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no uma

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not become drop that's that's it it

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hotel am with my mom and

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she was going to sleep as she heard donkey start

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talking instances eddie murphy stick

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getting money or love you dearly

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was really funny system allows

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it so funny to fake cast people

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out they do a nice you bonuses

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are the nicest people the rather yeah nothing funnier

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than getting so mad at someone

3:16

so nice for just doing something

3:18

normal just normal kinds

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of yeah so fucking tyler and for

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yeah for people

3:24

in this room had percent

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using pepper thin

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and i was like i guess it's pretty said

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the size of a grain of peppers a

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second it even agree i feel like it's a spec

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it's don't know grain of salt

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record and affected pepper affleck

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are you the swamping

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tracks yeah that's great way to gathered

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together they did that on purpose

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the

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i

4:02

don't doubt eagles i'm

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doing well cause we're talking dirty

4:06

talking little bit today yeah we are in their

4:08

favor way to talk some ways yes

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if we can make the commercials you guys

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hear about skincare

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and the name something

4:17

else liquid ivy if we can make those things

4:20

dirty the anything

4:22

literary anything dirty and we love that

4:25

we're also not allowed to go quite as dirty

4:27

as we would like to yeah

4:29

lot of things cause like if we had

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free range of tic toc and ads

4:34

the , i have he would do

4:37

a would say god where hillary

4:39

and ass there's so many lines we wish

4:41

we could well deadline citizenry

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line lines i died died

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and her tic tac that we wish we could cross because

