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Okay, guys, we're just hopping right into it. Maybe we'll go back and record the other segments. But if you don't know, we are starting with this because you're gonna got some major updates. Okay, major updates. Well, I love AV. I can actually see you in the camera the camera screen. I didn't even think to do this to me. I can't see you, but it's okay. I did it for some reason, I guess because I always have my notes up. Yeah, because last episode I did notice I cut AV off so many times. But I think its because I can't see your ass. I don't know when you're about to talk, so I like say something, but wow, I'm looking right at you in this camera. That's you know what I'm saying. Yeah, I can't see you. I guess I lied. I couldn't feel the energy. Yeah, I need to see you, But now I can. Okay, you guys, there's a layer you're instigating. Half the episode, we talked about how Carpenter Bay was giving me the eck, and we decided that, you know, I'm not gonna go stam or anything crazy, like, it's not enough to like cut him off, but it definitely has a conversation, and you know, so I was like, okay, next one hang out, That's what's gonna happen. So mind you, those past two weeks he's been like super trying to hang out with me, because you know, the weekend before we spent the entire weekend together. So that next weekend he got on my nerves and I was like, you know what, we don't need to hang out every weekend anyway, but obviously I just need a space to figure out like where I was with my feelings and how I wanted to handle that situation. So now you know, we just got done recording. He hit me, I think the next day, I think it was a Thursday or Friday, and he was just like, are you working this week? I might have said this last week, did I tell you? He made plass okay, yes, oh but I told you okay. So basically the day we recorded, he did text me, are you working this week? I said tomorrow, I do have work, but you know, free this weekend? Like I'm not available on Friday, and he goes, okay, well, if you're free, let's get dinner and drinks after on Saturday. I said, down, let me know time and place He says, are you craving anything specific lately? I said, I could always do Mexican, but I'm down for whatever. He said, okay, great, Like I'm gonna hit you when I'm off work and let you know where we're going. Right Thursday, Saturday comes around, he texts me, I wake up. Honestly, I love work. Super layos editing the podcast on Friday, so I literally did not leave work till four in the morning because I had a bunch of shows to track. So I didn't wake up to like one pm, but I saw I had like three messages from him. He texted me like ten in the morning, like, good morning, how was work last night? I respond at one and I said, like super long with like some emojis. I said, I didn't leave till four am. How was your night? He never text me. Sunday rolls around. Oh no, and you guys, I something in my guy felt something like I was getting ready still because I was like, you know what, maybe he's like super slammed o work and like not. This doesn't happen often, but like one time I remember he did it off work at like eight. We don't have plans, but like we were planning to hang out. It wasn't necessarily like this time where he's like, let's get dinner and drinks. But I think he was like, let's hang out after work, and I remember hitting get up till nine or something, So in my head, I'm still excited to see him, like I haven't seen him in a whole week. I'm getting ready. Everything's working out of my like that's the thing. It was too perfect. I was like, wow, I have all this time to like shower, I bow, I blow drive my hair. You guys, that is a lot. It takes like me almost two hours a blow off my hair, Like give me a good blowout. I use my good body butter. And as I'm getting ready, I just like when things are going too perfect, like my makeup's coming out good. I just I was like, something's gonna come up, like this is too good to be true. And now I'm putting my makeup on finishing and I'm like, you know what if he doesn't hit me by six, now I'm like saying this to myself, like okay, seven, Like okay, if you don't by eight thirty, plans are canceled. Fuck him. So now it's like nine, I think I told myself eight forty five, if this motherfucker don't text me, I know, terrible, terrible, terrible. And I'm still getting ready and I'm like, okay, fuck this. I'm not in my head like we won't hang out, but like when he texted, I'm gona give him shit. But I'm definitely already gonna make plans because like I'm getting hell of cues. So I hit up my friend Sonya and I was like, hey, like what are you doing. She's like, I'm doing Lundra like let's go get a drink. So I mean her decided to go get drinks, am I, And I'm still thinking he's gonna text me. I'm gonna be like, well, I'm not with my friend. I've made plans because you like never hit me one of the morning, two in the morning, he never text me. Next day Monday, doesn't text me. You guys, I have not heard from this man since since worse full since his Saturday morningning. Okay, and at first, okay, in the beginning, like that night and like even the next morning, I was like, that's crazy. He ain't even hitting me up with the follow up text like hey, so sorry, and you guys know, I got irritated and deleted the text. Friend did