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M. Oh. M. Mom!
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Hi, everyone. I'm Jinx
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Monsoon, and welcome to Hi Jinx, a
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podcast where I, an internationally
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tolerated drag superstar,
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And I'm your host,
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Mom. And I'm your host, Mom. And
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business entrepreneurs,
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vocalists, Emmy-nominated
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after, and my
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mom, Willem.
2:13
Hi, Willem. Hello.
2:16
Well, both you and Alaska, the
2:20
producers of this show, both
2:22
don't know that you're supposed to say, hi,
2:24
Jinx. When I say, hi,
2:26
Willem.
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Oh. Hi, Jinx. Let's
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try to get... You
2:33
look like... What do you look like?
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You look like a Monster High doll right now.
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Girl, don't I look great? Yeah.
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Get up into the gig. Where'd
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your mustache go? We shaved
2:45
it. Yosemite Samantha's on remission right
2:47
now. Was there a
2:49
story behind that I missed?
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Yeah, it was good. Yeah, you did
2:54
look good. I'm just wondering. I'm
2:56
just wondering. You felt like growing a mustache?
2:59
You know,
3:01
a Yau Numu hair. I am a woman,
3:03
but
3:05
I can grow hair out of my face, and sometimes
3:07
I thought it could create a cool shape, so I did it.
3:10
And I had a back surgery. I had a replacement,
3:13
a disc replacement, L5S1,
3:16
and so I was down for a couple months. My
3:19
dad is the smartest man I know, because he said
3:22
as soon as he was done in the military and
3:24
didn't have to shave anymore, he said he would never shave his upper
3:26
lip again, and he never did. I've never seen
3:28
him without a mustache. So with my mustache, I felt
3:30
like I looked like my dad, and I loved that
3:33
because I love my dad. He's
3:35
so cool. He took me to my first drag show when I was 13. He
3:38
let me go to Rocky Horror while he was sleeping
3:40
in the car for the midnight showings for
3:43
more of a minute. My dad is the coolest
3:45
guy, so I was so happy. So you were just having fun
3:47
growing your facial hair? I was just being
3:50
fun. I don't know if I was able
3:52
to. But here's the thing is because both
3:54
you and Alaska, you curate
3:57
the experience.
4:01
You put a lot of thought into what you do.
4:03
So I kept saying
4:05
to people,
4:11
Willem's got a mustache now. Did
4:14
I miss something? And they'd say
4:16
she had back surgery.
4:18
And I'd go, I just don't get how
4:20
the one thing has to do with the other. But
4:23
I'm happy. What I was happy
4:25
was, you know what I was happy about?
4:28
Was someone who is obviously
4:31
so gorgeous, who has made her career
4:34
on being just, you know, the
4:37
Hollywood bombshell
4:39
that she is. Well, like you're aesthetic.
4:45
I was all over the goal. Lonnie Anderson.
4:47
I wanted to be Lonnie Anderson growing up because she
4:49
was in the tabloids married to Burt Reynolds all the time.
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I was like, I want to be this blonde lady with the fake tits.
4:54
It's so clear that, you know, you're going
4:56
for this Hollywood bombshell. But
4:59
what I love is, you know, you've
5:01
already proven that that's what you do
5:03
and you do that. And then you grew a handlebar
5:05
mustache. And it was kind of like
5:08
saying, look at all the things
5:10
that I can be. And I love
5:13
that. And it takes me to my first question.
5:18
You're used to getting probed, but
5:20
do you like a probing interview?
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I do, honestly. And like this is like
5:25
this feels like my safe space because you're such a
5:27
good friend. And it doesn't like we've, you know,
5:29
we've been in the trenches and toured.
5:31
Well, this is what I want to this is what I
5:33
want
5:33
to ask. And it's going to sound blunt. Well,
5:36
just remember question, question, compliment. Okay.
5:38
Sure. Well, I gave you. Here's
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the here's
5:43
the question. Do you think
5:46
your partnership
5:48
with Alaska
5:50
being business partners, creative
5:53
collaborators at all,
5:56
do you think it has made you a better human
5:58
being and a better drag queen?
6:00
100% the way that I recognize
6:04
that my paint changed when I used
6:06
to paint next to Detox and Vicky. And
6:09
I became better in that sense. Like
6:11
you run into other drag queens and you
6:14
learn from them, especially,
6:17
you know, she's so brilliant.
6:19
She's like, it mazes us all on the show with her creativity.
6:22
And like,
6:23
she and I have like, we
6:26
create
6:27
good stuff together. We both find this... We create
6:29
great stuff, objectively great
6:31
stuff together. I think we
6:33
were like, we're both from
6:35
Pennsylvania and we both have a lot of
6:37
the same like gay niche references, like
6:40
Party Girl and like Heather
6:42
Headley and Aida and like all these
6:45
weird like, you know, Linda
6:47
Etter songs that were in the Jekyll and Hyde workshop and
6:49
not the original cast
6:51
recording, like random weird
6:54
shit. And
6:56
I think that's, you know...
6:57
That's what bombs drag queens,
6:59
you know, drag, all
7:01
drag is so referential to
7:04
what we, the human being and the
7:06
artist personally has been affected
7:08
by in their life. That's what drag is. At
7:12
least that's how American drag,
7:14
that's where it's at. Plus
7:17
lunch ups and drink tickets. Yeah, and exposure.
7:19
You do it for exposure, right? Yeah.
7:23
So, you know, like you look at most
7:25
drag queens of the last hundred years
7:27
and it's like, it's all referential.
7:30
It's all referential. Just, you look at
7:32
bunny and it's all referential. So
7:35
of course that's something that bonds you.
7:39
Give me that flag, now hold
7:41
it up and then move it away. I
7:43
don't know what I'm gonna do now that they've discontinued
7:46
the powder from my wig. But
7:54
she got a new face, do you hear? No I
7:56
didn't hear. Yeah, she got all yank, vertical
7:58
and smooth. They
8:00
put a foot on the back of her neck and said, take
8:02
a deep breath. But
8:06
I think, I know 100% my
8:08
partnership with Della through the years
8:11
and my collaboration with Della. I've
8:13
become a better writer. I've
8:15
become a better performer. I
8:18
don't produce
8:20
the holiday tour with her, but
8:23
I'm calling the shots on my summer tour right
8:25
now and I'm better at doing that because
8:27
I've watched Della produce our tour
8:29
for the last five years. So
8:31
I think there's something, I talk
8:34
about it a lot on this podcast,
8:36
but there's something to be said for partnerships.
8:39
I think we are at a time where we
8:41
are so sick of people
8:44
that we want to root for friendships.
8:47
And friendships right now are,
8:50
look at the queens, every queen
8:52
whose name, aside from Bianca,
8:56
that bitch doesn't have a friend in the
8:58
world. No, I'm just trying to get her to
9:00
host. They couldn't get anyone to be your partner. Fucking
9:02
cunt. That's exactly why Bianca was the
9:04
host of the track. They did her own cools and dropped
9:07
the pay-through first. No,
9:10
but you think of all the top queens
9:13
and the way they've partnered up, even just on
9:15
your own. You and Ben,
9:17
you know, Thorgy and a dumpster.