4:50

we're so fucking funny if you let me

4:53

be uncensored shrunk geez i

4:55

just wanna say com say at

4:57

will whenever i want i'm give

4:59

me your best the dirty talk line oh

5:01

god accounts thing i

5:05

see i'm not good at dirty talk of it

5:07

i get repetitive how

5:09

little dot though yeah it i don't

5:11

know how you could not get repetitive hey there's a certain

5:14

point where i'm like she said daddy too many times

5:16

i know i've said daddy to meet at how

5:18

he tends to the girl say cause it's and dick

5:21

and ride in ride and like

5:23

cheaper in a linear a linear i and

5:28

we don't have a deep i heard of

5:31

so there are the

5:33

people on tic toc who

5:35

can give you tip depending

5:37

upon your cake that you're someone who is like a

5:39

plea or yeah like order of king say

5:42

that having a but that's what i hear i

5:44

heard a hard ass a physicist

5:48

you're doing so good baby like i heard

5:51

ah nice that's nice

5:53

i know so i think that one could be cool

5:55

sometimes the dirtiest talk the

5:58

like

5:58

dirty on the

5:59

the river extra support actually

6:02

yes it is on fire

6:04

if i naked and you're just giving me your

6:06

unconditional support i

6:08

feel amazing if i'm naked

6:11

and you're inside me and telling me

6:13

how amazing i am too

6:15

, good at math i gotta love

6:17

him so i think of thing

6:20

that's never been said

6:21

yeah

6:22

i took my so many to splits

6:24

literally

6:26

i did not like four times the

6:28

dolan p as a to your boyfriend if

6:30

if you really want to cut deep yeah

6:32

that it's only about math if you really want to turn

6:34

me on compliment me and

6:38

there you go him nude

6:40

yeah it yeah it the things that aren't

6:42

necessarily dirty because i also

6:45

were both the same and which they

6:47

offering on that like why

6:50

do you have a girl when it comes dirty

6:52

talk south and i wanna be told things that are like

6:55

realistic i know it

6:57

depends on the say is that a man young

6:59

as i will say there was a time when i was

7:01

like yeah i like the word slut during sex

7:03

but then i was i were like sounds hurts

7:05

doesn't not earlier i when

7:07

i was i wish i deserve

7:10

that title right now i know but i don't

7:12

so try good girl

7:13

well and will go from there

7:15

yeah it's it's such a hit or miss

7:17

because i go through phases of wanting to be a good girl

7:20

wanting to be a bad girl and one the a slut

7:22

a dirty slut and then just emma status

7:24

as then my and how much you

7:27

know yards just tender so

7:30

i mean dirty talk can be hard it's hard doing

7:32

it by myself yeah

7:35

yeah kuwaiti have no response

7:39

that's what we saw anger at a

7:41

loss this is so tired that

7:45

way that dirty talk robot is really helpful

7:47

yeah i agree that terrifying they all

7:49

get that your guy to it oh

7:51

my god i cannot remember what would slip bought

7:54

slip bought at been so helpful for

7:56

like practicing your sexting and your phone

7:58

talk in general though terrifying when

8:01

you get a text message and you're not

8:03

sure who it's from but it's talking about fucking you

8:05

with the barbecue yet

8:08

mine was in the summer i don't i got

8:10

it yet is a yacht a number yeah

8:12

that contacts you his lake is

8:14

it a lady from football in as

8:16

like a slice that i

8:19

, from across the card yes

8:22

sir , lives of that sundresses

8:24

fuck you from behind and you're like

8:27

machida s did

8:29

, did , sex

8:31

i just got married i don't remember

8:33

this

8:36

gotta gonna delete as oh it's

8:38

a row as my friends

8:40

you are , any slip up dot

8:44

dirty hawkish dot dirty i think it

8:46

gets repetitive because what

8:48

are you gonna say if if i'm in the mood

8:50

for

8:52

good girl where you going to going with

8:54

that great girl great

8:55

circular girl that killer only

8:59

i , a plus i i

9:02

was in i flood scout

9:07

it's that good

9:10

i'm sorry but

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i

9:14

them feel like there's a lot of risk

9:16

that comes with dirty talk in that like you

9:18

take some risks when you're trying something yeah

9:21

you're saying something for the first science

9:23

yeah it's like oh did

9:25

that hit or did it like

9:27

it is a hit or am

9:29

i way off yeah

9:32

being way off is the most terrifying

9:34

thing to me it's scary because it makes it

9:37

awkward wouldn't okay we've all talked about

9:39

embracing the awkwardness i will say

9:42

the my partner having sex couple weeks ago

9:44

the were trying some different things

9:47

and there was one point where he told me to say

9:49

his name

9:53

why are you you didn't say did i

9:55

set his sights whole name of the

9:57

earth has a

9:58

that i sit at the area

10:01

no like

10:03

a first name is your game and

10:05

that just doesn't cover like supernaturally

10:08

i did it and it was fine but

10:10

i like at first i wasn't sure what he wanted

10:12

me to call him when he said that hey

10:15

my name i would like to me to hate using

10:17

it , sad

10:20

the

10:22

to figure standing opposite ends the

10:24

tell you about it

10:25

that's better

10:27

they get some

10:30

, day and that's what i hear a lot isn't

10:32

a yard yeah

10:35

absolutely as i tried not to say

10:37

to those eyes again i'm they

10:39

as and sometimes he goes really other names when we

10:41

order food because people can't

10:44

say his name he also understand me

10:46

say i wasn't sure which one of those

10:48

he man who so i took around done in toronto

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of the he just been killed or

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not releasing and killed said

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the let go back

10:58

but i

11:01

come on me

11:03

you

11:05

don't know the narrow

11:09

you do that it's york city

11:12

, well did isn't did

11:15

you like it yeah like think so as

11:17

really in the moment

11:19

good good good as so

11:21

that's why i like having someone

11:23

talk for me which is kind of

11:26

what we're talking about yeah let's submit at a

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higher [unk] md yeah someone

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that does the celebs shop for yeah for dirty talk

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which is audio erotica

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uh-huh which is what we're talking about to that absolutely

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we have an lala of law

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is just a shining star and

11:43

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how to incorporate audio erotica why

11:47

like we like it and people

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i'm what the benefits are the

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whole kit and caboodle on a great

11:55

it is great and it's am

11:57

i feel like we learn a lot about we talk

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about

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the just have different like blueprints

