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This is, he said a Yadiho with

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Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantaz. Hello,

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good morning, good morning, good afternoon.

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When by

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the way, I've had a few,

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he said, listeners talk about which we're

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going to do. I think for our next episode we're going

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to post on our social and we're going to open

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up to listener questions. We want to hear

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whatever you guys are thinking. We want

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to know, we want to talk about it. We want to tackle it. So

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we will put that post up and make sure you drop

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in your questions so we can we can talk about

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it on the next episode.

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I forgot my retainer

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again.

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That's your retainer doesn't even exist.

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But why am I doing that?

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You don't even use it?

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It's so weird. Well, you know, surprisingly,

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my Joe has been doing better.

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I don't know how. I don't know how is that possible?

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Maybe because of all the other stuff that I'm doing.

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Inflammation is going down, things are moving around.

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Can we talk about it's cooking.

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Let me tell you all how proud I am of myself

1:00

for keeping my cool this weekend. What happened

1:02

because I took Dylan to

1:05

Lego Land for one

1:07

of his good friend's birthdays, and let

1:11

me tell you, you should definitely stay. It's a

1:13

great It was a great experience. Lego Land was

1:16

fantastic for the kids and they were They treated

1:18

us so well. But if you're ever going

1:20

down there, stay down there. I

1:22

decided to drive down for the day. Everything's going

1:24

great, We're on track. Thank god my wife

1:26

or my daughter were not with us, because I

1:29

have been a disaster. I

1:31

get a flat tire, which I haven't had in I

1:33

don't even know. I've had nails in my tires.

1:35

You had to plug them. I had a flat tire

1:38

on the freeway, had to pull off basically

1:41

forty five minutes to get triple A. Had

1:43

to go with the doughnut tire can't go over fifty. I

1:45

have another, I don't know, seventy miles

1:47

to get to Lego Land. So I find a Mercedes dealer.

1:49

I get them to swap my tire. Now I'm

1:52

behind three hours. So our hour and

1:54

forty five minute trip to Lego Land took

1:56

me over three hours to get

1:58

there. Did Lego Land for

2:00

however, many hours. Came back and

2:02

my other tire was flat at the end of the

2:04

night. Had to fill it with air overfill

2:07

it and basically I'm driving home

2:09

super late at night, monitoring as

2:12

the psis drop every ten

2:14

miles. I'm dropping psid do all the

2:16

way down, trying to make it home. My trip

2:19

ended up taking about seven hours total,

2:21

or like six hours of my day.

2:23

I am so glad I was.

2:25

I'd been there or my daughter. By the way, they

2:27

were boking, Oh my god, this is ridiculous. On that

2:29

car is a car, is a jigs. Everything

2:31

happens with that car.

2:32

Everything happens with that car.

2:34

Was such a champ. Our little

2:36

boy was so good. He was he was so

2:38

scared and panicked about my tire being flat, and he

2:40

was just so supportive and down

2:42

for the adventure. And my wife and my daughter

2:45

would.

2:45

In the meantime, I was at the

2:47

Grove, which is this fabulous outdoor.

2:51

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I was with our daughter and we had a blast

3:28

and then sebid Inssa Hudgens

3:30

and Nicky reed and

3:33

then we had Sabella

3:35

had her first disco,

3:38

my dance party one of her

3:40

kids at her class. It was his birthday

3:42

and they threw this neon. We talked

3:44

about it, guys. So

3:46

Eric was in Lego Land Nightmare and

3:50

now let's.

3:50

Not say Legoland was great.

3:51

I was in Traveling Nimer

3:54

and I had to go take Sabella

3:56

at seven to her disco thing, which is a drop

3:58

off. But I was like, you know what, I haven't met

4:01

I know the parents, but I haven't seen them in a long time. I've

4:03

never been to this house, so I just want to walk her

4:05

in. She's mortified because she's like,

4:07

mom, she doesn't want me to go, but

4:10

I walk her in.

4:11

The house was stunning.

4:13

The entire thing. It's decorated in neon

4:15

colors. When I'm talking about this pizza

4:17

station, this graffiti station, this

4:19

mocktail station, dance floor

4:22

DJ it was that

4:24

party was lit. I couldn't believe my eyes.

4:27

I was like, I want to stay here, like this

4:29

is I want to be part of this party. Of course

4:31

she dismissed me, so I had to.

4:35

Yeah, so I left, and then three hours later, at

4:37

ten o'clock at night, I pick her up.

