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How do I set priorities?
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You
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know, because I hear that so frequently, I assume
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most people think they could and should be doing
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it better. I have a
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radical point of view. Learn
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to listen to and trust
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your heart, or your intuition,
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or your gut, or seat
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of the pants, or whatever part of your anatomy
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is the source of that mysteriously
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wonderful, still small
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voice that somehow knows you better than you
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do, and knows what's better for you better
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than you do. There
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have been popular formulas for setting priorities
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over the years, such as applying A,
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B, C, or high, medium,
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or low, or listing the top
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ten things to get done in order. If
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someone actually applies one of
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those models, it probably creates some
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progress. But these,
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nor any other simple methods I've
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seen, really hit the mark. You'll
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have a different priority set at 8pm
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tonight than 10.30 this morning. And
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sometimes the most strategic
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thing for you to do will be to water your plants.
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Like when you've been in six
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meetings, felt beat up in five of them, and by 4.30
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your brain is scrambled eggs and
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you barely have the attention span of a gnat. That's
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the time to water your plants and fill your stapler.
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Why? Well, because you couldn't do
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anything else very well, and
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you're going to have to water your plants and fill
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your stapler sometime anyway. On
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a day-to-day basis, moment
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to moment, there's no algorithm
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or formula that will last very
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long or is really worth trying
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to nail down in some written or coded system
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that you'll adhere to consistently.
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Think about it.
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and all the different things you're doing today are
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the top priority for you in that moment,
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for whatever reason, or you wouldn't
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be doing them. Watcher
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are listening to this right now, for instance. That
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said, I've recognized four criteria
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that we all will use to decide what to do.
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And these are in order of their precedence. Number
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one, context. What
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can I do where I am? Number
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two, time. When
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do I have to do something else? Number
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three, energy. How
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wasted or fresh am I? Number
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four, priority. What
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is the highest payoff for me if I do
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it? You know, the idea of payoff
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to yourself is the intuitive one.
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But let's not be frivolous. When was the
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last time you and your professional colleagues as
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a group took a sincere look into the future
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and made the hard decisions about
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what is still mission critical and what is not? When
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did you last decide what the real nature
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of your job really is or should be? When
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was the last time you personally sat down and
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thought through where you are in your
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life on all fronts and where you're
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going? What, you really want to be different
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than the way it is right now? The
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best you shoot for is a regular enough
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revisit to the broader horizon looks like
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that and reviews of your work and
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life, letting it sink in
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at all the levels, conscious and
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otherwise, that it might affect. Then
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get organized and current, realities
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and commitments, so that you have a
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clear enough deck from which to pay
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attention to your internal directions and hunches
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and to follow them without distractions. Do
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I need to work on this article that I need to write?
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Or call Aunt Jennifer now? Or
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balance my checking account? Or plan
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the next year's marketing strategy?
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a beard hang out with my partner in the yard.
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Who knows, some part of you does.
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Be open to your own spirit and its directions.
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You might even consider asking it. Then
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take the risk to move on your best guess, pay
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attention to the results, and
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course correct, you know, as you keep moving
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along. You know, I'm in my 70s
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now and I'm still working on how
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well I can do that. And
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I've never found another way to do it.
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