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Hi. It's just see. Today

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on the show the incredibly strong and

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talented Sarah Hyland. We'll talk about her

0:09

love story with Wells Adams. Why filming

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Modern Family was incredibly hard of moments

0:13

and her dad's D I Y approach

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to keeping her East Village block safe

0:18

when she was a kid. My

0:20

dad his nickname was the Mayor of

0:22

Seventh Street because at night he is

0:24

to actually like walk seventh Street between

0:26

first and second with a baseball bat.

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Yeah. You're gonna want to stick around

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for this. Oh

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what's that? I hear? Is

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that the sound of a spicy margarita being

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made? Our

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is Dinners on Me and I'm

1:20

your host Jesse Tyler Ferguson. I

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chose today spot for someone I

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consider a little spicy. Yet oh

1:26

so approachable. I know she also

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loves tacos and makes responsible nutrition

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choices. I mean, she makes biderman

1:33

infused chocolates for god's sake, Shudder

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to source. So without further ado,

1:38

you might know her from Pitch

1:40

Perfect Bumper in Berlin the wedding

1:42

year, or has my niece for

1:44

Eleven Seasons on Modern Family It

1:47

Sarah Hyland. I.

1:49

Mean, I see our she's going

1:51

to dance and. Body

1:55

are. Of

1:58

it's also my site I remember. What

2:00

did your birthday? Ah no. Christmas

2:02

Christmas Eve? are you came over for

2:04

Christmas Eve or hundred Cr? Yeah I

2:06

was great. Said that's right now remember

2:09

and Santa was hitting on my mom

2:11

sites? Ah or yeah he replied the

2:13

search for several these photos of them

2:15

like posing as my mom on the

2:17

couch in my just with his arm

2:19

around her as soon as possible. Also

2:21

her face is kind of like i

2:24

know what you're doing. You know if

2:26

she's like enough is enough Cel. Mai

2:28

does not want to kiss Santa Claus. Office

2:30

on what I did Not his mommy

2:32

kissing Santa Claus, South Korea those last

2:35

time someone time ago I. Know that's

2:37

on I'm saying. Have

2:40

you google yourself Recently got know why

2:42

job I'm just asking because I don't

2:44

I say yes I gave an interview

2:46

someone asked if I give you any

2:48

advice and so like if you google

2:51

your name I now this is the

2:53

have I know a pop up on

2:55

the got a said it just it

2:57

has of Ferguson held Sarah Hyland to

2:59

wait before having kids asks sizes. Wanna

3:01

go the record by saying i don't

3:03

care if you want to have kids

3:05

tomorrow and are never take a. Break

3:08

in the news here for oh. That's

3:11

so funny though. I'm

3:13

flattered other fights exact replica of know

3:15

where. I also support the i just

3:18

think it's a myself everyday magazine or

3:20

it is. You remember the year that

3:22

I. Decided. To get a

3:24

spray tan rep for the Emmys? Oh yes,

3:27

I remember very well. As

3:29

it allows. You

3:31

the I got a great my the bed

3:33

of I've read for I know I got

3:36

once. I was wearing a white tuxedo jacket

3:38

and I love you I'm very pale like

3:40

maybe just a little bit a collar might

3:42

have you know us citizens was a cast

3:44

thursday and stuff funny or make a part

3:46

of the head of the make up and

3:48

for modern family said oh I'll do your

3:50

spray tan she comes in with our tests

3:52

does my tan and bad night I went

3:55

to an event for of is a preemie

3:57

events. Do like the red carpet new.

3:59

take photos with everyone. Then I see a

4:01

photo of myself. That. of friends

4:03

have the I I a photo with having no

4:05

and actually some artificial my phone and as the

4:07

going to look at it i see myself for

4:09

the first time and i look. Seven.

4:12

Shades darker than I normally. What did? You wash

4:14

it off before the events. Noted that

4:17

this is on a Thursday like I got

4:19

my town of with the Emmys One a

4:21

sad sad this under it's right I okay

4:23

to the not been a many with it

4:25

with the night off but I look at

4:27

life for the I was the end of

4:29

a rigged I was like God by Sunday

4:31

and I'd say that sounds good to go.

4:33

Into Details or the Emmys? That maybe not

4:35

as a preemie. Applied in no no I'm

4:37

never going to those with cel on now. I'm

4:39

a sucker for Julie Bowen about this little bit

4:42

like offensive the beginning when the show was new

4:44

and we were like the new kid on the

4:46

block and my you know everyone was celebrating os

4:48

and they were throwing a party for us like

4:51

because it was so excited about the so and

4:53

then like an awesome are we went away a

4:55

high who are. Known

4:58

need to have fled, say

5:00

anything to certain. Resonance.

5:03

I would love an agua Fresca.

5:07

Onto watermelon seeds. And

5:09

I was. A

5:11

C Know that he tapped. At

5:15

Kfc seem to know my so much that

5:17

they glad that we all got of the

5:19

beginning of with you know going to those

5:21

parties and his feeling that wave of supports

5:23

and then you know we were lucky enough

5:26

to have that unison so long run with

5:28

it. But there was that time and doing

5:30

overtime Fiala what that time was like when

5:32

thus support started going psychopath. Your

5:34

time's up. Get out of out of the

5:37

fourth when I didn't know how to exit

5:39

the into exactly yeah Retirement nice and long

5:41

time less than I have dinner on the

5:43

Ah. Talked about. The

5:46

office hours like there's others have verified turn. thank

5:49

you for the same other way. I mean

5:51

Die. You're one of my most favorite people

5:53

in the and our. Our on Now I

5:55

like to support my friends. I have absolutely

5:57

the since you and Wells recapping your wedding

5:59

on his. Like I

6:01

want to hear what this with my from

6:03

was it from south side of things? Yeah.

