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Day, which has pinned to our YouTube

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page. Um. Okay, so

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this is a little this is a little lengthy. So it

2:44

all started yesterday. Of course I get back from La,

2:47

I'm like doing a like I'm getting like a massage, I getting

2:49

a facial and of course I also have to start

2:51

some kind of an internet fight. Um if

2:54

you don't Yeah, now, I just

2:56

I follow this account on Twitter called

2:59

ask score Aubrey and

3:01

it's an anonymous person. She has like one hundred

3:03

and ninety thousand followers,

3:06

Like it's a big account. Um, and I know actually

3:08

a lot of conservative people who follow it too. It's not just like it's

3:10

not some like liberal playground. Um,

3:12

but it's like they share a lot of news, uh,

3:15

specifically about

3:17

guys acting really bad. Some

3:19

of it is funnier, like funny like am I

3:21

the asshole? Reddit stuff

3:24

and some of it's like serious accusations of

3:26

domestic violence and stuff. So I came across

3:28

this video of Mark Harley,

3:30

who I found I figured

3:32

out after I did a little research. I actually had seen

3:34

this guy before. Um, but at the time

3:37

I was initially watching this video, I had forgotten

3:39

who he was, um, as most of society

3:41

should. Um. So I'm gonna try not to be patty,

3:43

but it's hard. It's hard with this guy. You see

3:46

his face, not knowing anything about him, and you want to punch

3:48

him the fuck out. He looks like the mid section between

3:50

when when the Prince is transitioning

3:52

to the beast and beauty,

3:55

right, yeah, yeah, yeah, he's almost there. Yeah

3:57

he hasn't fully very press pause. Yeah

3:59

yeah, it's like the Rose Pedals all have an awful's

4:03

Yeah. Yeah, that's exactly what he looks like. Okay,

4:06

so and so ask Aubrey. I

4:08

come across this video just on my timeline,

4:10

and it says Mark Harley violently

4:12

attacks and tries to keep his wife Luana

4:15

from leaving. And it's a video that she's taking

4:17

of herself and she is

4:19

in her car, you know, backing out

4:21

of I'm guessing that it's their shared home because their their husband

4:24

and wife. They've been married for eight

4:26

years. I think, um, before he got on testosterone.

4:29

Yeah, and she's kind of narrating the fact that she's

4:31

trying to pull out of her I

4:33

can't tell if it's a driveway or garage, but she's trying to pull

4:35

out of the parking space. And he is

4:38

like on the back of her car. And this is a huge

4:40

guy. He's a bodybuilder, so he's huge.

4:42

He's jacked um, and he's shaking

4:44

the car. He ends up in this video

4:47

hitting the side view

4:49

mirror off. He Um,

4:52

you can I just don't know if there's gonna be a enough audio,

4:54

but yeah, I can play. Yeah, oh

5:07

okay. So he's he's pushing on her,

5:09

he's kicking the back of her car. And

5:11

dude, this guy looks like as a

5:13

bunch of the temper as I have, I will not fuck

5:15

with this guy. He would kill me. He could kill me with his barrier. Yes.

5:18

And you can also see like there's just a certain

5:20

like you can tell the difference between like someone

5:22

defending herself in exactly. You can tell she

5:24

is not acting, she is not this

5:26

is like, this is real. This is real. I'm

5:29

sorry. You know, you know, real when

5:31

you say, no, one's that good of an actor.

5:33

People just in general aren't that good acting people. You

5:35

know, people aren't good actors. Um,

5:37

they're just not. Have you ever watched a movie before? I

5:39

watched them on the plane on the way home. They were pretty

5:41

rough. So she

5:44

has a real fear, and he there

5:46

is just you know, what's exactly

5:49

that that that loss of that loss

5:51

of like humanity that comes over someone there's

5:53

not in his when they're angry. He justifies

5:56

this video by saying that

5:58

his wife had stolen his keys

6:00

and locked him out of there of what

6:02

he calls his house, it's their house. Like

6:05

as we talked about that email, why for

6:07

a good reason. I bet, for a good reason, I

6:09

bet. But but also, but also if

6:11

that happens, you don't go

6:14

then and fucking destroy someone's

6:16

car. You call the police or

6:18

you call the locksmith. Yeah that's

6:20

true, you know, and your idea and then

6:22

you get in your own very much

6:25

better route. This is not the way you solve

6:27

that. And so I saw that, and then, of course, you

6:30

know, sometimes I watch a video and I go it's

6:32

not that big. But then I was like this one actually like

6:34

kind of really disturbed me. And without

6:37

a country, we've really been concentrating on domestic

6:40

violence stories that resulted in like serious

6:42

injury or death. And I've been having people send

6:44

ones in that are like closely related to them,

6:47

whether it be it happened to like their sister or

6:50

one of their best friends, and like, I am getting

6:52

so many stories because the point I was

6:54

trying to prove is that everyone

6:57

is basically one to two degrees

6:59

of operation away from someone

7:02

who has who has either been seriously

7:04

injured or killed from domestic

7:06

violence. And let me tell you, there is never

7:08

not a sign. I've never heard of a domestic

7:11

violence that resulted

7:13

in death, worring. No one saw it coming.

7:15

It's always, in fact, everyone always sees

7:17

the coming. It's always been reported to the police

7:19

and the and the fucking authorities. You jack

7:22

shit to protect women until it's too late. And I'm

7:24

fucking sick of it. And it's not going to go on anybody

7:26

protect children. It's

7:28

fucking insane, honestly, And so

7:30

of course I get super angry, um,

7:33

and uh so I get myself worked out. So I start

7:35

looking in I go who is Mark? Who is this guy? Mark

7:37

Harley because you can't really see because the shot is

7:39

through the back mirror. So then I want

7:41

to shut the back window. So then I

7:43

start looking up and realizing who this guy

7:46

is. First of all, I check to see he has less followers

7:48

than me, so I go, yes, I can really take this fucking guy

7:50

down. Um, And

7:52

I knew I had known this this guy before.

7:55

It's because Mark Harley. He

7:57

he promotes himself as a podcaster and

7:59

an what he really is Everyone on the planet,

8:02

dude, well, who he really is? This Brendan Shaub's

8:04

former assistant, That's who he is.

8:07

And I had seen him before Comedy's

8:09

Finest. Yeah, And I mean that that alone

8:11

is a red flag because that whole camp

8:14

is, you know, the field,

8:16

look into it from yourself, funny honey,

8:18

and then you're getting funnier h

8:20

and then and then beyond that, I

8:23

felt more reason to step

8:26

in because this now, this is a colleague,

8:28

This is part of the podcasting comedy

8:30

community. At this point, I don't wanted part but a partner

8:32

on the less, so I go, oh, I really I

8:35

really need to get involved.

8:37

And it was weird. It was weird that no one else was talking about it. But

8:39

this kind of just surface because I think lou basically

8:42

what happened is Luana found out Mark

8:44

was cheating on him. There was a lot of gas lighting involved,

8:47

and then you know, this year she started

8:49

posting about these years of abuse. Everyone

8:51

asked the same questions that they always do, why didn't

8:53

you come forward? Well, because that's what the cycle

8:56

of fucking abuse looks like. Yeah, because when you

8:58

do come forward, you get asked why why didn't you come

9:00

forward earlier? That's awful. And additionally,

9:03

another variable in this is that, um, she

9:06

is not she was here on a green

9:08

card. Um, so she's not an American

9:10

citizen. She's in the process right now of

9:12

becoming an American citizen. And I and um, you

9:14

know, allegedly, um, he was

9:17

holding that over her head with you

9:19

know, being you know, and her whole life

9:21

is in you know, California now, so

9:23

it's like she's been here, she's been married, the

9:25

whole thing going on. So that's just yet another variable.

