Rewriting Your Money Story During Divorce
In this episode, Seth and Pete aim to help listeners understand the role money plays during divorce. They are joined by guest Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth, who specializes in helping people take control of their money story. Jennifer provides insights into common money issues that arise during divorce and how to overcome emotional and practical hurdles.

The main discussion focuses on understanding your unique money story, dealing with financial fears and uncertainty, and practical steps to regain control of your finances. Key themes include rewriting limiting beliefs around money, budgeting, handling joint accounts, and planning for the future.

Questions we answer in this episode:

• How do I overcome anxiety about my finances after divorce?
• What essential documents and accounts should I gather?
• What specific steps can I take to become financially independent?

Key Takeaways:

• Divorce brings up many complex emotions around money. Seek support to handle them.
• Knowledge reduces fear. Learn everything you can about your current finances.
• You can rewrite your money story. Take control with planning and smart decisions.

Plus, we tackle another listener question! Donna asks about how to move forward with divorce when her estranged husband controls their insurance and finances. Seth and Pete advise speaking to a lawyer to understand her options and rights. Knowledge is power.

This episode delivers incredible value, whether you're already divorced or just considering it. Jennifer provides wisdom and practical steps to overcome financial hurdles and gain confidence. It's a must-listen for anyone looking to rewrite their money story and thrive.

Links & Notes

• Find Jennifer on the web, LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube
• Check out Jennifer’s book Squeeze the Juice
• Schedule a consult with Seth
• Got a question you want to ask on the show? Click here!

• (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
• (02:00) - Meet Jennifer Lee
• (02:39) - Understanding Your Money Story
• (07:35) - Beginning Stages
• (09:21) - What You Want
• (13:15) - The Process
• (16:04) - Spend or Save Now
• (18:41) - Where You Start
• (21:51) - Ripples in the Pond
• (23:42) - Savings and Alimony
• (26:13) - Splitting Savings
• (30:27) - Divorce Checklist
• (34:59) - Divorce Is a Team Sport
• (37:14) - New Relationships
• (39:38) - Finding Jennifer
• (40:22) - Listener Question

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