6:07

You. Look at that to see the. Series

6:12

See what she won. What's your

6:15

favorite? Like ours like to a fast. And.

6:19

Loose. Systems

6:21

are bonzo flower. Pickled onions

6:24

to die for. Oh wow, that

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was possible as accessible for the

6:28

flavors, textures. Listen, Block block and

6:30

sets. Amazing. Of other will ha couple. Of

6:33

minutes from the tigers? Don't

6:35

mind You Got me auto

6:38

Yes please! Ah man. So

6:40

nine and thinking so my

6:42

it's. Easy

6:46

to know my as much

6:48

my ah say are you

6:50

have mattered data Cel mai

6:52

there I'd Sears I Love

6:54

and Agua Fresca. I love

6:57

spicy Mar some says a

6:59

basic right now. I

7:01

really love Spicy March so does

7:03

it out. I have so many

7:05

things are so let's talk. First

7:07

of all, I was thinking today

7:10

about how are your childhood was like my

7:12

dream to see he's going to be nice

7:14

I was Verizon obscene amount ha I dreamed

7:16

going to New York. I watched the twenty

7:18

Words of recently as a bad so I

7:20

didn't know what me or was. yeah that's

7:23

what I want to be Funny little money

7:25

the in the kid and zachary as a

7:27

guide since wanna go some day and you

7:29

would normally born in New York for you

7:31

were raised their why I believe both your

7:34

parents were actor rising among an actress minor

7:36

you know yet is currently working and Harry

7:38

Potter yeah. On Broadway similar though I'm

7:40

on Broadway on bigger Mama's with

7:42

his his was an actress is

7:44

an aunt. Is. Now was

7:46

then. Okay to got sick either time

7:49

in between Mister Concepts and your brother was

7:51

an actor and my goodness to talk to

7:53

me about. Like not only like which is.

7:56

Growing up a dark, a child actor, new your

7:58

for accidents, living as a. Head in

8:00

that city. Yeah, it's it's

8:03

wild, you know any? It's always

8:05

like. Grass. Is greener type

8:07

of sassy girls and of my good

8:09

three hundred square foot a partner with

8:11

it. how many kids and on that

8:13

off top of the side floor walk

8:15

out with mice everywhere like I'm so

8:17

grateful for it and I loved every

8:19

second of it growing up that it

8:21

it definitely was like I knew it

8:23

was different. but yeah, I couldn't imagine

8:25

a difference as a child had even

8:27

when I was a child. like even

8:29

in that present moment you know, the

8:31

eastern edge. I grew up on seventh

8:33

between first and second. Street and East

8:36

Village in the nineties. It.

8:39

Was not not what it is now

8:41

and it was very dangerous is my

8:44

dad had on his nickname was the

8:46

Mayor of Seven street because at night

8:48

he is sue actually like lox Seventh

8:50

street between first and second with a

8:52

baseball bat. And that.

8:56

I cannot imagine Andrew nice. Blog:

8:59

A lot of intimacy with a baseball that it's a

9:01

kind. Of like our own lives street patrol time

9:03

so sort of as a doing it is and

9:06

how soon. As an intimidation tactics to get you know

9:08

like there was a lot of people on the street

9:10

that had little kids and. You

9:12

know how to protect. You know,

9:14

just like he, but he wouldn't have

9:16

my job a baseball mother. yeah and

9:19

so everyone nickname him the Mayor of

9:21

Seven Six assess what he did. so

9:23

as it is. It's very wild thinking

9:26

about my childhood, about how my parents

9:28

had to literally like lift me up

9:30

out of the fly a because they

9:33

were needles their from overnight so I'm

9:35

it was very very dangerous growing up

9:37

that I didn't think of anything otherwise.

9:40

Hello. Mike. Martz.

9:44

Young I think you. So

9:46

much use embedded within a hundred. A

9:49

nice to have your army. I started

9:51

acting and making money when you were

9:53

for I was for a yam and

9:55

that was like what voiceovers commercials. I

9:57

played Howard Stern's daughter and sizes. Then

10:00

right. When I came out ninety seven billion,

10:02

I started. I was for are you

10:04

serious Yeah do you remember her name

10:06

out with my every single moment? I

10:09

mean tell me but what you remember

10:11

it is a H form and being

10:13

a working actor in New York. It's

10:16

a strange I think I'm a

10:18

few people that remember way too

10:20

much about. I'm

10:22

sorry remember thing that happens here for ah.

10:24

My yeah I mean. Mm

10:26

le haut de simple says because I've been

10:29

begging my parents to let me on this

10:31

and and then being. In a

10:33

feeder actors. They're like

10:35

know you're going to face or jackson and before

10:37

for the rest of your knife on her her

10:40

wanna be an actor trust me it's asic know

10:42

I I this is me and i post my

10:44

dad's or this and so he or not isn't

10:46

a private parts and then they saw me and

10:48

they were like oh my gosh who has long.

10:50

Curly hair you have taught doesn't say how sorry I

10:52

got. It my dad didn't

10:55

and so were filming at

10:57

Jfk. And it's

10:59

really just me and I can't remember. the

11:01

other little girl's name is who says that

11:03

Shipley, My older sister. It's just like as

11:06

running up the Howard Stern's Screaming Daddy Die

11:08

In Semi. That's and like walking away. It

11:10

was the easiest gig for a four year

11:12

old. And arms or

11:14

something. I'd say I came. My.

11:17

Quote Unquote Trailer was a conference. Room.

11:20

And. They're like hi, I'm so it's

11:22

on the Ps. what do you want to

11:24

eat at? I heard p A N in my

11:27

head I thought personal. Assistant professor.