9:19
Trixie and Koshia. Trixie and Koshia. And
9:22
then on your own. We actually
9:24
call them DWC.
9:26
Dumb white cunt.
9:27
We've also
9:29
got on Moggles of Media. We've
9:32
got Latrice Royale and Manila Luzon
9:34
do the chop. Delta Work and Raja
9:36
do very that. Well, they used to. They
9:39
used to. We appreciate the show. Well, I'm talking
9:42
about the friendships. We've got Priyanka
9:44
and Ricklyn Heights doing Famous this
9:46
week. Sloppy Seconds with Big Dipper
9:48
and Meatball. Meatball's a rising
9:50
star. She really is. She's in
9:53
the closet with Jada and Heidi. So
9:56
what do you think it is about friendships?
9:59
I told you. theory. What
10:03
do you think about your friendship with Alaska
10:06
Unlocked, where you're
10:08
at right now? Well, I'll tell you this, I
10:10
don't listen to podcasts because it's
10:12
like having, it's like constantly being at
10:15
a party and having to pay attention to what people are saying.
10:17
And when I'm like working around the studio, like
10:19
I'll put on music, but like, I can't be listening
10:22
to what someone else
10:23
is saying really, and
10:25
get stuff that I need done without taking ADHD
10:27
medicine because like honestly, I'm so scattered
10:30
and like, I can't compartmentalize
10:32
my,
10:33
my sights and sounds
10:35
that way sometimes. So like, I don't listen
10:37
to podcasts, honestly. I
10:39
listened to yours once. The first
10:42
one. And I was like, yeah, I love it. But I'm
10:44
not a podcast girl. I don't listen to mine either. And
10:46
maybe like, I'm not a podcast. I
10:49
get them. I get them in proximity.
10:52
But I understand how podcasts work.
10:54
And the people in your ears are your
10:57
friends. So when they have two sets of
10:59
friends that are like, Alaskan Willem,
11:01
or that's me, but like,
11:04
when they have, it's like they're in on the rapport.
11:06
And it's like, I'm on the right ear, Alaska's
11:09
on the left ear, and we're talking through their brain. They're
11:11
enjoying the conversation. Sometimes they're in the conversation.
11:13
Like I make it a goal to talk about Courtney act at least once
11:16
the episode, because like, I know she listens
11:18
and she's like our sister, and we were in bands together
11:20
and like, you know, so like, I think the friendship
11:22
transmits through the sounds and the ears and people
11:25
hear it and they they want to have a good time when
11:27
they listen to all the mom shows, like Jada
11:29
and Heidi, their podcast is exactly
11:31
like touring with them and getting ready in a dressing
11:33
room and Delta and Raja was the same thing.
11:36
When Forever Dog approached us about
11:38
doing mom, we were just like, we just need like
11:40
people that like talk good with each other that are friends and
11:42
have like the rapport, because basically you're
11:44
just sharing your rapport. And I think the friendships
11:47
that I've made in drag have been the secret to
11:49
my successes, because I always work better in groups,
11:52
boys at bottom and chow down with Vicki and D
11:54
like can't top that like ever. It's
11:56
like it's played at every gay club.
11:59
Like and that was That was a group collaboration,
12:01
you know?
12:04
The same thing with like the stuff with Alaska
12:06
and Courtney. Like I love doing that, but
12:09
the podcast thing has been especially good for
12:11
my own self-esteem because I feel like I'm actually doing something
12:14
and I'm creating jobs and helping drag queens
12:16
get their voices out there. Like trying
12:19
to be of service to like the community and like,
12:21
you know, I'm
12:24
trying to be, because I'm not always good, so
12:26
at least I can be fucking useful, you know? That's
12:29
how I look at it in my life. I'm trying to put
12:31
more plus in. Knowing
12:33
you as long as I have, I
12:36
can say you are a very good
12:38
person, but you're also like,
12:40
you know, you don't have a lot of patience for
12:43
buffoonery, for bullshit,
12:46
and I think, oh my gosh, I was just watching
12:49
this clip of, who has a Catherine Heigl
12:52
saying something like, people
12:54
say she's difficult to work with and she
12:56
was just like, you know, I used to say,
12:58
I don't think I am, but now I'm saying,
13:01
no, I'm not. I just think I advocate
13:03
for myself. So, you know, I think
13:06
when I first met you, I
13:09
knew like just from
13:11
the legend you had built of your own
13:14
after season four of Drag Race,
13:17
you know? I was nervous
13:19
to meet you because I was like,
13:21
oh, she's gonna be so, I'm not
13:23
what she's about. She's, you
13:26
know, she's this Hollywood bomb, she's
13:29
a shell, she's sexy and fun
13:31
and a party girl. Our first gig we
13:34
did together, we really got along. Like
13:38
we, we just kind of, it was one of those
13:40
things where it was like, I think we recognized
13:43
right away, we were doing
13:45
things very, very differently, but
13:48
from the same place of passion of trying
13:51
to do it well. Yeah, I
13:53
think, and I liked that like, you
13:55
were like a theater fag too, because like
13:58
Hedwig is probably my favorite show.
14:00
other than like, you know,
14:04
Strange Loop or like Take
14:07
Me Out, like those are my three favorites and
14:09
like I knew you were like a theater girl and
14:13
You were really good at your job the song you sang
14:15
I was like she shouldn't be doing this song at a nightclub But
14:18
she's amazing at it. Like you were so
14:20
talented and I knew at that moment
14:22
I was like, I'm not gonna be able to beat her.
14:24
So let me just join her I
14:27
know my friend hates her and I know she's about to
14:29
win drag race the way because detox told me everything
14:32
She's like there's this redheaded girl named Jinx and
14:35
they pee for her. I was like,
14:37
I hate her and then I actually like
14:39
you because you're great but also,
14:42
I remember a conversation between us that
14:45
we talked about like how our drag was different because
14:47
you said and this is like A quote you said
14:50
you can just go out there and be an asshole
14:52
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14:56
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14:59
you don't have to be you chose to be but be get
15:01
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15:04
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15:06
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15:08
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15:10
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15:13
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15:15
you know, it is it is very much like
15:17
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15:20
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15:22
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We're both appearing on Drag Me to
19:21
Dinner. We appear with our, our collaborators.
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Who did you guys go against? Are we allowed to talk about it?
19:28
I don't know. I don't know. I'm not
19:30
gonna give any, I'm not gonna
19:33
spoil it. I'll text you
19:35
after. But it's, it's the, you know, it was
19:37
the perfect pairing. It
19:39
was like, I was really, really happy. We had
19:42
so much fun. Did you have fun your shoot day? What
19:45
are we talking about? Oh, Drag Me to Dinner. Drag Me
19:48
to Dinner, yeah. Yeah, we had so much fun. Yes,
19:52
I loved my shoot day. There were a couple
19:54
of things that I wasn't allowed to do that I wanted to
19:56
do that I was like, ugh. And I was so
19:58
mad and then I was like, don't let it. ruin your day. You look
20:00
so fucking good. Your drag daughter's
20:02
producing a TV show for drag queens
20:05
and she cares that much about drag. You
20:07
know, Neil and David, both of them are drag daughters.
