So as lots of you know I do interviews with guys and girls about sex & dating and today’s one is with a girl called Harriet who’s also a swinger. What that basically means is that she and her boyfriend actively have sex with other people; sometimes together and sometimes on their own. They regularly go to sex & fetish parties with their friends and basically have a damn good time while they do it.

But why exactly am I sharing this here? Well I’m sharing it with you guys because lots of you think that girls don’t really want to do the naughty things that you want to do with them. Lots of you have been conditioned by society to see them as being innocent little angels who never have sexual thoughts, don’t masturbate, and would hate you if they knew things you wanted to do with them.

But guess what? None of that’s true. Girls are just as sexual as us but they’re just not allowed to show it like we are. So what they do is hope and dream that they’ll meet a guy who’s comfortable enough in his own skin to give them wild permission to unleash the rampant sexual tigers they keep locked up inside them. When you can be that guy, when you can be that sexually free man who allows a girl to come out of her self imposed psychological prison of self denial and really embrace her kinky erotic side then they’ll melt in your arms and you’ll both have the sorts of sexual encounters you’ve only ever seen on Pornhub.

By holding in your sexuality and encouraging them to do the same (#slutshaming) you’re hurting you, you’re hurting them, and you’re ultimately making yourself less attractive to them too. FYI guys who girls find creepy are usually those who have massive internal conflicts about their sexual desires that these girls have picked up on subconsciously.

Anyway; there’s just no such thing as a girl who who doesn’t want sex and the idea is ridiculous because at the end of the day we’re all mammals and there’s about 7 billion of us on this planet. There’s no way in hell that our species would have propagated the way it has if both genders weren’t as actively passionate about fucking as the other.

Something you’ll probably get from this interview is that Harriet’s a strong woman with her own mind. A lot of people would want to say that she’s been manipulated by her boyfriend into doing something that he wants but she doesn’t and nothing could be further from the truth. She knows exactly who she is and what she wants, and she’s determined to go out and get it. She’s not only a woman who lives life on her own terms, but it was her who got her boyfriend into this lifestyle and not the other way around.

If you’re still carrying limiting beliefs society’s given you about who women are and what they want then listen to this interview and prepare to have your eyes opened.

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