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It's time now to get the hell

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out of your life . A weekly broadcast

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with real people sharing real struggles

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and offering real hope . Today's

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show will encourage , inspire and

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empower you to face life's challenges

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with a bold confidence and renewed

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hope . Now let's join

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our host , ron Myers . The promoter

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Hello , my friends , it is so good to

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be with you today . My hot

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coffee . I have a great guest

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today . You know , this show

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brings you guests

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that share their stories of getting

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the hell out of their life . And

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I love these stories because not

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only will they encourage

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and inspire you but

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, man , friends , they feed me

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, they feed my life , my soul

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, my energy . Because , friends

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, we need to share our stories more

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and become transparent , because you

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will find out that we are more connected

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than you realize and when we

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share and love and encourage

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and inspire each other , we

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reach a whole new potential

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in life . And my guest

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today ? I was doing something

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and I came across her name , Jenna

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Banks , and the title

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of her book called I Love

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Me More how to Find Happiness

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and Success Through Self-Love . Well

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, I was fascinated because I

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was like her and

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most of you a lot

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of you anyway . We grew up with

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a crappy childhood and

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some of those things we learn as a child

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. We have to get that stink and

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think and that nonsense

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out of our head , but it's sometimes a

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lot harder than we think . And

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here comes a pioneer many

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of them , many women that have come forward

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, and Jenna Banks shares her story

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. So I put a call into her and

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not only did I get a copy of her book

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which , wow , I could not put

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down , I can relate

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to it so much , and I know you will

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too . So I called up Jenna and

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said hey , Jenna , I would love for

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you to share your story with

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my listeners . We have some

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people in Mississippi

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that need a little bit of self-love , and

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she was so kind to do

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that . So , Jenna Banks , I am so glad

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she is an award-winning

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author , speaker

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, MC , moderator , host

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of the Jenna Banks show , and

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she's dynamic . You're going

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to love this conversation and if you

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have a little bit of hell in your life called

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anti-love for yourself , well today

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you're going to help . She's going to help you get that

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hell out of your life . Jenna , welcome

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to the show . How are you ?

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Oh , thank you for asking . Thank you so much for having

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me on to have this conversation with you . I think

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it's so incredibly important

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. So I'm just thrilled that you're getting this message

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of self-love out there . So a

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little bit about me

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. I didn't have the easiest of a beginning

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because I had a bit of a traumatic background

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traumatic childhood , very strict

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, strict , strict upbringing . Lots

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and lots of rules and beliefs to follow

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, none of which were mine to start out

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with , and harsh

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punishments were the norm

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. We moved around a lot , ron

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I mean I can't even tell you how

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many places . So I was always the new kid

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in school , just not

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a very great way to make friends

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. So I never really developed that muscle

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as a kid to have long-term

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friends because I was always saying goodbye

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and I

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was pretty sad and pretty depressed and ended

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up leaving home at the age of 14 because something

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had to give and

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it was . Whew went from

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living in a very strict environment

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, very religious upbringing

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, to no rules . Everything

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was up to me , survival mode

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and all of that . So I was thrown right into

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a whole nother trauma . I

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had to figure out my way in my teens . But

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you know what ? Thankfully I did get through

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it . And when I look back to

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where I am today , which is someone who you

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know was able to you know get

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a GED . I only got my GED

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. Didn't go to college because I was focused on

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surviving , ended up getting pregnant and married at

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19, . Became a divorced

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single mom at the age of 22 . But

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I was able to find success

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in life . I eventually went on to have

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a mid-six-figure career in corporate leadership

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roles in my 20s , founded a startup

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in my 30s and I later

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sold that for half a million dollars , started

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a profitable real estate venture , and

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now I'm an author , speaker , writer

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, thought leader , host and

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moderate panels , facilitate events and

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love what I do , you know , and I really do

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feel , like you and I were talking earlier about living

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in your purpose . You know we are

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all brought here for a reason

