Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse in Relationships
This week's episode dives deep into the warning signs of narcissism, how to protect yourself if you're in a relationship with a narcissist – or trying to get out of one – and the journey to rediscover your self-worth after experiencing narcissistic abuse. Seth and Pete's guests share from their expertise as therapists and life coaches that specialize in healthier relationships.
Questions we answer in this episode:
- What are some common red flags in the early stages of dating a narcissist?
- How can you safely leave a narcissistic partner?
- What does the healing process look like after dating a narcissist?
Key Takeaways:
- Narcissists often love bomb their partners in the beginning of relationships.
- Setting boundaries triggers rage in narcissists.
- Rebuilding your self-esteem is crucial to recover from narcissistic abuse.
This compassionate and insightful conversation offers real tools to identify narcissism, enforce boundaries, and rediscover self-love after trauma. Listen in for an empowering discussion about overcoming narcissists' manipulative tactics.
Links & Notes
- (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
- (01:19) - Meet Sherry and Carla
- (02:33) - Narcissism in Relationships
- (05:02) - Are They a Narcissist?
- (06:59) - Signs and Red Flags
- (10:01) - When Do You Become a Narcissist?
- (12:25) - Dating or Being Married to a Narcissist
- (15:13) - Long Term Impact of Being in Relationship with Narcissist
- (16:56) - Getting Out of Relationship
- (17:28) - Hoovering Techniques
- (18:30) - When You Have to Communicate
- (20:22) - Co- and Parallel Parenting with Narcissist
- (22:21) - Avoiding Triggers
- (26:58) - Making Yourself Whole Again
- (28:24) - Why We Think We Can Change Someone
- (30:30) - Holidays
- (32:28) - Narcissists and Social Media
- (33:59) - Narcissistic Supply
- (35:12) - Motive for Posting
- (36:29) - Societal Shifts
- (39:12) - Finding Sherry and Carla
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