9:27

And I think why she didn't speak out sooner?

9:30

And obviously when you're in the cycle of abuse, you sometimes

9:32

you think you love this person sometimes or whatever, and it's

9:34

hard, it's yeah, and it's it's easy to convince

9:36

an abuse victim. It's easy for them to convince themselves

9:39

that like, he won't do this if I do

9:41

this right, and that being addicted

9:43

to hope is one of the most toxic things you could be addicted

9:45

to. Because I got to say, yeah, And what I will say is, I

9:48

know, um, especially after the Amber

9:50

her thing, which I am right and I still stand by. Um.

9:52

I I I think people

9:55

I catch a lot of flak for being like, uh

9:57

oh Kurin only always defends

9:59

women, always picks the woman's side. Number one.

10:01

I don't uh, plenty of you hear

10:04

us yell at a girl's helicon or a dumb bitch not

10:06

picking her side at all because we care about her. But

10:08

yeah, and also like plenty of the of

10:11

We've had plenty of guests on this show that

10:13

um, you know have been canceled for one reason or

10:15

another or you know or something, and we

10:18

always like discuss it off air, obviously look into

10:20

it and decide like who we want

10:22

to feature on this show, what we want to talk about. And

10:24

so what I will say is like, yeah, no, I don't always take

10:26

the woman's side. What I think you're seeing.

10:29

Is I choose stories to

10:31

cover on this show where I think the woman

10:34

is really being presented

10:36

to society in the wrong way, or

10:39

because she seems quote crazy,

10:41

is going to have a more difficult time.

10:44

And so I specifically put

10:46

my time and energy towards people that I think

10:48

really could use the help and that I could really shed

10:51

some light on maybe a perspective that other people aren't

10:53

going to see. Ye, I'm not going to put my time and energy

10:55

into a black and white situation. And yeah, I'm not going to put

10:57

my time and energy into a situation where

11:00

in the wrong because that's not the branding of the show.

11:02

Go to any other place on the internet. If you want to see

11:05

women being treated badly and called

11:07

crazy and psychopathic, that's not what this

11:09

show is about. So is there a bias, Yes, the bias

11:11

is in the stories I choose to cover. The

11:14

bias is not in me just blindly

11:16

put picking the woman's side. And I personally

11:19

had a very long conversation with Luana

11:21

last night, and I've

11:24

heard a lot. I mean, over the past ten

11:26

years, the amount of time someone has told

11:29

us about sexual assault or abuse or whatever, hundreds

11:32

of time, probably thousands at this point. Yeah,

11:35

And I don't know how to say this a nice way, but like,

11:38

I always listen, but I don't

11:40

every time I hear a story, I don't. Oh,

11:43

after I hear the story from all parties, I don't

11:45

always just necessary believe the woman.

11:48

Okay, So I think that's the point I'm trying to make. So I'm

11:50

not just blindly going away with women's

11:52

stories. I'm not saying that no woman has ever lied

11:54

lied or no woman has ever done a bad thing. That's

11:56

not the point I'm making at all. The point

11:59

I'm making is that when I interpret

12:01

believe women, it's that I always listen

12:04

to the story, here it out, look at the

12:06

facts, look at this situation, and yeah,

12:08

and really use my own discernment and the knowledge

12:10

that I have acquired. Although it's not professional,

12:13

I think I have a lot more knowledge on these

12:15

kinds of things than other people

12:18

from doing this show for ten years with Christina, and then

12:20

also from being a female

12:22

world but a woman in the world. Yeah you know that's

12:25

thirty seven industry. Yeah,

12:27

you see some ship. And so I'm not

12:29

going to speak about the specific

12:32

conversation that Luana and I had because I

12:34

did say that for her safe. I'm very worried

12:36

about her safety. UM, I want her

12:39

to talk to a lawyer. First. I made sure she was, you

12:41

know, kind of in a safe space, no

12:43

longer cohabitating with this guy. Before I even

12:45

talked about it publicly. I did tell her I was going to talk about

12:47

it on my show because also Briton's account this

12:50

guy, Um, he has like seventy thousand followers

12:52

on Instagram, he has thirty five thirty thousand

12:54

followers on a TikTok, He

12:57

is known in the podcast universe. And also

12:59

this is an interesting point. What he used to do when

13:01

he worked for Brendan Shab was he

13:03

controlled his social media. So this is a guy who's

13:05

very knowledgeable, specifically in

13:08

making things pop on social media, in getting

13:10

numbers, in getting views, and just from a little

13:13

bit kind of scanning the internet,

13:15

this guy knows how to create drama. I

13:18

purposely did not I tagged him once,

13:20

and then when I did a little more research on who he is,

13:22

I purposely stopped engaging with him because

13:25

this is one of those toxic people who

13:28

thrives onto negative attention,

13:30

on negative attention and starting fights

13:32

with people on the internet. And I already saw his people

13:35

coming for me. These you know, a bunch of people

13:37

with avatars that aren't their real faces, so you

13:39

know, these are in cells. And he

13:41

has this very smaller following, but this very

13:44

kind of Andrew Tate esque Women

13:46

are out to get us, women are cheating, lying,

13:48

horrors, blah blah blah mentality. I knew

13:51

exactly what it is. I'm so familiar with it. I've

13:53

been I've heard from you guys for years, and

13:55

I'm not even interested at

13:57

this point. But anytime a man delivers

14:00

type of message, directly or indirectly, all he's

14:02

saying is a woman is holding up

14:04

a mirror to my behavior. Yeah, yeah,

14:06

and I don't like it. Yeah. And also

14:09

kind of he's known for playing victim because even

14:11

when Brendan Shop Shop fired

14:13

him, he got fired, he got fired, and

14:15

then he did this basically podcast press

14:18

tour Jesus being a little about

14:21

how he's he's a victim, you know, and

14:23

this is someone that he was going that he completely

14:26

backed previously, you know, almost

14:28

spinelessly. I would say, and listen,

14:31

I cannot speak about Brendan Shop,

14:33

but personally, um, I've

14:35

never heard anything good by

14:38

comedians, not neither

14:40

about him personally or comedianally. Other

14:42

than that, you know, I'm sure whatever, I don't really know. Again,

14:45

another team that just has a lot of

14:47

really bad accusations for anyone

14:49

who hangs out with him. Um and uh,

14:52

you know, and also thrives on the drama. So I'm sure

14:54

he'll love being him that he's being talked about. Um.

14:57

But the reason it's so funny because I started

14:59

looking up clips of Mark Harley and

15:02

and I had watched something previously that had

15:04

really rubbed me the wrong way in the way that he speaks

15:07

about women, and I came across it again

15:09

and I go, oh my god, it's the same guy. I

15:11

my my very first introduction

15:14

to this guy and read of this guy was I don't

15:16

like how he talks about women. And what a surprise.

15:18

A couple of fucking weeks later, Um,

15:21

and yeah, this video is literally from three weeks ago.

