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This is he said a Yadiho with

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Airic Winter and Rosalind Fantev.

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Hello, sir, good morning.

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We're a little bit on edge today,

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I think.

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So I'm a look at you well, I mean I think

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you are. You've been a stressful stressed.

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When you're stressed, do you take it out on us? And then when

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I do that, you think, oh, why what is

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your problem? Why do you take everything at you? But

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when it's on you, you're stressed out and you bring it on.

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What happened was guys, I don't know if this is I'm not some

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way this is normal when it comes to parenthood.

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You know, everything is wonderful. We have in a great

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time. You know, I'm stressing because I am

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dealing with a lot of stuff.

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But anyways, our daughter has decided

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that besides playing tennis, which is supposedly

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her passion, she wants to model and she

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wants to act. And the way she's

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going about it it's really interesting, very like

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entitled, because she just is lack of knowledge.

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She thinks it's easy. She says, mom, MoMA

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and dad, we're doing it. And

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to her is like when can I model with

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Nike? And can I do a commercial, and we're

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trying to explain to her, Sabella, it

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is not that simple. And of course Sabella's

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way is I know it all. And

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you became really concerned and upset

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about the way she was speaking. I was trying

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to defuse the situation. So then what happens at the

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end with parenthood the parents

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end up fighting for something that

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has nothing to do with us.

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Yeah, but I think what the lesson for

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us was is that you could tell very

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quickly that I was very passionate about this and

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I want her I mean, listen, I did this

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for maybe a decade. I

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think I know exactly what it is of anybody

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in the family. I know what the business is when it comes to modeling.

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It is probably the last thing I ever wanted

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to hear come out of her mouth that she wants to go into entertainment.

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I don't think she even knows what that means. I think she's

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living on a dream because she sees what mom and dad

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did.

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The crazy thing is that she has always

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been the girl that wants nothing to

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do with it. Don't take a picture. I hate

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cameras, so I don't understand

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this sixties.

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Because she sees attention that we get,

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and it used to bother her before, and I think she

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sees it as as a fun, easy

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positive that she could make money and she could get

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attention and she could make a living at it.

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And I tried to explain to her the same way it's

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difficult to be a professional tennis

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player. It's about the same difficulty

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to be a very successful actor

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at any level. I'm not talking about

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just Brad Pitt, I'm not talking about major

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movie star. Just to be a very

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successful, working actor is very

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difficult.

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The crazy thing about kids is eric that

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I had this conversation with her when she mentioned it

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to me, because it was like two days ago. She

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says, Mom, this is what I want

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to do. I had a long conversation,

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so she hired me. So what is surprising

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about kids is then then she goes to you, like

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my conversation with her never happened, and

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she brings it up and she's acting surprised

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about everything you tell you.

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You told her, But everything I'm telling her was not saying

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you can't do it. It was saying, if you're going to do

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it, because you have no idea

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what you're doing, you actually can't take

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direction to save your life. And taking direction applies

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to modeling too. You have to be directed by a photographer. You

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have to be free, you have to be very loose. I

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tried to explain to her yesterday. It's just like tennis.

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When you get tight and nervous, you

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make a bunch of mistakes. You aren't playing

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at your best. You need to be coachable. You need to

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listen to anybody, parents, the coach, whoever.

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You need to be a sponge. Acting

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and modeling is the same thing. If you get

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tight, if you're nervous, you are

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terrible. If you can't be directed, you

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are going to be terrible. So at the end

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of the day, it's a game of no's. You'll

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occasionally get a yes. It takes a very thick

3:36

skin. And it bothered me. It didn't bother me that you wanted

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to do it. It was the way she was going about it, so to

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me, I was very passionate about

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trying to explain to her. If we're going

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to support you with this, you're

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gonna have to try this out. We'll set

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up a test shoot. We'll see if you are directable,

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even by your own mother. If your mom

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says you don't wear this. If you're going to do this for hair

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and makeup, if the photographer says this, you have to

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show us that you are not going to do with the Sabella's

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way, which is I'm gonna boss everybody around. The

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reason we got into a fight is because

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you could see I was very passionate. You were removed

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from it. You were sitting back, You were doing great

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with that. Like you let me just sort of be

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the villain, if you will, like I was bad cop,

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which is fine, But then all I was

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looking for is you to fully support

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my position, not diffuse it. And

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diffusing it became very passive aggressive

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to me, and that's what brought on our fight. But

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zey Levi, we moved on. We got

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through it, and we're done with it. You

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were on edge this morning, like you said, you're going

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through a lot with a very important role

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you're trying to get. I've been nothing but supportive

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all weekend. You've been on edge all morning because

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of that. We're juggling a ton of things, and

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I didn't appreciate it. Okay,

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that's relationships.