20:09
And I'm so glad that like I get
20:11
to work with my friends because they always have these cool
20:13
ass projects. Remember we did wig stock together with
20:16
them? Yeah. Like I was just about to
20:18
bring that up. You've been friends with Neil
20:21
Patrick Harris and David Burkett
20:23
for a long time. You're
20:25
the reason I know them today. You
20:28
and John Cameron Mitchell. I dread you
20:30
do a party one, sit and I, after like a
20:32
holiday show. Yeah. I remember I wore
20:34
like a rose hat and like I looked
20:36
so good. We shut down their holiday
20:39
party one year. Yeah. That was
20:42
so fun. Yeah. They've been like
20:44
great. When my season of
20:46
Drag Race was airing, my friend Michael Serato who
20:48
directed my chow down video, he was a
20:50
ground Ling. She's a brilliant creative mind.
20:53
She sent me a
20:55
text message video of Neil
20:58
impersonating me and doing like my
21:01
cocky bitchy thing. Then fairly
21:03
accurate. And then
21:05
I was like, oh my God, is that Neil Patrick Harris?
21:07
And he was like, yeah, he's my friend. And I was like, oh my
21:10
God, tell him I said hi. And then
21:12
they asked us, me, Vicki and Dee
21:14
to do the Sanderson sisters at a Halloween
21:16
party for him. And they had legendary Halloween
21:19
parties, but we couldn't do it. But I ended
21:21
up putting Neil in drag with
21:24
detox and Calpurnia Adams for
21:26
the first time before he did Hedwig because he wanted to get
21:29
in drag like once with like people who actually did it.
21:31
Not like, you know, he didn't want it to
21:33
be under a makeup artist test situation. He wanted
21:35
his friends to do it. So we put him up in drag
21:37
and like after that, I like taught him about walking
21:40
and we had like walking lessons and like I
21:42
sent him videos on how to talk and all that and
21:44
gave him options for gas and tux and how stuff
21:47
works and how he hides his junk. I hope
21:49
you were careful when you were picking videos
21:52
out of your phone to send
21:54
them. Oh, no, they've seen them all. They don't
21:56
give a fuck.
21:59
Did I just gloss over the fact that you were
22:02
just saying Neil's hung?
22:03
Oh, yeah on the podcast
22:17
It's really cool to hear all the ways that Neil prepared
22:19
for Hedwig because like I said,
22:21
um, John brought him to see We
22:24
were doing the Vaudevillian's at the Laurie Beach men
22:26
and John Cameron Mitchell brought Steven
22:29
Trask and Neil To
22:33
see the Vaudevillian's and Neil asked me afterwards
22:36
So what do you do for eyebrows and
22:38
I said you just shave him off Neil I
22:41
wanted to see what he said and he was like really
22:43
you shaved him off and I'm like yet If you
22:45
want to be a real jack-queen you gotta shave him off and
22:48
he just kind of like well I don't think he
22:50
shaved him off. Did he? No But
22:54
the first time we painted her we were
22:56
like, what do you recommend and it was in
22:58
like a league of their own We're like a lot of night games
23:03
She don't fall far from my apple tree. Mama's a
23:05
brick like me she's got angles,
23:07
but I tell her smile and Just
23:10
do what the nice man says She's
23:13
a good drag daughter Willem you
23:16
have been in In
23:19
television TV
23:21
film and TV acting acting
23:24
for the camera Since
23:26
before I started drag I've I've
23:29
roasted you about this for years, but
23:31
when I Before
23:34
I even really knew what a drag
23:36
queen was I used
23:38
to stay up late and watch a show called street
23:41
smart This is like when I was like 11 or 12. Yeah So
23:45
it would have been a couple years before I started drag
23:47
may I've watched that show for a long time 10 11 12
23:50
Who knows I was like
23:53
a kid and you were
23:55
a full-grown adult and you
23:57
were on street- I'm 19 You
24:00
were on Street Smarts. In
24:03
full drag, we've talked about this, but you
24:06
were playing- You
24:11
were playing Kidman, Brouge, era.
24:14
Yeah. They asked you a
24:16
bunch of questions. Street Smarts was where
24:18
two contestants had
24:20
to try to guess whether people on
24:22
the street were going to get the answer right or wrong. Willem
24:27
was a wild card and she appeared on so
24:30
many episodes because she
24:32
gave good talking head. It
24:36
was so funny the things you knew and the
24:38
things you didn't know and people were always
24:40
like, they had to pick a
24:43
pony at the end, so they pick one person
24:45
to just try to predict
24:48
for the very end. Everyone
24:50
always picked you because you were such a wild card.
24:52
Yeah. Is that
24:54
your hand? Your head
24:57
hair blended up into a fall? Fully.
25:01
It's a couple of pieces, but yeah, that's a mall ponytail
25:03
for sure in the back. But that would
25:05
be out of it. Okay.
25:08
You've been doing TV for a long time.
25:12
What are your thoughts on your
25:15
film and television career? What
25:18
have you gotten to do that you're happy about?
25:21
Where are your feelings at these days
25:23
and what would you like to do next? I
25:27
feel like I've accomplished everything
25:29
that I wanted to accomplish
25:33
so far. It's
25:35
weird because it's calling it a career. It's like
25:37
for me, they're just jobs and gigs, but eventually
25:39
when they pile up, they become a career I guess.
25:42
But I feel like Starsborne,
25:44
that was
25:46
the easiest way for me to feel
25:48
good about myself because I was sitting
25:51
in a theater,
25:52
RuPaul was one row in front of me, two seats
25:54
over and everybody was just roaring
25:56
with laughter at these jokes that I made
25:59
in a rehearsal.
25:59
Bradley Cooper likes, so he kept him in
26:02
this movie. And it made me feel like I was a success,
26:04
and I made it in Hollywood, and now everything after that is
26:06
gravy. So be of service to other people,
26:09
and like, you know, elevator back down and all
26:11
that. Like, Star is Born, I made it, I'm happy. A
26:13
star is born, literally, I don't need all stars.
26:16
It gave me everything I needed ever in Hollywood,
26:18
because it was also like a mini challenge
26:20
on drag race. Like, you improv, and
26:22
you make sure, and then like,
26:25
the tits being like, dry erasable,
26:27
not knowing that a marker would like, not
26:29
like, we had to wash it off in between takes.
26:31
I didn't know if that would happen or not, and I'm so
26:34
glad they did, like the comedy gods smiled on
26:36
me. It was a perfect gig. I mean,
26:38
it was a hard gig, because first we auditioned,
26:41
and then they made me come back as a different character.
26:44
They made me do a dead Marilyn Monroe, and
26:46
then they made me do Barbara Streisand.
26:49
And then they gave us the part, and they said, you're
26:51
not Streisand, you're someone named Emerald. Said, okay,
26:53
can I get the script? They're like, no, you can't. You
26:55
will give me pages. And I was like, okay, the
26:58
night before I get the pages, it's like three,
27:00
four random lines. We get on set, Bradley Cooper's
27:02
immediately like, just act like he was in character,
27:05
or he's like, just act like you wouldn't in the club. And telling
27:07
me and Shangela, and we were like, okay, we
27:09
got this, because we know what we're doing, and we can run this.