she it didn't have because I would have kept looking and he has his red receipts on and I know I would like feel so mad if I know for sure. He goes like if you'd read that shit, but he's didn't text me when you were checking, like hold on, hold on, hold on, hold one, hold on, get there, okay. But I'm just like, at first I was like making jokes like not this motherfucker ghosted me, But once like Monday, Rodman is like, Okay, this is actually a ghosting. Like at first I was like, maybe I'm not using the right word, but like to not even text me the next day an update whatever whatever. Second sight's crazy story. I kind of don't even want to say to the person is because it's like almost a legal thing. But I was talking to a friend who said that she also thought she was getting ghosted, right because I'm just venting to her, She's like, yeah, like the same time as you. And she said, basically, this is someone she used to date a long time ago. She like will always have love for him, but they just like never worked out, Like you know, he's just never gonna get a shit together. But she's going through a breakups, so she's been like talking to him more and they've been like you know, having phone calls, and in her head she's like, I think I want to like finally hook up with him. So she's on the phone with him like they always are, and he's driving, and then she said, all of a sudden, he like gasp, and she's like, well, what the fuck and he's like I gotta go. I gotta go. And she's like, well, are you okay, like what's wrong and he's like, yeah, I'm fine, I just don't want to talk about it, like I have to go. Hangs up, and she said the next day like he never texts her back, and she's like what the fuck? And then she's like calling him and then like I think a day passed and then she now she's mad, so she like literally texted him like fuck you, like are you goes to me right now? You know? And then she noticed he blogged her or like the text wasn't going through, so she had I think that's when she had him like on her his work phone like fuck you wow, or her work phone sorry, So like you gonna get this text I'm gonna tell you, fucking you gonna read this like you might be done with me, but I just want to let you know. Fuck but don't even think about texting me, you know if your are goes to me. She gets a call from his sister and she's like, Hey, did you talk to blah blah blah? I heard you, like saw him last Satday. She's like, yeah, he's in jail because he saw his ex with another man and got out the car and stabbed him and now was facing a tempt massa. It's my job, so he said, he said, gotta cut you back, gotta come in a fucking case. Man. The guy didn't die, by the way, he did not die. No, wait, the first thing I said that When she told me, I was like, well, you know he didn't go see you, you know, I mean, it's a legitimate excuse to not reply, right because you're in jail. You don't he in jail you're facing But I wonder why I didn't go through, like the whole blocking part. M M yeah, not still questioning him. He's either not over this girl or something. There's some beef with that guy. Oh no, all around. I think we found a little more details where it was maybe not asking it like she we're not can get into it, I legally, but exactly either way, She dotes a bullet like wow, that's crazy, like he just like ruined his ipen in one second, also goes to show he was not over his X you know, like all around it's all bad. Anyways, Well, good for her for finding out all that. For her to tell me when if something did happen to him, like obviously I don't think he's in jail or like died, because my friend definitely looked him up on local obituaries. She's like, what's his last name? She's crazy? Wait, I was. I was like, yeah, look, because would be so sad if you like, when you've been through it already, I get it, like you know what to do. So yeah, she's wild. So we googled he didn't die or at least it's not in the system, okay, or in jail. I know, I literally we don't know. We don't know. Look up the county. But something she did say. She was like, well, because I told her, I deleted the text read and then she goes, well, do you have a MacBook? I know, and I already know where this is going, because there's times where I think I talked about this last episodes, but like there's times where I block someone and I'm like cool, and I open on my laptop and I see text messages from them because it doesn't like correlate with your MacBook. I'm sure there's a setting you could do. But so when she told me that, I was like, I don't even want to know, Like I'm I like this whole like and I don't like it, but I'm like, I'm gonna see red if like this motherfucker read my message, like then it's like obvious, like I know he's I guess I'm still giving him the benefit of the doubt a little bit. I'm not like I'm more mad and more like fuck you, and like, I know this motherfucker ain't ghosting me, but a little part of me is like, damn, what if something did happen? So I told I didn't want to do that, but of course, the moment I got home, I opened up that MacBook and it does still say delivered okay, and he has his red receipts on Yeah, now you know of yeah, but also this motherfucker knows where I lives, so he could be at my front porch with the fucking jukebox, so he could leave a letter. He could roll through and be like, oh sorry, my phone