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Yeah, it is what it is.

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So let me ask you something we're talking about, Sabella,

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do you think you could ever be directed

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by Sabella. Let's say she becomes a director.

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Elizabeth Harley just did a movie with her

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son directing, and she had sex

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scenes, and she said, you know what, it was very easy

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being directed by my son, even though I

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am having sex with somebody on camera.

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Do you think you can do that if Sabella or Dylan

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direct you.

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I can be directed by my kids. I have no problem. If

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they're talented. I have zero problem

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doing a sex scene with my kid.

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Directing is a whole different ball game.

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So it's a no for you that part of it. Yeah,

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I mean especially right out the gate,

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Like if it was their directorial debut and they're

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young and they're trying to break in, I'd rather do a

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nice sort of lighthearted

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comedy or something that was just if I'm

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going to have them me, even even if

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it's PG. Thirteen. But it doesn't have to be I'm having

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sex with somebody, like I don't need to do that. So

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I think that's a little weird for me. I'm

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not saying it applies to everybody by any means,

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could.

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You no, not

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a sex scene?

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You could be directed by them if they're talented, and if they're

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good, I would say, I think it would Dylan.

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It would be smooth sailing because that

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kid is so loving and so.

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Has nothing to do with it.

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Amazing screwed. No, no, no, I'm not talking about

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the sexing anymore. I'm talking about simply being directed

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by our kids. I think with Sabella it'll be really

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interesting because you know she's gonna be like, I

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don't like it? Can you try to just

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be She'd be a little bit more, more annoying, I

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believe, assertive, fantastic

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because she's so freaking intelligent. But

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it'll be hard with there, then it'll be a dream.

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She would be very much like you when you directed me early

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on when I would have auditions. You're

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very harsh when you direct me when we when

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I would have to tape myself for auditions, you'd be like, Noah, I don't

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like it. Well okay, really

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you remember when I first started acting, you were it's

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kind you're kind of like that, even when it comes to like teaching

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me salsa dancing or teaching me Spanish, like

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you have very low paid you're actually a great

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director. No, but you're a great director

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to people you don't know, and with your kids,

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you probably would be. But with me, I

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don't know what it is. I don't think

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like you, just like you have no tolerance, like really to teach

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me dancing, like you get too frustrated.

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Same thing with Spanish, you get too frustrated. I

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remember even when I had auditions

6:58

early on, I used to get so don't you remember

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we used to fight about it all the time.

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I get so so sensitive, and I'll be like, I'm

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not trying to criticize you. I'm just giving you a.

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Note, but the way you deliver it is kind of

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like the coaching you just received for a role that you

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wanted. You're like, oh, I mean, I don't know. She just said it was all terrible,

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and then I had to do it again and you got really like, oh oh my god,

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and you're in your head. Then you're in a bad mood. Same

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thing. It's the way people convey. But

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like when it's somebody that your loved one, Sabella

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would direct very much like you if it was she was directing

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me. If she directed other people, she might

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be lovely. But I think you're a

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harsh critic when it comes to directing me. Wow,

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I think you are well.

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I apologize if I.

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Have many arguments about that, I don't mean to.

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Just know that I don't mean to, but that's the way.

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It's just the way I speak. I'm very strong, and people always

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say that, oh my god, you're so strong, and you you come across

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like this, And.

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I don't mean your short film. You weren't like that with everybody.

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You were probably lovely.

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Yeah, but I'm but I'm specific and assertive.