27:11
And we did, and it was working with Shangela, who's
27:14
also a professional
27:17
girl, everything. She knew
27:19
what she was doing. It was the best. And
27:21
then they asked us to do the next day with the guitar
27:24
scene, once they saw that first scene. It
27:26
went so well, and
27:28
before
27:29
that all happened, after we auditioned
27:32
and got the part, we found
27:34
out that they cut the rolls, and Gaga
27:36
was just gonna be waiting, they were gonna cut the whole drag
27:39
bar scene. And then Gaga fought for it to
27:41
be back in. But for like, they called
27:43
me at Lance Black and Tom Daley's wedding,
27:46
the morning of, and they were like, the
27:49
text from my agent said, this guy
27:52
named Jesse, terrible, terrible
27:54
news. Your parts have been cut. And
27:56
I just remember it. And then I went downstairs,
27:58
and there was this producer. named Bruce
28:02
something. He produces the Oscars and lots
28:04
of stuff. But Bruce Spring.
28:07
No, I don't remember his last name, but
28:09
he's got blonde curly hair and he produced Silver
28:11
Linings Playbook, which we were talking about probably
28:14
the night before because I told him my book, Star is Born. And
28:16
he said, I remember saying,
28:19
your friend just fired me from my movie. It
28:22
wasn't my movie, but I felt like I already owned
28:24
it. And I was like, well, that's why you're being broad telling
28:26
people you book Star is Born. I
28:29
was in a car with Ari. I
28:33
don't know his last name either, the guy who does NPR. And
28:36
he was like telling the story about, he was
28:38
at a wedding and this kid was like going on
28:40
and on about how he's in a movie with Gaga. And
28:43
then he was like, sure, Willem, you're
28:45
in a movie with Gaga. He'd
28:47
set it on the radio. And I just remember thinking like,
28:49
yeah, asshole, I
28:51
am. Like it's a culmination of
28:54
everything I've ever done in a career and I
28:56
feel so good about it. And like, I
28:58
remember touring with you
29:01
when the movie came out in 2018 for Heels
29:03
the Hell. And I think a lot
29:05
of us went to go see the movie together at one
29:07
point and it was like all my sisters being happy for
29:09
me in a foreign country where we're being
29:11
paid to be to perform and make other people happy,
29:14
like and spread joy. And like, it was
29:16
just such a wonderful experience for me that
29:18
after like 20 years of auditions and
29:21
all the things that like, you know, you
29:23
give up as an artist to have a normal life. Like
29:26
all the times you're like, oh, I was gonna go home, but
29:28
I got a job so I can't like, you know, it
29:31
all felt worth it. So like, honestly,
29:33
I think that
29:35
Starsborne is my favorite gig ever. I don't know how to top
29:37
it.
29:38
But Niptuck was great too and
29:40
so was Rock of Ages, but for different
29:42
reasons, but Starsborne, you can't top it. Gaga,
29:45
like for to be in Gaga's orbit,
29:48
oh my God. I was also in Austin
29:50
Powers 3 as an extra behind Beyonce
29:52
and the whole membership. So I was in a complete
29:55
telephone orbit of both, but Beyonce didn't pay me
29:57
no mind. She was doing her job.
29:59
Gaga like, talk to me. She loves me. So she
30:01
shouted out my name during Edge of Glory
30:03
at a concert in Vegas on New Year's Eve and I was like, did
30:06
she just say my name or am I fucked up? And
30:08
August was like, she just said your name. And I was
30:10
like, oh my god. I was like, well yeah, I
30:12
went to my friend's show and she said hi. Like
30:15
Starzord has made my life better
30:17
in so many ways and they send me checks every year
30:19
because the residuals are great. That movie's a fucking
30:21
hit.
30:22
You know? Yeah.
30:24
It was, you know, I... It's great. I
30:26
watched it on the plane so much. It was a very
30:28
good movie. I don't watch
30:31
a lot of new movies, but of course I
30:34
watched it to see all my girls
30:37
in it and it was
30:40
a very... It was a powerful movie. My
30:42
only joke that I make about
30:44
it is I don't feel... When
30:47
you said, could I get the script? I
30:49
wanted to interject and say no, because there isn't one.
30:53
Doesn't the movie feel like it's kind
30:55
of like... They were
30:57
like, okay, I don't know. In this scene we should
31:00
say something like this. How about me? I
31:02
can't... I do know that a lot of it
31:04
was improv, but there were a lot of actors
31:07
in Improvers who were like in their own professions,
31:09
like the hair, the wardrobe
31:11
people. I'm pretty sure his ear doctor
31:13
played his actual ear doctor, Bradley, because
31:16
he's dealt with that. I
31:18
really liked it because when
31:20
you take a movie like A Star Is Born that's been
31:23
remade multiple times
31:26
and you want to make it its own unique
31:29
thing, that's how
31:31
they did it with this one, was rather
31:33
than it being scripted and stylized
31:35
like it's always been in the past, it was kind of more
31:37
like, what if A Star Was
31:39
Born today? What would
31:41
that look like? Angela Laquifa-Wadley. So,
31:45
I
31:46
just...
31:47
Yeah, really great work, Willem, but what you were
31:49
saying about everything else just being
31:52
gravy and also kind of like, you
31:54
know, now you're at this place where you just
31:56
want to like kind of give it
31:58
back.
31:59
to say like when you set
32:02
a goal and you attain that goal,
32:04
you know, if you're a decent human
32:06
being, it feels really good to then
32:08
turn around and go, okay, now how am I going
32:11
to help other people get here? Because
32:13
I just had that moment with Broadway
32:16
and someone asked me, you know, like,
32:19
what do you want to do now that you've done Broadway?
32:22
I'm like, I just more, more Broadway,
32:24
more of what I'm doing. What do you want to do now that
32:26
you've done Doctor Who? I'm like, more,
32:28
this is where I want
32:29
to be. And that
32:31
feeling of being exactly where
32:33
you feel like you've been trying to
32:35
get to the whole time, it generates,
32:38
this is why you hear
32:40
the top stars when someone says, oh,
32:42
I met this person or this person or this person.
32:45
And you're like, who, how, what they were, what were they like?
32:48
Nine times out of 10 you hear, oh, they're
32:50
just the greatest person. They were nice. They
32:52
were friendly. Or you might hear, well,
32:54
they were doing their job. But you know, like you could tell
32:56
they were because
32:58
they're content. That's my thought. They're
33:00
content. You know, like
33:06
contentness, contentment
33:08
has like
33:10
made me a 10 times better person
33:12
just because I'm not cranky anymore.
33:15
And all I want to do is help other
33:17
people feel content because that's, you
33:20
know, it's not about happiness.
33:23
Happiness is fleeting. It's about contentness.
33:25
Yeah. And contentment. Also
33:28
to go back to Starsborne a little more. I know
33:30
you would look for it in that alley wig, bitch.
33:34
We would look that red one.