15:23

A couple of weeks later, what a surprise

15:25

that its surfaces and a video

15:27

where he's abusing his way so crazy

15:30

It's like, I haven't been fucking doing this for years.

15:32

Okay, so this is and he's talking about my

15:34

fucking our friends in this fucking video

15:36

So that's why I really stuck in my brain because I didn't like the language

15:39

he was using to speak about Kalilah and

15:41

fucking Annie letter Man. Was him fucking infuriated

15:44

me. That's why I'm like, what I said, who is some loser

15:47

talking about Kalila and Annie?

15:51

Because he would he would like he

15:53

would do. Well. That's because when on Trash Tuesday

15:55

they went after Brendan Shop

15:58

for you know, that's when he was still working for being

16:00

like being infidel, his infidelities

16:02

or whatever. Yeah. Yeah, So so

16:04

again I started making these connections on my

16:07

own, and then I found like all this proof to back it up, because

16:09

I also was like, oh, it would

16:11

make sense after things that you know, Shop

16:14

and that kind of Camp has been accused of that.

16:17

You know, obviously, if he knows anything

16:19

about Mark Harley, uh, you

16:21

know, allegedly abusing his

16:23

wife, he's gonna want to get him out of his camp. Because

16:25

that's just pointing more our arrows towards

16:28

accused that line up with accusations that have

16:30

already been made against Shop. And again

16:32

this is allegedly accusations, accusations,

16:34

but there's a lot of video contents also, Okay,

16:37

so that's uh. So this

16:40

is this is the footage. This is how I was initially

16:43

introduced to Mark Harley. Uh and this is

16:45

uh, some guy with like four hundred

16:47

and forty nine thousand views on this video comedy

16:50

Enforcement, this guy who kind of breaks down

16:53

podcast drama, which is so it's so ridiculous,

16:56

but a lot of people listen. Um,

16:58

so this is Mark Harley talk about women.

17:04

Well she's oh god,

17:06

sorry there's an ad because I waited too long because I had a cute

17:08

up. Sorry, blah blah blah. I'd like

17:10

to connect this to the board. She's very

17:13

sadistic to Bobby. She you

17:15

can find talking he attempting

17:17

to humiliate him. I noticed that seeing

17:19

him. Yeah, when they came

17:21

out, let me just let me just shop. Very

17:24

sadistic to Bobby, right, and in

17:26

this, uh, in this interview

17:28

that he's doing, I don't know what the hell podcast he's on. During

17:31

this, uh, he's talking to someone

17:33

who is literally in full clown makeup.

17:35

Okay, wait really yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a guy

17:37

like Fabio. Yeah, I mean,

17:39

who's he's one of the people on this podcast

17:42

that's interviewing him is literally in clown

17:44

makeup. Okay, and it don't look good

17:47

as three podcast. That was really I'm

17:50

sitting there watching it going look at the way

17:52

that she emotionally steam

17:55

rolls over Bobby. He's saying, I'm uncomfortable

17:57

doing something, please stop doing this, and she got

17:59

I don't know, don't be I'm like, it's

18:01

classic abusive, manipulative behavior.

18:04

She's remorseless. I've seen

18:06

excerpts where she's essentially Once

18:09

Mark had confirmed that he was actually fired on his Instagram

18:12

comments and on social media. His first appearance

18:15

was on the Ratabar Show. Now this was

18:17

through a social through the host of the thing,

18:19

talking on the phone and on a camera. But it

18:21

was a pretty interesting conversation. So I want to wait,

18:24

I'm gonna I want to go go ahead because I

18:26

hate this guy. The elementary, Yeah

18:30

is holding back and it's going for blood.

18:32

At some point, she didn't bring up my name. She was

18:34

like, oh, your little friend Mark. And also during

18:37

that time, I think I imagined something about how

18:40

this is what really is like almost could have potentially

18:42

set things in motion, like for for

18:44

Kalilah to get upset because I mentioned

18:46

like that she was some other dude in Hawaii.

18:49

And now like that that named Kalilah. Think

18:52

that like like Brendan was gonna

18:54

really like you know, but like, oh don't know, but I just

18:56

wanted to like expose you for being a two faced

18:58

Okay,

19:01

yeah, never trust a guy like

19:04

that. Yeah, so's he's he hates

19:06

himself. It is the way he is speaking about women. He goes

19:08

on to he has to talk about Annie Letterman in

19:10

a in a very listen of

19:12

course, men can talk openly

19:15

about disliking a particular woman

19:17

because of her behavior, of course, But what

19:19

I will say is that over time, as

19:22

you live in the world more years as a woman,

19:24

you will be able to decipher the difference

19:26

between someone talking about a woman because

19:29

she is a bad woman, and someone using

19:31

language that lets you know that he

19:34

hates all women. And that is

19:36

what I got from that. Again, and I saw that video

19:38

long before weeks ago, before I

19:40

knew anything of these allegations,

19:43

and I really he to me, he was just a blip in passing.

19:45

I didn't really know who he was at all,

19:47

but it just stuck with him because I really fucking

19:50

hated the way he was talking about women.

19:52

In life, where I've heard a guy refer to a

19:54

woman as a cunt, but in a way that I'm like, it goes

19:57

through my bones because I'm like, we

19:59

all no situations where a woman, if a if

20:01

a woman or a guy is being a fucking

20:04

cunt and you talk about it. It doesn't

20:06

feel like that when you hear it, and that he's

20:09

also Draggled doing the classic manipulative

20:13

behavior where he's talking about how another

20:15

woman is being so bad to her

20:18

ex partner because he knows

20:20

what he has done and he's setting

20:22

it up for himself the same way we fucking saw

20:25

saw Delia talk about how,

20:28

you know, disgusting, you know, fucking

20:30

underage girls and stuff. These men always

20:32

let you know who they are through the

20:34

fears and the things that they talk about and the things they

20:37

disparage. The same as you were talking about, it's

20:39

always the most gay closeted

20:41

people who are politician who it's the politician

20:44

with the most anti beat LGBT legislation.

20:46

That's the fucking gayest it is every

20:49

single time, guys, And it lines

20:51

up perfectly. He's talking about, Oh, Kalilah's

20:53

manipulative all this stuff, Oh Bobby

20:55

Lee is the victim. And again both Bobby and Kalila

20:58

are my friends. This I'm used this as an

21:00

example of how Mark talks about women.

21:03

Yeah, that's all I'm getting out of this. I don't want to get involved

21:05

in any of that other shit. I do want to take Mark Harley

21:07

down, though, and I'm not going to sleep until I do it. Additionally,

21:11

additionally, I got so

21:13

many dms, so I you know, of course,

21:16

kind of like before I really even looked into it, fully,

21:18

I just got so angry. I posted

21:20

the video from ask Aubrey on my Instagram

21:23

because that's where I get a lot more attraction in the stories,

21:25

and I tagged Mark Harley.

21:27

He's at Hella Mark Harley. He has a lot

21:29

more followers on Instagram than Twitter. He has like no Twitter

21:31

following. So I tagged him there because I wanted him

21:33

to know. I wanted him to know one of

21:35

your one of your colleagues knows. Oh, he DMed

21:38

me he sent you videos. Within seconds, he

21:40

replies to me with one,

21:43

two, three, four, five,

21:45

six, seven, eight, nine ten

21:48

videos. Wait have you watched? Yes, I watched

21:50

every single one of them. Are they two camera to you? No?

