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Jan 21st, 2025
Don't make any new year resolutions, instead reflect on what you have achieved over the last 12 months and honour that. You may consider growing that skillset further or adding to it, but at this time of year, recovering from Xmas and the holiday season is challenging enough. Don’t pressure yourself by making impossibl...
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Jan 16th, 2025
We are bringing you this update due to the generous and much appreciated response to our video asking for help to get the book ‘Keeping Kids Safe - A Roadmap for Parents, Teachers & Others’ into schools. We have the funding to provide the books, just not to post them! So far we have raised over $700, which is an amazin...
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Jan 16th, 2025
We are seeking sponsors so we can distribute the book 'Keeping Kids Safe' to every school in NZ. We have the books funded, just not the distribution costs.If you are able to help, simply visit http://gloriamasters.com , click the 'Donate' button, or use this direct link: https://buy.stripe.com/8wMg0Y1OqdTc1vG4gh. Pleas...
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Jan 14th, 2025
Meet Avery KearneySurvivor. Advocate. Non-profit worker in the health sector.Avery is a survivor of sexual abuse at the hands of his uncle from the age of 8.The grooming process went on for years prior, and much of his abuse was tied into athletics and masked as massages and stretching to increase his athletic performa...
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Dec 17th, 2024
Welcome back to Louise Nicholas and Ken Clearwater who join me on the this panel, to discuss all things Survivors experience throughout the Xmas season. We need to honour survivors through this time of year, and I couldn't think of anyone better to bring back to share this important messaging with.We are on all social ...
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Dec 10th, 2024
Here is our Xmas Message from the Board at Handing the Shame Back Foundation, to all the amazing survivors, supporters and sponsors we have. Thank you so much, and from all of us, Merry Xmas to you.We are on all social media platforms:Website: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Handi...
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Dec 3rd, 2024
It’s Christmas.Getting through Christmas, can be an overwhelming ask for us as survivors. While many people experience joy and celebration during this time, we can feel the opposite through difficult emotions, painful memories, and feelings of isolation surfacing.Here’s some ideas that may just help.Love to all of you....
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Nov 26th, 2024
This time of year can be difficult when trying to manage end of year events, Xmas interactions and school concerts. Try to find time to ground yourself by remembering to reflect on you, what you have managed to achieve and the incredible survivor you are.It should be about you, not just those you love.We are on all soc...
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Nov 12th, 2024
Deb AldrickAuthor. Speaker. AdvocateDeb was abused from 5 - 14 by a family member while another family member did nothing to protect her. Pre-abuse she was happy and confident, and enjoyed life with lots of friends. Post-abuse she became anxious and a worrier.To reach Deb go to: https://dragonflyadvocacy.com.au/or Face...
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Nov 5th, 2024
Meet Raymond LumSurvivor and Film ProducerAs a young boy, he was sexually abused by their female live in nanny for years. When he eventually told his father the response was ‘Look out for your brother’.To reach Raymond go to: https://www.facebook.com/sting16 or https://www.instagram.com/raymondtlum/HELPNZ Sexual Harm H...
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Oct 31st, 2024
As survivors of child sexual abuse, it is widely accepted that we were controlled through grooming simply so the abuser could exploit us. What is less discussed is the coercive control that lay underneath all of it. What that meant (for some of us), is that we weren’t just controlled through sexual abuse, there was als...
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Oct 23rd, 2024
Be aware if you are deciding on how to confront your abuser, your emotions will be running at an all time high, and therefore deciding on something of this importance may not serve you - Yet!It will in time, but maybe just not today. Because this is of such huge significance, please allow yourself further clarity of th...
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Oct 20th, 2024
Meet Kel HumphriesSurvivor. Advocate. Speaker. Researcher.She was abused by her Uncle between ages 7 - 8, and recognises the grooming for what it was. He knew exactly what he was doing, her parents had no idea.For more on her reach out to her at kellyhumphries.comHELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4...
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Oct 17th, 2024
Losing your voiceAs children being abused we couldn't speak, because our brain froze.This is a trauma response, and just so you know: when your brain is flooded with cortizal there is no way you can speak, as this is a chemical reaction which cannot be controlled.Go to our website for more information on resources ava...
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Oct 16th, 2024
Gloria returns to Shaun’s platform to discuss the impact of CSA on survivors in light of the current media storm around P Diddy. She shares her story and offers insight and ideas into how to combat this to protect our children. For more on her go to handingtheshameback.org and gloriamasters.com All links to her books c...
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Oct 13th, 2024
Meet Kel HumphriesSurvivor. Advocate. Speaker. Researcher.She was abused by her Uncle between ages 7 -8, and now realises her parents were the ones being groomed. At age 12 her mother asked her directly if she had been abused, but she couldn't speak. For more on her reach out to her at kellyhumphries.comHELPNZ Sexu...
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Oct 10th, 2024
Negative self talkIt is more common than not for your survivor to put themselves down and talk about themselves negatively. This is part of, or a consequence of the abuse suffered as children. Listen for ways to contradict their self talk. Sometimes simply challenging something can change it.Go to our website for more ...
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Oct 6th, 2024
Uipo Tagaloasa Part 2Was born and raised in Samoa without his father, who had passed away before he was born.He has 11 siblings, and was raised by grandparents.He was abused from the age of 9 by a really close family friend. As he was working through his trauma, he considered shooting his abuser and then realised it wo...
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Oct 3rd, 2024
Needing loveAs children being abused we were looking for some love from those tasked with caring for us.We were children, with needs not being met, and yet through the abuser manipulating us and providing comfort , we may have felt we were complicit somehow.They were in charge, we weren't.Love that little child inside....
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Sep 30th, 2024
Uipo TagaloasaWas born and raised in Samoa without his father, who had passed away before he was born.He has 11 siblings, and was raised by grandparents.He was abused from the age of 9 by a really close family friend, who was helping his family out with things. He also played rugby with him. To contact him, please use ...
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Sep 25th, 2024
Sometimes it can all feel a bit much when trying to work your way through the trauma the abuse created. Sometimes it feels easier to just give up working on this, and just pretend you are okay with how it is. Please don't do that. Never give up, the rewards you receive are insurmountable.Go to our website (see below) ...
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Sep 22nd, 2024
Meet Janet JacobsenGrandmother, wife, mother, football lover and survivor.Janet's story continues. You can reach out to her on Facebook as Janet Jacobsen and on Instagram as https://www.instagram.com/gdadnansjj/HELPNZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, [email protected]. Help Auckland 080...
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Sep 18th, 2024
Even though you may feel that you should take other's advice on what action you should take regarding the abuse you suffered: like (for example), forgive your abuser, or just move on with your life: The reality is you must do what resonates with you, in other words: You do You.Go to our website for more information on ...
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Sep 15th, 2024
Meet Janet JacobsenGrandmother, wife, mother, football lover and survivor.Janet was abused by a doctor while her father was dying. she also had a local shopkeeper do the same. Her call to action was on hearing of the death of the doctor. Don't miss this survivors incredible story of courage and overcoming.You can reach...
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Sep 11th, 2024
Resolution OptionsBecause we are all different, so are our views on how to get resolution regarding our abuse. For some of us it may be finding forgiveness, for others it may be confronting the abuser. Whatever you need to do to find peace is the key. Trust how you feel and go from there.Go to our website (see below) f...
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