33:37
Oh, sure. When she was read. Yeah, yeah.
33:39
In the original script, he doesn't die
33:42
by hanging. He rides his
33:44
motorcycle off a cliff on
33:46
the way to the Grammys. So when that happened
33:48
in the movie, I was just like gut punched crying,
33:51
like almost wrecking my makeup. And then
33:54
the producer told me afterwards, she's like, you know, your,
33:56
your drag scene is one of the reasons that the movie
33:58
works so well. It like.
33:59
endears people to him early and
34:02
makes him like
34:03
a good guy. And I was like, wow,
34:05
thank you. A producer of this Oscar winning
34:07
fucking movie said that to me and I was like, thank
34:09
you so much. She was so nice. I loved
34:11
everybody on that movie. But also I
34:13
auditioned for a movie musical about a girl named Ally
34:16
in 2011 when I was
34:18
going out for burlesque. I was like,
34:20
I didn't get that. And I was so sad. It was,
34:23
I got my prayer answered. I did a movie
34:25
musical about a girl named Ally. It
34:28
was 10 years later, you know, I
34:30
had to like do some trench work. And now
34:32
I'm going to New York where hopefully
34:34
ride your fucking wave that you created because
34:37
to have the top ticket sales of
34:39
a 26 year long running
34:42
show because you're
34:44
in it, because you spiked the sales
34:46
bitch, that should feel good. You're a fucking
34:49
star. Oh yeah, I feel very good.
34:51
What I wanna ask you is, what would be
34:54
this summer? I know. We're
34:57
getting to it. We're getting to it. What
34:59
I wanna ask you is, like you said about that 10 years
35:01
later remark, which is something
35:03
I brought up a lot recently. What
35:06
would you say to young actors, artists, and
35:10
entertainers about patience in the industry? Because
35:14
like I said, you've been working for years
35:16
and years and years and years. And
35:19
you're still working for a lot of people. Years and years
35:21
and years and years. And you're saying
35:24
Stars Born is where you felt like, okay,
35:26
I got everything I wanted out of this career
35:28
and now I'm like content and happy to
35:30
like, now you're running your own
35:33
podcast empire with friends. Like
35:35
you said, you're creating work. How,
35:38
how did you make it? How did
35:40
you survive getting to a Stars
35:43
Born since that did take so many years?
35:45
And what would your advice be to people about
35:48
patience along the way? First
35:51
of all, we're closed. Hollywood's closed. We don't need anybody
35:53
else. Thank you right now. But we can let you know. We'll
35:56
keep this on file, your interest. I
35:58
would say, I got my sash. card when I was 17 and
36:01
that was 22 years ago? No 23 years ago. So in the
36:04
past 23 years
36:07
that I've been just trying to like make
36:10
art and eat and make
36:12
some money, I got
36:14
SARS-borne in 2017 and then premiere in 2018.
36:17
That was 15 years into, you
36:18
know,
36:23
after my SAG card.
36:26
I think that I gave myself goals
36:28
and I figured out ways that I could try to be
36:30
proactive to meet them. I would do one
36:33
thing a day for my career whether it was this was back
36:35
in the day when you had to mail out pictures to
36:37
casting agencies. I would do I would
36:39
go on backstage and find something I was right for or
36:42
I would call all the extras hotlines that like
36:44
Sandy Elisey was a casting
36:46
director who did like a specific
36:49
background casting for like good shows and
36:52
one of them was Nip Tuck and I met
36:54
Ryan Murphy on set reading a book about Janice
36:56
Dickinson like trying to learn stuff and mind
36:58
my business being quiet on set because I was in a scene
37:00
with like a couple of Plasti-Tasha
37:02
Smith who's like this wonderful actress and
37:06
both of the doctors
37:08
and I was trying to just take it all
37:10
in and I knew that I was picture picked by the
37:12
director and the director was Ryan Murphy and
37:15
then he came over and talked to me and he said what
37:17
book you read I was like it's about Janice Dickinson and plastic
37:19
surgery I'm obsessed. He's like oh okay
37:21
cool and then I had auditioned for
37:23
two other parts on Nip Tuck before
37:25
so he might he might have known
37:28
me and the
37:30
next
37:31
episode that was the end of season two
37:33
episode two point like 13
37:36
episode three point two of the
37:38
next season there was a character I was perfect
37:40
for and I tried to get in for
37:42
it and my agent was like
37:44
no they think you look too old so I walked
37:47
two blocks from where I lived at the casting studio
37:49
Alric Dawson-Kritzer and as I walked into
37:51
the into the casting place my friend
37:54
Stephen walked by and I was like hey Stephen he's like hey
37:56
what are you doing here I was like well there's this breakdown
37:58
for Nip Tuck and my My agent said,
38:00
someone said I look too old. So
38:03
I just wanted to, he's like, hold on, let me get
38:06
Rich Ulrich. He's gonna pop his
38:08
head out. He was a you in UDK. He
38:10
pops his head out, looks, and he's like, yeah, give him an appointment. So
38:13
I got an appointment on a Wednesday, and
38:15
then I went for the call back on Friday, and I
38:17
gave them something to hire me for. I was fucking
38:19
great at that roll of cherry, and
38:21
I killed it in the room, and
38:24
I threw myself all over. I had a costume
38:26
change. I went from the bar scene to the bedroom
38:29
scene, and I had a little thing I unbuttoned,
38:31
and it came off, and boom, leopard slip. I
38:33
gave them bedroom instant. I got on the table.
38:36
I threw myself on a chair when I was getting beat up.
38:39
People stood up to see if I was okay. And
38:41
then after that episode, they wrote
38:44
three more episodes for me to participate in, because
38:46
I was a one-episode character. So feeling
38:48
and knowing that you do a good job sometimes, just
38:51
cherish it, and know that, oh, wow,
38:53
this is exactly why I'm doing this. Because when you're on set,
38:55
it feels so great, and the patience
38:58
that you have, all these jobs that you go on,
39:00
and all the mileage, and all the everything, will
39:03
eventually be worth it,
39:05
if you're good.
39:07
You should definitely have some friends who will
39:09
tell you, like, have an arrangement with
39:11
them where you're like, hey, if by this time you
39:13
think I need to pack it up, let me know. I
39:17
think, you know, like, what you described
39:20
is knowing what you're good at,
39:23
putting in the work, and putting in the,
39:26
like, you know, you
39:28
put in the mileage, and
39:31
yes, you have
39:33
to be self-aware. But like,
39:35
here's the thing about being self-aware, is you can
39:38
be, maybe you're not, like,
39:40
maybe you're not as strong an actor,
39:43
but you're a great writer. You know, like,
39:45
there's ways to work in the field,
39:49
even if like, one thing isn't
39:51
the best, like, avenue for
39:53
you. I think, you know, like,
39:57
I was so worried in acting school
39:59
at this idea. of getting pigeonholed or
40:01
typecasted or only being seen as
40:03
a character actor. Do you know what
40:06
being pigeonholed and typecasted being
40:08
seen as a character actor is? It's job
40:11
security, exactly. Yeah,
40:13
bitch. Yeah, bitch. Because
40:16
you might not get called for every single thing, but
40:20
you oftentimes get called for
40:22
the thing you're perfect for because you've
40:24
really asserted what you're perfect for. Ha
40:27
ha ha ha.