4:39

The thing is going.

4:41

It was like like a rave fantastic.

4:44

I pick her up.

4:45

She gets in the car, she is so

4:48

happy. She goes, this is the best day

4:50

of my.

4:51

Life to a mocktail station DJs.

4:53

All these different desserts and treats

4:56

and hydrogen. It was amazing, like pirates

4:58

booty or like smoke coming.

4:59

Out how a party should be done.

5:01

Yeah, it was incredible.

5:02

But then she Now the pressure is on, guys, because do you know that I

5:04

have to do something incredible enough for her next birthday.

5:07

I'm already I'm already planning. You

5:09

know, she turns, she's gonna go from a

5:12

team will be a big one. Do you call it a tweety?

5:14

Now?

5:14

From from from between to

5:16

a team?

5:16

Yeah, it's a Prepper team.

5:18

Guys is gonna be on that party.

5:20

We have to do something. Here's what I will say, so

5:23

emotional. So she

5:26

she doesn't she doesn't really have a phone, Like I don't want

5:28

her to have a phone where she's calling, so she

5:30

has, but she has a phone. She likes. It's like a night

5:32

and that an AirPod, right. She likes to listen to music

5:35

and she likes to do all that

5:37

with her with her phone. We travel for tennis,

5:39

but she also takes her pictures with it, and all the pictures

5:41

come to my phone. So anyways, she I

5:43

guess rose on the ladder to take this to the party, which I

5:45

would not have but I'm glad she did because she was capturing

5:47

memories from her you know, night out. But when

5:50

I watched, because they all came up to upload

5:52

into my cloud to my phone. When I saw these

5:54

videos, I was I was crying. It

5:56

was really weird, super

5:58

emotional because I was like, oh my god, we don't

6:00

have a kid anymore, a baby. She's

6:03

dancing and you know, just like

6:05

acting like a young lady.

6:07

It was really difficult for me. I didn't like

6:10

it. I mean I did like it for her because

6:12

I know it's part of the growth and the journey,

6:14

but it was really hard for me.

6:16

And then on top of it all, we go to the

6:18

Pasadena Playhouse, to this beautiful

6:20

theater in Pasadena to watch

6:23

a play written by a friend, Gloria

6:25

Callete, and it

6:28

was about the Latino experience, about

6:30

this, how this will to do Latino family.

6:32

They have an only child, which is a daughter.

6:34

The daughter goes to college and now she comes

6:36

back home and announces to the

6:38

parents I have a boyfriend. They meet

6:41

the boyfriend for the first time and it happens

6:43

to be that she is married and she's

6:45

pregnant, so all hilarity

6:48

ensues. It was so phenomenal,

6:50

But it's about their baby girl, only

6:53

child, only child, becoming

6:55

a woman, and how as Latinos,

6:58

you know, how how you navigate

7:00

that world of your daughter eloping

7:03

and not telling you anything about I just got

7:05

married, and how the mom's a Latino

7:07

woman is devastated. So it was all about

7:10

his coming of age story, about

7:12

this girl and her parents an

7:15

identity, you know, and and how

7:18

if you're Latino that don't speak Spanish you

7:20

feel a very certain way. And then if your husband's

7:22

it's fluent, and he's fully assimulated

7:25

but still holds onto his roots.

7:27

How it's different from you.

7:28

I mean, Gloria covered every single topic imaginable

7:32

and it was so fantastic.

7:33

So we left and I tell you.

7:34

Think And on top of that, after coming out of this party, I.

7:36

Was Eric is crying because Sebbe

7:38

is going to a dance party and now Eric is

7:40

crying.

7:41

Lose my mind. If she ever came home and

7:43

Zach got married without telling you, and

7:45

I'm pregnant, I'll lose my

7:48

mind.

7:48

What do you do?

7:50

Like?

7:50

What will you do?

7:51

What?

7:52

I lose my mind? I go supporter a supporter, I

7:54

lose my mind. Though at first I'd be so sad.

7:57

But will you cheer her out?

8:00

Can you do now it's done? I mean, you have

8:02

to support her, but I would be really bummed

8:04

out. I don't know if I would cheer out, but I

8:06

would probably go in a corner

8:08

and scream and be mad.

