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This is the Inner Rebel podcast
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. Welcome
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everyone to Inner Rebel . I am Melissa
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Bakne and I'm here with a very special guest
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for a mini episode on All
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Things Chat GPT . This
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is my dear friend Rachel Melinda
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. Welcome , rachel .
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Thank you . I'm so pumped to be here
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and chatting with you and just what we're dreaming up
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here . This is kind of cool because I know
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you've invited me on your podcast , but I just want
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to ask you everything and share what I've
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had the pleasure of witnessing in
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you of how you use chat GPT
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to simplify your whole
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entire life .
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Yeah , yeah , thank you . Rachel
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and I have been in a sacred business
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mastermind together for most of this year
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. We've had an inside look at what
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each other are doing and this
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is a big tool that I used
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throughout the program to create what I was
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working on in the program , so you've had a unique
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view of how this has played out
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. We want to acknowledge some
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of the struggles that we see
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in our own lives , as well as the entrepreneur
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and professional woman that we work with around
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overwhelm , around getting stuck
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with not feeling like you are
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creative or feeling like you're
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working in a silo . Especially if you're a solopreneur
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, you can feel really lonely . Bigger than just
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this tool that we're going to talk about today , these
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are the things that we care a lot about as
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women and as coaches , and
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things that we're deeply committed to supporting
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people all around . We're going to give you some practical
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tips around using chat , gpt , as well as
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your own body and your own mind and
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navigating these things . So we're very excited . We're
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teaching a workshop in a couple of weeks , so you're going
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to get a lot more information on this
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. I'm just going to give you a little
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bit of a taste around what
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is possible here I'm curious , as you've
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been navigating your entrepreneurial journey as
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well as supporting other people
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around this in your business and your membership
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. What are the most common challenges that
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you see people face or that you faced
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personally ?
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Yeah , I think overwhelm is definitely up there , I
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think , just as being
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a solopreneur , the loneliness , and
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that's why I'm just always so passionate about
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getting women in community together
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, because when you do get into community , you see that
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you're not alone and it's seeing
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that and releasing the judgment that
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you had of yourself that actually
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boosts your energy all over again . If you were just able
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to see that I have a program called the Well . It's
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a community and coaching platform to support the mental
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wellness of entrepreneurs . The women
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in there are incredible . We have such an amazing community
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. Just one woman posting
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saying I'm struggling with this , or only
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one person showed up for my masterclass , and other
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people being like , oh my God same , I'm not a
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loser . Just releasing that , because
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the opposite is that we end
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up going into this spiral of being
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like I'm a piece of crap and making all these judgments
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about ourself when really we
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don't even have to go down that path . If we don't
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, then we get to stay in this high vibration
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and that affects how
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we look at things , that affects how we continue to carry
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on and that keeps the momentum going . I
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think that alone helps to
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combat that feeling of loneliness and
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, I think , being on
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your own as you're building a team and having
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that trust in yourself , creative ideas
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. I've been in coaching programs and masterminds
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for the past couple of years and I truly don't know what I
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would do without it , because just having
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a business ally , someone to bounce
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ideas off of , is so
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important when you're just like in your head
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and you want to ask someone about what do you think of this
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pricing ? What do you think of this offer ? Does this land
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with you ? There's many challenges
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that entrepreneurs face , but I think those are at
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the top .
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Yeah , I was present to a moment that you and I had
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when we were in Mexico
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together on our retreat and everyone
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was sharing their visions for their business or their lives
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. Oh , I think that's what you're going to say yeah
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, and I'm sitting there at the table judging
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my vision and being like I don't belong here
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. I can't believe I said that there's
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so much better than me and my mind is spinning . I just
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wanted to leave the table and go , and
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as soon as we left the dinner
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you're like . you turn to me
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and you ask me if
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I was judging myself the way you were judging yourself
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around your end we had this beautiful mind .
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I was like yes .
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I felt like I needed to leave and I was so grateful that you said
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it out loud because I could
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have just said in that story of unworthiness
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, and meanwhile you were thinking it
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, and then we asked the whole cab and everyone
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was thinking it in their own unique way of the entire
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group and we're like , oh okay , well , this is totally normal
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.