40:38
Willem, so
40:41
you've you've. Where are you, Mitch? Are you
40:43
in LA and haven't called me? I'm in
40:45
Santa Monica. I leave tonight
40:48
for Australia. Oh,
40:50
so boogie. I was working
40:52
with all therapy. Willem. I
40:54
was on Dr. Who and then I went to Australia.
40:57
Oh, yoyoyoyoyoy. Well,
41:00
now you've shaken my train of thought. Oh,
41:02
my friend's so famous. You put
41:05
out a book, Suck Less.
41:09
You co-run
41:12
a podcast empire. You're
41:16
constantly doing TV, Stars Born.
41:20
You're a mainstay at what?
41:22
The commencement message. Burning
41:25
man. I
41:28
want to know what would you
41:31
like dream of doing next, even
41:34
though it's all gravy? What would
41:36
be a fun next project? And
41:39
what's one thing you're happy you
41:41
don't have to do anymore to survive?
41:45
These two parters, bitch. First of all, I would
41:48
like some gravy. And I think you should use it to
41:50
pop in our sponsor. Get
41:52
out of here. Yes,
41:55
that's what I would like for my immediate future.
41:57
And then secondly, what's one thing I don't have to do
41:59
more than I'm glad about.
42:03
I just said the other day that I miss Hookin,
42:05
because like, you know, I knew I could make
42:08
money really quick. I was really good at
42:10
it. Everybody left happy. I
42:13
could, I could, I was like the queen
42:15
of the four minute blowjob. I was the
42:17
girl. Well, I was a boy. I didn't,
42:20
I didn't wear wigs when I did it, but I
42:22
was the person. That's just
42:24
for your personal time. Yeah, girl.
42:27
They didn't pay for that. But
42:29
I was the person that, what was I talking
42:31
about?
42:36
Blowjobs, four minute blowjob.
42:38
I was the one that guy would
42:40
say, Oh, I can't get off from head. I'd be like, watch this.
42:43
Watch. And
42:46
always, and that's why I like when
42:48
I was hooking, I know I had some, I'm right in my second
42:50
book right now and I added up the numbers
42:52
and did my body count and like my, during
42:55
my hooking days, I did 160 something dates with 104
42:57
of the same people. So
43:01
there were a lot of regulars and it was because
43:04
I suck such good dick. And
43:07
I'm proud of that. And like, that's what got me to
43:09
Hollywood. That's how I made my money. Because like when
43:11
I was a kid growing up, I was fascinated
43:13
by redheaded hookers, fancy from
43:16
the read the song, Julia Roberts
43:18
and pretty woman. The little
43:20
girl from Teen Witch who didn't sell pussy,
43:22
but she did have that pretty amulet in the short lady. So
43:27
like, I want to be the
43:29
most popular girl.
43:31
That's the Teen Witch. And I used to sing it to myself while I
43:33
sucked dick. To top that. To top
43:36
that. I don't really give a about
43:38
to top that. To top that.
43:40
I loved her. Super
43:42
sonic idiotic. What else do you guys want to say? That
43:46
movie was everything. I
43:48
can't believe she was Blake Lively's sister too. I
43:52
love her, Robin Lively. She's great. I
43:55
got to work with her. I got to work with Teen Witch on something. So that was
43:57
like a full circle for me. Because when I worked with Robin,
43:59
I was like. Robin, you were the first time
44:01
I saw a sex scene in front of my parents and I remember
44:04
having a boner and being like, this is weird,
44:06
but I was looking at the boy, not you, Robin. She's
44:09
nice. She's a nice lady. She's a nice
44:11
lady. Yeah. In that movie, she
44:13
got sucked in like a barn and like the sun was
44:16
coming through the hay. No, I only saw Teen
44:18
Witch. No, that was Teen Witch, girl. She
44:20
got fucked in the barn in Teen Witch? She
44:22
lost her virginity to the hospital draw. Oh, it was heavily implied. Oh,
44:24
that's right. The random like,
44:27
yeah, the smooth jazz scene in
44:29
the middle of the movie. Huh? Softly. What
44:34
I want to know about Teen Witch is why
44:37
does her magic get stored in
44:39
an amulet that never runs
44:41
out? But Zelda Rubenstein's magic
44:43
is like dust that she runs
44:45
out of. She has finite amount of magic.
44:48
She has to use the last of her power
44:50
to give this teen
44:54
her chance to, what,
44:56
pop her cherry in the barn. And
44:58
then she gets that denim jacket from that one pop star.
45:00
She's like, I want you to have this jacket. I
45:05
love Teen Witch. You should do the musical Teen Witch.
45:09
You should play Zelda on your knees. Okay.
45:12
Listen, we got to close out by
45:14
talking about Death Drop.
45:18
I didn't get to see you in Death Drop, but I did
45:20
see Death Drop on the West End
45:22
in the UK. It's a
45:25
really great show written by Holly Stars.
45:27
I love, you know, I
45:29
love stuff for queens
45:32
by queens. Yeah. And
45:34
you are going to be debuting
45:37
it in New York. What? That is funny.
45:40
When? Today? Tomorrow? It's
45:42
start. I think preview start in
45:45
the middle of June. We officially open on my
45:47
41st birthday, June 30th. I
45:49
expect cards. I like pineapples,
45:52
not flowers. And
45:54
it's you and Jujube, our
45:57
American representatives in this. Yes,
46:00
me, Jujubee. There's a couple of
46:02
castings that they're saving because they're
46:05
surprising. Sure, sure, sure. They're
46:07
really good. But
46:09
we are gonna be open
46:11
all summer. Deathdropplay.com, come see us. It's
46:13
gonna be great. Holly wrote it. It's so funny.
46:16
There's drag kings, there's drag queens. There's
46:18
other girls from Drag Me To Dinner. Kiki Ball
46:21
Change is the swing. And
46:24
she does, she covers everything, I think. Who else
46:26
is in it? A couple people are in it. I'm
46:30
so excited for it. It's like, to
46:32
have a job in New York. I
46:34
remember I had a little folder that I
46:36
would carry in junior high, and
46:38
I had cut a picture of Bebe Neuwirth
46:41
out in Chicago when she's looking up
46:43
at her hand like that. It was in the
46:45
Time Entertainment issue in
46:48
the 90s, and
46:50
I remember thinking, I'm gonna go to New York and see this show. And
46:52
then I did. And I saw The Life,
46:55
Chicago, and then I think Charlie
46:57
Brown, or maybe Rent, at the same time,
47:00
on the same trip to New York when I was 15,
47:02
and I visited my lesbian aunt there. I
47:04
just went to see shows in the summer, and it was great.