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and stuff like that so we're learning a lot about

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how this fits in with different blueprints

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and where it can the appeal and

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i love and we've talked about dip

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see a lot and so this is just a fun

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different take from someone who writes her own

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me and educate me like i'm yours

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help help

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so for people who might not know what

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is audio erotica

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audio erotic the is

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listening to erotic content so like

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often times women don't get

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by ah i'm focusing on

15:53

found that helps them get more aroused

15:55

and basically it's list

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me to the money

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the right something as he can

16:01

visualize what going i think

16:03

that them it's really interesting as an hour

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is a rally them keep he

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actually the sound keyed in it's really

16:10

popular silent night and

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some our latest would do

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the right way thousands of it and how

16:17

are you turn i'd be lying

16:20

so like like when is it and

16:22

silent going up and i found out that turnkey

16:24

which is a really common themes of fear

16:26

person as into a of them are airfare

16:28

person at like one i like noise and sonic

16:30

and has to get all that turns you on in a bedroom

16:33

that you know

16:35

that is so cool damn yeah

16:38

that's a really good point i listen

16:40

to fmr i wonder if it's

16:42

within the same type of category

16:44

so it puts me to sleep like if i listened

16:46

to as summer like

16:48

it and getting some sort of like enjoyment

16:51

out of it because it's relaxing me i

16:53

enjoy those sounds i wonder if it's within

16:55

the same realm of like pleasure

16:58

like sexual pleasure

17:00

really eager the because you're

17:02

funny enough pleasure in the

17:04

sound it's you're you're mine is

17:06

your biggest sex or have a bigger bigger say

17:10

in how would orgasm right orgasm

17:12

right definitely think that think that can play a role

17:14

with pleasure that i feel like as he can find pleasure

17:17

outside the bedroom because you find

17:19

a better and

17:21

that makes sense because something

17:23

that just clicked for me with how important

17:26

sound and talking is for me when i'm

17:28

with a partner and it's like him

17:30

you and my i was having sex the other day and

17:33

my husband wasn't talking enough and i was like

17:35

so out of it and i couldn't stay

17:37

in the moment they thing is is because i had

17:39

other things going on to but it's like i really needed

17:41

that and i just could not get myself

17:43

there without and so makes sense like

17:46

yeah that auditory input is very

17:49

important raised catholic deathly in

17:51

the same vein sport also helps is

17:53

like when the people like when

17:55

you're having sex when they're talking dirty

17:57

and they're really selling it is

17:59

i feel

17:59

that also ties into like good audio

18:02

erotica like if you can really

18:04

tell that the people a part of that are like sell

18:07

in it issue it so one

18:09

join exactly so what else

18:11

makes good audio erotica

18:15

for me i think we're also makes

18:17

good on erotica is a lot of descriptive

18:19

terms like were making tanner

18:22

these are like not only

18:23

into the found that this all eyes

18:26

on imagine the sea life at

18:28

something really bad i have about like how

18:30

my mean i love interest

18:32

smells an awesome

18:35

like when you can have like

18:38

a t

18:40

well against ended in size the sky

18:42

with the person look like as well on

18:45

our think i'm a good for audio right

18:47

as islam is relaxing noises is also

18:49