died still down the hand. And the friend that he talked about, he has round Instagram. He could like message her and be like, hey, do you have Angelina's number? I'm and I'm just like if he did, like why you're the one that made the plans and he texted me that morning, I don't think he's ghosting you. I don't think he's that is the only thing. Yeah, or something crazy happened, because that's not a lot of time. Yeah, what have happened? Or sometime after you just didn't see the text yet you know, no, like dead ass, like what happened? Maybe someone died because pardon me, I'm still ready to be like fuck you, But now I'm just like, wait, does something happen? Like my the girl my friend gave me anxiety and I'm like wait and like for her to tell me that, you know, we're all about the science like all that she also got ghosted on the same day end up being something crazy and yeah, the delivered thing is what's making mad. But last time we want to go. He's one of those people that fucking his mailbox has like a thousand because he does in check that ship. So I'm like, oh, is he someone that like just won't check a tech this message, you know, like doesn't bother him. I could also yeah, and he's just like I'm just not going over her ship, and like I just decided to go make plans and I don't went drinking with his friends and got sucked up and I was like, damn, I fucked up. But now I can't text her if he did that and he didn't open it on purpose, just so that he's like, oh, Angelina, I want her to see that. Sorryone, that's kind of lame. No, oh no, And even the situation in general, like let's say he is ghost to me, like lie to me, like do you have a common courtesy to just like that? That is the worst thing you could do. Honestly. You could cancel the plans, say you didn't want to go do something else. Sorry, I gotta go feed my fucking goldfish, Angelina, I can't make it today. Like that's the least you could do. It could be a lie. And then to even further like not even texted me the next morning like, hey, my bad, I fucked up, Like that's crazy. On my birthday week, goes to me on my birthday week, it's crazy, that's ruthless. Just as much as I want so that you could just I don't think he's ghosting you. Yeah, Saturday, Sunday, this is Saturday. You guys about to be a week so you have got a new phone by now, you haven't heard back nothing. Nothing last night is what I checked if it was on ready to deliver. It's been a few days then got lost. But what was the time between? It was a week? Yeah, it was like a week. Like remember it was like the exact seventh day where we were like ready to be like throwing in the trash and even that one, like that is we were in the area of like you could go someone like I've been looking up and dating for like wow, no, like probably a couple of months at least. You can ghost me. Ah, you can't ghost me anymore and it's a conversation at this point, or yeah, you could definitely like blow me off or like it stop or like signs of I don't want to hang out with you anymore. But like to make plans that day, You made plans with me in advance, and also like it's the good morning part that gets me, Like, so he checked in to make sure you're still down right, that's another weird thing. That's like what the guys are weirdos we are weird. I know. Part of me is feeling like exactly, I'm thinking all those things too, like wow, that is weird that he would text me that morning, like something must have happened. But I also just like, don't put nothing past any guys exactly, So that's I'm just like, yeah, sure, that is a possibility, and like I really hope nothing like serious happened, like oh, if he's alive, I hope like his mom and dad are still alive. Like anything other than that, that's like tragic, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, because you never know. I mean, but the slight chance that this motherfucker just left me on delivered and carried on living his life and doesn't give a fuck to one cancel the plans, check in with me, or even apologize for ghosting me that night is like making me. Yeah, just being on my toes a little bit. So I told myself, I'm not gonna be pressed. I'm like, this is this is as much pressed I am about though talking to my friends about it, Like I'm not like crying or losing sleep. But it's just I've never been ghosted before, so that's why I'm just like that's crazy. The only one that came close was that that episode that we had about ghosting, about ghosting, but that was like that was a one night stand, Like that doesn't count. It's not like a ghost really, Like I don't even know that guy's last name. Give it a week last time the first instance, a week turnover this time another week to see okay, cause does he know when your birthday is? Nobody knows it's coming up? Like I think I think he asked me a couple of times. I did not want to tell him because I didn't want to put any pressure on him having to do anything. But I think one time he did. He like asked me like the third time, and I think I did say, oh, it's next Saturday or something. I don't know till Saturday because that's when, well, no, we're not gonna be thinking about it that day because I have a birthday party. But the next day and Monday, when you revisit this. I don't think if this motherfucker text me on my birthday or on my birthday party, because it's like, fuck you, it's