47:07
And I was like, I wanna do this. I wanna be a job
47:09
in New York. And then I fantasized, oh, I'll
47:12
be a Fosse dancer. But bitch, I don't get on
47:14
the floor that much. I
47:16
don't need to be on the floor. My shit's too expensive. I'll
47:18
sing. So I get to do theater
47:20
in New York, which is my dream growing up. I find that
47:23
ironic. I know, right? You
47:25
didn't wanna be on the floor that much. Willow,
47:29
I have some compulsory questions that
47:31
I ask every guest. Even
47:34
as my boss, you have to answer them. But you
47:36
answer them however you feel. But before I ask
47:38
those questions, is this a Wigs
47:40
by Vanity? What is this wig? Is this all
47:42
one piece? I need this wig
47:45
in my color because I love the shape.
47:47
Oh, it's an updo, okay. This is an updo that
47:50
Cynthia Loomsey colored
47:52
for me in Chicago. She's this great colorist that I love. I love
47:54
it. And then I wore it
47:56
on set today. Oh, and it goes down to probably
47:59
well. down the heater. Did you pin it up yourself?
48:02
No, what I did was before I put it
48:04
on, I grabbed a
48:06
ponytail and then actually I was on a shoot and
48:09
Aurora saw what I was doing and she's like here let
48:11
me do it because she was
48:13
helping with everything. She's an art director,
48:15
she's brilliant. So we put
48:18
it in a ponytail and then because
48:20
she had just put up this pink hair that
48:23
I was wearing like five minutes before and like this
48:25
lazy updo and it looks so good. So I'm
48:27
like let's do that with this but we'll ponytail it in
48:29
and then she just sprayed it forward and Zach
48:32
Killian styled it and this is the last one. I love
48:34
Zach Killian. He's everything, he's
48:36
fucking everything and it's like
48:39
I, he's busy. She's
48:41
booked and her wigs are great
48:44
and they stay curled for you. This glass
48:46
got curled and I wore this in Death
48:48
Drop in London. It hasn't been redone since
48:51
and it was still fine. It's real good, you look
48:53
real good. I was hoping it was a style I could buy somewhere
48:55
because that's, I love a
49:03
big messy updo. That's
49:05
one of my favorites. You
49:11
could totally pull this off. Alright,
49:15
before, oh one last thing. We have
49:17
to congratulate you and Alaska
49:21
and everyone at the Mughals of Media
49:23
Network. Drag is
49:25
good. You did it in Nashville, Tennessee
49:28
where they of course are dealing with blatantly
49:30
bigoted anti-trans, anti-queer
49:33
legislation. You raised $78,500
49:40
to give to multiple charities to
49:43
fight back on the legal
49:46
battlefield, which
49:48
is the only way we can fight back at this
49:50
point. It sucks
49:53
but thank you for your service.
49:56
Thank you for what's the
49:59
good shorthand for giving it back.
50:02
Spreading it around.
50:04
This people's got it and this
50:07
people's spread it around. Isn't
50:11
it nice? Yeah,
50:14
I think I've
50:16
been inspired by people I see who
50:19
are extremely generous. And there's
50:21
a woman named Ari Getty who,
50:24
you know, the
50:25
LA LGBT Center
50:27
and GLAAD really benefit from her
50:29
philanthropy and her gifts. And
50:31
I think those that are
50:34
given a lot, a lot is expected
50:36
of. So I like that I
50:38
can help where I can and when I can, especially
50:41
by cross-dressing. And
50:43
it felt really good to do that
50:45
because those are places we work. And how
50:48
dare they come for our friends' jobs down there
50:50
and trans people, honestly. Because
50:52
we all saw what they were doing. We saw that they were saying, oh,
50:55
well, you're in drag, so this is illegal. We
50:57
know what they're trying to do. Same thing that the Nazis
50:59
tried to do. They burnt the sex
51:02
institute first. We need to
51:05
protect our trans sisters. If
51:08
anyone doesn't think that this affects
51:10
you, if you are someone who
51:12
thinks that because it's a queer issue, because
51:14
it's a trans issue, that it doesn't affect you, like
51:18
give it 10 minutes, honey. Because once
51:20
they successfully
51:23
remove rights for one group
51:25
of people, they come for the next. They did it to
51:27
women with Roe v. Wade. They're doing it with
51:30
queer freedoms. And there
51:32
are places already talking about trying
51:34
to ban porn in their state.
51:37
And that's going to affect everyone,
51:39
not just queer people. So if you
51:41
think like they start with the
51:44
sexuality, and once they control the
51:46
way you think about sex, they can control
51:48
the way you think about other things. And
51:50
sex is just an easy place
51:52
to start because it has been demonized
51:55
and made sinful by the church
51:58
since you've been in my home.
52:11
You answer however you feel.
52:14
First question is, who's your celebrity
52:16
crush today? My celebrity
52:18
crush is and always
52:21
is
52:25
Jonathan Majors. Jonathan Majors?
52:26
I don't know who that is.
52:28
He was the antagonist
52:31
in the Ant-Man Quantum that
52:33
just came out. He was in,
52:35
what's that song? So now
52:37
Paul Rudd. No, he
52:40
was in Lovecraft
52:42
Country. He was the lead in Lovecraft Country.
52:45
Oh yes. He was in Creed.
52:47
I love Lovecraft Country. He's
52:50
brilliant. Yes, okay, yes. Thank you.
52:53
I'm so terrible with names. Oh
52:55
my gosh, mine today is, I'm sure I've said him
52:57
before. Oh wait, I would congratulate you for your telephon
53:00
work too, by the way bitch. I saw you
53:02
there with that gorgeous red hair, not a lip
53:04
on his baby. You look thick-nailed.
53:07
That was new hair. I liked her. It wasn't
53:09
though. It wasn't though. I just kind of turned the
53:11
whip around. Yeah, no. Who's
53:14
your friend? My
53:16
celeb, I'm sure I've said him before but I'm saying
53:18
him again because it's the mood I'm in. Blake
53:21
Griffin. Oh my god, yes.
53:24
You know I love a tall guy with
53:26
big feet, Willam. And funny,
53:29
I know you love a footbitch. He is so funny. He
53:31
did these car commercials and he really
53:34
has a great sense of humor. I follow his Twitter. I
53:36
really respect his intellect
53:38
and I want to suck his dick. Yeah. Blake
53:42
Griffin, if you're listening, if you want a
53:44
four-minute blowjob. Hello. Hello.
53:49
My next question for you is, are
53:51
you spiritual? I
53:56
talk to God whenever I need things really bad.
54:00
I like their music sometimes but like I talked to
54:02
the universe and I believe in like something
54:05
out there that like I I
54:07
Can like
54:08
talk to I think yeah. Yeah,
54:11
but I don't know what it is And if it's God, it's a woman
54:13
because women create everything. So I
54:15
respect her as a woman I'm
54:17
sure she is real, but if she's not I don't
54:19
know Wait, no, I'm
54:22
not sure she is real But if she is I don't want to offend
54:24
her but like so that's why I'll never say I don't believe
54:26
in her But
54:27
like,
54:28
you know, I Hear you.