like going out like ocean

18:51

found the an awful news or sound

18:53

this allows allows you to begin

18:55

at like has space the come

18:57

down to be able to enjoy sex

19:00

absolutely imagining smell

19:02

to is huge for me and i never

19:04

realized that that's like a key detail

19:06

that i enjoy until someone describes

19:09

it beautifully like that

19:11

as a sexy whomever in

19:13

the room and i can tell ah

19:16

that's really fun to include like

19:19

the soundscapes as well

19:21

because then it's like you're in a movie but like in

19:23

your head

19:25

i'm actually in a place yourself into

19:27

the fantasy

19:29

the you think that listening to audio radhika can

19:31

make you better at saxon

19:34

like improve your dirty talk skills

19:36

and all of those aspect

19:38

anything like

19:39

improve your dirty talk skilled

19:42

in an awful to i feel

19:44

like you can help you get in a mood more and like

19:46

i think for place a gone all day i

19:48

feel like you listening to audio

19:50

right as his own kin warm you up for

19:52

your bedroom

19:55

you recommend listening it like any point

19:57

like just putting in your air pause and

19:59

just like

19:59

i'm going for it wherever you're at

20:02

that makes melnyk i just said masturbate

20:04

whether or not they're not not i may

20:07

decide , a liar if i'd like

20:10

differentiating point to make is like

20:12

are you listening to masturbate

20:14

or can you listen just to like enjoy

20:16

and start your foreplay saturday

20:19

the idea pointing fan and i

20:21

feel like it's a good way to authors

20:24

each traders on your filled at home

20:26

mom so releases oxytocin

20:29

bethany serotonin far as

20:31

the like is through like a stressful situation

20:33

is hop in some auto auto

20:35

erotic isn't that can actually help calm you down

20:38

we're all for like making time to

20:40

masturbate know that but i feel like it's also

20:43

a really good way like oh i know

20:45

i'm not going to have time to mastery i know knocking on

20:47

time to like really set aside for sex today

20:49

but it's like i still want to feel that turn on i still

20:51

want to get those said feelings

20:54

i feel like that could be a way to do it

20:56

you can incorporate it into your team like oh i'm getting

20:58

ready let's just pop on some audio radhika

21:01

years and leave

21:03

we did i central from bad enough missed

21:05

a sell out result my pelvic

21:08

floor as finalized my step in

21:10

to some extent as he do as lot of breast work

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21:17

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21:19

like com an animal that by mine and mine my

21:21

bad it is of are excited

21:24

that makes so that makes perfect sense to cause

21:26

also when i'm getting ready i'm listening

21:29

to that bb radio you know bad

21:31

bitch energy on spotify if

21:33

you're listening to something that's turning you on i feel

21:35

like that's the same

21:37

type of energy you know you're a

21:39

feeling that's a confidence boost your

21:41

learning you know it's all of those

21:43

things combine them a listen to it all the time

21:47

convince , he invents to me what

21:50

is different about your

21:52

audio the

21:54

eroticism erotica is it is my saying

21:57

either correct

21:58

mine

21:59

the

22:01

they know that you write your own stories rise

22:03

and i do i feel like you make it a point to

22:05

like make years the little bit different

22:08

so when i did as different

22:09

so often times like

22:11

when i was on five hadn't simply compared roddick

22:13

story they would have like a story

22:16

but if you like a monitor how many

22:18

new been anything behind it and you have

22:20

to see the has i kind of a story

22:22

line the focus mama right pounds

22:25

and that's the way to immerse us to

22:27

together some way to give people a

22:29

story with a story line and with

22:31

the music and sound effects behind it

22:33

to make it if the best above well

22:35

and like that it's like a book because short

22:37

like more longer form story content

22:40

and also for people who might need more

22:42

of a warm up like i've listened to did the

22:44

in depth see stories range from like eight

22:46

to like maybe fifteen minutes

22:48

so any i listened to one of yours and

22:50

it's longer so it's like it's for people

22:52

who do need more of a warmer

22:54

like what you did just plays and like your different sexuality

22:57

