

1:10:47

at Yeah how much? What is it? How much? Crudo? Oh

1:10:53

yeah, one of the because there's like there's like three much things, but

1:10:56

I forgot which one it is, but we got to order like three orders

1:10:59

of it. It's like the best man she ever had. I need to drench our goods. Bug. The view is beautiful. It is a little

1:11:04

pricey though, it is. Where is that at, honey? Like how

1:11:08

close? Yeah? Yeah, Hilton or something? Yeah, kyo have no.

1:11:16

I always want to go to speaking speak easy right. This is a

1:11:19

shout. I forgot their name already, damn it. Never mind. It

1:11:23

was like a Japanese place, you know I'm talking about. I think I hear the city. You literally walk in and it looks like a thing,

1:11:30

and then like honestly, like whatever you got in your pocket could be like some o that ship. It could be like a fucking post or whatever.

1:11:35

And then you just be like, I want to pond this. Oh my

1:11:39

cousin, Yeah, it's crazy ship. And they opened up the door and

1:11:44

it's a fucking wine bar in the back. I think it's my cousin she had Yeah, because they kept telling us like, don't forget to bring something

1:11:50

like bring something cheap, something you don't like because it away. Yeah,

1:11:54

yeah, that's part of the experience. Was speak easy, but that would

1:11:58

be cute. Yeah, it's very quiet in there, so it's very intimate

1:12:04

because it's very intimate. Yeah, I like that. I saved one on

1:12:09

my phone that I like, wait, send them to me because I want

1:12:12

to. I also love stand up comedy. I feel like a good stand

1:12:15

up nights hit up paper Plane. Paper Plane is a cute ast bar in

1:12:21

San Jose, right on First Street. Go to the comedy, get some

1:12:25

drinks before after that is a hell cue bar. I went there from my

1:12:28

twenty first birthday. Ye. Yes, there a backdrop like their bar set

1:12:31

up is so nice, Like that's an ideal first date in the Bay two.

1:12:36

I'm not really on anymore. There was a time. There was a

1:12:43

time with a temple, and then I never had that era. I always

1:12:45

went to and prov and that's it. You've never been no tuesdays long ago

1:12:55

we're talking about. I Oh, I never had to take it go to

1:13:00

therapy. I think No, I don't know why. I think is always

1:13:08

like a drive. I've always felt like for me, people would be like,

1:13:11

say, no, a drive or like people will say like, oh,

1:13:14

it's always like ending in a like fight or and I can't. I

1:13:17

don't like and like see me see a roach when we were Oh, no,

1:13:20

I guess I was Stanford that was Is it like like like San Jose

1:13:26

in summertime they got roaches on the street walking they have to stop like clicking

1:13:31

to pass Redwood City. No, I don't like seeing roaches walk with me.

1:13:36

How do you guys feel about like a hike? If we go on

1:13:42

a hike, I don't love you. I even go okay because I really

1:13:45

like nature. Me too. I love nature. People don't really know that

1:13:47

about me. They really be thinking about they'd be like, oh, he'd

1:13:51

be outshot with the hommy they pop bottles. Na. I like to wake

1:13:55

up early and go on to hike. Let's le let's go do something active.

1:13:58

I men mean to call you that, but it's like, let's get out shot and do something bro. There's so much like natural. I love

1:14:02

a hike. I love a hot girl walk. I don't know if I

1:14:04

like it for a first day like who it is? Yeah, as a

1:14:14

first day. I'm actually on a hike with somebody one time and that was

1:14:18

fun on the first day. Not on a first day. It was like

1:14:20

a maybe like a like I'm not talking about like a longyard like yeah,

1:14:27

I guess depends like water, you know, but like mission peak like no

1:14:31

right right, like like maybe not Mission peak because not everybody. That's not

1:14:35

a h that's the last mission peak. The last part is up is not

1:14:43

a hike. I'm thinking. I'm thinking of in the city mission. Yes,

1:14:50

take me the twin piece like and like a backpack with the water.