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Which is the benefit of being in community with people
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who are doing big things . You want to
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be in a room with people who might trigger you
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and might make you feel small . They're not . It's
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not them making you feel small , it's your own . It's your own stuff
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that you're bringing into it . But for sure we
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want to look at that and allow it to pull
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us into our expansion , not squash
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us back into this like small
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town Susie archetype that we talk about
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. There is a lot of stuff that happens and comes up when
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we are in community , especially with women . There's
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a lot of conditioning there and sister wounds . But if
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you can just say open and present
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and aware of it and not actually give
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into it . There's so much room for
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that growth and that expansion there .
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Yeah , that's pure magic , absolutely yeah
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.
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I'm going to throw a question at you because I want to
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put the spotlight on you . So , going back
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to our work together over the past several months , in our
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container it became like a running joke that you're the
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chat GPT queen . We would be in our container
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and spinning on things and be like what
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would be good for this person here and giving advice
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, and then you put the whole thing in chat GPT
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and it comes up with this brilliant answer . We would
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just laugh about it . But I want you to go
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into detail with what you did here , like the whole branding
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and messaging , and you basically turned
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several plus hours
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of work into like 30
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minutes to an hour minutes yeah
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. Yeah , do you want to talk about how you did
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that ?
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Yes . So I didn't set out to
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be the chat GPT queen , it's
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just so at my core . I love efficiency
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and I'm obsessed
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with it in my entire life , and so I started
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to play around with chat GPT several
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months ago and I
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realized how efficient
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it was as a tool , and
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so the more that I started to
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recognize , the more I kept playing around
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with it and being like well , what else can this thing do and
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how else could I use this to really
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facilitate growing this business
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? So I have been building
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a membership based community that will be local and
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virtual for conscious , professional
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women , and I have a very , very
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big vision for this thing , and
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I have never been the CEO of a multimillion
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dollar company . So I don't
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know what I'm doing , even though
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I do know how to figure it out
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, and I think so
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often people get stopped by the how I'm sure
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you see this a lot in your coaching too is
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that you have this huge vision and the
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how is a breakdown point . Instead
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of getting stopped by that , that
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how . I literally would turn to chat GPT
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and be like okay , I need a name for this
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thing , start there
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, and I would brainstorm with
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one of the other women that supported me in the business
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and we put down all the words of how
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we want it to feel and name ideas
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that we had , and we just created this whole Google
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doc about it . And then I put it into chat GPT
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and I said help us , come up with a name for this
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company . Here are all the things that we wanted
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to feel , how we want it to look , some other ideas
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, and the first thing it's been out was Luma Nova
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, and it broke down what
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each word meant
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and when it broke down what Nova
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meant about being so bright
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, you basically burst into other stars . It
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meant an increase of consciousness
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, transformation . It was the
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perfect name and so in a moment I
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got the name for the business and
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then from there it's been everything from the vision
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, the mission , the brand values , pages
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, emails , launch
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strategies , event ideas
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. I mean you name it . I've used chat
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GPT to get the creative
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juices flowing and , honestly , what
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I have accomplished in two
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months could have taken
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me six months to a year at
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minimum , and
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like tens of thousands of dollars also
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, and I used a free tool to support me in it
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.
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I love what you said there about the how , because that
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is such a sticky point for people
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, where they do get stuck and that's what stops the momentum
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. And it's unfortunate because
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the how actually isn't up
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to us . In the mindset world we talk about
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, you are responsible for the what and claiming the what
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and getting into energetic alignment of it . How
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it comes to fruition is not up to you
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. That's where we let that mystery school of life
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and the magic come into play . So it's
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kind of like a double edged sword , because you're keeping yourself
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from experiencing the magic and you're not doing anything
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. So at the very least , chat
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GPT keeps the momentum going
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. It's our paradigms that are also going to keep
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us stuck . And you can just stay
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in the momentum of it and keep going
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. Consistency is
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the secret sauce of success .
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Yep , absolutely .