21:53

No, God? They and so they

21:55

were all videos that he took

21:58

of his wife Luanna or

22:00

you know, a strange wife Luana quote abusing

22:03

him. Okay, and they are.

22:05

So it's someone again allegedly

22:08

allegedly from my own How defensive

22:10

for a person who's not guilty. Oh yeah. Number

22:13

one, the fact that he saw a tag

22:15

from me within moments just shows that he is

22:17

spathetic and also that he's uh, he

22:20

knows that he's he fucked up and he needs

22:22

to be on watch. Okay. This is

22:24

a guy who's worked in social media. He knows what's

22:26

up. Especially if they're getting tagged by

22:28

someone like me with a blue check mark, you

22:30

know you're in trouble. I've never engaged with

22:33

him before. I'm sure he knows. It's

22:35

never a good sign when the guys we fuck girls tag

22:37

you. Oh no, and again unless you've

22:39

been on our show and we're promoting it right,

22:42

you know. And and immediately I kind of start

22:44

getting this feedback from his camp that it's like, oh, of

22:46

course, you know it's you know, Krian always just

22:48

picks the woman's side. This is who you are,

22:50

your clown blah blah blah, same shit, same

22:53

shit. Doesn't affect me. Yeah, um, and

22:55

so yeah, this is like this is what I say,

22:57

ten ten videos he sent them with all

22:59

within minute, so they're all mind up and

23:02

they're all of him quote being a you know abused

23:04

in quotation, you watched the thyl one. I watched

23:06

every single one. Um, can

23:08

you describe what was my uh,

23:11

my personal assessment that is

23:13

only my personal opinion of these videos that

23:15

it's some of the worst acting I've

23:17

ever seen in my life, where he's holding the camera

23:19

at himself and like obviously

23:23

holding it knowing that he is going to

23:25

then post it publicly. You

23:27

know, there's a difference between a video that

23:29

you're taking because you're scared and you

23:31

want proof and the and between

23:34

that and a video that you are taking because

23:36

you're being performative and you are setting

23:38

yourself up to be the victim. And

23:41

this, I mean it was so clearly like I did

23:43

a reenactment of it on my Instagram,

23:46

and I like didn't want to make light of it because a lot

23:48

of is in my assessment again actually

23:50

being abused. But it was like basically like Mark

23:53

was holding the camera at himself and

23:55

then like and like he has the long hair,

23:58

so he was kind of like leaning into her whole holding

24:00

it and then going like Hellie, oh,

24:03

you're hurting me. Wait, we're pulling my

24:05

hair. That's what Mark was doing as

24:07

he was letting Luana up, as if this

24:10

is Luana pulling his hair. Yes, yes,

24:12

but it's like it's obviously like reactive

24:14

abuse from years of gas light. Also,

24:17

this guy is built like a military

24:20

tank. Yeah. Like. And it was interesting

24:22

because some larger guys DMed me and they were like, well, I do believe

24:24

that I'm a man with gist can still be physically

24:27

abused. I

24:29

don't not believe it. I don't not

24:32

believe it, but god damn we're gonna be. You want

24:34

us to whip out some statistic I don't think this is

24:36

the case here. Um, And you

24:39

know, again based on my conversation in which I don't

24:41

want to let too much like I Again, I've

24:43

talked to a lot of people who have been in situations like this

24:45

and when they just kind of seem

24:48

like it's like not really believable. Yeah,

24:50

I don't bring it to the show. I don't feature it in the show.

24:52

I can't help everybody. But

24:54

in this case, I had the most even

24:57

keeled conversation with Luana. Again, we've never

24:59

in interacted before. Also, I felt

25:01

obliged to help her because she has no following.

25:04

She has like four thousand followers on Instagram.

25:06

She's a private person. Yeah. So she's not in the entertainment

25:08

industry. No, and uh she

25:12

so she can't make a big stink online people are going to give

25:14

a sh And I could tell like kind of from what she was

25:16

saying, Like there was even parts where she was kind

25:18

of like I would I would present, I would say like

25:21

has he done this or whatever? And she would be like, no, he's

25:23

not kind of that that kind of abuser. She wasn't just like

25:25

going along with whatever I said. She was

25:28

very specific about the type of

25:30

you know, alleged whatever abuse. I'm

25:32

just using that for legal one hundred percent believe her. I'm

25:34

using it for to protect myself legally. Um about

25:37

the alleged abuse that she was going through.

25:39

UM. And she definitely said

25:42

no to things that I, you know, just asked

25:44

based on my experience with domestic

25:47

violence survivors. UM. And

25:49

she even still had that kind of like survivor

25:52

mentality of like, you know, I thought this

25:54

was my fault and um

25:57

and uh, even like she started

25:59

telling you about some like other aspects

26:02

other like uh, I don't even know, I don't

26:04

want to. I want to protect her. A characteristics, other

26:06

specific types of abuse that that

26:09

were involved that I kind of pointed

26:11

out why he might have been doing them, And

26:14

there were things that she interpreted as like, oh, it

26:16

made it made her think that he really

26:18

liked women, when in reality, to me, it seemed

26:21

just like manipulation and control his behaviors.

26:24

It's to be really careful with my language because the

26:26

last thing I want to do is try this

26:29

is not like I really

26:31

feel like I'm probably putting myself in danger by doing this. I

26:33

actually got a lot of d ms from famous

26:36

colleagues. You know, you know you're in trouble

26:39

when all of a sudden you're Instagram stories

26:41

skyrocket and it's check marks.

26:44

You know you're in trouble. You know you've you know, you've talked

26:46

into something. And a couple of people specifically

26:48

said like you're really brave and like I hope you're okay, and I'm

26:50

worried about your safety, which just to me is

26:52

like again, I'm not in la but like saying

26:54

like like this, this is a

26:57

problem, and that's why I kind of wanted to speak on it immediately

26:59

because I need some sense of the listeners. I

27:01

know there's journalists watching. I need backup.

27:04

I can't handle this by myself. Yeah, but

27:06

I thought that it would be especially

27:08

because it's like part of the community, and I'm

27:11

as you've heard the past couple of episodes, I've just

27:13

really been worn down by the the

27:15

soullist people that I'm surrounded by, and I couldn't

27:18

very well. And I knew exactly what was going

27:20

to happen to her when I looked at her. She's she's

27:23

hot, she has bikini picks up, she's

27:26

got you know, she's not American. All this

27:28

she she does, you know, sometimes seem

27:31

a little erratic, probably from being gasolt for eight years.

27:34

Yea, in some of the videos, but even

27:36

in the ones that he's using to incriminate her, which

27:38

is the series of ten videos that he replies

27:40

to anyone who tags him with immediately

27:42

people with no blue check mark in two thousand followers

27:45

damned me and said, I spoke out about Mark Harley

27:47

and within moments he sent me the same

27:50

serious ten videos. That's not if

27:52

that is not a bullshit omission

27:54

of guilt. Oh, my god,

27:57

bo, you're stupid at this pathetic

28:01

the way that he the way that

28:03

he responded to me manically

28:05

immediately, with just ten videos and no

28:07

words to me, He's The

28:09

behavior scared me, and the behavior showed

28:12

me that you are manipulative and you are controlling.