1:14:59

Yeah, we like every fourth of July, which when wants to make an

1:15:01

addition, I guess it depends. Yeah, I guess if it's like a

1:15:05

short one we're gonna see the waterfall or like the Golden gate Bridge or something,

1:15:09

maybe it's like part of the date like like okay, because I do

1:15:13

like it. But I think for me, like I like walking in hikes. I like doing that by myself kind of or with the close friend like

1:15:18

it's something like like you do with exercising. I really talking about myself,

1:15:23

like I really do it for me, So I don't really like you're talking

1:15:28

to me. I don't know exactly. I rather I will like go walk the rain. I think that's nice, like going on a walk with each

1:15:32

other. But I get it, you want to go see something like I

1:15:34

get White people like hikes. I do too, but I like doing it

1:15:36

by myself. Like in half Moon Bay they have like a trail that's not

1:15:40

like it's not crazy like inclines or anything like that, but it's close to

1:15:45

the half Moon Bay Brewery, which is really good. Yeah, maybe like

1:15:47

something like that where it's like, then we'll get some beers. That's like.

1:15:51

It's also like what you're you and your partner into, like like already

1:15:54

if you guys both are like little gym buffs and like love working and I

1:15:57

like that have dates at the gym, Like that's the thing. I'm obviously

1:16:03

I've heard of that. Yeah, you and if somebody wanted to go to

1:16:08

a jit to the gym with me on a day, I'm not doing Yeah,

1:16:13

by working up at the gym, that's my own insecurity. I'm just

1:16:15

not going to go with you like that. But people that are crazy about

1:16:18

it, I could see that being like like nature like Chris, Yeah,

1:16:24

that's too much. Yeah, sure, I'm not taking you on a hike

1:16:29

on the first day because I don't want to if you're really like, if she's really into that, and you ride some bikes, they close off Ocean

1:16:34

beach. The people that are into it in the Bay Avalon Canyon. It's

1:16:41

it's along the beach. There's a day there's not Okay, hold on,

1:16:43

listen, there is a beached whale there. It doesn't smell you don't smell

1:16:47

it. There's a there's a what do you call it, like a carcass

1:16:51

cacas. I mean it's not a carget. There's jellyfish on this beach.

1:16:57

I saw someone getting engaged on this hike. This okay, hold on,

1:17:00

I was on shrooms tooth though, So the whale wasn't there. So all

1:17:04

these things I saw engagement. The whale was there. The engagement was there.

1:17:10

There was a there was a beach. I seen horses, mural.

1:17:16

The hike is in Daily City. There was jellyfish that was shaped in a

1:17:20

heartre okay, I have all videos. I don't know if it was the

1:17:25

Stretes, but I have a video of it. Yeah. I definitely not to do streams on the first dare absolutely not. Those are good first date

1:17:31

spots. Kyos La Marcha. I need to go on an Yeah, I

1:17:39

think, Yeah, nice little hike and twin peaks if you're into it.

1:17:45

Speaking of Half Bay, uh when my dad got married Mazsalona, I think

1:17:49

it's actually around the Half in Bay Brewery, but that may be like a

1:17:55

little bit down the line because that's like white table cloths. But like,

1:17:58

bitch, some of the best lasagna pasta I've ever had in my entire life.

1:18:02

It is so good. Messalona. They make that ship like like you

1:18:06

have to wait thirty minutes because they'll make you one little piece of lasagna and

1:18:10

they make it individually, you know, it's like real italic. Yes,

1:18:13

it'll cut it in like it's not in a big pan. Yeah. And

1:18:16

I'm a Hayward baby, so you know. I love the Mexican and lots

1:18:19

still Somano's my two favorite Mexican restaurants of all time. I don't know if

1:18:24

they're doing anything special Valentine's Day. I'm sure they have like something going on

1:18:28

very hold the wall, but it's so romantic too because it's hole in the wall, you know what I mean. Like, and I like a good

1:18:32

like taco truck date, like maybe a first day or maybe taco truck which

1:18:43

taco truck. I'm the guy. What's thee It's like fish on it but

1:18:51

orange one? Yeah, yeah, no, no wherever they were stopped.

1:19:00

Yeah, it is really good. It's like a car shop during the day

1:19:06

and then they that's how a cue really good. Buffalo Bills and Hayward.

1:19:15

Do you go the brewery, go catch a movie right across the street, and then go to the dB and get drunk on That's that's a cute day.

1:19:24

Anything that's like beers entertainment dancing like three combination, Yeah, perfect,

1:19:31

you know. Do not take me to the dB on a day please?

1:19:35

The Dirty Bird, the Dirty Bird and Hayward. I love that player,

1:19:40

I love it to my heart. Do not take me there a day that

1:19:43

I get that? Yeah I ran but yeah yeah. So that those are

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