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Yeah, Like I remember the girl that played

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on my short that she's a great little

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actress. She had the habit because

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it was her first acting gig of like going

7:59

like this, Like every time she was she didn't know what

8:01

to do, so she would just roll

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her eyes right, and I said,

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I don't want to wondering eyes. And the first time she

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looked at me and I was like, don't do that. It's like that's wondering

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eyes. Don't wonder And I remember her looking

8:13

at me like and then I explained it, but

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I didn't mean to. I just want to. I want her to

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stop with about habit immediately. That

8:20

was what I was going for, not like,

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okay, let me let me.

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Tell there's one thing I will say about director if people ever want

8:25

to act. It's like it's hard when

8:27

a director directs you and other people

8:29

are standing around listening. That's

8:31

uncomfortable. I prefer a director to pull you aside

8:33

and say, hey, let me talk to you about something. You're doing it in front

8:36

of your piers. It's very awkward. Anyway, we

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have.

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Quo yause, we have questions

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from you guys. It's

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been a lot of fun doing this so I haven't

8:45

looked at anything, so let's

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see what comes out first.

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One at ZEBA hello from

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the UK. Hi, if you were

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not actors, what would you want to

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do?

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I think we talked about this already. Once I was

9:00

pre med student, I wanted to be a doctor. I would have probably gone

9:02

into sports medicine or at one point

9:04

I want to be a paramedic. I mean it would have been something in the medical

9:06

field, probably.

9:07

Okay, I don't know about me. Probably

9:09

well. My dream was always to be a figure

9:11

skater because we don't have ice rinks in Puerto Rico.

9:13

And how are you gonna be a figure skate if you don't have icerinks?

9:16

That's the problem. I was enamored and obsessed

9:18

with something that was not achievable, but

9:21

I love figure skating, or I'll be

9:23

an esthetician because

9:26

I love popping pimples. So I think it will bring

9:28

me joy to just look at

9:30

skin and see people with severe

9:32

acne and popping, popping, popping, and then helping

9:34

them. Maybe, yeah, maybe,

9:37

I don't know what else.

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At Ebers in the fourteen, What are each

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of your favorite TV shows and movies?

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That's a tough one. I don't really have a single.

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I mean, as of late, I would say Succession was one

9:49

of my number one shows, probably of all

9:51

time. It's definitely up there.

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Yeah, me too.

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You know, movies, I don't know. It's funny. I always used

9:58

to say Breakfast Club because I love that movie, be

10:00

back in the day. But I don't know if I there's plenty

10:02

of other great movies, so I don't even know.

10:03

Yeah, if I'm me as an Officer and a Gentleman, I

10:06

remember watching that movie. I

10:08

think I've seen it twenty five times, and

10:11

I was obsessed with it. And I was very young, and

10:13

I had no business watching an Officer

10:15

and a Gentleman at the age that I

10:17

started watching it. It was weird, but

10:19

I did and I loved it. Anyways. At

10:22

Chloe two, thousand and nine, Underscore

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thirteen, Eric, If you could be on any other

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ABC show, which one would it be?

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My own spin off of the Rookie? No,

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I have no idea.

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How would you call that?

10:36

I have no idea.

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Tim Bradford, No, I don't know.

10:38

I'm just joking.

10:39

We'll Trent Tim Bradford would

10:41

be amazing.

10:42

I'm joking. I don't know.

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Well, I'm not joking. Let's all

10:46

petition for a spin off of

10:48

The Rookie called Tim Bradford.

10:50

Not now dedicated, but at some point in my show.

10:52

I don't want to be at another on any other show, Oh

10:55

my god. Or maybe Gray's Anatomy.

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Maybe Gray's Anatomy.

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Okay, um Britt

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Michaels scene. Sorry, I don't

11:06

know how to pronounce it. But do your kids have a

11:08

project of yours that is their favorite?

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We don't let them watch much of our stuff, to

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be honest, I don't think that. I mean you let them watch Fantasy

11:17

Island, which would drive me crazy because you had loved kissing

11:20

scene.

11:20

I never saw that they did.

11:22

I was in the room when I saw them. See

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that's not true. We thought about that anyways,

11:27

I said, turn that off. Watching this.

11:29

I've been trying to show Sabella

11:32

The Game Plan, which is a movie that

11:34

kids love, and she's like, uh.