28:14

I felt that through DM an interaction, my

28:17

first interaction with a man that I've never met. That

28:19

is what I felt it in my fucking soul. It

28:22

was a very scary response. And I immediately

28:24

said, I'm not gonna one and one one engage

28:26

with this guy because I don't know who he has on his team.

28:29

I have heard allegedly

28:31

he has like a team working with him to

28:33

kind of help him on social media squash.

28:35

He's already um again

28:38

allegedly, Oh yeah, Deliah's

28:40

dad is very high up. Oh right, has

28:43

a team. So uh and

28:45

so what's happening now is Mark has

28:47

moved on to the woman

28:50

that he was cheating on his wife with. They are now together

28:52

publicly. Um, she's uh,

28:55

you know, an aspiring podcaster. She does have a podcast.

28:57

I'm not going to shout it out because even though she is all

29:00

so um trying to like

29:02

get Luana deported, she

29:05

because maybe he's also Yeah,

29:09

in my assessment, this new woman is also allegedly,

29:12

in my opinion, a victim

29:14

of Mark's abuse and has been kind of

29:16

being groomed to be this next person. Um.

29:19

She her podcast is actually

29:21

about um women being abused and stuff

29:23

because she has experienced that previously perfect

29:26

way for such a person. Um.

29:29

Uh yeah. So this to me kind

29:31

of like every time I would think of like, oh, this is probably

29:34

the strategy he's using, I would find proof to back

29:36

it up. N Then if you

29:38

go if you go on Luanna's

29:42

um instagram uh

29:44

and so yeah, and if you go on Luana's

29:47

instagram and it's the Luanna mancuso.

29:50

Um, she put a

29:52

saved Instagram story series of

29:54

all the kind of uh the

29:57

domestic violence and a narc abuse

30:00

and it's for the past four days, so she

30:02

saved it. This is the mistress

30:04

and Mark, Um, this

30:06

is a thing from them. So they're now

30:08

they're ganging up on her. Which again, as we read

30:11

almost every you know email

30:13

from the new girlfriend on Guys we Fucked,

30:16

it's this guy finds a new woman

30:18

to attach to him to then gang

30:20

up against the old evil ex

30:23

girlfriend or ex wife and

30:25

so I took a couple of screenshots

30:27

again just to kind of that I thought were important. She

30:30

definitely has uh. She has

30:32

her own videos of domestic

30:34

violence and interactions and

30:36

bruising. There is one with a bite mark on her

30:39

side of her face. And she said, and she said

30:41

to me, she's like, I know it doesn't look good because

30:43

Mark has all this evidence against

30:46

me. And there's this one video in particular of

30:48

her having a panic attack

30:51

and being arrested by the police but

30:54

apparent Yeah, she's like emotionally

30:57

abused. Again. The thing is like all the videos

31:00

was emotionally abused by a parent's fucking

31:02

yeah. It was interesting because all the videos that Mark

31:04

chose to send me directly um

31:07

to me, I don't think really were

31:09

the defense that he was looking for, because

31:13

although Luanna does appear erratic

31:16

in them, more so than anything, Mark

31:19

appears emotionless and sociopathic

31:21

and probably allegedly. I am

31:24

not a doctor. I cannot diagnose um.

31:26

And so that is how it appears to me. So I

31:29

go this, I know, I know the look you're going

31:31

for. It's not the look you're achieving,

31:33

my guy. Um and

31:36

uh and and and also like there's

31:38

just there's just so many tells for me, Like it's the

31:41

language in which you speak to people, the

31:43

branding that you put into the world, the things that

31:45

you say about people, the way you speak about

31:47

people. Um. So yeah,

31:49

there's a bunch of screenshots

31:52

that I took. Um she said, there are

31:54

other videos Mark hat this is Luanna speaking

31:56

on her Instagram stories. Now, she goes, there are other videos

31:58

Mark has against me that he took out of contacts

32:01

context after abusing me for hours, days

32:04

or weeks mentally, physically, and emotionally,

32:07

he's pushed me to the breaking point. That is called

32:09

reactive abuse. My next slides will explain

32:11

what that is. And she literally like, this poor

32:13

woman has like no followers, and she basically had was

32:15

like screenshotting what it is because again in today's

32:18

world, like we know how society is going to react

32:20

to this. She goes, there's only one abuser

32:22

in a relationship and one reactive abuser.

32:25

Our power dynamic has been so imbalanced

32:27

from the start of our marriage due to my green card

32:29

proceedings. He's used it against me countless

32:31

times to intimidate me and control me. Then

32:37

and then there's a screenshot

32:39

that she posts of her and Mark texting,

32:43

and and she's just kind of asking,

32:45

like she's said, like

32:47

he's calling her lazy, and she's just like she's

32:49

like, I worked all day, Like, yeah, I got up late,

32:51

but I was like working all day. And then

32:53

he goes cool, I worked later to

32:56

you too. You're gonna get left keep acting

32:58

up alone and child lists again,

33:01

just certain phrases that men use

33:03

that retally tell you the brand

33:05

of man. They are alone and alone,

33:08

old and childless. That's something partner

33:10

that you love definitely goes in that category.

33:13

I gotta see. These are all

33:16

all fucking oh my god. And it's

33:18

so interesting that this new

33:20

girlfriend has a podcast about

33:23

abuse while she is actively perfect

33:25

agedly most likely being abused.

33:28

That's why I don't want to throw her under the breast. I think

33:31

she's a victim as well, right whether even

33:33

though she is acting like a bully, I believe

33:35

she is being abused, um allegedly

33:38

my opinion. Yeah uh. And so then

33:40

Wanta goes on to say we were stuck in a cycle of abuse

33:42

for most of our marriage. Mark began devaluing

33:45

me almost immediately after marriage. He

33:47

used the fact that I was on a green card against me since

33:49

day one. That's probably why he fucking married her. Yeah,

33:51

so he could control my behavior. Yep,

33:54

he'd fill my reactions to his abuse

33:56

and hold it against me. I'm not afraid of

33:58

the videos he has of me react to his

34:00

abuse because I know the truth, my truth. I

34:03

began recording our arguments that spoken

34:05

like someone is telling the fucking truth. Man.

34:07

I gotta say, truth does not mind being

34:09

questions. It was want to get that. Yeah, it was one of

34:12

the most honest conversations I've ever had with someone

34:14

who's like, because people come to us with this kind of stuff

34:16

all the time, we've just kind of become sometimes dumping

34:18

ground. Yeah, and if it's a lot of times it

34:20

will be a woman coming to us with these things, and

34:22

I don't feel comfortable interacting up.

34:26

Yeah, it doesn't add up. And I don't want to question

34:28

you about something that's potentially really draumatizing.

34:30

So I'm just not going to talk to you. But that's

34:32

happened a lot. Yeah. Yeah, So I

34:35

began recording our arguments for my own safety.

34:37

I didn't get the opportunity to record the abuse

34:39

to the extent that I wanted or needed, as

34:41

he'd take my phone away from me, which she also told me told

34:43

me personally, she's like, that's the problem. She's like, he has

34:46

more videos of me because he always was

34:48

able to take my phone for me. When I started

34:50

recording the abuse that he was doing to me. Wow,

34:53

I have been in survival mode for so long.