types and like what you need was i think is

22:59

great

23:00

yeah absolutely

23:02

and then i also saw

23:04

and it probably comes up with some of the people

23:06

that you bring on the like talking about relationship

23:09

tips and consent like do those topics

23:11

come up with in stories and like

23:13

why is that important to hear

23:15

erotica

23:17

absolutely and they do in

23:19

isolated

23:20

important because often time to fight people

23:23

get lane inner circle how i

23:25

know i won my first bias my

23:27

society i'm thirteen winning harlequin romance

23:29

novels a lot of stuff

23:31

about think that way stifling

23:33

the important to bring education to story that

23:35

my know a lot of times and i've read books or even

23:37

we watch pornography stores like know prep

23:39

again or you latest magically happened

23:41

beneath the for i've seen for and like into

23:44

it is i make an appointment to

23:46

talk a lot about the fat in a live

23:48

in everything that goes into such as after

23:51

an awful zoc a lot about using condoms

23:53

and stuff i bad and they're talking through

23:56

by the hallway with the comfy and in

23:58

also like my mum that

24:00

mystery a professional t says lot of my

24:03

history deprivation and stuff like as like talk about

24:05

talk safe word and face fines and stuff

24:07

like that

24:08

for me

24:10

love

24:11

the truly as incorporating the educational

24:13

peace to this like pleasure in

24:15

creative outlet which yes

24:17

when we're learning about sex on we're learning about

24:19

our bodies it's like we

24:22

learned from part i learned from florence so

24:24

is your input is healthier

24:27

it's going to help shape

24:29

sex you're having with yourself with partners

24:31

to be healthier it's like

24:33

your expectations rise

24:36

, yeah when the galleries

24:38

that you're hearing and like even if you don't know that that's

24:40

what you're basing your sexual understanding

24:42

around you mar like like

24:44

that we absorb is going somewhere

24:46

in our in let's make

24:49

it good shit yeah it's when

24:51

you hear a fun person telling like a really

24:53

sexy story and they're describing

24:55

like safety and

24:57

consent you're like oh this consent you're

24:59

we've heard about it in places that like it

25:02

can be sexy and i think that's

25:04

important to hear

25:05

if he described in a sexy way exactly

25:08

i was we were that when you're talking about the

25:10

loop and condoms that all of that i feel

25:12

like we tend to think of that is just like own like is an

25:14

extra thing you gotta do and like know

25:16

that part not going to be sexy it's just going to be messy

25:19

and like i think it's really good to accept that they're

25:21

going to be messy parts of sex that are gonna be awkward

25:23

but if we can sometimes make them sec

25:25

seats or at least have some sexy

25:27

context for them i think that's really

25:29

cool

25:31

absolutely i agree you like

25:33

one thousand percent collide some puzzle read

25:36

or listen the southern mobilise who like

25:38

still a little and but allah they suck a lot the

25:40

guy giving her a know what a piercing and on either

25:43

the stay in under fire

25:45

i cannot imagine that felt great when i'm ramming

25:48

engines stick by

25:50

i'll leave now

25:51

grab

25:53

whole sentence her media sites

25:55

as even imagine physically enduring

25:58

that it's just not realist

26:00

now that's another thing that's enjoyable

26:03

about people who tell stories

26:05

differently with

26:06

erotica it's like you wanna hear

26:09

realistic situations

26:11

to scenarios you don't wanna hear this

26:13

like hollywood version that

26:16

lawless and just like not actually

26:18

gonna happen especially as you learn

26:20

more about yourself and if you are a little further

26:22

on and like your sexual exploration

26:24

journey like you are going to have pause

26:26

when somebody like ramming their dick and sry

26:29

you know what i mean like your to be like oh yeah no

26:31

that wouldn't feel good to me and so it's like that

26:33

is gonna take you out of the moment but if you're like there

26:35

was a lot of i'm not gonna go into we

26:38

, think , i

26:41

your hand lived as eight years and earlier

26:48

we i just can't no

26:50

, talk until she know

26:52

just worm down

26:56

down being called on in class in

27:01

whatever i'm starting whatever petition from

27:04

and people are yeah and

27:06

for i'm not enough people fill out

27:08