my birthday now, and I don't want to hear your stupid exceesays. And if it is, it better be something so good like car accident, like near death experience. I don't want him to be dead, but you are dead to me right now, so you better have almost died, or he better have found his motherfucking sold me like the baddest bitch ever, like Salama hiak level bad bitch walked in and they just clicked and he was like, Wow, I'm in love. Anything else other than that, I don't think it's that. No, I don't think I did not want that for myself. I'm saying life like I could excuse it that way, like you fucking love your life soulmate, Like okay, we can't deny that, you know, and she looks like somethiic. She better be twenty times hotter than me. Anything else happening is not justifiable. And I'm like, uh, you really ghost to me? Oh my birthday week is crazy? Is crazy? I don't think he did either. It doesn't because because you've said you've said before too, like like there has been times where you guys text like after a span of days, you know what I mean. So so this is this isn't. No, that's not the same thing. It's not. But because if you just cancel plans, you better be hitting me the next day for not showing up. Oh actually, I would actually get even more mad ab if if he hits me up on some nonchalant shit like oh we just sometimes we message. Know he needs to acknowledge this for sure, and there needs to be some kind of excuse of why this happened. So if he just hits me like, hey, what's up, no, I will see red and I I might not even I would either just be like we need to not talk anymore, or would actually ghost. I'm not the ghosting type, but like that calls for her bye. If you hit me up on some nonchalantch it like okay, hey, girly, that's the plan this weekend, you know what, I didn't even acknowledge that. And because of that, mm hmost yeah, that's true. I know. I think I think I'm just like saying it to think I would do that, But like I probably wouldn't for sure. It's like it sounds good though, right, but I feel like it's better and it's more grown of us to just say what's up and that's it, you know, and in your case it's on it's his fault the reason why you you know for sure it's not me. I guess if I had some actions do not even like he doesn't even deserve a response to me, like you know you did something bad, fuck you, But no, I probably would just be like we need to not talk anymore. But like I don't want to hear your side if he hits me on some nonchalant and like nothing crazy happened, because even just the situation in general, like if anyone has dealt with this kind of thing in my head, like you obviously don't respect my time, but just the dumbed down even more, it's just like, okay, so next time you asked me to hang out, am I supposed to just like not think things are confirmed until you text me like three hours within the event, and if that is how you're thinking, so am I just supposed to wait around all day and to see if maybe you're actually gonna hang out with me, like you said, like, is that just a suggestion when you make plans? No, because no, that's not how it works. I'm not feeling this for you. Yeah, I don't know. It's two red flags so close to each other. Yeah, it hasn't hit the one he has lost his phone or what? Right, I guess I'm saying it doesn't help that. Like, literally, I was planning to talk to him about something that bothered me for him to just bother me with a second thing before right right, right, right right, having a conversation. Not to have a whole new problem. You gotta talk about two things, yea, I have a list actually yeah, literally, And it's just like exactly like dating needs to be fun, like for this to like two things already, we're getting on the borderline of like not fun. I am having a guest. I feel like it's been not fun for a minute now. Okay, No, it's been fun. Yeah. That last thing was the only thing that pissed off. And I was like, and another thing that my friend, my nail tech that checked me on. And I think that's what I was trying to say to you, and like when I was not trying to justify what he said, but she said it perfectly because I was like, yeah, I'm just gonna tell him I don't like the comment he made. And she's like, well, it wasn't a comment that he made, like it was a response to your thing, Like comments are something that's unsolicited, and and that's what I was thinking when I say that, because it's like exactly, so not like he came up and like made this comment. Was like, hey, you're a friend unattractive, Like, well you did say yourself that you were kind of like that's the only thing. I'm like, even slightly defending him. Still not cool, like he could have lied about a different way. But exactly, it's like one I was pressing him, we were drinking, and exactly it wasn't a comment that he made. It was a response to my question, but still gave me the ick enough to I want to talk about this, you know. But it's been great, like like we were doing so good to like this bicker. I just talked about how we spent the entire weekend at my house. That's right. Yeah, this is a big enough one of it's starting right after the first one, the second one. No, this is a big one. This is definitely worth ending things for because this is just like, oh, you're the kind of person. Yeah, unless someone died, I got a car accident. Number two is kind of bio is