Do you find yourself being overly self-critical when someone else's advice just doesn't work for you?I've read, listened to and watched thousands of pieces of self help content over the years, and for a long time I thought that there was something wrong with me when I failed to incorporate someone else's advice into my life. I would blame a lack of discipline, focus, grit, or consistency as the reasons why I never made it past day two on someone else's stellar self help routine.That was until I realized an important truth: their self help is not my self help.What works for others may not (actually, probably will not) work for you.In today's episode I'm giving you one huge piece of advice as you prepare to jump into the New Year that will help you to have a more joyful and successful year.

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