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on this earth . You know we are all beautiful

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souls , perfect exactly

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as we are . There's nothing we have to change

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about ourselves Really , absolutely nothing

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. God made us 100%

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perfect and so

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many of us walk around without self-love

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. And when I realized and was talking

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to you know talk about it in the beginning of the book

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about a friend who didn't know how to value

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herself , and I talked about the reason

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that I had gotten out of a relationship and

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learning to choose myself and put myself

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and my needs first , and that I love me

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more . And it was such a foreign concept

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to her and that conversation

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alone sparked within

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me that knowing like , oh

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, okay , this is

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what I'm supposed to talk about . Right

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, this is that I've gone through a

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lifetime of figuring that out and

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choosing myself along the way , and that

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was all just trial and error

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, right ? Nobody told me about self-love . I

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didn't even know about the term self-love

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until I started writing the book

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and researching and then I realized , oh , there's a word

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for what I learned to do , but

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that choosing myself , putting

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my needs first not

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saying that it's being in a selfish

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way , but just saying I'm going to do the things

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that make me happy and light me up , regardless

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. I'm not going to let anyone make me feel like less

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than or unworthy , like

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I don't . You know that I'm not worthy enough

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for the relationship or for them

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or whatever . I learned that . You know what ? Hey , you're

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not meant for me , then you're not meant for me , and

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the job's not meant for me . It's not meant for

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me . It's okay . Not everyone's supposed

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to be in our lives forever . And

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you know , the more I chose myself

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, I got aligned with the right people

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and the right jobs and the right things and

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got to live a full , happy

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, productive , successful life . Because

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I went down that path and I

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can only imagine what

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it would have been like for me had I , you

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know , stayed in a lack of self-worth

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and let my you know my humble

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upbringings dictate , you

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know my potential . So yeah

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, hopefully that kind of sums it up there

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.

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No , no , it's very intriguing

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to hear you talk , because we

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have to love ourselves

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. We all have one fingerprint

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to prove that we are an original , and

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I got this from your book . I read this book

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. It's called I Love Me More listeners . It's

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written by Jenna Banks . We'll tell

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you how to get a copy in just a few minutes . But , jenna

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, why did you write this book ?

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I'd like to acknowledge what you just said

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about liking yourself . You know , starting

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with that , and I think that that is that

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is a really good starting point

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. I just did a post on that today . It starts with

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you know , you can't go right to loving

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yourself . You , if you're going

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to , you know even backtrack from

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there it's you know , respecting yourself

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. And how do you respect yourself if you don't

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even like yourself ? Right , a lot of

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times we can just stand

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in the mirror , especially as women , and

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pick apart every part of ourselves , our

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body , our wrinkles , and

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we're not pretty as pretty as so , and so

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you know , in the media or

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whatever , and how

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we can't even develop self love if we're picking

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apart ourselves like that . That's not even

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. That's just disliking ourselves . We have

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to start with not doing that to ourselves

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and talking kindly to ourselves

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and thinking well of ourselves

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, because everything reflects from

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us , right ? How can we be respected if

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we don't have self-respect ? How can we be valued

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if we don't value ourselves ? It all

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starts with us . So what

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spawned me to write

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the book was that whole topic of self-value

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. I had , you

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know , had a traumatic background

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, as I mentioned , and I learned far

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too late in life that , unfortunately , we

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repeat patterns from our childhood

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and , you

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know , found myself in relationships along

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the way , long-term relationships , but they just

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never , you know , I just never felt quite right

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. They never ended well . And

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I was in one of those relationships where I broke

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up with somebody because I just didn't quite feel

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fulfilled , I wasn't feeling

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valued , and if I'm not going to feel valued

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then I'm not going to work . So

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I chose to broke it off and my heart

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was really broken at that time because

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I really loved this person . He thought

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he could have , you know , he had a lot of potential and

