Chase Amante discusses relationship set up with host Varoon Raja. Namely, how to convert a girl from recent sexual conquest to recurring romantic partner, what kind of expectations to set, and how to prevent yourself from being too needy or acting too aloof.

Selected topics of conversation…

• What women are looking for in their lives and relationships (1:25)• The importance of repeated gratification in long-term relationships (3:15)• Does a woman know what relationship she wants prior to sex? (5:56)• Are women open to any relationship if the courtship is good enough? (7:40)• The different kinds of men girls look for in different cycles/phases (8:47)• Why knowing what you want is so important to relationships (11:59)• What happens when you fall into a relationship (13:24)• How to know what kind of a relationship you want (13:58)• The key differences between the lover and provider frames (15:20)• What qualities to highlight from the very first impression (17:14)• The problem with being the hardcore lover (19:23)• How the pace from meet-to-sex impacts your relationship potential (20:13)• How set the pace you proceed with her following sex (23:01)• Why it’s okay for the first few ‘sex dates’ to happen quickly (25:42)• Game-playing after sex and why you don’t want to do it (29:08)• How does the environment you meet her in impact the relationship? (30:40)• What should men do if they start feeling needy toward a recent lay? (34:58)• Why some men lose interest in women after sleeping with them (37:40)• What does her behavior after sex tell you? (40:59)• How to proceed if she acts aloof after sex (43:05)• What to do after first sex to reassure her you like her (43:55)• The importance of introducing the element of warmth after sex (46:03)• How do you set up the second and third meets after first sex? (47:22)• Nuances to setting up the next meet (49:42)• Why to create a purpose / end goal for the relationship (50:54)• How to figure out where a girl fits into your life (52:50)• How you’d set up a casual sexual relationship (55:50)• Do women get offended if you don’t let them sleep over? (58:58)• Why not to assume she can read your mind (60:48)• How to set up a long-term relationship (62:16)• Why to not always wait for her to progress the relationship (63:37)

Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-11-chase-amante

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