your google form i'll do it google

27:10

form like

27:12

and bill

27:13

million act for a faded

27:15

away oh

27:18

my god yes so

27:21

hot almighty so it do you also

27:23

have

27:24

experts on

27:26

the part of your podcast like as in a conversation

27:28

or they incorporated into

27:30

the stories

27:31

when i knew his and have a you

27:33

tube channel where i do

27:35

more like a visual part as i'll bring them

27:37

i'd known to interview for don't buy some

27:39

ice the article topics that they've written about

27:42

ah , as as they're really interesting i don't

27:44

have them come on the

27:47

aghast and my read the story

27:49

may be an indie brief like different stuff

27:51

but it is that is do it in

27:53

that could be cool you know what also be a good

27:55

practice for medical professionals

27:57

to be

27:58

the a part of that

27:59

like fear of pleasure in

28:02

education

28:03

that are few and far between thumbelina

28:06

don't start direct quote he acted as if i

28:10

, reading this erotica that that a

28:13

a play the three the exactly

28:16

their voice i guess that

28:18

would be probably crossing a line but

28:21

you know it is linda this i'd go

28:24

i'd want to get into

28:25

ringing audio radhika into the

28:27

bedroom with a partner specifically

28:30

so how can you introduce that

28:32

how can you use it is it for players at

28:34

during like all the bits

28:36

after that

28:38

definitely you that ask for played

28:40

in a way to build is missing

28:42

consume i had i feel like on

28:45

even even do a weird reading erotica

28:47

to each other and might

28:49

also i'm so what

28:51

i'll do my part of ah screenshots terms

28:53

of i see it affects the or haven't come in and

28:55

be like listen to this part and only

28:57

thing road trips like beaches are sexy

28:59

getaways will listen to like erotica and

29:02

, like that so i definitely think of a good build

29:04

up exercise in also t like

29:06

once you get started army could work as

29:09

are dirty talk and everything while you're

29:11

no you're fine

29:13

when right i get a good replacement

29:15

if you're not someone that feels

29:17

turbo

29:18

talking as my isn't find

29:20

something that you like and play it for them vaccine

29:23

the edu to me

29:26

forgive me i bills for like six

29:28

citizens and stuff as well while you're in

29:30

the moment i limiting

29:31

yeah feeling act it out

29:34

would be fine that's fine jacqueline

29:36

and seventy kind of giving you instruction

29:38

your i'm somebody who really likes

29:41

to not be in control when it comes

29:43

to max just because

29:45

i'm so i try and be so and controlled everything

29:47

else it it's hard to get

29:49

out of my head and so i feel like of like was

29:51

using auto erotic as like an instruction

29:54

manual almost rak could be really

29:56

be really instruction manual made it sound so

29:58

not sexy but i meant it

29:59

making really sexy it's fine

30:02

beer sexy guy yes ,

30:05

there are see love sexy structure sarah

30:08

i'm if you're someone is

30:11

it may be hasn't been in like a long term relationship

30:13

and that you enjoy like erotica

30:15

while you're masturbating how would you incorporate

30:18

that may be for the first time with a partner

30:20

at like what's at like conversation

30:23

starter around erotica the bedroom

30:25

i'm so i think

30:27

way for me

30:29

the earnest like a

30:33

mall i'd our defense but ah

30:35

i see cases you know cameo

30:37

know cameo my bed i build and stuff so

30:39

like if you're in my power to minimise for

30:42

us have started why i would definitely

30:44

buy things a thing called five years of tight

30:46

end with that when i would talk

30:49

about with partners hey like let's focus

30:51

on my the step wind let's

30:53

listening to the story and

30:56

habit play in the background and will try to sell

30:58

it to it or something like that are even

31:00

to come you're like since or the ideals of stuff

31:02

like that without that comic use it as

31:04

if use

31:05

can i can people to know think the music the plan

31:08

would have like a sexy story play enemy

31:11

id like this like this this i might

31:13

or her arena

31:15

a the get we also love the

31:17

whole i blame the other person

31:19

technique we've heard with other guess

31:21

that have been onwards like oh i heard it on a podcast

31:24

i heard about it from a friend

31:26

like we should should be less what do you think

31:28

about know i love the blame