worth I think two and a half. But but I agree with that, yeah, exactly exactly right now at least. Yeah, but you want to make sure, you want to make sure. Maybe he doesn't have the funds. It'd be like that sometimes I forgot. I forgot too, but I know it definitely broke. And he did get a new phone, but like didn't have his old contacts, and like when he hit me, he's like, oh my god, I thought I was not gonna find your number again, and then sent me a picture of like his old phone with his new phone again, so hopefully something different. Yeah, and you know what, I'm someone that loses and breaks up all the time. They can't be two of us, they can't be we can't both be losing. And also like if I really wanted to see you, you like he knows where I live exactly, like like Angelique said, like that does sound a little crazy, Like sure, maybe not the first day, but like, oh I never got a number, so I guess I was never talking to her again, Like you catch you up at my apartment. You could leave me a little note. You can hit up one of my we have a mutual friend. You could be like, hey, yeah, I hate you, like can you send me? So that was my past couple of days. What an interesting little plot twists. I was so ready for that stupid ass date. Oh but I did look good that day. And I will say when I went to that bar, three different men bought me a free drink because Barten up comes to me saying, this person wants to buy you a shot for you. But of course I was pressed as hell getting I know, because it's like, I'm glad to be hanging out with the girl that's getting a bunch free drinks tonight. I'm glad you you went out. You know, I'm glad you're not the type of just yeah that was my thing. I was like, you know, I got ready. I plowed out my hair like I'm going, this is not gonna be a wasted makeup day, and like I'm exactly, I'm definitely because I would have drove myself crazy that guy just looking at my phone and it kept doing the time thing. I would have been like, okay, he's got till two ams right for you at work, because once it was out like that, I was like, Okay, he's definitely not working anymore. Like, no way he's working till two in the morning in the morning time, or even if you're working that late, like at some point you got to peet and you could text, Yeah, you guys, he's still at work. He never clocked out on Saturday. That's crazy. It's a long job building those houses or whatever he does. Yeah, there's a lot of cabinets. He definitely ghost you. It's just weird, Like, I don't know what prompted you to ghost me. I don't think you're being ghosted. To text me that morning is crazy. I don't think you being my birthday week is crazy. Plus what did you you Obviously it's not something you did right or when it's like he was at work and someone was like, hey that girl you talking to I just found her podcast. She said you gave her the egg and that you're balding, and then he like listens to every that never talked about him. That is a risk. That is a risk. I'd feel some type of way. If you have a podcast and I'm on it all the time, I think it'd be something that could front me about. But I don't think i'd ghost you. But you have a little podcasts, Yeah, I just probably tell him it. I would wait till we get a little more serious. I'd be like, for the record, Yeah, you know I do. That is something I should give people heads up. Okay, just let you know I do talk about my life. But no, I think that's why it gets more seriou But yeah, exactly, like you don't need permission. Yeah, I'm not saying we don't even know. Yeah, like that, you know, I don't know his name. Why, I've seen pictures of him, but his profile, right, I saw the hand. I did delete all my dating apps, not for him. But I was just like, I think I feeling just like more confident. I'm like, I'd rather just meet someone. And she got drugs on Saturday, so yeah, I know it worse. Man. One guy was cute, but then he left early. It's like, yeah, I'm just like, I don't like it's like I'm actively looking. I don't want to actively look. I'd rather meet someone in person. Yeah, to attract someone, yeah, not like And I feel like I feel like I could show. I feel like everybody shows who they are more in person because I'm profile, You're still getting to choose, you know, and like, I don't know. Yeah, no one lists those things. No one lists. Hey, might talk about about your friends and might ghost you day of our plan. Yeah, that's how we need honest dating app like put your phone, you know. Yeah, I constantly lose my phone and I ghost people. So now it's just a mystery if I'm being ghosted or if I'm not being ghosted. If something happened to this man I did. We did, like I said, we checked the local buttures. We'll make the decision next whether or if it doesn't live by next week. Yeah, what if two weeks past? That's definitely it would have been a week and a half by the time. Yeah right, yeah, especially you already told him, you said, he knows when your birthday is too, so yeah right, you know, yeah, he could definitely call whatever phone service he has to be, like, look up this number. He could show up at your house. I feel like you guys are at that point where it's not shows up at your house, you know, explain everything happened. I don't know. Yeah, better be there with a broken leg, no arms, in a wheelchair. Hey, couldn't make it down the stairs because I