11:36

They like Taste the Summer. They thought it was cute when

11:38

we did the Hallmark movie together. Yeah, but I mean

11:40

that's the only thing they've ever really seen.

11:42

I don't know. They want to watch the Rookie. I

11:44

know that. I mean, do you know what the Dylan's I think

11:47

Dylan heard Sabella said something about dad, you know

11:49

that rookies at Disney Pluse I can watch

11:51

it now. So he grabbed his iPad the next

11:53

day, right, I'm in the kitchen and she goes

11:56

start scrolling and fine, he's

11:58

at the Disney Plus. I guess finds I

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think it was nine one one.

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Yeah, you showed me, so I think that's how you're showing I know.

12:03

And then he is like, mom, is this that? Is

12:06

this a Rookie? And I'm going no, that's a different show.

12:08

So can I watch the Rookie? No? No, you can't watch the

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Rookie? You're too young.

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What drives you both to straight your own business outside of acting?

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It's a good question.

12:25

Do you have a good answer, because we believe

12:28

that nowadays it's very important

12:31

to diversify, especially

12:33

the way this business is

12:35

the climate nowadays, it's it's

12:38

very hard, and the jobs are very

12:40

limited. So at some point you just don't

12:42

want to be a work for hire anymore.

12:44

You know, you want to be able to control your destiny. So

12:47

the way of doing that is especially for me and

12:49

Eric, because we well, you get graduated

12:51

from college and you have a degree, but I didn't,

12:54

so all I know is acting. So

12:56

if this doesn't work, what am I going to do? So

12:59

at my age, with my experience and my resources

13:01

and my connections and my mind and your

13:04

mind and these combined forces

13:06

that we have together, we decided,

13:09

you know, we don't want to depend on acting anymore.

13:11

We don't want to depend on this business. It's too

13:13

unstable, it's annoying, it's

13:15

putting your future in somebody's

13:18

hands, and I'm

13:20

done with that. So let's just be

13:22

entrepreneurial and let's just create

13:24

brands that we believe people

13:27

will enjoy.

13:28

And I think we both like your dad was a business

13:30

person, we're both very business My dad was as well. We're

13:33

both very business minded. Ros has a

13:35

lot of creative ideas. I definitely

13:37

love the business side of things. So I think it's always been

13:39

a passion of ours. It's not just something

13:41

that we've thrown out there. Now. This has been years

13:43

and years of us talking about different things, what can

13:45

we do? Before that became very common

13:48

now in our business. It is the way of the

13:50

future. Every actor is diversifying

13:52

in what they're doing. Everybody, whether

13:54

it's I'm going to start producing, I'm going to start directing,

13:56

I'm going to be a writer and an actor and a producer

13:58

and a director, or I'm gonna have a brand, It's

14:01

very common these days.

14:03

Whitney Lee Davis, is there any

14:06

special significance with your wedding

14:08

bands? They are beautiful, thank

14:10

you.

14:12

I don't know if there's a special significance to

14:14

the design of the bands.

14:17

Now there is because I remember telling you

14:19

that you knew that Michael Barron, that Juror

14:23

I loved, and every time I will go

14:25

to his store, I will go gaga.

14:27

So you got me ring

14:30

from my.

14:31

Favorite All of the rings were designed by Michael

14:33

Barra, So there was that significance, but there's

14:35

not Outside of that, there's no personal But

14:37

on the inside, we have something engraved

14:40

that's very special to us. A

14:42

saying that we always say that's on the inside of

14:44

the band, So there is some something in

14:47

that, you know, it's part of it.

14:50

The ker check Sonia

14:53

from Portugal. Oh my god, she's

14:56

asking what advice would you give the parents to parents

14:59

whose kids want to go into

15:01

acting.

15:01

Oh, well, we just touched on that. We just touched

15:03

on that. Funny enough, so your question, it's pretty

15:05

great. Listen, you got to support them.