8:09

And then I come This is very interesting because the play

8:12

guy is the guy

8:14

that she's dating. He's Mexican

8:16

American right, and he comes in to meet

8:18

the parents for the first time, so self

8:20

assured, very outspoken,

8:23

a little too outspoken, right and very just

8:25

very educated kid. And the

8:27

dad played brilliantly by Carlos

8:29

Gomez. He's so annoyed

8:32

that he's meeting this kid for the

8:34

first time, and the kid has zero

8:36

fear or is showing zero

8:39

fear about me meeting the parents.

8:42

You, Eric Winter, the first

8:45

time that Sebby brings a boy to

8:47

the house saying or whoever to the house

8:49

saying, this is my partner and I'm

8:52

in love. Do you expect that person

8:55

to be to fear you or you want the person

8:57

to be like, hey, mister Winter, how are you? And talk

8:59

to you like an equal and you're just

9:01

I want.

9:02

The person to respect me. I don't want them to fear

9:04

me. I don't want you

9:06

want fear, for sure, don't even

9:08

the furthest thing from that. You'd be exactly like Lana

9:10

was in that movie, Oh my God. So

9:13

try to be happy until something turns sideways.

9:15

I wouldn't turn sideways. I'd be like, hey, do you

9:17

need to check yourself?

9:18

I definitely want I wouldn't be I

9:20

don't know if I want, mister I mean, they don't have to

9:22

do all that. I don't know.

9:24

Of course, I have to said mister Winter. You're not gonna say Hi, Eric,

9:26

how are You'll be like, what the heck are you talking about? It's mister Winter

9:28

and Missentias. Really, that's why I told Sabella

9:31

already about the kid that she believes

9:33

is her boyfriend, and I said, when he talks to me, tell him

9:35

that I'm Missanchez. She said, She's

9:37

like, Mah, You've been ridiculous, and I'm

9:39

going you better tell that he

9:41

doesn't even look at me, that.

9:42

He's already scared. That's good and.

9:44

Good for him. I wanted to be scared. I wanted to be scared.

9:47

They yeah, I don't

9:49

know. Yeah, a little bit of respect. I want to try

9:51

to be understanding. I'm hoping I'll grow with this in

9:53

the p.

9:54

Is a kid that just by

9:56

looking at him, you go, it's a butt

9:58

seed.

9:59

Oh no, I don't like the vibe.

10:01

I don't like the energy. That's if

10:03

we know that the parents are a little iffy.

10:04

That's going to be hard family.

10:07

That would be much harder, because especially if the kid, even

10:09

if he's respectful, but I know this is

10:11

a bad seed that we were really tough. What

10:13

do you do? The more you go at him, the more she's

10:15

gonna go opposite of you. Has

10:17

already made those comments to me, like the more you tell me

10:19

I can't do something, the more it makes me want to do it. She's

10:22

already said that that's crazy, which is typical teenage

10:24

behavior.

10:26

Yeah, but to be able to verbalize that, like I

10:28

never told myself there.

10:29

I will act on it and I will do it.

10:31

My mom will tell me something and she will be

10:33

like, you cannot see that person, and I'll be like, okay,

10:35

now I really like him.

10:36

But I never said to her flat out, the

10:38

more you tell me no, the more I'm going to do it.

10:40

She'll slap me.

10:42

No.

10:42

I would agree with that. There's

10:52

a headline some dating coaches

10:54

online are pushing women to seek

10:56

more traditional gender roles. Dating

10:59

coach carl Ella tells women

11:01

not to go out with a man who is nice or

11:03

who treats you right, but one who

11:05

can afford them smart

11:08

smart smart. You don't want to be

11:10

treated nice or right to someone that can afford your lifestyle.

11:12

I want to know advice. While highly's

11:15

not saying that, I want to criticized by some who

11:17

have seen her videos, has dominated the pocket pockets

11:19

of the internet and depicts heterosexual

11:21

romance as a deal between men and women in

11:23

which women are receivers and men are providers.

11:27

I like that, like

11:29

the ant the

11:33

receiver.

11:33

I want equality be the receiver. I want to be

11:35

able. I'm nice, kind and I can

11:37

support myself. So I want my men to be.

11:41

A man who can afford you. You can afford yourself, I know.

11:43

But it's the it's knowing that if

11:45

this is the fan, he's he's there to provide.

11:47

And I want to know that it's a fan. You're going to receive.

11:50

What do you mean.

11:52

You're a receiver? Receiver, You got

11:54

to receive everything. You got to be the one that I'm going to be

11:57

the provider. I'm gonna like me. You have to be

11:59

open to receiving whatever I'm auditioning

12:01

out. You can't just

12:03

be demanding what you want.