lost all of my lips. But I told someone to drop me off just to let you know. I didn't go stee because I heard your podcast and I just wanted to make it clear. Yeah, you're selling the specific. See what is that poem I was. I was on a day cruise. I was trying to take a selfie and and then he also fell over, almost drowned. How to go to the hospital at me? And then it was until you recovered two days after he's like, fuck, where's my phone? Ship also in the ocean. So he's still recovering, right something my Saturday. He's nice and warm. You probably can't even eat the jello yet, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, he's probably not even speaking, But the moment he does, he's gonna be like, I know, no, deadass, if you really liked me and you're really about it, your body would recover faster in the name of love for me. No, like ill he gave me the ag again. But we do know, oh, we do know he has a weak thing, and we're not gonna go down that round. Don't open that door. Don't open that door. Just keep it pushing issues right, doesn't matter. Yeah, maybe that came back, you know what that would be, That would be, that would be legit, that would be a very legitimate. No, he finds out that morning. It doesn't happen that way. No, But mental health, now, okay, you could take a day, but the next day you could be back to being healthy and messaging me or okay, even if something yeah I really want to but even to that excuse, say something just really bad did happen, I feel like, yeah, sure, I'll give it a week. But you could at least be like, hey, I'm going through something right now. Yeah, hey, sorry, I've been whatever whatever, Because I'm thinking if something like crazy happened to me, where like you know that that happens like you just don't even know how you're gonna handle it, I would at least be like, I'm going through something right now, see it. Ever, and I've actually done that too, where like something comes up and I don't you know, you don't want to give someone details or you can't whatever it is right where I've been like you know what, I'm sorry, I haven't texted back, you know, and be very brief about what's going on. But yeah, I can, and I would just be like, hope, everything's okay. Thanks Rach exactly, at least for your peace of mind, and then for his too low key, because he's probably like, I don't obviously if I'm interested, I don't want you to think I'm ghosting. I don't want you to think I'm ignoring you, you know, exactly, So okay, I'll give it a week, which is like two more days. If you're hearing this and you know this is about you, you're lucky. You have forty eight hours for the TV show is the talk? Yeah, I got forty eight hours. Somebody else's phone, he could call he knows what station work, or you gonna call the station. I like to make a request, Angelina, I'm not ghosting you. Can you play du alifa the main line office or our person or the executive assistant. Oh really, it's not that Angelina, I think. Yeah. And also he's not ghosting her. Give us the callback man, but yeah, still on delivered. So I guess I made me feel like, oh, maybe he's not ghost to me, but he can still very much just be ignoring my tax and be like I'm not going to open it. But I also feel like he's not that smart to even think like, oh, don't want her to see my bad receipt on I don't know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, time to time will tell. Okay, we will visit this our next pod and then maybe even our subsequent next pot case. We don't know what there's that we don't see, but looking forward to this weekend. You guys, my thirtieth RATT day. You might be listening to this episode day of my birthday? So dirty, you know, you give them momm me something. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. But yeah, if you want to favorite tequila likea okay, I love pizza, love coffee, love feels coffee, love all coffee. Yeah yeah, no even a love card all love letter, well card, love that. But yeah, my mom told me this big ass party. You guys, I'm I feel a little baud today. I called her. She was definitely a little stressed out. Yeah, I don't know. She just trying to plan everything. She's like, don't like, a party is hard, No, my mom goes hard. You guys, like, don't to my Instagram. Are now at Angelina on air. There's a highlight with a little confetti like a highlight of some of the parties I'm on his strow, not even the best ones. But like my brother's ex girlfriend rip, she didn't die, but yeah, yeah, we loved her though sad damn breakups. She had the we she loved Jersey Shore and like it was last minute too, mind, this was like in a two week span. My mom put this out last Hello, last minute, maybe like less less than a month for sure. Yeah, and Jersey Shore themes like when you entered you had to like take a shot. We had these glow sticks, and the glow sticks stood for like something. She got the letter, you know, the infamous letter like blown up on this big ass Like it was like a whole back drop drinks. We had like a separate section where was like kind of a confessional like the TV vibes, and we had everyone like record a message for her, and like we put it on a whole video so she can watch it. I know, it's like we're we're friends. Then that was a long time ago. That was I don't know, I feel like it was after the Jurassic Oh, that angel was invited to the