15:08

You have to support the endeavor. Sabella

15:10

has a lot of friends actually that are very passionate about

15:12

being in dance or theater or performing

15:15

arts in general. You have to support

15:17

them. But I think you really have

15:20

to be present for everything they want to do, especially

15:23

today. I mean I would never be a standby

15:26

sort of parent. I would be definitely

15:28

a like a mamager, right, you'd

15:31

be all, you be fierce, you'd

15:33

be fully in everything. We both will be very

15:35

involved in what they're doing for their own safety

15:37

and guidance. But I think you have

15:39

to really help them develop a thick skin. That's

15:42

the biggest advice. It is not easy.

15:45

I said that Tasabella right out the gate. You're going to

15:47

be told no a thousand times.

15:49

Yeah, it's hard, hard, and you're going to be judged.

15:52

Does being a parent ever affect your emotions

15:55

acting when there is perhaps a tough storyline

15:57

about children.

16:01

Yeah, on dred

16:04

percent, Yeah, I think when

16:06

there's a listen, being a

16:08

parent can affect your acting in the

16:10

best of ways because you have something to pull from, You

16:13

can relate something that's if it's traumatizing,

16:16

it can affect you because if you think about your own child, they can

16:19

you can dive deep into the character of what they're going through.

16:21

But also when you're just going through your own drama

16:24

at home with your kids or your family,

16:26

it's also difficult. You have to be able to really shut

16:28

that off and go to work and then now jump into a character

16:30

and stay true to that character who's not dealing with

16:33

your own personals. Yeah.

16:34

You know what, there's different methods to acting,

16:36

you know, and a lot of people use the method

16:39

which.

16:39

Is which is more of an American style.

16:42

You actually pull from your own experiences,

16:44

right, and you relive trauma

16:46

from your childhood from experiences

16:49

and a lot of people that do that. It's incredible and it's

16:51

very effective, but it can be really really draining,

16:53

and you can get into this cycle

16:56

of mental health weakness

16:58

and issues is very powerful.

17:00

Or there's another technique, which is don't use

17:03

your personal life just to protect

17:05

that aura of yourself. Create and create,

17:07

use your imagination.

17:09

When I was not a parent, which my understanding

17:11

is more of the British approach.

17:13

Correct and it's actually to me

17:15

even more powerful to be honest with you. But anyways,

17:18

I remember when I was not a parent

17:21

and I wasn't thinking about having kids. Every time

17:23

that I had to do something very traumatic and that I had

17:25

to cry, I will think

17:28

if I had a kid, and I'll start thinking about what if

17:30

I get a phone call that my kid has

17:33

cancer? Or like I was always, I would use something

17:35

like that to get me there using my imagination. Then

17:37

I became a parent and it was unbearable

17:40

for me to use

17:42

that. So something that works for me a

17:44

lot is I love my dogs like

17:46

they're my kids, like I push them and deliver

17:48

them, and I will think about Mota and

17:51

her passing, or I would think about

17:53

my dogs, and it really

17:55

works because it makes me want

17:58

to die. Basically, Okay,

18:02

Ross, do you use any special hair

18:05

care products you can recommend it? Oh,

18:08

my goodness, I use I've

18:11

used them. All. I don't know what am I using specifically

18:15

right now. I don't even know the name of the brand,

18:17

guys, but I mix a lot of stuff. Oh you know what.

18:19

I actually the latest one I bought was

18:22

Vegamore. Is that how you call that product?

18:24

I think it's Vegamore. The packaging is beautiful,

18:26

it smells delicious, and it's supposed to be good,

18:28

and it's super clean and it

18:31

helps with hair growth, and I'm

18:33

liking it. I'm liking it.

18:36

At Dylan's fan xox

18:39

ros. Where did your love for animals come from?

18:42

I want to hear this answer.

18:44

I don't know. I think I grew

18:47

up with a little poodle named Genie.