11:30

So I was like oh personal assistant think

11:32

you some as I get this entire conference

11:34

room to myself. looks healthy as the I

11:36

am I would like them fees and soccer

11:39

covered strawberries. Thank you so much with the

11:41

thrive and and she was like I'm I'm

11:43

not sure if there's a blimp easier but

11:46

I will see what I can do and

11:48

I will see what to do. That talk

11:50

with covered strawberries and our case somehow they

11:52

made it. Happens only around at a turkey

11:55

sandwich from one season truck with covered strawberries

11:57

I was like this is the life. By

12:00

the way, p A stands for Production Assistant

12:02

Warmth, not your parcels. For

12:06

your own times, I know productions. As

12:08

my dad had been gathering feeders so

12:10

I didn't know this film television life

12:13

and so I just thought personal assistant

12:15

and that It was like the most

12:17

glamorous saying in the world for me

12:19

and I had so much fun and

12:22

Howard was just that scientists individual and

12:24

I just remember thinking like you have

12:26

the bluest eyes I ever see. Are

12:29

so pretty. Grass. And then

12:31

the next job that I got was. Things.

12:33

And of her innocence, daughter and objects

12:35

my success and I had a Honey

12:37

Wagons There was no one piece or

12:40

chocolate covered. Strawberries and one honey widely

12:42

dispersed for people who have narrowed about

12:44

is like or how would you describe.

12:46

I'd say it's kind of like a

12:48

sleeve of a room on asleep. So

12:50

much of a room upset, a seat

12:52

on the rails if it, if it,

12:54

If it's if it. Basically.

12:56

I a trailer that's divided into

12:59

like for three or four parts.

13:01

and maybe I would. Say more like

13:03

five or. Something. Like

13:05

easier little segment of the of the trailer

13:07

and sometimes of the bathroom and a usually

13:09

now. Or woke in. It ends.

13:12

And ninety's the Honey Wagons You

13:14

lifted up a position of the

13:16

couch. And it got way right steps for

13:18

I remember the first time I guess actually

13:20

was in wind that added to a server

13:22

converted to it's one of like this cannot

13:24

be sounded are now these measures sitting on

13:26

out when it was you know when wouldn't

13:28

want to go out and brickhouse and been

13:31

feeling very uncomfortable to be first person was

13:33

just like blue lights me as with water

13:35

you know who knows how many people have

13:37

been in. here are my daughter novel is

13:39

the exact details it was all very disturbing.

13:41

yeah odds are that was one. How do

13:43

I feel as a honey worried about. A

13:46

been able to moser shock a surname. A

13:48

diversion of a com for yeah, yeah exactly.

13:51

From the and and covered strawberries and conference

13:53

in my mom was like oh thank goodness

13:55

she's not and want to act anymore because

13:57

she sees how nice really is our. The

14:00

actor. Said then I would you

14:02

know and be doing my penmanship on on the side

14:04

of the street because it was a nice day out

14:06

in. The. One honey wagon so like

14:08

a bathroom because it was road and Jennifer

14:10

Anniston som ensues like oh, Has. Failed

14:16

your horses. And my mom

14:18

was like. I'm.

14:21

Trying to teach my daughter a lesson that

14:23

it is not all glamour and now you're

14:26

inviting her into your entire trip with some

14:28

said any for hair samples and it was

14:30

like one of those massive trailers and you

14:32

know she's Jennifer for can and a sense.

14:35

Of ahead of friends right now at. Like

14:37

like beginning site like that. Like

14:39

essentially like mater family season see.

14:41

Your Uri kind of of Israel. A.

14:43

Big big deal has it's a massive trailer

14:45

and I would just to like. Jennifer Anniston

14:48

would help me with my penmanship and everything

14:50

and my mom was like my goodness my

14:52

my daughter's just like. The luckiest

14:54

two little girls ever that she

14:57

keeps getting his heart hold

14:59

into these places. And. of

15:01

her I've always wondered as because I

15:03

did not come from parents of bar

15:06

near my parents were not in the

15:08

entertainment for the house but I know

15:10

that some of my friends in of

15:12

grew up with with parents who were

15:14

playwrights and announcers and on what was

15:17

it like for you were. Growing.

15:19

Up with parents who were successful they were

15:22

working on but you know if you were

15:24

sort of hitting it at a different levels

15:26

seems like even early on and yards you

15:28

know if that was like for your dad

15:31

and for your mom to to sort of.

15:34

Be. Separate and you into this industry

15:36

and have you doing so well it

15:38

was. There are complications with that. On

15:41

My parents have always been so supportive

15:43

Other than then saying no, don't become

15:46

an actor. Us right? Once

15:48

they realize that that the train and left the station

15:50

and they couldn't stop and they realize you know like

15:52

will we have to support her now. And to research

15:54

on his ride. My dad

15:56

would you know he was doing Merchant of Venice

15:58

soon as it. Dirty to remove

16:01

all. I'm just kind of like really taking

16:03

any job. He said to put money on

16:05

the table so he would be in Colorado

16:07

for six months at a time. and here

16:09

I was. You know, on television shows and

16:12

doing movies left and right at. But I

16:14

think that they were always. Just.

16:16

Really proud of me and just always making

16:18

sure that I wanted to do it. I

16:20

don't think they ever resented me in any

16:23

type of way. I think they just realized,

16:25

you know, like a I guess this is

16:27

what our daughter's going to do with her

16:29

life. We really hoped for her. To be

16:31

a doctoral or a lawyer who? something. We

16:34

wanna make sure that she doesn't make

16:37

any. Mistakes and I'm so

16:39

grateful for how my parents raised me

16:41

and and and navigated that. me being

16:43

in the industry and kind of doing

16:45

things that they weren't even doing and

16:48

had never done before. But you know

16:50

I wasn't like a Dakota fanning at

16:52

a H and were like I was.

