Brandon is back! After a few solocasts, Seibo welcome Brandon back to the podcast to talk about Asian emasculation. We talked about A LOT of stuff in this episode from vulnerability to shame, and even including if Brandon is gay! We decided to start doing some show notes so it would help you guys find the interesting parts of the podcast but truthfully, the whole thing is awesome. Please leave us a rating or share this with a friend, we really appreciate it!

4:15 Difficulty of Dating Apps

7:35 Deductive belief formation

9:00 White names   10:30 No Chinese Accent   10:45 Chinese Exclusion Act   11:34 Feminine jobs   13:40 "I'm an introvert" excuse   14:00 Hypermasculine Identity   15:00 Overcompensation to get out of comfort zone   18:35 Friendzone real?   21:30 Brandon's Overcompensation   23:20 Masks attracting other masks   24:41 Brandon's Pick Up Artist experiences   25:10 Bad strategies   29:35 Mark Manson's "Models" book   30:15 Vulnerability and Brene Brown   32:20 Inner vs. Outer Game   33:17 Is Brandon Gay?   33:55 Two guys read the same dating book   35:00 Seibo's stories that women love   36:40 Sharing your real story   38:04 Guy friends not having sex with you   40:00 Permission to be vulnerable   40:45 Brandon gets sex coaching   41:52 Marriage Counseling   44:08 Seibo's previous paradigm   45:35 Asking for what you want   46:35 Polarizing people towards you   48:47 White Belt Advice: Approval?   49:27 Blue Belt Advice: Vulnerable Conversation   50:00 Black Belt Advice: Somatica Skills   52:01 Beliefs are placeholders   53:45 Helping yourself first