34:55

And I mean it's fight or flight, like when when somebody

34:57

abuses you, you would act with fight or flight. Like

34:59

my therapist would ask me a lot with the emotional abuse

35:01

with the parents stuff of like, what do you imagine

35:03

hurting your mom? And I yes. And of

35:06

course one of the reasons why when she showed up on

35:08

my apartment years ago and I didn't let her in is because

35:10

I said, if she walks into this apartment,

35:13

she's not going to leave intact. Yeah, that's

35:15

how fucking mad. Because when it's

35:17

emotional abuse all the way, it seeps

35:20

under your skin. And that like her

35:22

reactions are one hundred percent right, like that that

35:24

reactive abuse thing, that that is really

35:26

that's real. Man. This woman in

35:28

these videos a lot, she is visibly

35:31

distressed. She looks tired, she looks

35:33

like she's been going through this for debt for

35:35

days. She looks like she's been in like a prisoner

35:38

of war quite quite frankly,

35:40

and again, I've

35:44

been santisima acting classes. No one's that guy.

35:46

No one's that guy. I have been in survival

35:48

mode for so long, and now I feel the only way

35:51

to move on is to alert others so this cycle

35:53

can come to an end and he can be exposed for who

35:55

he really is behind the scenes. I will share

35:57

on the following stories what he said to a third

36:00

party about his abuse towards me. He

36:02

at least expressed some self awareness of his horrifying

36:04

behavior. He knows who he really is and has to work

36:06

hard at covering it up. The domestic violence

36:09

think He was arrested in twenty twenty one and

36:11

went to two domestic violence classes to try

36:13

to repair our marriage. He was recognized

36:15

by people there from being an Internet personality,

36:18

so I got leaked online he had admitted

36:20

to abusing me. Our neighbors called the police on him,

36:22

which led to his arrest. And again how

36:25

the neighbors called okay, And again I'm pretty sure

36:27

Again this is just kind of my assessment

36:29

of the situation, but I have been backed up by other private

36:32

sources that once

36:34

those videos of him were

36:37

leaked online for going to the domestic

36:39

violence classes. I think

36:41

that's why Brendan shab fired him. And again

36:44

he could never say that again my opinion,

36:47

my assessment, but I'm it all really

36:49

lines up too perfectly. And of course the

36:51

reasons he's giving him, you know, he's like, you're

36:53

showing up late whatever. But it's like, yeah, yeah, he doesn't

36:56

want this problem. Yeah, okay, so that's

36:58

what's going on. Yea, my inmits

37:00

in, my assesss, what do we do? Okay,

37:02

And so then there's a little bit more. Uh

37:05

let me see what is this uh

37:07

green card this there's a bunch of you know, pictures.

37:10

Again. Mark is six foot three and two hundred

37:13

and sixty pounds. She's five foot two, one hundred and

37:15

fourteen pounds. Oh my god, you know a

37:17

lot. It's a big guy. Yeah. I mean you see both

37:19

of him and you're like, oh, two

37:21

sixty is j Yeah.

37:24

You don't get that big unless you're a professional

37:26

bodybuilder or you fucking hate yourself

37:29

when you feel weak and pathetic on the inside.

37:31

Yeah. And she then she posts some screenshots of interactions

37:34

with the mistress. I don't want to get into

37:36

those, um that woman's probably yeah,

37:38

like you said. She then posts

37:40

um a letter from their

37:43

neighbors, um oh, and

37:45

it says you're whom it may concern. My name is blah

37:47

blah blah. I live at blah blah blah apartment

37:49

blah blah blah. My apartment is located

37:52

below Luana Mancuso and Mark Harley's

37:54

apartment. Since I moved in May twenty twenty,

37:56

I've heard consistent fighting between them that

37:58

has worried me. I would offer in here. Banging

38:00

objects being thrown, sometimes seen

38:03

thrown, sometimes seen thrown down our

38:05

shared public stairs. Verbally

38:07

abusive language coming from Mark, using

38:09

words like bitch, cunt, fuck,

38:12

uh, fuck you, and other disturbing

38:14

words. I've also heard screams. The noise

38:17

from the fighting is often so loud. I've woken up

38:19

in the morning and it's disrupted my Zoom meetings.

38:21

Wow, what a COVID time. Afterwards,

38:25

I always check on her to make sure she is safe and honestly

38:27

still breathing. Again, I cannot

38:29

tell you no one's gonna go out on a limb and say

38:32

this unless it's true. Every

38:34

and every fucking domestic violence story

38:36

is the same, and the reason I want to talk about

38:38

this is because I truly I'm worried about this woman fucking

38:41

dying. I'm so worried about that, and

38:43

I cannot It's like enough people I've died,

38:45

and it's every time the police have been called multiple

38:48

times there's a letter from the neighbors complaining if they

38:50

live in an apartment complex, which they often do, like every

38:52

fucking time. Uh, they just

38:54

always wait for the guy to every

38:57

time, Well, we don't have to do and this guy, and

38:59

this guy has the added value

39:02

and we know this because of what happened to me. And

39:04

the only reason I got help from the police was because

39:06

I'm I was the public person. But so many

39:08

times it's the man who's the public person, and he's

39:11

the one, and he's and he's charming when he needs

39:13

to be because he's a fucking professional enter

39:15

fucking tainer. I

39:17

don't have that. As a certified

39:20

counselor advocate in the state of California

39:22

under the guidance of Peace over violence, I believe

39:24

Luanna is not safe. As an ear witness

39:26

to these constant assaults, I can say with authority

39:28

that Luana is being abused. I fear for

39:31

her well being anything this they can do to

39:33

protect her as a step in the right

39:35

direction, and that is signed

39:37

from the neighbor, who is anonymous.

39:40

If you want to go on Reddit, there's a Reddit thread

39:42

about this. There's

39:46

okay. So there's another thing that is further proof of Mark's

39:48

chaos. Here. I am just out of surgery. There's a video

39:50

high unprescribed oxy for pain management.

39:53

Mark was at work and had called and threatened

39:55

me with violence. I had texted him to say I was afraid

39:58

and would alert the police. I tell a

40:00

police that I'm afraid, and while they're on their way, Mark

40:02

returns home and pushes me into

40:04

a wall, shouting about his phone and

40:06

how he's going to break it. I just signed

40:08

a new phone contract. I wanted to get the phone

40:11

off him before he destroyed it, so it could be

40:13

so it could be returned to the store. When the police

40:15

eventually arrived, they incorrectly arrested

40:18

me, despite me calling with concerns for my safety.

40:21

I was let go a few hours after being booked.

40:23

I didn't have to see a judge or post bail. The

40:25

police had to drop me off at a hospital to make sure

40:27

they didn't hurt me. During their arrest. Oh my god,

40:30

why the fuck did they arrest her? Because I think she

40:32

was like having a panic attack, and you know, the police are very

40:34

bad with mental health issues, so often,

40:36

like you know, someone will be called on like an autistic child,

40:39

oh or a young autistic poor person and end

40:41

up getting shot. My sutures were bleeding

40:44

and the officer at the station. Officers

40:46

at the station were shocked that I was arrested at all. No

40:48

one okay, good, thank god, thank

40:50

god. Yeah, no one thought there that I

40:53

was an abuser. They called him to pick me, but

40:55

then they called to him, Mark to pick me up at

40:57

the hospital. No charges were filed against

41:00

me. They had to let me go a few hours after

41:02

arrestue me for this, but it made

41:04

me terrified to ever call the police again for years.