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, yeah , there was a lot of love there for me . But , you know , he had a lot of potential and , um , yeah , there was a lot of love there for

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me , but , um , you

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know , just wasn't feeling that he valued me enough

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, broke it off and he didn't seem to mind . So that

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kind of proved to me what I was , what

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I was feeling and um , but

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I was still heartbroken , you know , and I , um

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, went to dinner with a friend and she

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says , hey , why , why

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would you break up with someone if you're still in

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love with them ? Why don't you just get back together

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? Um , and I said

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no , no , I love me more . You

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know , I love me more than him . And she

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said what do you mean ? You love me more ? And

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I was like what do you mean ? What do

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I mean ? It was like for me it was a

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no brainer . I had done so much work on myself

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at that point , or to get to that point

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, that it just didn't even . It wasn't even a hesitation

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, and she just

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could not comprehend it . And she was my

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age and I was like

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wow , okay , you don't understand

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, okay . And so I tried to

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explain it to her and I spent about an hour over

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dinner explaining it to her and I really thought

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okay , jenna , you did a good job . She's got

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to have gotten it by now . Well

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, a few weeks later she calls me Ron and she's

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like oh , my

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goodness , I just got it

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, jenna , I love me more

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. And I was like

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what do you mean ? She goes I have to be honest

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with you . At first I really could

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not understand where you were coming from , but I

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was spending a lot of time contemplating

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this and she said it

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finally clicked for me . You know , I've

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been in this . She was saying I've been in this relationship

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with this guy for a few months . He

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was always , you know , leaving

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me hanging , sending

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me random text messages that were

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making me question where our relationship was

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at . Did we really have a relationship , did

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he ? You know , how did he feel about

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me ? She just still . She was still hanging

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on , trying to get her sense

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of value from

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him and she

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realized , oh , I am looking to

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him for my value , but

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I need to value myself more . This

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is not what I want . This

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is not fulfilling me , this

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is not making me feel good . What

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am I doing ? I need to value myself

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more , I need to love myself more and

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leave Right , and

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I think that that right there was a big

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light bulb moment for her and it

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got her down this path of wanting to know more

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. And she started asking me Jenna

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, how did you get to this place where

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you could , you know , learn to value

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yourself more and and put

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yourself ahead of you know , anybody else

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? She's like I never really thought of it like that . I

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always thought it was selfish , but now I see

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that it's kind of everything and

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I was like , oh , wow , okay , well , let me think

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about this . And I wanted to help and started

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journaling and kind of going

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back in my history and thinking

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about choices I made along the way

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. That kind of helped me start to begin

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to choose myself and my happiness and

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um , and then I could

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write a book .

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So here we are talking

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about it . Have you found that

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when people read your book that

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they say , Jenna , this was like my

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story . I was like in a mirror and

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it's helped me so much ?

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Oh , you have no idea . Yeah

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, 100% . I just got chills

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thinking about some of the emails

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and messages on social media that I've

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received , and even meeting people where

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I had a speaking event and they picked up

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my book randomly beforehand and

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just the feedback like , oh yes

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, I every . It's like you're telling my story

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and it's so empowering and it's really . I

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mean , sometimes I've heard it's life

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saving , you know , just understanding that someone

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finally can relate to me or

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to them . Right , they say

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, oh , so finally someone relates

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to my story and I have

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a different path , right , that's the thing

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is , when you tell your story

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, it's scary

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at first . It's scary at first , honestly

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, ron , you know it's not easy to put yourself out

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there and go deep

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and dig out all those stories of

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overcoming . Right , because those were hard

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moments in our lives . But those were

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those points that you made a pivotal

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choice and

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that story of overcoming can

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really help somebody . So

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it's worth it to go down that path If

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you have a story to tell . If anyone's listening now

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and you know they have a story

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to tell , that can help somebody

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. I mean , even just sometimes writing

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it out can be therapeutic , right

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.

