#013.  You already know this obviously, but you and your husband are two independent human beings with, in all likelihood, very different goals. It’s NORMAL! The challenge is getting on the same page about those goals and encourage one another to be the highest versions of yourselves (because that’s pretty dang hot). First, you need to get down to business and discuss what your goals are! (Sometimes we miss the easiest step!) Once you outline your goals (along with your non-negotiables), you’ll be ready to tackle the plan of how to encourage and support each other on your different (but similar) paths! 

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