18:50

Genie lasted maybe sixteen years. It

18:54

was very traumatic because she was kind of like sick,

18:56

and I remember going to my father

18:58

never care for Ginnie. And

19:01

I went to school. I'll never forget. I went to school,

19:04

and for whatever reason, my dad picked me up that

19:07

day, which is honestly the

19:09

only time in my entire life that I remember

19:11

my dad picking me up from school. I don't even

19:14

know why that happened. So I go out. My

19:16

dad is waiting for me. I

19:19

get in the car and he goes, well,

19:22

something happened today, and I was like

19:24

what, and he goes, Gene

19:27

is not longer part of the family. She's gone, So

19:29

what do you mean we put her to

19:32

sleep? I passed

19:34

out pretty much. And now to

19:36

this day I was like, why would

19:38

he say like that? And

19:41

why did it happen without telling us

19:44

the children? It was bizarre. Anyways,

19:47

fast forward too, I never had

19:49

a dog after that in Puerto Rico. I moved

19:51

to the States and

19:55

I get my first dog over here, German shepherd,

19:57

and I was madly in love with that dog. Then

20:00

Mota, then Uzzo, then Jack, then

20:02

Marocca and Archie, and they just kept coming.

20:04

And I think a lot of it is it.

20:06

It built. It wasn't just that you love

20:08

dogs. It built into more of a passion and it built

20:10

it.

20:10

Yeah, And I think because

20:13

there was a point in my life that Mota

20:16

my last apps for that lasted

20:19

twenty years.

20:19

Guys.

20:20

It was amazing twenty years of my life. That dog

20:22

was with me. She traveled with me everywhere, and

20:25

the good terms, on the bad times, my constant,

20:27

my rock was Mota.

20:31

You see, I can I can't think about it anyways, I can't talk about

20:33

it anymore. I love them.

20:35

What happened to the razon that used to like shoot lizards

20:37

with the baby gun and feed them they fish?

20:40

I care for animals, she

20:43

said.

20:43

She used to tell me she's

20:45

so petrified of lizards growing up in

20:47

Puerto Rico.

20:48

I used to kill that.

20:49

And I love reptiles. She used to like shoot

20:52

them with baby guns and then feed them

20:54

to her pet fish. Guys, how, she

20:56

says, I don't know if I.

20:57

Believe as my family

20:59

told.

21:00

Definitely afraid of Yeah. And she's

21:02

also a girl now that would like doesn't even like to hurt

21:05

a bug that's a house. She'd like to hear animals

21:07

at all.

21:07

The only animal that I got I don't mind killing

21:10

is mosquitoes. I can't stand

21:12

them. But but

21:15

I have a thing with animals. I was

21:17

doing a movie in Toronto, right,

21:21

and I was at this hotel, and I had

21:23

a fly. When a mosca a fly? Right,

21:25

how do you call a fly a mosca? I

21:27

became and she stayed with me the entire duration

21:30

of my freaking stay in

21:32

Toronto, inside my room. Granted

21:35

there's housekeeping, the open doors never

21:38

left, and that moscow will come all

21:40

the way to me.

21:41

I have videos of it all the way.

21:43

I would joke with lyric about it all

21:45

the way to me and just say it like basically looking

21:47

at me in Toronto when I did

21:49

ice wine Christmas. But fly

21:54

enormosquito, fly the

21:56

mosca a fly? Okay, fly?

21:58

The flies go to everybody, So

22:01

flies land on everybody? They don't They land

22:03

on everything and anything. They don't just

22:06

throwing up. Have you ever flies

22:08

land on things and then vomit? Yeah,

22:10

they do.

22:10

You're missing the point again. My

22:13

connection with animals have.

22:14

No bond with a fly.

22:15

I did.

22:16

Her connection gets a little bit cuckoo.

22:19

She does. She had a connection with this parrotfish

22:21

that was at our house that would attack the

22:24

tank. But it would do it to me too.

22:25

It does it with everybody, Eric Winter, did

22:27

you honestly believe that I didn't have a

22:29

connection with Oscar de la joy our fish?

22:32

Do you honestly believe that you

22:34

had a connection that this fish saw the same

22:37

shadow over and over and over go to the tank.

22:39

You don't get it.

22:39

But it had a connection with you just because you

22:41

don't have it had a connection. Don't

22:44

you didn't have a connection with the most Yes,

22:46

I did. Know you didn't fly.

22:50

Vomiting, It was throwing over doesn't Oh

22:52

my god, you so so

22:55

doesn't get it.

22:56

H O dot zero eight from

22:58

Germany asked, how did your propose? What happened?