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Yes , absolutely . It's

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amazing that people

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share their stories and then I hear

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back . Well , I thought I was only one that dealt

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like that , and it is important . We

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have to be transparent . Sometimes we want

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help , but then we won't really want

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to talk about what really bothers

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us , and I appreciate your transparency in

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this book . And how do

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people get a copy ?

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Oh , thank you for asking . Yeah , it's on . I

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mean I hate to only promote Amazon

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because they are the elephant

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in the room , but that's the

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easiest way , especially if you have Prime , because

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it's free shipping and right now they are selling it at

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a really nice price . But I love

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Barnes and Nobles . If you have one near you , walk

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into your local Barnes and Noble . They've been a really

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great supporter of the book . Or

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, you know , you can just go to my website , jenna-bankscom , and I have links to everything there

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. There's many other places online that you can find it Target

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and all kinds of other smaller mom

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and pop bookstores as well .

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And listeners . I got

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her book a few months ago , back in

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the fall . This is a good book

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. It's a great book and , jenna , there's

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just a lot of things that I can relate to you

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, that I was reading but somebody

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listening out there , jenna , that says , well

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, yeah , ron , that's me . What's the first

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step ? What should they do ?

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Start reading , right , I think that's what

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I do . So

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, whether it's my book or someone else's , there's a lot of

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you know . Come to find out . There are quite a few

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great books out there on self-love and

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I say find the one with the author , that

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with a story that resonates with you most

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. Right , most of the websites

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or even books themselves have a little blurb

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about the author or what

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the book's about . And I say find that one

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that connects with you , because we are , you

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mentioned , you know choices and

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we all have choices to make . We

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also all have our own beliefs , right . And that's been a

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huge aha moment for me is our

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belief systems are so diverse

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and so unique , and that's

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what makes us all so opinionated . Right

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Is because we're all so firm in our beliefs

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. But

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I would just say find the one that

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speaks to you most , but most of all , just know

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that it is's power , it's

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bringing more God , more universe

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through you , and

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that then , positively

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, just by you being you don't even have

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to do anything Just your presence

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will positively impact those

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around you . Love is everything

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, right ? And God is love God

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is love , Love is God

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right .

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It says one day , all the gifts

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and everything will be gone

16:54

, but love will last

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forever . And I guess

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, jenna , I just think people need to chill

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out a little , have a little more fun in

17:03

life and quit being so trying

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to be somebody else . Just

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be yourself , and you

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know , when you do that we thrive

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. Am I right , or am I wrong ?

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Amen , very well said

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. Well

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, you and I are like

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you're the male version of me , ron , I think

17:24

. Seriously

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, I agree with everything you say so much

17:28

in your background . Our backgrounds are very

17:30

, very similar and

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yeah , like just that's the thing

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, right , it's really hard to just accept

17:38

yourself fully and be yourself and

17:40

bring your authentic self to the table

17:42

, but that's all that's all anyone wants

17:44

, like , really , when we drop the facade

17:46

and stop trying to be like everyone else

17:49

, we people feel the difference

17:51

, they see the difference and they it

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doesn't matter what it is you could have had a prison , you know , you know , had a prison past , right

17:59

, like I know people who . In fact , there's a woman

18:01

I interviewed for my show I've got a video

18:03

series called the Jenna Bank Show and

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she was a former cheerleader

18:08

. She got addicted to drugs , ended up dealing , got

18:10

caught here . She went from this beautiful cheerleader . She got addicted to drugs

18:12

, ended up dealing , got caught here . She went from this beautiful

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cheerleader with a huge , so

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much potential ahead of her and

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she ends up getting caught up in the drug , selling drugs

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, gets caught and convicted of a felony

18:25

. She has a young daughter at this point

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she's 19 , I believe 18

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, something like that . She ends up in prison

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for two years , loses custody

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of her daughter . Now she

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goes into a halfway house after that . Now

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, what do you think she

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might think of herself after that ? Right

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, like the shame , right , the

