A paradox is a statement that contradicts itself.

Dr Robert Lewis in Men's Fraternity states the paradox principle of manhood, a man must die to live.

Ephesians 5:25

As a man what am I living for, my glory or His glory? I am not my wife's servant and neither is she my servant. The man's role isn't to raise the funds while the wife raises the kids. True noble manhood is one where the man is an active participant in raising his kids. Good parenting is a team effort.

What defines you as a man? Your vocation? Your family? Your faith?