Want to be happy? Be yourself … without shame … without apologizes. Let your freak flag fly! For a long time, I tried to be ‘normal’ and do what I thought other people expected of me. But it didn’t work. It was tiring and demoralizing to try to be someone else or meet someone else’s expectations.I finally let my freak flag fly and fly high! And I never looked back. I finally learned that it is my job to be me. It is not my job to make someone else feel comfortable with me.Song clip courtesy of Shrek the Musical