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shame is what a person might feel . Most

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people would . And then they also would doom

18:51

themselves at that point to never

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ever having any kind of potential

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ahead of them or any possibilities

18:58

of having a great life . With this really

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bad story behind you , behind

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you . No , that's not the case . You know what she did . It

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was so inspiring . She owned

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it . She

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owned it fully . And she said you know what ? I am not going to let this define me . She changed her point

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of view in prison and said you know what ? Now I've just got a lot of work to

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do to overcome this thing , but

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I'm going to own it . And she did . And she

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went on to have an incredibly successful

19:23

life and career and she speaks all

19:25

over the country for

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the same prison system that put her away

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. She's under contract with the Department

19:31

of Justice to speak and motivate

19:34

other prisoners , because she

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went on to have a really great career

19:38

and made a lot of money . She

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just she owned it . She went into her

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first employer , out of the halfway

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house that she was living in . I love her story

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so much . She called

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them , got the interview , went

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in . She says look , I'm just going to be honest

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with you . I just got out of prison

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, served a felony , lost

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custody of my child , but you know what ? I

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am a changed person and

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nothing motivates me more than overcoming

20:05

that particular hurdle . I will be your best

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, whatever job she was applying

20:09

for , and you will not be disappointed

20:11

. And her this , uh , the person

20:14

interviewing her . She said the mouth

20:16

her , their mouth was just their jaw

20:18

dropping to the floor . But

20:21

, um , they're like wow , okay

20:23

, yeah , you're hired . You know , and

20:25

they gave her a go .

20:26

They're like , wow , okay , yeah , you're hired . You know

20:28

, and they gave her a go , that's

20:34

good , you're hired . Yeah , yeah , yeah . I had a a very similar story of a lady that had no self-worth

20:36

. She became a stripper , a

20:39

prostitute , and now she

20:41

here is in the prison system

20:44

, has a female chaplain very

20:46

similar story , yeah . So

20:48

you know , sometimes those things

20:51

in life we go through , they

20:53

look like they're the end of the world , but all

20:55

we have to do is just say you know what I'm

20:57

not , I can't do this anymore . So

20:59

, jenna , I know time is short and you are

21:01

a busy lady , but you can give the listeners

21:04

a little pep talk .

21:05

Okay , well , I'm just going to say what is on my heart

21:07

and mind right now , which is , you

21:09

know , beliefs . Beliefs

21:12

are not facts , and this is something I've contemplated

21:15

a lot lately . Beliefs are

21:17

not facts . Right , we get

21:19

our beliefs from various sources

21:21

, but I've come to learn that we

21:24

form around 95% of our beliefs

21:26

and behaviors by the age of seven

21:28

, seven , and then they

21:30

become subconscious programs

21:32

that just sit in the background

21:35

of our minds and our subconscious

21:37

and they run our entire lives and

21:39

we operate from these beliefs as

21:41

if they're facts , but

21:43

they're really not . They can be changed

21:46

, right , a belief is just that . That we can

21:48

change that belief anytime we want . And

21:50

so , you know , I

21:52

say to bring more

21:54

consciousness into our lives , because

21:57

that is where we need to be right now is just in

21:59

a more conscious place . We

22:01

need to be examining these unconscious

22:03

beliefs and decide for ourselves

22:05

is are they true ? Are they

22:07

really true for me today ? Do

22:10

I want to believe this thing about myself

22:12

? You know , maybe I , you know

22:14

, if you say something about yourself , for

22:16

example , you say well , you

22:19

know , this happens because that's the way it always has

22:21

been , or I'm just an unlucky person

22:24

. Wow , that

22:26

, right there you take a look at that and say

22:28

, wait , why am I believing

22:31

that ? Where did that come from ? When

22:33

did I start believing that about myself

22:35

? Is it true ? Because

22:37

the more you say these things , the more you make

22:39

them true . So

22:41

, if we can look at them and start to look at those beliefs

22:43

and say , well , what do I really want to believe

22:45

and what do I want to believe about myself

22:48

? Right , do I want to believe that I'm

22:50

worthy ? Do I want

22:52

to believe that I'm valuable or do

22:54

I want to keep believing that I should self-sacrifice

22:57

? Right , and you know where did

22:59

that come from . You know , some of us were raised , like

23:01

I was , to believe that self-sacrifice

23:03

is a virtue .