41:06

Again a story as all this time, Mark

41:08

knew this and intensified his abuse afterwards

41:11

because he knew that. She was then scared to call the police

41:13

because of how they're Oh wow, okay, this guy,

41:15

this is the guy that you read about in

41:17

a month that he killed somebody. This is exactly

41:20

what happened, and that's why I needed to talk about what

41:22

happens. And again I feel like I am putting myself

41:24

in danger society. I feel like, okay,

41:26

well I'm in you know, New York or whatever.

41:28

But it's like, again, the amount of dams I got from

41:31

other public figures who were like, Wow, this is

41:33

really brave of you, And I didn't think of that, you know, were

41:35

they scared of him? Obviously? If they're

41:37

calling me brave, they think it's mutting myself in

41:39

danger. Wow. Um, And people

41:41

like it's like, I'll tell you what it's off air, but like people who

41:43

know shit, you know, wow, dude,

41:47

I got

41:49

yeah. And then and then another like just

41:52

a man who was like a fan of comedy

41:55

goes, I got the same video as from Mark toxic man.

41:57

Wow. That's also what tipped me off. To tipped me off

41:59

because normally I'll only kind of also have a huge

42:02

much a much more female than male

42:04

following. But I got just as

42:06

many messages from men about this guy um

42:09

being not good as I did from

42:11

women. Um. That's also that

42:13

also might be tied into how many people hate Brendan Shaw.

42:16

That's a lot. Uh yeah, so

42:19

that's that. Uh yeah, then again

42:22

you know the new the new Mistress going on? Um

42:24

here uh oh

42:27

oh, and then there okay, so then there's this audio other video

42:29

and I did watch this as well. She goes, I'm going to post

42:31

a video that Mark. She's saying,

42:34

he but I have to specify it's Mark coerced

42:36

me to take after Brendan's Shab saw

42:38

that people on Reddit and Instagram had recognized

42:41

him in a zoom call during his domestic

42:43

violence anger management meeting. Brandon

42:46

was Brendan was freaking out that it would look bad

42:48

on him, and Mark told me I had to make the video

42:50

in case this was getting bigger. The video

42:52

is so psychotic. It looks like a proof of life

42:55

from somebody. Isis where she's and

42:58

she and you can tell that he's still from great

43:00

and he treats me. She's like, yeah, it

43:02

wasn't that big of a deal of all this kind of stuff. She's obviously

43:05

being coerced in the video. It's fucking

43:07

crazy. Um shit wow,

43:09

um yeah, because

43:11

he was worried about Brendan Shab firing him.

43:14

Also, if you go to if you go to Mark's

43:16

a Twitter, best thing about Brendan Shaw, he fired

43:18

that guy. So interestingly enough, the last thing

43:21

Mark had Mark Harley had tweeted was

43:23

a viral video of a woman throwing

43:26

an uber driver's belongings in the street

43:28

and then assaulting him. So his whole emo's

43:31

really not abusing men. He's really

43:34

getting that, he's really getting that out

43:36

there. Yeah, almost like he has something

43:38

to hide again if it does just my own

43:40

assessment of the situation after doing this for years,

43:43

um uh wow.

43:45

And then there's private messages that his new

43:48

girlfriend uh sent

43:50

to her again threatening

43:52

uh, basically screenshots

43:55

so sad. Yeah, she's that girl is so

43:57

fucking clearly being abused by that guy who's

43:59

like getting off on fucking

44:01

fighting off. And it's kind shots about how

44:03

an arrest can leads a deportation. Um,

44:06

okay and then okay, and then she'll just real quickly

44:08

also to sum this up, because I really

44:10

tried to put this together as much as I could, and again

44:13

I had like twelve hours to put this together when I had to

44:15

sleep a little bit and also watch a comedian special

44:17

that we were interviewing. Um. But

44:20

additionally what happened was, yeah,

44:23

I looked into these videos that he was sending me

44:25

where the hell is because I or skirted him?

44:27

So no, it's in like a different zone

44:29

because he was honestly scaring me pretty

44:31

much immediately, and I did not want

44:33

to give him more attention and have his people come

44:35

after me before you guys were kind of

44:38

formed on what is happening and

44:40

why I am calling this guy out publicly.

44:43

Um So, again, these videos

44:45

are like wild? Um so

44:48

this which one is a good one? Oh

44:50

God, I'm worried he's going to beat the crap out of his current

44:52

welfriend. I uh, you know how like I've broken

44:54

up domestic violence stuff in the streets in New York and you're

44:56

like, actually, Christina, that's going to make him go home

44:58

and beat the shit out of her more? Right, Pops,

45:01

Like how do you like? What do you do? But

45:04

also it's really important to get the word out, like it's just

45:06

fucking because I'm like, oh does it? Are

45:08

there sponsors on his podcast? They should not be fucking

45:10

promoting you know what I mean? There are these things because

45:13

unfortunately, if the law worked in favor

45:15

of the citizens and of people that were innocent, you know,

45:17

we wouldn't have to resort to public

45:20

you know, conversations about this ship. But that's

45:22

the fucking times that we live in. Yeah, and

45:24

like one of the videos he sent me, so it's like, this is one that I

45:26

can definitely see him using agown st Luana.

45:29

But it's like if you number one, if you look at her visual

45:31

she looks, she looks, she

45:33

looks distract she's panicking, and in these videos, some

45:36

of them, she doesn't look threatening in

45:38

any way. Okay, she's pleading for him to not

45:40

leave her again. People will be like, oh, so

45:42

she's starting it. And then I'm like, that's you guys,

45:44

just like I told how an understanding of how

45:47

the cycle of abuse, I'm telling you I took. I

45:49

took a nine week certification

45:51

class to work at Bellevue Hospital to be a part of people's

45:53

medical team who are victims of domestic abuse

45:56

or sexual assault. This ship is exactly

45:58

They show us videos of actual

46:00

abuse cases and there they point out the behaviors,

46:02

which was really fucking helpful because you don't know until

46:04

you know, and that she is terrified. She's

46:07

terrified, so she's she's not acting threatening.

46:10

And again, this is one of the ones that he sent me to defend

46:12

himself. But to me, it's like, this is a woman who

46:14

has been still and panics. Idiots

46:18

language he's using to speak to her. Why

46:23

stupid? It was so stupid? Please, yeah,

46:26

she's oh, oh, this is hard to listen to. Ye, you

46:29

told me you hit me and then told me to go out listen

46:31

to how confidently and performily? Again in

46:33

my assessment, he's speaking, she's

46:38

freaking out. Oh god, oh

46:40

my god, she's And again he sent these directly

46:43

to me, so I didn't find them anywhere

46:45

if he sent them personally to me. Please

46:47

help me. Stopped touching me. Please

46:49

don't. Oh my god, he's awful. Please

46:58

I beg you help me. M

47:05

Oh, this is Mike. Please help me.

47:08

Can you go numb?

47:12

I can't help you, Mike. And

47:15

then she tries, she tries to. He's inciting

47:17

her to act to be reactive to him.