31:31

the blame off the blame absolutely

31:33

what were the five

31:36

what did you say five pillars of time find

31:38

years of tights

31:40

first year

31:42

is affectionate affected touching

31:44

so it's focusing more on actually

31:47

stroking stimulating

31:49

arm arises those above the close

31:53

to be dunno i'd make out session and stuff like that

31:55

and in the second grow tired essential tied

31:57

to that to be nonjudgmental pleasure

31:59

then i could be like dry hump

32:01

that can be mythology a

32:03

second essential death be seen

32:06

any in the third gear as playful tights

32:08

and saw that we are start introducing

32:11

right little masturbation into

32:13

the play i doing like a striptease

32:15

or something like that in a fourth gear

32:18

is erotic packed with

32:20

that when it's not intercourse are to be

32:23

meal whoa arm or

32:25

all that me to introduce toys that

32:27

you enjoy toys and in fifth gear is the

32:29

home run with the

32:30

got it yeah know

32:32

they're all right areas

32:34

the touch on literally a

32:37

for me if me if like first starting

32:40

off listening to audio erotica with

32:42

a partner doing like the ones that

32:44

felt a little

32:46

the sexual for the affectionate touch when i

32:48

feel like would be a good

32:50

like beginner tool english all

32:52

we can just hold hands list

32:55

and like rat like navy like rub each other's

32:57

feeder like hands or whatever and like sir

32:59

get ill our do

33:02

but like a good little

33:04

caesars that way even if things

33:06

are heating up in the story there's not a lot

33:08

of pressure to be like okay now we have to start

33:10

hooking up because they're hooked again story

33:13

frankly

33:15

i think that's really fun there's like and

33:17

what there's watching porn together so why couldn't

33:19

there be listening to pornographic

33:22

stories together and

33:24

, had be a little less pressure for

33:27

someone who might be insecure with

33:29

other naked women in the room you know watching

33:31

porn with a partner at

33:33

on a hill less ah it's

33:35

like you're just listening to it

33:37

can be really had civically my female

33:40

way to in what's great about

33:42

mean is eternal vigilance that you can put

33:44

yourself in your partner into

33:47

what's happening versus happening porn like people

33:49

are interface may interface may look like you

33:51

are have you know

33:54

percentages novel to sexual orientation

33:56

went as far as definitely

33:58

like a place to listen

34:00

up call

34:03

right

34:04

there's see

34:07

has made like different genres of

34:09

stories and that's only one i've

34:11

listened to like religious law he's but i love

34:13

that because he didn't start like

34:15

kind of sending the story to

34:17

whatever fits you best because they do

34:20

sometimes leave it a little bit more general

34:22

and then you're like oh but i'm a girl

34:24

with a girlfriend like i want this

34:26

story to sit me too but

34:29

they also do have my girl on girl stories but i just

34:31

love that there's more of

34:33

like a brent for people who

34:35

enjoy different things i think it also a good

34:38

way to explore to it feels

34:40

like our like

34:41

very private like kind

34:43

of not super overwhelming

34:45

way to explore different types

34:47

of sex whether that is sexual

34:50

orientations or like types

34:52

of sex as in like very kinky

34:54

or like just been very sensual

34:56

and gentle and so i think that's

34:58

really fun as well and it can be kind of hard

35:00

to do that in visual porn because it's

35:02

like if you're committing to really kinky that

35:04

then be kind of scary sometimes

35:07

a damn shame that was the something very

35:09

different

35:10

to it's

35:12

a way to in and not

35:15

so into the way to

35:18

explore keeps his sexual fantasy that

35:20

you might want to china bedroom for some fine line

35:22

you can put in bondage and now porn

35:24

have and something comes up here like like

35:26

that may not be they'd rather than i wanted it by

35:29

is a little bit of wiggle room with

35:32

a radhika says you can envision

35:34

can hear han hi one of the play out

35:36

anything though do for the research to see

35:39

as bad you know is how

35:41

you can like before me

35:44

it makes sense like physically to

35:46

if you're only getting input from one source

35:48

not like visually and auditorily

35:51

that it would just be easier to process and absorb