12:05

I'm not demanding anything.

12:06

You can't be in control all the time.

12:09

I'm so confused right now. I

12:14

want to be sufficient and i want to I'm

12:18

saying I'm confused the receiver. More of you

12:20

can you can like the woman

12:22

provides and the man provides. Oh,

12:25

you take the more traditional domestic role. You

12:29

could work, but you don't have to be the

12:32

provider. You don't have to worry about all of those.

12:34

You know, maybe maybe I don't have to be the provider,

12:36

but I want to know that if something happens, I can provide.

12:39

I don't like, you know how, I have an issue with being

12:41

dependent.

12:42

I cannot be understand that you're very stressed out

12:44

about that for whatever reason.

12:45

And listen, and it's also like, you know, what's so interesting,

12:47

like and this is something that ladies

12:49

you know, and I wish I had.

12:51

The maturity or the tools to understand.

12:55

Things as simple as and he has nothing

12:57

to do with because it was like I'm going to give you, like a dating

12:59

experience with somebody that that wonderful,

13:02

wonderful person, great family.

13:04

He was just amazing.

13:05

Right But the first time I went to his place

13:08

and I saw the place, and I saw the bedroom.

13:11

What we're doing in his bedroom? I don't want to talk about this anymore.

13:13

No, I wasn't doing anything in the bedroom. I'm just I'm

13:15

talking about looking at the best disgusting.

13:17

It was such a mess.

13:19

Listen to me, it was such a mess.

13:22

It was such a mess,

13:24

Eric Winter, I'm talking about

13:27

insane.

13:28

Why were you in his bedroom?

13:29

Like an earthquake because I saw

13:31

you do as a grown us woman. I was in my twenties. It was okay,

13:34

what why are you telling me the story? You're

13:36

missing? I

13:39

wish I would have been like, you know what I'm working.

13:41

I want to change. I was in

13:43

some women's bedroom.

13:45

I want to talk about that every night if you were in my bedroom.

13:47

Every single night.

13:48

We're talking about

13:49

I'm

13:52

talking about.

13:53

About Dame Cleans, I'll you about

13:55

I'm not talking about dating anything.

13:56

I'm talking about his bedroom.

13:58

We want to talk about that.

14:00

Go ahead yourself, you want to share, tell

14:04

me all about it.

14:05

Shaved when she works, when she cleaned,

14:08

she smell rosy.

14:11

God.

14:12

Anyway you want to talk about it.

14:13

I'm not gonna talk about it because I want to keep the harmony

14:15

in my relationship.

14:16

You're missing the point. I finished my startle.

14:20

But this is what's okay. Whatever the place, live, the living

14:22

room. It was such a mess that

14:25

knowing like in

14:27

hind hindsight, right, I

14:30

want I want to sending to be this kind of girl. She

14:32

walks in, she's assesses

14:34

the situation. Place is a

14:36

freaking mess. Get out whatever

14:39

she's at, even if it's the kitchen. Walk in

14:41

walk out, realize this person

14:43

is a mess. I don't tolerate that,

14:48

and very few women have that. You

14:50

just settled.

14:50

You just go like, it's okay, he's a little dirty, but

14:53

yeah, he's a mess. He's a slob,

14:55

but he's so nice.

14:56

Okay. So here's one of the things that I actually

14:59

think is this. One of the advice is you know, a piece of

15:01

advice they're giving is that when you're in

15:03

the dating space that

15:05

you should you should treat it as a bit of a game

15:08

or a strategy to win, to attract

15:11

a man who's willing to pay the

15:13

bills, spoil his partner gifts and

15:15

you know, fund the lavish lifestyle. Now I don't

15:18

know about all of that.

15:20

Important, but the coach

15:22

suggest the follow coach,

15:25

but I love the game.

15:26

I always say this about dating, and I

15:28

have to say dating for

15:31

me, I don't think you ever really like dating, probably

15:33

like I actually think dating is a lot of fun, like especially

15:36

first day, even if they go bad. I used to love

15:39

No, it's so fun getting to know somebody, even if it's

15:41

going sideways and you pay for the dinner and you have you know

15:43

whatever, you never's not going to go any further. I

15:45

love the whole one on one and getting to know somebody. But the

15:48

thing that's fun about dating, and maybe, like I said,

15:50

I don't think you like this is I agree, there is

15:52

a strategy. There's a game that has to be

15:54

played. People like the chase. They

15:57

like the pursuit. That's the animal nature, like you want

15:59

to. As soon as somebody just caves

16:01

or they don't make you chase or pursue, I think

16:03

people lose interest.