16:54

I was just like kind of like

16:56

a steady working. Actor around

16:58

the age. Of four to eighteen, Andra

17:01

when modern when I look modern.

17:03

Family that was like the big

17:05

rocket to the moon pillars kind

17:07

of thing. I think that honestly

17:09

because I came from it's sphere

17:11

families and because I had essentially

17:13

displayed jewelry my entire life for.

17:15

Fourteen. Years earlier. In tv

17:18

shows and and even Broadway and

17:20

things like that, it was it.

17:22

It really helped. Set. Me

17:24

up for. Navigating.

17:26

Modern Family to the success

17:28

that. I. Was able

17:31

to just personally on a personal note because

17:33

it really could have gone sideways. So me

17:35

I was eighteen of the living in L

17:37

A I myself I could have become that

17:39

club. Girl and. Things could

17:42

have gone spirits for more so he

17:44

think because the way that my parents

17:46

raised me and navigated me within the

17:48

industry. and you know like my mom

17:50

was a wardrobe supervisor at some point.

17:52

So like any time I do a

17:54

job I hang up my wardrobe It

17:56

could be side am in the morning

17:58

after crazy long nights. you. I'm

18:00

hanging up my wardrobe, the case, Is

18:03

everybody leaves their wardrobe on the ground

18:05

in a trailer? Was there was someone

18:07

that has to pick it up and

18:09

hang it up themselves And that two

18:12

three minutes of their time for every

18:14

single after act. So. Much am I am a

18:16

so far for one. So for me, that's that's

18:18

something that I always do. So I think

18:20

they always is truly raise me to have

18:22

respect for every but every single. Being

18:25

right on a production and

18:27

a lower risk Buffalo School?

18:29

Yes! thank you. So my

18:32

it's oh my goodness Wow

18:34

Thanks New into a car

18:36

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18:39

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then hundred as Isis and

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welfare of. Your children that have an

21:14

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21:16

awesome as the saying his earnest as hims

21:18

your i'm so sorry miss her which I

21:20

am as on we be friends regardless because

21:22

I love you we have use of return

21:25

com and and we just we're gonna could

21:27

vary on a very deep level murder mana

21:29

from the other would definitely go hazard knowledge

21:31

one of the reasons we are so close

21:33

to do love my husband so much so

21:35

I asked my mouth is so thought if

21:37

we about the Boars I'm not fully confident

21:39

but I would I knew and of others

21:41

and seven. I would. Straddle

21:43

across a. Variety

21:46

of different level. I'm a downer, you

21:48

know that on Chicago for you and

21:50

I Love I'm. At so funny

21:53

because it's in your up as of

21:55

a Julian suicide. Line

21:57

of I don't know if I would have picked, just. As Mom and

21:59

I was. I like I was.

22:01

Sort of. Thing

22:04

as I used to state gay

22:06

man and. I like that one. I

22:08

would want to dance and so I'm that

22:10

would. Allow that on

22:13

average on a brigade are are we are speaking

22:15

of of me when I first started to so

22:17

obviously I was single. but you are were you

22:19

living with your boyfriend at the time. And

22:22

know so. I. Remember it

22:24

was either is that say or

22:26

the day before your first state

22:28

was just sent somehow filming. At

22:31

A and Glory As Ah what it was

22:33

No idea or ten months is that? Where's

22:35

that? We're in the foyer? I am as

22:38

A and Glory As And you come up

22:40

to Maine and you're like I had a

22:42

date with a twenty. I

22:45

was like have a day with a twenty three

22:47

year. Old. We

22:49

both had days a week and with like twenty.

22:51

Three on as I was like married and I was.

22:53

So excited I was like oh my gosh, these

22:56

other guys are going to marry anyone on that

22:58

one day and have. Absolutely no No. I hope

23:00

this works out with the twenty three year old for

23:02

jersey has a. Murderer yesterday and of so funny.

23:04

Remember that I know I'm that are all

23:06

that's hilarious I am going in order I'm

23:09

sort of appeasement. I was like okay maybe

23:11

just voice too young for me. A fair

23:13

and I are both I'm so I'm sorry.

23:15

I probably like. Accidently freak you out

23:17

in that moment and. Even

23:20

to serie not. In retrospect, my own right

23:22

assets are hard topic. Of

23:24

the V now we've we've all the case and

23:26

together with I feel we all. It's it's it.

23:29

doesn't feel like I'm the old man of the

23:31

group even though none at all. I am a.

23:35

Half of my husband's older than your has

23:37

no assess assess as soon as a big

23:39

hodgepodge of. People. We love

23:41

it really really is or hits the certainly at

23:43

this time. You know and you know I see

23:46

things are things are changing rapidly You? yeah steady

23:48

work you have is John is so that's a

23:50

huge said. Are you for some appreciate how you

23:52

say you don't want to be defined by your

23:55

health struggles? Yeah But this is also a time

23:57

when you were having lot of how struggle. It

24:00

is when your career you're going to

24:02

not only like you know early twenties,

24:04

late teens which is such a small

24:06

I see we're to time anyway as

24:08

figuring out you know you're you're dating

24:10

people trying to figure out who who

24:13

won in a partner and then on

24:15

top of that dealing with something that

24:17

is not only putting you in a

24:19

sense not a pain but also changing

24:21

the way he was in a in

24:23

a period when like you are on

24:25

the hottest show on television was his

24:28

face said it was like we were.