23:04

Yeah .

23:05

You know . And so just taking a look

23:08

at these beliefs and saying , hmm , you

23:10

know , I might have believed this for forever , but is it really

23:12

true for me today ? Is it really serving me

23:15

? And then , when I say serving me

23:17

, meaning it was serving me so that

23:19

I can be my best , so that I can

23:21

be my best for the world , right ? The world

23:23

that I impact , my family , my children

23:25

, my job , my community , right

23:32

? Because when you are serving yourself , you're being your best self , but you can

23:34

be your best for others too , so it's a win-win for everyone . So maybe take

23:36

a look at those , those unconscious beliefs

23:38

. It's hard to do , but it's

23:40

definitely well worth it .

23:42

How can people connect with you or listen

23:45

to some of your podcast , or

23:47

maybe send you a note ?

23:49

Oh , thank you for asking . Yeah , my , my website

23:51

, jenna-bankscom

23:53

, is really the the place to start

23:56

because there are links to everything . You'll find my Instagram

23:58

and YouTube and my

24:01

powerful women plus channel , which you

24:03

want to watch . The video version of my show . You'll

24:06

find it on Roku , google play , apple

24:08

, all that stuff , apple TV You'll find

24:11

all the links on my website

24:13

. I'm quite active on LinkedIn

24:15

as well , so just type in my name , jenna

24:17

Banks , and , yeah

24:20

, email and everything . It's all on there

24:22

.

24:23

Well , jenna , I want to thank you for taking

24:26

time to visit with me , and

24:28

we appreciate you so very much

24:30

, and keep spreading the love .

24:33

Thank you so much . Thanks for having me on to have

24:35

this conversation , Ron . I appreciate you and all

24:37

that you're doing to positively impact

24:40

the world . So thank you wow

24:57

.

24:57

jenna was so real and transparent and , friends , I would highly encourage you to go to her

24:59

website jennabankscom . I know there's a hyphen in there , but you'll

25:01

find her . You'll find her . You'll see this dynamic

25:03

picture , this dynamic story

25:06

and all kinds of links to things she

25:08

does in her shows . Get connected

25:10

with her because , friends , as I said

25:12

when I opened up this show , we have

25:15

to stick together . We

25:17

have to encourage and inspire

25:19

other people and never think that

25:22

you know everything , because we

25:24

don't know everything . Every

25:26

day is a new day , every

25:29

minute is a new minute

25:32

. And just think about this

25:34

If you get the hell

25:36

out of your life by loving

25:38

yourself more , loving the

25:41

talents , skills and abilities

25:43

that you have , and embracing

25:45

how you are different

25:47

, you are different because you were made to be different

25:49

. God doesn't make duplicates

25:52

. We are an original , one

25:54

of a kind copy , and you've got

25:56

an awesome , awesome destiny

25:59

. I know I've been talking

26:01

about it in interviewing people for many

26:04

years and we're all after

26:06

what is it I'm placed

26:08

on this planet for and what can I

26:10

do to help other people enjoy

26:13

life ? Well , friends , if

26:15

you have a story to share , I

26:17

would love for you to go to my website

26:20

, thepromoterorg

26:22

. Send me a little note and we

26:24

will share your story with

26:26

the world Until next week . This

26:28

is Ron Myers , reminding you that

26:31

I love you , god loves

26:33

you , and it's time to get

26:35

the hell out of your life

26:37

and love yourself just

26:40

as much as God loves you

26:42

. Get

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