47:20

I thought it was so disgusting. I thought

47:22

it was really wild that these are the videos that he

47:24

sent to me to to to try

47:26

to be his alibi. I go, you're incriminating

47:28

yourself, incriminating yourself more in my opinion, So

47:30

that's just a selection of the ten videos that again he

47:33

personally sent me, personally sent

47:35

to me. Um uh and then uh

47:39

what else? Um oh? And then so then you go on her

47:41

Instagram and again, just listen to the way

47:43

he is speaking to her in these

47:45

again, just I mean to me like

47:49

you know, and people will say, well, they were abusing each Actually,

47:51

no one even tried that because like a lot of the stuff

47:53

with the Johnny Depp amber heard people were,

47:56

um, we're trying to be

47:58

like, well they were abusing each other, and like no one's even attempted

48:01

to say that in a situation to me about it, And you

48:03

know how much I got to ask for that. I

48:07

but yeah, so like, let's let's fucking

48:09

intolerable. You're

48:12

fucking intolerable.

48:15

And then you call me a little bit and you're

48:17

a little bitch too, and then you threaten

48:19

me. Is what's on my

48:21

mind? I can kick you the funk out

48:23

of my life whatever I want. Don't

48:26

tease me. You can start remembering that a little bit more.

48:28

Okay, you guys, here's

48:31

what could happen that threat That's

48:33

a promise, because I'm asking

48:35

you to help me out. That's

48:38

a promise. Bitch. Did

48:40

you just hit me? Are you fucking insane? Holy

48:43

shit? Holy shit? You

48:47

just told me we would throw me out a window. Yeah,

48:49

you want to throw me out a window. Yeah, I want

48:52

to kick you out of window. He

48:55

looks like a guy who would do that very easily. Okay,

48:59

yeah, kick it away. He should him away. He's

49:01

like using an abuse hand. But he said you're nothing to make

49:03

her and yesterday, how should you say to

49:05

me? I feel like you need

49:07

to be reminded of your little brains hand kick

49:10

out of the So how the fuck? Why did you?

49:12

Why are you fucking me right now? Why

49:14

are you? Okay,

49:19

So, maybe you shouldn't have gotten married to me. I

49:21

shouldn't have gotten married to you. I have manipulated

49:24

me with suicide. M

49:27

h um yo.

49:30

This man needs to be Yeah.

49:32

Then she reposted me oh wow,

49:35

yeah, okay, wow, this is the I

49:39

didn't call the police. Coerced video

49:41

completely the

49:43

way I see it, you need an accuser, right like the victim

49:46

has to accuse. I'm not accusing anything. If anything

49:49

has to come out, Okay, we

49:51

were toxic, that's it. We were arguing.

49:54

I don't think it's a big deal. I will not say anything

49:56

against Mark, and I want to put him out

49:58

there as an abuser. So because

50:01

he and I did, he would kill me? Yeah, and again

50:03

I part, she's not saying I believe again this is a

50:05

leeged. For my understanding and

50:07

from my assessment from private conversations I have, I

50:09

believe that Brendan shob made Mark

50:12

make her make that video. So again, this just

50:15

this just felt so close to home. As

50:17

a female comedian, I just really fucking

50:19

felt like I had to talk about out about

50:21

this. Um, that's disgusting, man.

50:24

And again, like I'm not a I'm not a

50:26

professional investigator. I did the best we could

50:28

I could. I had a very long, again, detailed

50:30

conversation with Luana. Um, she's

50:33

certainly you know again, I said.

50:36

My assessment at the private conversation I had with Luana

50:38

was like she was being still damn nice about

50:40

Mark, as you know. And that makes sense

50:42

for someone who was like four days out of an abusive relationship

50:45

still kind of being like, oh no, he's not that bad, or he

50:47

wasn't bad in that way, or like, you know, things

50:50

like that. It's for her own survival at this point in her

50:52

own psyche. Yeah, And that was the first question I asked.

50:54

I'm like, because I did not again, I didn't want to speak about

50:56

this that they were still cohabitating, and I was like are you out? Does

50:58

he know where you are? Known? Don't know? You know a good

51:00

thing? Um, but yeah, I need help.

51:03

I need help from people. I need journalists,

51:07

I need if there's legal count I mean she she's

51:09

gonna need legal help. Um uh,

51:13

if there's people who work in like immigration

51:15

law, because she's afraid

51:17

that, um, she is at risk

51:19

of being deported. Now, there's a lot of

51:22

things going on and I certainly, I

51:25

certainly need assistance

51:27

to back me up. Yeah. But

51:29

yeah, so that's that's what that is. And I'm

51:31

sure Mark I'll see this and come out me because

51:33

he's one of those people who watches everything about

51:36

him and you know, makes it into a huge

51:38

circus and charade. And uh,

51:42

I'm not like looking forward to dealing with it. But

51:44

such as such as life. Um, I

51:47

felt that it would be one of those things that

51:49

if anything happened to her, I couldn't live with myself. Yeah.

51:51

And it's a

51:53

part of our community, and I felt like it was close

51:55

enough that it's like I know these people, Yeah,

51:58

this is this is this is this

52:00

is a home problem. It is disheartening to

52:02

constantly see men in our

52:04

field do things like what Chris d'allia

52:07

allegedly did and then just keep selling

52:09

out theater tours. That's really really

52:13

troubling that I have to work hard not to think

52:15

about that a lot. Yeah, and it's like, okay,

52:17

so it's like if you knew that this person wasn't a good person,

52:19

like Brendan shop, Like, okay, so you fired and that's

52:22

step one. And it's like, but where's your voice? Like

52:24

you're bigger than me. I need your help, Like why

52:26

aren't you, like if there's any way

52:28

to redeem yourself to the thing for the things that you've

52:30

been accused of, Like now is the time, like like

52:32

make good? Yeah, you're you haven't done anything

52:35

so so bad or been been accused of

52:37

doing something so bad that I don't think you can't come back from it.

52:39

Why don't you use this as an opportunity to make fucking good?

52:41

Yeah? Game on, Balls

52:44

in your court, baby boy. And

52:46

on that note, and

52:49

on that note, we have to touch idea way back into the

52:51

computer. Yeah, we

52:54

were like my shop, Yeah, get

52:59

this here all right? So well for this

53:01

episode where we wanted to highlight

53:04

those things, those people, what's

53:06

happening and we're not gonna have a guest today

53:08

because we wanted to talk out at

53:11

length. Go do something immediately. Help Yeah,

53:13

yeah, sorry at last night show at gmail dot com.

53:16

That's our email address. And you know our

53:18

Instagram minds at Christina hutch mind's

53:20

at Philanthropy gal together we were at. Guys,

53:23

we fucked without the un fucked. You can DM our

53:25

personal um Instagram pages.

53:27

We do check those inboxes. Um. And also

53:29

you know our email address. Yeah, you can support

53:31

Luanna is she's at the Luanna Mancuso.

53:35

I mean, if there's anything not just like a

53:37

DM being like hey girl, I got your back,

53:40

more like professional like if you can offer

53:42

her legal advice, immigration

53:45

lawyer or something that kind of that kind of stuff, I think

53:47

that would be very welcome. And again

53:49

she's been posting publicly, so that's

53:52

her handle is already out there. Um.

53:55

And again this is all um alleged

53:57

allegations against Mark Harley.

54:00

And there's plenty, plenty more video if you want to watch. I'm

54:02

sure if you tag him, he'll send you the ten videos himself.

54:04

Yeah, try it. It's a fun little trinket take home

54:06

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