Jurassic Park. Let's see, let's look at the highlights when it came firsts. That looks so much fun. Yeah. For but their grandson, my stepdad, like his side, they have a baby, so you know yeah yeah, oh no Jasic Park was before September eighteen. Oh me, Oh yeah that's not good then, Yeah, you're right now. My mom had a whole back job. We had like a dig site for the kids, like full ass sand with these little dig things. Your status. Oh yeah that was a park range bad ass. I know, I'm looking at the highlight now. Little hats like little I love, like like theme parties are really fun, you know, like oh yeah, my family loves the thing. That's cool. Machine. Yeah there was a fog machine and yeah, this one's gonna be lit. So my birthday theme is Savannah Nights, and my mom's already been showing me the stuff she has. We have a cigar bar. We got our favorite bartenders that we've been like having for our past couple. They're like a family owned, like small business. Yeah, and there drinks are fire the only thing. But I'm not gonna complain about anything because you know, I was on the strict to my whim. I was like everything needs to be Cuban thing, like the food, like I was like the first alb, I'm only gonna play keep music. Of course I'm in charge of the music, but I was editing. I was like, okay, only the first fifteen minutes because you know, there's a lot of themes and people to get to in the music. Yeah, I only got like six seven, eight hours. You know, I can't waste a whole hour on all Cuban music. But because I said that my mom at the bar, it's only rum drinks, which which is gonna be great. It's gonna taste good. But like a lot of people drink tequila though, I know there's something that's gonna be like rum. No, the cocktails are gonna be bombed regardless, but yeah, it's good, be so cute. I know I should really not say all of the things that are happening because we get the recap. Well, I'm sure something will happen for the recap all good things. So yeah, I can't get crazy, but I was so key, even like the drinks have like I don't know names and stuff. Yeah, like once she's upbeat because if you're a one, you know that's my old A name and old Instagram name too. Yeah, and then like my Instagram, bile was always reasonable down track eight, which is jay Z's Can I Live And one of the drinks is called track eight. Yeah, so she is so good, like, yeah, she's shown me the patty like we have a little gazebo section or they do because I don't live there anymore. And they just like redid that to be like the dance floor and they set up like all these disco balls and like these big as dominoes, the tate center pieces look so good. She send to me the drafts hello like lights, like there's big gas like sign that's a van and ice. There's gonna be a big as sig of a cigar bar. I'm excited. And I got my dress and it fits me. My sister, Yeah, my sister's gonna pay for my makeup appointment. Shout out to her, Shout out to your sister. I got a hairppointment the day before, so we're gonna try to keep that blowout intact because what I do, okay blow but like not as silky like by the end of the day, it's frizzy. Why did it give U today? But I needed to last make adness. No, I'm so excited, So everyone like great producer Chris said, he's gonna pull up. We don't see. Oh, I think he's late, but he's gonna get there. Okay, that's tell you too, because it's her sister's birthday. Or he'll there. That's fine too. You're not gonna want to do that. I can see him leaving. You can, but no one leaves our party early. I mean, yeah, you might, but no one's gonna want to leave early. I promise you, if you are not planning to stay the whole time, I would show up late then because you're not gonna want leave early. I already have I don't know, two of your old Jurassic No. My family parties. You guys, that's so cool. We're gonna have like blunts hidden in the cigar bar. There's cigars that you can have, but like my family's big smokers, so there will be. You gotta have to say the secret word to get it, which I haven't figured out what is the secret word yet. Figure it out. I'll probably just say something Yeah, I don't text real quick, like gonna say the secreord gos on what it is. Yeah, my uncle rig like he's like the O g in the family. And my uncle John Chris, not producer Chris, his dad. They're gonna be like working the cigar bars, so we'll like cut it for people and pass them out and like even if you don't smoke, like it's a good little souvenir. You know, got like customized like things to wrap it in. She's crazy, I don't know about starting his birthday. Yeah, hey, that's exciting. No, I'm so excited, like you guys. I never do anything really big for my birthday, Like I'll like maybe plan a dirt like that day. Like I never plan anything like, oh, I have this plan for my birthday. And but I always wanted to be thirty since I was a little girl. I probably said this a million times. But when I was younger, I saw an interview with America Fererra and they asked her what ag she wants to be forever, and she said thirty. And ever since my little ass saw that, I always wanted to be thirty. Nice And when they were like, you know what, I'm thinking what I want to do? Like, oh, you know, my friends are like we should go on a trip, we should do this that, I'm like, no, I want my mom to throw me a party because she throws the best parties, and I