54:30
I am the pot I am
54:35
You know, it's like we can I've
54:38
realized that we change our minds
54:41
I mean not change your minds, but we develop
54:43
our thoughts Throughout life
54:45
and so I've always talked to and believed
54:48
in God. I call it something
54:50
different now I see it as something different
54:53
than how I was raised To
54:55
believe it was meant, you know,
54:57
like how it has to be but
55:00
you know, like I just Thoroughly
55:03
encourage everyone to name everything
55:05
your own name for it You know, you don't
55:07
have to call that spirit
55:10
that that that thing in the universe you were
55:12
talking about You don't have to call it God or you can
55:14
call it God and know you're talking about something
55:16
different than what's from the Bible Everyone
55:20
name your own shit God
55:24
I think of Madonna at the beginning of like a prayer going
55:27
God God God God My
55:38
final question for you is what's your go to
55:40
karaoke song my go.
55:42
Oh, I have a list. I'm sorry Go
55:45
to go to is probably Probably
55:53
Shit this
55:54
is hard.
55:55
I really like the boy is mine.
55:57
I
55:58
also
55:59
also do fancy a lot,
56:03
the Reba song.
56:04
And then depending on- It sounds like, did fancy
56:07
shape you as a human being? It really
56:09
feels like that song shaped
56:12
you as a human being. Honestly, I knew by
56:14
the age of eight that I wanted to be a hooker.
56:16
I was like, I wanna go to Hollywood and do what this
56:18
girl is doing, who gets the blonde wig and then
56:21
the red wig. What could that
56:23
be better? And she changes outfits all the time. I
56:25
love this. And then you know where my studio
56:27
is? It's a block from where they filmed
56:29
that location with her in that hotel. Like
56:32
my life actually, my dreams came
56:34
true, honestly. I mean,
56:37
we've seen every drag queen
56:39
in the world take
56:41
off that upper lip and do that song
56:43
at your local bar. But
56:46
there's a reason. And I've
56:49
always theorized that we
56:51
as queer people identify
56:53
with female tragedy. I
56:57
wanted the red dress with the foot and thigh cleaned up in my
56:59
head, it's funny.
57:00
But you know what is in that
57:02
song
57:02
is there's that sense of tragedy,
57:05
but then there's also that sense of triumph
57:08
and then
57:08
rising above it. And like,
57:11
oh my God, of course, dive bar drag queens,
57:12
we're
57:16
all dreaming of like our Moulin
57:18
Rouge moment, our pretty woman moment
57:21
of like, we kind of romanticize the idea
57:23
of slumming it until we like
57:25
hit that big
57:27
moment, get that stride, you know? And
57:30
I think drag queens, we're just always going to
57:32
identify with the underdog hooker.
57:35
Willem, thank you so much for joining me
57:37
today. And thank you for giving me the
57:39
job in which you joined me
57:41
today. Of course. Do
57:44
you want me to read your ads with you? You want
57:46
me to jerk off the simp bird? I
57:48
already did the ad while I was waiting for you to jerk
57:51
off the simp bird. Do
57:54
you have anything else we've talked about so much,
57:56
Shikai? Anything else you want our
57:58
listeners to, I say, our... listeners
58:01
because they are they are yeah you got
58:03
it anything you got a plug I
58:05
want to plug
58:08
all the mom shows I like them all I
58:10
have the list we talked about I'm gonna hit
58:12
him again I'm gonna hit him again here we go here
58:15
we go we got let's wait let's see
58:17
if I can do it yeah yeah all in closet
58:20
yeah with Jada and Heidi
58:23
famous this week with Priyanka and Brooklyn
58:25
yeah the chop with Manila and Latrice
58:28
yeah jinx with jinx monsoon
58:31
uh-huh there's also meatball in Big Dipper on sloppy
58:33
seconds Alaska and Willem
58:37
there's I know there's more oh oh oh oh
58:40
we had Shay doing like a top model podcast
58:42
the children yeah we've had a
58:44
lot of girls
58:45
pretty girls
58:47
and
58:51
you know I think I think there's
58:54
just some we've talked about it for years
58:56
but there's lots to be said about
58:59
artists creating their own
59:01
work artists creating work for other artists
59:04
and artists being the producers of
59:06
all said stuff because
59:10
there's a lot of you know you
59:12
know there's a lot of people out there
59:15
who don't have art
59:17
as the as the the
59:19
show is not their bottom what
59:23
artistic integrity of the show is not
59:26
what they're concerned with let's say
59:28
I had to build my own new bridge because I burned all
59:30
the other ones but honestly I'm happy
59:33
out here doing my thing I
59:35
get to work with people who treat people
59:38
how I like which is why I work for myself yeah
59:42
which you know I work my boss is
59:44
an asshole but I'm self-employed
59:46
so I chose that so I put a very famous
59:48
asshole yeah but she makes me get in drag
59:51
all the time she's like put a wig on
59:53
and then I have to hit her and I'm like bitch you better put a wig
59:55
on you get to put a wig on and that's what
59:57
I do in the mirror and I'm like put your wig on bitch Put
1:00:00
your makeup on. But every once in a while you
1:00:02
get to rebel by wearing handlebar mustaches
1:00:05
or one of those horrifying baby masks
1:00:07
that you insist on. That's
1:00:09
what I was going to say about like all
1:00:12
the things that you were saying about like the terrible
1:00:14
Republicans and like the things that are happening.
1:00:17
I was like, there's drag queens with mustaches out
1:00:19
there. Girl, like
1:00:22
it's end of days or we better turn it
1:00:24
around, honey. This all drag
1:00:26
is valid bullshit. The ugly girl is feeling
1:00:28
powered. Oh, she's like, I'm not shaving
1:00:31
no more. Throw my razor out.
1:00:32
I loved it. I loved it. And
1:00:35
I, I,
1:00:36
I encourage you to find more
1:00:38
ways to explore your
1:00:41
hidden avenues of your drag and your ginger.
1:00:43
Yeah, I'm going to deal with my pubes next
1:00:46
bitch. I love you. I hope
1:00:48
I didn't make you late for your flight. I'm sorry. You did
1:00:50
it. I love you so much, Willem. Thank you so much
1:00:52
for being my boss. Thank you for
1:00:54
being a friend. Thank you for
1:00:58
joining. Thank you for joining
1:01:00
me here today on Hi Jinx. Travel
1:01:02
down Hi Jinx and back again. I
1:01:05
love you. Thank you all so much for listening
1:01:08
to Hi Jinx here on the Forever
1:01:10
Dog and Mughals of Media Network.
1:01:13
My name is Jinx Monsoon and we have new episodes
1:01:15
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1:01:25
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1:01:28
Wednesday. You won't see him bitch. And
1:01:32
I'll see you next Wednesday for
1:01:34
some more. Hi Jinx. I'm putting
1:01:36
this in your quarterly review. You were sloshed. I
1:01:38
see you bitch. M. Oh. M.
1:01:40
Mom.
1:01:46
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1:01:51
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1:01:53
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Hi, Jinx is produced
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by Moguls Media, aka Moll,
1:02:05
hosted by me, Jinx Monsoon, and produced by
1:02:08
Joseph Shepherd.
1:02:09
Editing and sound design by Will
1:02:12
Pitt. Executive produced by
1:02:14
Willem Belli, Alaska Thunderfuck,
1:02:16
Big Dipper, and
1:02:18
Joe Sillio.
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