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Good
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horizons. I'm Brian, and
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this is grateful Granite's. Welcome
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back. We're on day three of our
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week resolute revisited. We
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got it started Monday with a conversation on
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the power of the word it self. Yesterday,
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we talked reflection. Today,
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we're taking our resolutions into
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the land of action. So
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we've done the work of sorting out exactly
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what in our lives needs an adjustment. We've
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galvanized that decision with
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intention. Our reasons are
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crystal clear and at the forefront
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of our thoughts. We are
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resolute. Now comes the war.
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But how? Today, we're talking
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about the smart method. It's
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all about examining our ambitions and
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turning them into actionable, perceivable
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tasks. We use the smart
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method to plot out our map to
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victory so to speak. So starting
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with that s, the very first
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hurdle is making sure that
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our goal is specific. We
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don't wanna be vague about what we want.
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When we say we wanna be more healthy, what
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does that mean? Does it mean losing
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twenty pounds? Does it mean running a seven
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minute mile? Does it mean sticking
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to a diet with one cheat day a week?
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Are we working toward owning a home?
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Are we working toward a new car, a new
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job? Are we writing a book or
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a screenplay? Whatever it is,
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Be specific. Specific
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helps us keep that goal in our
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mind's eye. It's a clear objective.
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We know exactly what we're working
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war. It is the peak of the mountain.
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Another important aspect of being specific
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is picking one goal. Intentional
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change especially when it comes to breaking
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bad habits is an uphill battle.
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If we're rushing head on into the new year
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with the best intentions of getting health and
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that means we're gonna quit smoking and quit drinking,
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cut sugar, start eating healthy,
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and get into the gym? Well, it
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would take an otherworldly determination
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to do it all at once. We're not
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saying it's impossible. We're not saying it
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hasn't been done. We're just saying
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it it's not statistically speaking
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the most likely path towards success.
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Next, our m. That's measurable.
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We're breaking that goal down into achievable
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milestones that we can use
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to mark our progress. We're
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just getting detailed about what
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success will look like not only
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at the end, but along the way too.
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It's like being on a long hike and making
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it to different landmarks on your way to the top.
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You know you're getting closer as you're coming across
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the wonderful sites you've been looking forward
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to seeing. Maybe it's your first five
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pounds, Maybe it's ten thousand
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steps every day in a month. Maybe
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it's successfully cooking a new healthy meal.
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Maybe it's going without refined carbs
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for an entire week. It's the baby
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steps leading up to that big
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and specific end goal. After
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s and m, we have a. A
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is for attainable. Attainable
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means it's not dependent on someone
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else. The goal of being married
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by the time we're thirty five is great but
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it also depends heavily on another
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party. The same goes for setting
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a goal like getting a raise. We're subject
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to budget restrictions. Were subject to
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a boss who's saying yes or no. So
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instead of being married by thirty five,
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we decide we want to be ready for marriage,
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by thirty five. We focus on
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self healing. We focus on building community.
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We focus on our own happiness. And
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if we want a job that pays a certain amount,
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we don't necessarily keep our eyes fastened
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on the position we're already in. Instead,
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we focus on growing our education level,
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our work experience, We work
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to bring in more business. These
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are things we can refer to when the time
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comes to go and get that job to pay is
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what we want. Again, attainable
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means the goal and tasks that get
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us there are within our control.
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So we've set a goal that's specific We've
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made it clear how we'll measure our
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pursuit, and we've made certain it's
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within our own power that it's attainable
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Next, we're making sure it's relevant.
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We've talked a lot about this already this week,
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but this is the part of the goal setting that
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requires us to make sure we're
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aware of why our goal is relevant
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to us. We wanna know
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the real benefit of what we're
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working so hard to achieve.
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This isn't about what other people are
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asking us to do. This is about
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what we want to do and why we want
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to do it. Like we said on Monday,
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This is how one becomes resolute.
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Another thing to consider regarding relevance.
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It's not only whether the goal is relevant
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to us, it's also whether
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we're really relevant to the goal.
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We have to ask ourselves, am
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I the right person to achieve this
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goal? That means does it truly
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align with my purpose? Does
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it truly align with my passion?
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Does it truly align with my talents
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and capabilities? Last
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but not least, we come to t.
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We're talking about timing. Setting
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a goal goes hand in hand with the
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timeline. And setting a realistic timeline
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is key. How much time can
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this goal feasibly be accomplished in?
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How much time can we actually spend
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in pursuing this goal. It's
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imperative that we not set an
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unrealistic timeline. We'll
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only be discouraged when we don't achieve it.
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Hashing out a realistic timeline
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is the final component in setting
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ourselves up for success. Smart.
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Specific measurable, attainable,
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relevant, and timing. If
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it serves you, take those resolutions you're
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mulling over and run them through the smart
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machine. Know what you expect
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of yourself. Get comfortable
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with what that journey is going to look like.
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The more prepared we are, the less
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likely we'll suffer burnout. Thanks
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so much for joining us on Grateful Grains.
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You can find us on Instagram at goodrisings
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or you can find me at b mcmuffin.
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We'll be again tomorrow for day four
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of our week, Resolute revisited.
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Until then, remember, a better
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tomorrow starts with today. Good
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