Let's face it. A bad break up can get down right messy these days. When a marriage dissolves people are scrambling to get evidence on the other spouse to bring to court. People publicly accuse their ex partners of some really heinous shit. I mean who knows you better than your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend. Sometimes people get by the break up and go on with their lives, and are fine with it. Others are so traumatized the never have another healthy relationship in their lives. Anyway we're going to talk about what to do and what not to do during a break up.