24:30

On a five of. Five. And me around

24:32

three? Crazy yes. But it's like all

24:34

eyes are on us. Yeah yeah yeah

24:36

yeah. I mean. You

24:38

talk a little bit about what that felt like

24:41

from it's also a hub and we've had this

24:43

conversation so many times. Have so many people to

24:45

have this conversation with someone who is in that

24:47

space with you. Ah, months. I just hope that

24:49

you know you know I'm I'm sure to take

24:51

care of. You know, I don't want Sudan's Your

24:54

Hands exploiting this moment of your life because it's

24:56

something I know that was really hard for you

24:58

to go through without Like for you. I

25:01

remember there's a day on

25:03

Sats. Ah I

25:06

see. And.

25:10

I'm isn't just supreme amount of

25:12

hand. And sell

25:14

I were. I just kind of like a

25:16

seem like realizing something in there wasn't enough

25:19

time to go back to my trailer that

25:21

I also like. I'm fairly new so I

25:23

Santa's little corner and Sarah and like single

25:25

or his kids and I was always that

25:27

say and glory as long as the owner

25:30

so much. As a family seem are almost

25:32

all we ever. How? Yes! Exactly and sell armor

25:34

and I was kind of curl up

25:36

into a ball and you came up

25:38

to me in an and and very

25:40

lightly touched me on the so is

25:42

the i felt like everybody at that

25:44

time thought like as i them breathe

25:46

on her skin a break and on

25:48

the you're just like. And I

25:51

get you anything is there? Anything. You

25:53

Need and see or for yell

25:55

and me being the you know.

25:58

Oh, the Dictator And so. That are

26:00

on a date Anybody I was like no

26:02

I'm fine, I'm fine says at the is

26:04

I'm fine, Everything is gonna be okay and

26:06

I'm. In a it's just

26:09

like I just wanted to let

26:11

you know how appreciative I am

26:13

for that They know in the

26:15

moments I was probably very cold

26:17

in in in that place but

26:19

it was also like a protective

26:21

of like they expel any energy

26:23

and even energy of gratitude to

26:26

a person that I love so

26:28

dearly. that's gonna take away from

26:30

us this. Trying to freeze

26:32

myself in this moment so they don't feel

26:34

any more pain than I already do. So

26:36

want you to know that like any time

26:38

you did, any of that. Always

26:41

so appreciative of it. I think what

26:43

it goes back to is what you

26:45

were talking about before. Is this that

26:47

workhorse mentality said that comes from my

26:50

parents of of you don't know when

26:52

the next job is going to be

26:54

and you always have to work hard.

26:56

and if you don't work hard and

26:58

if you complain it's oh. You.

27:01

Get the boot wrong. so

27:04

for me if I ignored

27:06

or how i sell. Most.

27:09

Definitely not healthy. Please don't do their

27:11

from her Amazon account or less has

27:14

is is is how I got through

27:16

something else if I ignored us or

27:18

tried to set aside my pain and

27:20

just. Forge. Ahead

27:22

and that that was the only way

27:25

that I knew how and that was

27:27

the only. Honestly, that was the only

27:29

way that I was going to be

27:31

able to make it through anything was

27:33

just you work and you just constantly

27:35

work and he constantly distract yourself with

27:38

work and and that's it. For.

27:40

Me: It's. I don't remember

27:42

a lot of film and and because

27:44

I was always focused on this essentially

27:47

just surviving and knowing my lines and

27:49

being there one hundred percent when they

27:51

l doc sin and then immediately collapsing

27:53

when they have clients. For when

27:56

modern family was heading emphasis

27:58

advice from either. Mostly

28:01

from friends of mine who had been through

28:03

similar experience with a sign a them Will

28:05

and Grace or as nervous as friendly with

28:07

Matthew Perry from of who was on friends

28:09

give them My friend had stating amateurs I'm

28:11

almost all the basic I was. I just

28:14

remember every moment and really make it all

28:16

n sit there. Is that saying words like

28:18

it's you weren't You weren't you Lily weren't

28:20

capable of it. You want to hide, Sue

28:22

sub preserve his arm. I remember a day

28:24

when we were shooting and if we were

28:27

if is I don't know the specifics of

28:29

the scene and you might not remember it

28:31

as if I think you're in as intense

28:33

amount of tannadice were pushing a car. Oh

28:35

My. God. I remember that so much I

28:37

doubt. You have doubts I

28:40

wasn't. I doubt it was.

28:42

That's right, you had gotten I remember. You

28:45

are where I have a high heel shoe.

28:47

High heels. Hadn't been established by

28:49

the wet suits, you had not been a

28:51

feeling. I got cabbage on my side. Of

28:56

that is running nine. Our. Rubbing it also has

28:58

a was very intense on how. Busy

29:00

have not established my outfits and they

29:02

insisted the sad to say your name

29:05

I would sit there sitting on the

29:07

internet. About like are we were being brought

29:09

to us as yeah. I

29:11

I I had doubts to say it put me I

29:13

was retaining so much water they put me on. Like.

29:16

Water, pills or a what am whatever. It was an

29:18

an end. Because I was put on that I got

29:21

doubt in my foot. It was. The most excruciating

29:23

pain so vividly I can. I don't know,

29:25

I don't I'm of the seems that so

29:27

concerned about you. There. Was there was something

29:30

on the windshields? In the

29:32

Snow. Rip it off and was pushing. It really

29:34

isn't a car and you? yeah? because you were.

29:37

Up there are some of the sun rules. Are

29:40

set on organizers there's something have to

29:42

go to behave think Rb Records relatives

29:44

his opponents. aggressive left. There are so

29:46

few industries I feel were like people

29:49

are expected to work through illness like

29:51

that. and I do feel like the

29:53

entertainment business especially if you're in front

29:56

a camera you know if they tell

29:58

rights off for late. Reminds

30:00

war for months where you go to thank

30:02

you how to have to show off I

30:05

hope you will give you hear this pray

30:07

to make to just know it's coming from

30:09

specific the law but I'm not in energies

30:11

strong as crazy as mom I just remember

30:14

how strong you are during that time Nothing

30:16

House is this little months scandals I mean

30:18

as see that such super power we were.