16:04

So then how do you deal with marriage.

16:06

You've been with me for eighteen years, you

16:08

already got me, and you like the chase

16:11

so much.

16:11

You still make me all the time. So

16:13

it's not like.

16:14

You're like the dating getting to know

16:16

you.

16:17

Constantly on the chase with you. Because it's like I was, oh

16:19

my god, here she made a right, she made a left, like a chase her again.

16:21

I'm like, it's

16:25

never a dull moment. I'm

16:28

gonna have to keep it like that is very good. Otherwise

16:30

we get bored. No, I agree, I

16:32

agree.

16:32

Don't get bored on me. Huh, don't get

16:35

bored.

16:35

I ain't getting bored and getting bored. You're

16:37

a lot of fun when you want to be when I want

16:40

to be when you want to be. When you're not just mouth guard in

16:42

and pajamas in bed, you're a lot of fun.

16:44

Wow, you know what.

16:44

I'm watching it and now you just watched a good mood.

16:46

You know.

16:46

I'm watching this. I can't leave not watching it. This

16:49

documentary on the New Patriot

16:51

fascinating. It's so good, it's

16:53

so well done. Somebody Imagine Entertainment.

16:56

They did such a good job with this documentary. That's totally did

16:58

fall asleep, No, I always fall asleep, but

17:00

I mean, I just it's something

17:03

that we totally

17:05

switched skiers from. Like it's

17:09

on Apple TV. I think people should really like it. Whether you love

17:12

or hate the Patriots, I think it's a great.

17:14

Do you believe all the negative stuff that they're exposing,

17:16

Yeah, I.

17:17

Think all that stuff no way.

17:18

Do you think they were looking at the coaching

17:21

that.

17:21

Was proven he got spending? Yeah yeah, but everybody

17:23

does that. This is what happened with the Astros back

17:26

in like their past World Series victory.

17:28

They were stealing signs. People do this all

17:30

the time, you just can't get caught, and they were video

17:32

in it. That was the issue. So people

17:34

steal.

17:35

Signs anythink that was what is his name, Goliski,

17:37

Chaliski the coach?

17:39

What is his name? Belichick?

17:41

There's Gronkowski Belichick.

17:43

Do you think Belichick is the one that wanted that

17:46

order?

17:46

Somebody is the one that got nailed.

17:48

So how is it posible that he's steal coaching because

17:50

he got he should be banned.

17:52

That was a lot of them we shouldn't be man, that was

17:54

a lot of the issue they said that didn't

17:56

suspend him, They didn't put him through enough.

17:59

They just find him And which wasn't that?

18:00

Do you think that what's his name? The

18:03

love of your life, Tom Brady.

18:04

Love of my life Island Sanchez.

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Tom Brady? Do you think it was proven

18:08

that he it was like the weight on the on the balls.

18:11

That episode yet? But I can't wait to get to that.

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Is he cheater?

18:14

Like everybody in professional

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sports to some degree.

18:19

They don't say that they don't break rules.

18:21

Into in some capacity. They do. It's just a matter

18:23

of who gets caught. There's always little

18:25

things they they would talk about when you go

18:27

to other arenas and you go to the

18:29

locker room and they leave it dirty, they leave

18:31

it smelly, or it's not comfortable. They always

18:33

want to get in players heads, like they would mess

18:35

with players at the hotel. They always there's

18:37

always something. I don't think it's

18:39

as extreme as maybe that all the time, but

18:42

I think everybody's trying to find a one up.

18:44

Well, I'm watching I saw American

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Fiction. This movie guys that

18:49

I highly recommend.

18:50

Not a new movie. It's an older movie.

18:52

No, it's new.

18:53

They just want the Oscar the guy just American.

18:57

Yeah, listen to me, I have

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one. I have a new got.

19:01

I think the writer wants something. I think the writer

19:04

want something. Let me tell you something. I am

19:06

obsessed with Jeffrey Wright.

19:08

That's a great actor. He

19:11

was in West World. He's fantastic.

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Oh's yeah, but

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you know I like him more on American Fiction. Of this movie,

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he's so good.

19:19

He's really good.

19:20

He's so good.