23:00

If you were willing to share, that's

23:03

a very long story. But to

23:06

make a long story.

23:06

Short, in Puerto Rico a fluoros florist.

23:09

Florissan Bay just

23:11

fluorescent bay in the world or second largest or something

23:13

like that on the island, and I had

23:15

it and we were in a kayak and I

23:18

had it all set up and I was going to propose while we were

23:20

on the kayak and Rosland panicked because the tour guy

23:22

knew what was going on and left us alone. And she's screaming

23:24

in Spanish with the guy. The guy's confused, He's

23:26

like back and forth, doesn't know if he should stay with us, not stay

23:29

with us. I'm trying to propose. I can't get a word

23:31

out because she's screaming and panic. It was

23:34

kind of a mess and kind

23:36

of a comedy show. It

23:38

was like I'd say something, she says something. I'd say

23:40

something, she says something. I couldn't get a word out to

23:42

propose, And at the end of the day. I said,

23:44

do you want to marry me or not? She said yes,

23:46

Oh my god. I said, don't touch the ring you're gonna drop in the water.

23:48

And we went back to shore. It was very funny.

23:51

It was it was romantic and funny and a mess

23:53

all at the same time.

23:54

And vees Puerto Rico. I want you to take

23:56

this one.

23:58

At Hannah Free.

23:58

Yeah.

23:59

Do you have any advice for a graduate who is

24:01

not sure what they should do first to

24:03

start being an adult? Why don't you want to take that answer?

24:06

Because it's very it's too heady,

24:08

and I'm still a little stressed and sleepy,

24:11

and I don't know if I can give you an intelligent,

24:13

educating answer.

24:15

If you're a graduate, you graduated with a degree in

24:17

something, I'm assuming it

24:19

is something you want to pursue. If it's more general

24:23

and you still don't know what you should do first, I mean, look,

24:25

if.

24:25

It's in the path of what you graduated first to

24:28

start being an adult, yeah.

24:29

But if it's in the path of what you wanted to start to do,

24:32

then maybe try to get an internship somewhere, try

24:34

to learn, try to get out in the workforce a bit,

24:37

and explore your your major and what you're

24:39

hoping to accomplish. See if it speaks to you. If you're

24:41

still happy and you're passionate.

24:43

About it, this is my advice I

24:45

can think now if

24:48

you still live, No, don't follow the heart, follow

24:50

the money anyways.

24:51

What if you gotta do both can

24:54

follow the money.

24:55

What if you're miserable, be smart, and hopefully

24:57

you're graduated for.

24:58

Something, follow the money and be miss I hope you.

25:00

Graduated from something that is that

25:03

the workplace is looking for, not

25:05

a degree that is going to be struggle,

25:08

struggle, struggle because nobody cares anyways.

25:10

I just watched the whole podcast about that. That's why I

25:12

said that comment. Like before, I'll be all

25:14

about follow your passion, which I agree,

25:16

follow your heart, which I one

25:18

hundred percent agree. But nowadays,

25:21

guys, be smart. Just try

25:23

to gravitate towards things

25:26

that you know will pay your bills anyway.

25:28

And help you grow as a person.

25:30

Yeah, but this is my advice. If you graduate and

25:32

you are still living with your parents,

25:35

the first step to adulthood is get

25:37

out. Get out and

25:40

stop being with Mama and Dada and

25:43

go and explore the world by

25:45

yourself and take responsibility, pay rent,

25:48

get credit. And that's one

25:50

thing. Number two is if you're so confused

25:52

about what you want to do, you know what's a wonderful thing

25:54

that is an incredible open

25:58

door for adulthood. Travel. Just

26:00

say you know what, I'm just going to travel for

26:02

a little bit. If you have the money, if

26:04

you can do it very cheap, and just travel

26:07

and see what interests you and see

26:09

where you feel that your soul belongs and

26:11

then.

26:11

Make this sense will definitely help you start being an adult. Now

26:14

we're gonna jump, but last question, just very fast.

26:17

What's your biggest pet peeve that you have about

26:19

each other? I would say when Roselynd is

26:21

stressed out and grumpy and brushes it out on me. Okay,

26:23

peace out, I gotta go bye.

26:24

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