30:21

we were filming a whole episode add on.

30:23

Lake Tahoe where we're on our on our

30:26

make hurt and you are in the middle

30:28

of dialysis Neuwirth after shooting you would get.

30:30

Driven like for is or her hours

30:32

to Bruno was a rino to do

30:34

dialysis around and come back to to

30:37

work the next day and these were

30:39

the things that were going on in

30:41

your life. and then on top of

30:43

that it's also be you know, the

30:45

starlit of this. Of this

30:47

suit show and a have all these eyes

30:49

on you. I just

30:51

your strengths still to the even A

30:54

In retrospect as I as I as

30:56

I zoom out and you know the

30:58

show is A for five years behind

31:00

a south It's it's it's it's been

31:02

a while and the pandemic really a

31:05

I am us with our timeline but

31:07

he really just sits at astonishes me

31:09

and it also just isn't It makes

31:11

me wonder why I can't have more

31:14

strength to myself. As

31:16

you truly. Rangers Such a superhuman

31:18

truly truly. Thank you so much!

31:21

I love you so much. Ends I

31:23

think we needed to hear that. Ah,

31:26

Ideal. I guess he knows that work

31:28

were saying they'll just keep doing it.

31:32

And. Then you forget and you don't

31:34

brag that about like a look what

31:37

I have countless others have done

31:39

and I do know that my strength

31:41

is something that I am very proud

31:43

as realized. Is

31:47

absolutely delicious! I can't believe this

31:49

is not says what. Was

31:52

what is it? Exactly Yes, The

31:55

classes. Are

31:57

gone So flower. the

32:00

landfill crema is assumed like that

32:02

softens and other incentives and for

32:04

faction a rally really ago so

32:06

it's amazing soda with sadly we

32:09

doing. That and drink a lot

32:11

of on or ruff ruff right

32:13

away from. same as here right

32:15

now think something was coming up

32:17

with that same feeling to your

32:19

was so also in a were

32:21

something insane happened during this time

32:23

when you were going to probably

32:25

the hardest part of your chronic

32:27

illness you're going in see your second

32:29

kidney transplant save your brother was

32:31

given you don't have in Darfur

32:33

was giving you a you know

32:35

his kidneys and right before all

32:37

this happened to. You

32:39

and your now has been

32:42

wells started to. Talk

32:44

to one Another Started today

32:46

wilde. What were we thinking?

32:49

I mean it for I remember when you started

32:52

talking about him and you become into words. How

32:54

how a price? Entire. Zap

32:56

when you're on dialysis? Yes! Vote

32:59

Was it like opening yourself up to love

33:01

and to are not even them to listen

33:03

about four years ago it's another dog and

33:06

maybe got a day with will suffer ghosts.

33:08

Bootleg it is you know it's it's a

33:10

very of of it's a very vulnerable place

33:12

the have to put yourself in see when

33:14

you meet anyone knew and you were in

33:17

such a vulnerable state vs as disney or

33:19

just had to is a physical human being

33:21

and am. I mean,

33:23

I mean, I know firsthand that I've I lived

33:25

through. If it's talked me about like what that

33:28

was like sensitive. For.

33:30

Involves answer life at that point. The

33:32

yeah it was so it's it's kind of

33:34

those to say that as the most of

33:36

it at the past queen as I am

33:38

I ever worked out such as Sad as

33:40

Harry. As a citizen, I. Told

33:43

you guys about him for the first time

33:45

in saw how the we have been talking

33:47

for a little bit at that point Sense

33:49

Tahoe came around and Taylor said came out

33:51

with reputation. As. And.

33:55

Has said and I are deserting our houses

33:57

arts and they are. On that a player.

34:00

The Campfire without. And. I

34:02

was. I am A. I'm A, I'm An

34:04

I'm that. How am I suggesting? Just about

34:06

walls. And then arm, of

34:08

course, like Justin, and well seeing the

34:10

Portuguese Kings that they are, I have

34:12

a he was like, oh, he's hot,

34:14

yeah, and. And. Yeah, I don't

34:17

I just was. says. Is open

34:19

to add. I could tell he

34:21

was a really good guy and

34:24

we were texting and and singing

34:26

voice memos at nonstop to each

34:28

other and then like getting on

34:31

insane linked It's it's graduated to

34:33

the phone calls and arsenal and

34:35

a all it's absolutely ridiculous and

34:38

I'm. Lucy was

34:40

opening up a lot to me

34:42

about like very personal things and.

34:45

I. Was sick man like been on the

34:47

bachelorettes is really did have a book.

34:49

It's like you went to be up.

34:52

Boot. Camps for Love. Ya are you

34:54

from a couple of it? Yes yes

34:56

I have. Well as was no wells

34:58

was art contest on about Sohrab yes

35:01

arm and you were watching Nazis and

35:03

I was you Words? Sweet!

35:06

Something about had read. It he was on

35:08

the mental all and he made a reference to not

35:10

only Harry Potter, but Lord of the. Summons for

35:12

our i'm not issues bus or buts

35:14

regime. International is like that, we union

35:16

type. okay doubts about socratic method our

35:18

nation and not bachelor nation. Was I'm a.