19:21

I was like, oh my god, Like my whole my dream

19:23

was always to work with al Pacino. To this day, hopefully

19:25

I will accomplish that. Before he howled how

19:27

Isino? He's getting there right up

19:29

there? Yeah, but I'm

19:31

all into I'm into Jeffrey

19:33

right, so good. Anyways,

19:36

what else I was going to tell you? I

19:39

have to tell you one more thing before we go.

19:42

We also have a one best

19:44

adapted screenplay. That's what it was

19:46

and is eighty three.

19:47

By the way, eighty three sometimes

19:51

time soon. Why do you say that?

19:52

Because I just don't see it happening.

19:54

Wow, thank you. I

19:56

appreciate that that's eighty

19:58

three. He can work onto his night.

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I just don't know that the timing is going to line up anyways.

20:03

Well whatever, maybe I

20:05

like him.

20:05

Anyways, we better get planning, our

20:08

making our spring break spring break

20:10

plans, and it's.

20:11

Going to be a blame.

20:12

Oh look on this woman says her fifty

20:15

thousand wedding ruined her life after

20:17

snowbowling out of control. Life

20:19

isn't a Disney movie.

20:22

I mean that's our wedding.

20:24

Was out of control as well, and I was super stressing.

20:26

Was crazy.

20:27

It was busier of my life. I had a blast.

20:28

But the planning, I believe

20:31

it when it's you do all this work and

20:33

it goes so fast

20:36

and everybody enjoys themselves more than you.

20:38

Although I have to say that it did enjoy myself like Crazy's.

20:40

Like she said, distress not only prevented her from enjoying

20:42

her wedding day, but it all. Finally it

20:44

impacted her months afterwards. I don't

20:47

discredit that there was so much Okay,

20:50

going back to Sabella, she ever got married without

20:52

telling us, I'd be pissed. How and I give her we

20:54

we we would give her the best wedding.

20:56

We would be you know, part of that and pay.

20:58

For We have to do my favor.

21:00

I just I don't want you.

21:01

I don't want you involved in her wedding. Allow me to

21:03

do it all and do the budget

21:05

because I.

21:06

Can go through the seller house to do her wedding.

21:08

We have to have to manage some of the finances.

21:10

No, don't manage anything because you're going to make it not

21:12

a great experience. Our wedding is going to

21:14

be all my planning.

21:15

It will be great. But my point

21:17

is there is a lot.

21:19

Of shows if she never wants to get married, she's

21:21

one of those chicks that goes. I don't. I don't believe

21:23

in married.

21:24

I can see that's just a paper. I see her wanting

21:26

to, but I just do think there's too much

21:28

stress put on this one

21:30

day that. Yeah,

21:34

the repercussions can go on long after. I mean financially,

21:36

it can really screw you up. People you know, put

21:38

too much money to that. They're even more about the down payment of

21:40

the house. They should be focusing on things like that. And

21:43

also it is supposed to be for

21:45

you, and people are so worried about how everybody

21:47

else is experiencing your day, so

21:49

it takes away from you.

21:50

Why some people elope and they

21:53

just keep it very simple. I'm very small.

21:54

I just think you can make it less stressful

21:56

by not doing too much. Can

22:00

you Can you handle that? Can you do that? You? Definitely?

22:02

Every when we got married, it was like you want to do more and more

22:04

and more it was and I was so stressed out.

22:06

It was epic.

22:07

It was great. It was It took us some time to recover

22:10

from it. It was definitely. It was an epic, giant

22:12

event.

22:13

It was awesome.

22:14

That was a stressful, beautiful.

22:16

Day, stressful, amazing.

22:17

So you think you have to spend all this money for a wedding.

22:20

You don't think it's worth it to just try to pace

22:22

yourself and do something nice and have it under control.

22:24

No, No, I feel

22:26

like it depends on on on the

22:28

family and if you can't afford it to go all out,

22:30

by all means go all out. If you can't

22:33

and you have to do something medium size. As

22:35

long as you make it meaningful and beautiful, that it means

22:37

something and you is fine. And if you want to make it with just three

22:39

people, you can still make it epic and make it stunning.

22:42

Okay, so we'll do that for Sabella's

22:45

thirteenth perty meaningful,

22:47

three people.

22:48

I don't know what she wants. I will make whatever

22:50

she wants to do. I'll make it epic, even if it's

22:52

even if we invite it.

22:53

All right, until next time, everybody

22:56

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