Having someone is a wonderful thing. But having someone that understands your wants and needs, someone that is willing put in the work to make it work is even better. Many times we as single men tend to accept what we can get, not what we want. That means breaking down those security walls and actually opening up to being vulnerable. There are thing we need to look out for when pursuing that potential partner. We can’t get caught up in the glitz and glamor because we thing that person is “the most beautiful thing since sliced bread” physically. It’s all about how the energy is reciprocated. How does that person interact with you? How does that person care about what you care about? When in conversation, how does that person communicate with you? These are all the things we need to analyze before fully committing to someone. It’s about having an even balance.