35:21

Part. Of wouldn't Vaccinations for culture

35:23

The ground based gotcha. Okay our

35:25

are. Either fan base or like

35:27

people. That. Had been on this Sullenberger

35:29

I know, or. How are guess married? It is

35:31

very much more than a vagina is a

35:33

rather large was as his or his aren't

35:35

very long have one pursuit of not our time

35:38

in his nose and. Gilad wells here. part

35:40

about when. A son or do is

35:42

on. Remember. So I like tweeted about

35:44

him he slid is my Dm and

35:46

then we stop talking and then a

35:48

year later arma I was single again

35:50

and said and was actually started talking

35:52

the am me out now as I

35:54

guess argue that wait really what assists

35:56

Wow did nothing to this is gonna

35:58

happen as a healer. In Nashville at

36:00

the time so I'm so it would

36:03

have been long distance and I think

36:05

that's the really great seeing about a

36:07

relationship is that not only did we

36:09

start long distance that we started just

36:11

on this phone on the like almost

36:13

like a modern day love letters reality

36:16

to like offered. Who are like I'm

36:18

into delay. Or for for her

36:20

allies or me and. My and

36:22

yeah, we've really, really got to know

36:24

each other before we even. Were.

36:27

Physically and the same room. afraid armor

36:29

So I felt very safe and comfortable

36:31

with him. That I'm obviously not enough

36:34

to tell him what was going on

36:36

medically in my life and invited her

36:38

know realize you know, like man like

36:40

a release. I can. I.

36:43

Think I could probably marry this guy

36:45

like. Is really like before going ham. I

36:47

yeah I was just like this is like

36:50

such a sarong connection and I have such

36:52

an amazing feeling about this. I'm gonna put

36:54

this out there is I'm not going to

36:57

start saving him when I'm in recovery. like

36:59

absolutely not arm. I've been through this before

37:01

and I know how hard it is when

37:03

you're recovering like that's not gonna happen soon

37:06

as this route out there. And as I

37:08

say, I'm having some

37:10

have then next week's and it's gonna

37:12

take me out of commission for the

37:14

next couple months so I can use

37:16

a come to our labor like within

37:18

the next week or else I don't

37:21

think that this can continue. And he

37:23

did. And we had our first date

37:25

at the night before the Emmys party.

37:27

And. That's when I told him that I

37:30

was on dialysis and that I was on

37:32

a Saturday and that next to say that

37:34

Saturday night before the Emmys party or for

37:36

states the next day was the Emmys. Our.

37:39

Second date after that Monday we had work

37:41

I'm on her family and to they have

37:43

a transplant and so I told him at

37:46

the night before the Emmys parties and he

37:48

made a joke because it's wells and if

37:50

he's uncomfortable he makes himself me as I

37:52

have a brother ask for that back ah

37:54

ha ha and I like know he camps

37:56

it doesn't work that way through like oh

37:58

okay and he likes. Like my life.

38:00

My really really serious I for the first

38:03

time see like oh this is like really

38:05

like This is really serious. And new

38:07

knowing that an ordained as an obituary been

38:09

through to be transferred before. I don't. I

38:11

don't I. Say have never arsema to say

38:13

he was a fan of the so. Rice.

38:16

Is as since I see like damn. I

38:19

guess like it was like in the first

38:21

few years of modern and he was watching

38:23

it with his buddies and he turned onto

38:25

his friends and was like good with he'll

38:27

is hop that like am I allowed to say

38:30

that? is that? Okay. Are you realize

38:32

that I was like a widow?

38:34

No desire. Sensor his three like

38:36

looking through like the I was

38:38

nineteen. It's it's existence. A favorable

38:40

response to a hypocrite and Missouri.

38:43

So like I don't know as he actually

38:45

knew I'd been through one before. Or

38:47

not, but buzzers, You see you

38:49

when into surgery like right after

38:51

meeting him basically yeah and then

38:53

with. What happened? Like to

38:55

scrub those days after disease? Did you say

38:57

turn away right? Know. He was. He

38:59

went back to Nurse Now after the

39:02

Emmys. He was there that weekend for

39:04

the Dogs Hero Awards so that I

39:06

presented as a surprise on and that

39:09

Asia you we just. I was in

39:11

the hospital on a crazy amount of

39:13

drugs ah moat what I like to

39:15

call Greenland and I was seats timing

39:18

him. Lord knows what I'm. Sad because

39:20

of of afford that have. Faced

39:22

a heavy wells and a half of I

39:24

remember he had like the I Heart Music

39:26

Awards and Sages. there's something like that on

39:29

the hard for I hard at the time

39:31

as A as a D a radio dj

39:33

and down see was there and he was

39:35

on this bus with all of these people

39:37

from the Bachelor that like I knew from

39:39

watching from television i'm in a hospital bed

39:41

so flight. Since. Loses high off

39:43

my ass oh my god and battle

39:46

of aswell I met you and however

39:48

as a i was just and and

39:50

like he put up with that me

39:52

was just so wonderful inclined and made

39:54

fall asleep on the phone with him

39:56

and even like okay him I'm gonna

39:58

text you to know. You fell asleep

40:00

on the phone to see you know and

40:02

on It was great and then he would

40:05

just come out once a week. Once I

40:07

was able to see people and percent of

40:09

her got i'll a Hospital and and that's

40:11

how we really started our relationship. It was.

40:13

It was wild and crazy by it. I

40:15

think I needed that. Will

40:18

be right back by. don't go

40:20

away Next we'll talk about wells

40:22

answer as wedding which I associated.