35:53

and be like yes that worked for me or

35:56

no not quite but quite didn't overwhelming to the point

35:59

that now i'm turned off

35:59

or they don't want to move forward

36:02

it's like okay

36:03

i can handle one input yeah like

36:05

the internet i really

36:07

like your point of bringing it up for like exploration

36:10

purposes that's purposes that's a great point

36:12

is you could be like oh this story is like a

36:14

man woman but like what

36:17

if i think about it in a different way or it is a

36:19

story with like two women and near like

36:21

not typically someone who a date women they

36:23

like i enjoyed that and i do

36:25

enjoy it as a fantasy at least you know so

36:27

that that is really cool or

36:30

the other benefits of erotica

36:32

for like your own sexual health

36:34

and your own sexual exploration

36:38

one of the benefits like a major

36:40

wind is a usually so

36:42

there's been studies somewhere

36:45

women who listen to

36:47

our read or write it in half empty percent

36:49

more sex than women and down saw

36:51

him issue more of a special person makes

36:54

you more comfortable at sexy dirty

36:56

talk and ask his bedroom confident in

36:59

is also is also

37:01

you more attuned with your body

37:03

on this last the time cities as it's for

37:06

masturbation any also the

37:07

they play

37:09

the for women and census pleasure

37:11

is a forefront in of bugs back into

37:13

the i know than normal as masturbation with

37:15

lot of people have an issue

37:18

at complex totally true like listening

37:20

to masturbation

37:23

affirming material isn't you know

37:25

as like apart as

37:27

the know your identity so huge and

37:29

could be as a person those

37:32

are some good statistics i did those are great

37:34

statistics i like the very much and

37:36

with everything that we've brought up in terms of

37:38

it not being like so in your face

37:41

and you know it's really up to you that kind of

37:43

help like

37:44

the usual either story it does

37:46

make sense that it could make you more of a sexual

37:48

person because it's

37:50

like letting you take your imagination

37:52

wherever you want to go rather than giving

37:55

you this and and will be over in five minutes

37:57

and now it's gone

37:59

absolutely i forget keep going

38:02

back to senses but it just keeps clicking and

38:04

like different ways for me of

38:06

how much are you erotica can help you

38:08

stay in the moment missive ugly

38:10

her masturbation it's like yeah because

38:13

sometimes my mind just wanders i got a lot

38:15

other stuff going on and it's like i need

38:18

a lot of sensory i need sensory

38:20

input that doesn't overwhelm me and

38:22

so i think that's a really good option

38:24

and creating like and really good

38:27

faith that feels died ah now

38:29

i can a good one more time maybe you

38:31

can it's try to throw it out there are few more time

38:33

see if is sex good great know

38:37

, did you so did you grow up and

38:40

grow up did you always

38:42

listen to audio erotica as you are like discovering

38:45

your sexual identity or the something that

38:48

i started

38:50

reading it at thirteen so my mom with

38:52

follow the issue like our like

38:54

marino's undid all normal like

38:57

i think you're not liking our romeo

38:59

novels and she gave me stop there like

39:01

her friends are waiting but i don't know she knows

39:04

yeah like like

39:06

like okay cool so a lot of times

39:08

when i would have a stressful day or something would happen

39:10

i read erotica and then when

39:12

i started home for therapy

39:15

to have sex with the phone to i was

39:17

like i need fool who i make myself

39:19

relax so i can do like the dilation

39:21

process and stuff if you have to do it and

39:24

my pups are therapy was like well you know use

39:26

like erotic content and stuff like that and so

39:29

i was like hm and then i had heard about this is

39:31

an advertisement first i tried that and that

39:33

sort really

39:35

the enough for me to be like okay this is my

39:37

both has been to do anything from

39:39

there are like to listen to my

39:41

car anticipate that in and making were eager to get

39:43

home with my partner and is that as well so on

39:46

a roof of that

39:48

that's incredible to do as a as a tool

39:50

to use to help relax those pelvic

39:52

floor muscles as well the

39:55

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39:58

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