want the shit in my parents' backyard, Like I want to be with my family and like all my closest friends. So I'm excited. I'm excited for you, and I'm like, really, you know, I love making a playlist, and I feel like I'm always in charge of the playlist for family parties. But I'm obviously always thinking of like that person's day, yeah, and like and also who's going to be there, like not that no one's gona like my music, because i also want everyone to have a good time. But I'm always like sneaking in the bad Bunny at the end, but now vision be bad buy like every other song, don't because it's my birthday. So super excited. What do you guys have planned it for the weekend? Days with you guys? Oh yeah, go to my party? Matters period? Why you're not party? He wasn't already? Yes, I will be in Eureka that speakend, So yeah, so I'm excited to go. But I really wish I could have major party because it sounds late. Who just goes to Eureka's. There's a lot to do. I'll let y'all know how it goes Glenn urban but about like a gold Okay, so hear me out. So I'm low key like a hike, Like I love going on hikes and trails and I like seeing nature and I'm really big on that kind of stuff. So Areka has this like it's called like a like a Redwood skywalk thing where you like go up these stairs and you you walk through the forest, but like you're at the height of like halfway of how tall like the trees are, so you're not walking the floor. You're actually it's my party to go class some trees. Kidding, yes, But it was supposed to be. It was a trip in January, but the weather kind of ruined it, so we postponed for April, and you know, plans sounds amazing, get your traveling. Yeah, I look cute, but it's giving Ship's Creek, so we're definitely California gold Rush. No, it's literally getting Ship's Creek. Look up the skywalk here, that's what I think it's gonna be worth it. And an avenue of the Giants, which is another like this lake is killed, right, I am excited, Like that's what I like to do, you know, And I haven't done it a lot this year, and I need it mentally. I'm not gonna lie. So oh yeah, yeah, Oh there's a show called Eureka and Disney. Yeah, Eureka is mad random. I had a disappointment with like a client the other day and they were like, yeah, I guess where I'm from, just like by looking around. But I didn't look like behind me. And the first thing I looked up was the posed was Antarctica. Was like he was like, oh no, sorry, now he's like look behind you, and there was like a Phillies thing, so like, oh, Philadelphia, but literally I was like Antarctica, Like the doesn't have like a lot of like the big cities that you like come to California for, but it has a lot of national parks and a lot of like state parks that have really beautiful views. So yeah, yeah, I don't know, you know, because I like hiking to I'm not as much like know about all of them. But when people like, when I think of like the best trails, like I don't, I don't know, is Eureka like the hotspot. It's this one itself is not really like a hike per se. It's more like sightseeing trails. I think they're like not even that long, to be honest, but so what is But but it's it's something that my cousin and I have wanted to do. And so it's the largest coastal city between San Francisco and Portland. And we're supposed to be doing Utah in September. So that's exciting. That's gonna be like a whole week. Okay, says Eureka is a market and cultural center of a beautiful region filled with iconic redwoods, the world's tallest trees. It's suddenly beautiful, rugged, remote ocean landscapes. Okay, he's gonna go find himself in Eureka. We're gonna go grounding, you know. Wow, Okay, fine, you get a pass for missing my birthday. I guess if you don't show up, you have no motherfucking excuse because you're not going to Eureka unless you're going to Eureka, or whatever happened to Carpenter Bay happened to you as well. There's no other excidemn Yeah, just Chris number two, Chris number one, the other Chris. But yeah, I think that's it. We probably want to to do the segments because this one was just such a Thanks for helping us in you know, in this investigation. All your help is needed. If you have any clues, if you've seen this man on this wanted poster, let me know, Okay, balding, beautiful, smile, last name Bay, first named Carpenter. Yeah, those are the two things tall like, yeah, if he said last name day, first name Carpenter. If you see that man, call me, slide in my d MS, let me know and then slap him and run away like that was for Angelina and then walk away. Yeah. Yeah, just continue on living your life, but you let him know and everything. That's me again. So we'll give update next week on the party. Whatever happens at my party, it's gonna be a great night. And if hopefully Carpenter Bay is not, nothing bad happen. I hopefully he's not dead. But if he goes to me, then yes, you better be dead. And that's his two options. Thanks much, Breaking Out. If you like us, if you love us, give us five stars and nothing less. Please leave a review and the comments. That really helps a lot. We love going through it reading your comments. If you don't, don't have anything nice to say though, put that ship in your diary. Follo us on Instagram at Underscore f t R Pod and we will talk to you next week with more updates. 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