Queen Vashti was the wife Xerxes, king of the Persian empire from 486 BC to 465 BC.   Although she likely had many talents, King Xerxes seemed to treat her as if her only quality was her beauty.  When Vashti was summoned by Xerxes so that he could parade her in front of his nobles she refused to be treated like an object to be put on display and declined to appear before the king.  The consequences for her were severe.

Could you do what Vashti did to hold on to your identity and not be defined by other people’s view of you?  Your worth is defined by God, not by what other people think of you (or even your own opinion of yourself).