40:24

Thank you very much. Okay, be

40:26

right back. And

40:36

we're back with more dinners on mean. I

40:39

mean to meet someone and obviously the highs

40:41

and lows of hop at that time for

40:43

for you are just or is so astonished

40:45

me. I mean it's limited catholic in that

40:47

weekend. Oh yeah not only do me a

40:49

guy who really likes you go to the

40:51

Emmys I think we did We win that

40:53

you're of and efforts and I'm sorry his

40:55

how we got lost our testified are for

40:57

but still morality. Yeah First time. It

41:00

was a low but then it was a homage

41:02

and was unless one of champagne problems in an

41:04

earlier had a existence. Of a

41:06

to test the relationship at such as

41:08

early as like him in within a

41:10

say instances as it's it's it's for

41:12

marketable persona to survive youse arm and

41:15

I You guys are such a great

41:17

couple and it certainly was something mad

41:19

music a little like slam of all

41:21

he ever was Stewart Sarah's and was

41:23

his wedding by services As a general

41:25

feeling a docile weekend of like okay

41:27

these two people were of were meant

41:30

to be together and you know you

41:32

had gone through so much to get

41:34

to that day. For those

41:36

who don't know I did appreciate

41:38

the wedding as as an amazing

41:40

every other reside at. The

41:42

world works in mysterious ways because I

41:44

can't imagine you not now yes I

41:47

think wells and for those I don't

41:49

know was and I had planned to

41:51

have time area yes those of I

41:53

thought that it was an amazing oh

41:56

my gosh to Modern A in a

41:58

way that you know filming. Haley

42:00

and then sides had marry. Me

42:02

and is great. I were like. Oh

42:04

my gosh, And then and. Or

42:07

the se because he told us ten

42:09

days so for emergencies happen at and

42:11

so then that. Wells. And

42:13

I had a discussion and immediately called

42:15

you because we're like if he can

42:17

do this we need to the only

42:20

to tell him now and we're just

42:22

so grateful because it was. You are

42:24

absolute perfection. You were Gandalf. Upper upper

42:26

upper Atmosphere. For

42:28

good be able to do that was for

42:30

sources the honor but then also I got

42:32

to be a part of like is really

42:35

intimate moments like I got to be a

42:37

Beds in Urbana rather than ours for dinner

42:39

and on. There is such a theme of

42:41

like you know your brother Stan ever more

42:43

diverse, not a dry eye in another room

42:45

out as or Donovan sit up and talked

42:47

about his deep love for wells and has

42:50

deep love for you and just knowing that

42:52

you are on this planet because of the

42:54

sacrifice that he made his in knowing about

42:56

of since the detectives when you to I

42:58

mean it was just it was so overwhelming

43:00

and there is a so much love in

43:02

that room and on I was truly honored

43:04

to be part of as Samsung week and

43:07

you know we Rothys see. Also relieved because

43:09

it has been a wedding that we all

43:11

knew was on the books for way that

43:13

point two and a half years. Yeah, I

43:15

mean not to go back to modern,

43:17

but. Here we

43:19

ended even is the pandemic weep

43:21

for me as I. As

43:24

not going to be the for the

43:26

pandemic happened as it is not going

43:28

to be a hard for me like

43:30

everyone's like I was flying. Now that

43:32

it's fine I'm gonna hit me and

43:34

I guess when we're not coming back

43:36

to the cel putin were all coming

43:38

together in August for my wedding anyway

43:40

the like whatever cell phone it's each

43:42

other in August like so test suite

43:44

a denial of it as. And

43:47

like a publicist for a very

43:49

very very long time that I

43:51

insulated every single second of it

43:53

and I was able to actually

43:55

be very presence was as is

43:57

very. Grateful for no. More.

43:59

To tell her to. That. Had

44:03

to see I miss you so much. Just

44:06

and definitely like we have to do a

44:08

double date because he's like I have any.

44:10

When he knew I was coming he almost

44:12

came by the way about. I

44:15

now. Regret! We

44:17

flew to Mexico City and he brought back a little

44:20

bit about what about any my his you so much

44:22

I would love to have a double Its and. I

44:24

would lead to admit I'm probably just gonna have

44:26

to do it Civil liberties as as well Sleep

44:29

on Sunday for. Be I

44:31

P S or and paradigm or

44:33

okay, well me files do with

44:35

Autumn. So that's why ever all

44:38

of the no need to be

44:40

part of it was from a

44:43

cast away. From

44:47

Metabolites the Mouth of Hobby. Just go to bed

44:50

early and you now just playing some doors for

44:52

an item for I. Said

44:55

I was a possessive was in my dream. Buys

44:57

Oh my Glob Melatonin Southland. Because

44:59

the way the most likely not afraid

45:01

to system really want to Canada France.

45:06

Was really cool the are going to

45:08

know them thing this episode and got

45:10

our now has happened twice already I

45:12

know but not attempt a camp or

45:14

can manifest that hasn't happened. I know

45:17

I almost didn't. My

45:20

area the same. Process

45:22

and I had to like up for

45:24

free us from our on that doesn't

45:27

know them and again. Or

45:29

that I love. Me so much for

45:31

having me my coffee to your icons

45:34

on the top is on. Dinner is

45:36

dinners on Me! Ah. There's

45:46

probably work cast members from on her

45:48

family that I see the most, but

45:50

normally it's a double date or a

45:52

larger group. So he was so nice

45:55

to have some one on one time

45:57

with her. I was absolutely fascinated by

45:59

her early years. New York City, having

46:01

to working actors as parents, a small

46:03

railroad apart and with a bath in

46:05

the kitchen? I mean, no wonder they're

46:08

also close. I think this a Brazilian

46:10

said she learned through osmosis to seeing

46:12

her parents worked so hard to put

46:15

food on the table and me. it's

46:17

why she's such a hard worker and

46:19

even when her body failed her. and

46:22

I know system want to be defined

46:24

by chronic illness, but I find how

46:26

she's been able to persevere despite this

46:28

hardships incredibly inspiring. Next

46:31

time on Dinners on me

46:33

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46:35

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46:37

his birth father and Ethiopia and how

46:39

a conversation with his mom make change?

46:42

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