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Consistency is also the most challenging thing , or can be
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because of all the blocks that stand in the
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way . So I love how you've used this
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tool to keep the momentum
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going and to keep you inspired
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. I think that was my blocker on chat GPT
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is that . I was like , oh , it takes the heart
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out of things , like it's just robotic and I
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don't want to just put computer generated
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things on a page . So
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how do you use that to inspire
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you and still continue to add your own flavor to
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it ?
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Yeah . So I think what takes the longest
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is the first , second
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, third iteration of something , and
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you can sit and stare at a blank page hoping
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that this idea will come to you , and
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what I like to do is , you
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know , I just take whatever I've got . So if I
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have been sitting there brainstorming about the
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vision for Nova , for example , and
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I'm like I need a vision statement , but this
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feels really overwhelming to me of how
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to make it sound perfect , right
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, we can get stuck in perfectionism as well . So
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I just will copy what I've done , put it in
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there and be like help me cultivate a vision statement
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for this . And then I read it and I'm
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like , okay , well , I literally
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just type in what my brain thinks Like
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that sounds really cheesy . Can
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you make it sound like
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a little bit of humor and sarcasm
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and have it have more of a
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bold , approachable feel to it ? And
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then it'll come back with a tone . And
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then I'm like , okay , what I talk
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like that is that who I am . Then
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I would take that and maybe tweak
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it , move some things around , insert my
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voice into it , and then I
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would stare at a piece of paper for trying
10:40
to figure it out or really judging
10:42
myself or critiquing myself to try to get it right
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. It takes that time and
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cuts it into like five minutes .
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So that's how I use it .
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I work a lot with tone and
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then going back in and
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Shifting things around , it sound like
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I would actually speak like a real human being .
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Yeah , so it is truly like you have a free
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team member right , just someone to bounce ideas
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off of . Like , okay , like , how could we make this sound
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more , more juicy and zesty
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? I think that's one thing that I Didn't
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really know before . I saw how you started using
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chat GBT . It would spit something out and
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I'd be like this sounds boring , but I didn't know how to say
11:18
make it less boring or make it more exciting
11:20
. You can really use it to To
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to get it closer to what you want , and sometimes you
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just need that Beginning
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idea . You need to stay in that solution
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oriented energy to
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Reinspire right , because it's when
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you go , oh , that's not gonna work or I
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don't have any ideas , that you're now no longer available
11:38
for ideas and creativity .
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Yeah , it gives you so much space and
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Creativity needs space
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in order to thrive , and
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so I am
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a huge proponent of cultivating
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spaciousness in my life and
11:53
business and growing my business
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in a very sustainable way . I am not
11:57
trying to overwork myself , I'm
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not trying to burn out , doing my
12:01
sole project , and I have
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used this to facilitate
12:07
those values and and I
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am able to spend more time with my son during
12:12
the summer . So if I can come in in the morning
12:14
and be like help me write the sales page
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and the first three emails of this nurture
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sequence , and I can take 30 minutes to do something that would have
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taken me probably all day to get it Right
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and then go play with my son or go to
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the pool or go for a hike , it's helping
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me maintain a really balanced
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lifestyle , which is something that's so
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important to me and , I think , something that every
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single ambitious woman struggles with
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. Whether You're in corporate or you're running
12:40
your own business or you've got a side project that
12:42
you're trying to get out of corporate and transition
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into , those are the main things
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that we struggle with . So I'm like , why wouldn't I
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use this it's
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giving me ?
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life . Yeah and , and I think you've
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also used it to plan your kids birthday
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party . Haven't you done that like ? Give me theme
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ideas for a Jack's
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. I don't know how old Jack is , but he's like
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birthday party ideas , oh Everything
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.
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My friend planned her Disney's trip with it . I
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have , actually , my girlfriends want to go on
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a trip together and we haven't gone in 10 years . And I was
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like , okay , here's who
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we are , here's what we're looking for
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. Can you give me some
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great ideas of where we can go ? I just
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put in really specific thing and I'm like okay , girls
13:23
chat , gpt thinks we need to go to Roa tan
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, was
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that ? See , please , roa tan and la
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fortuna , costa Rica . So
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cool , we're doing a three-week trip over
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Christmas . And so the other day I was
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just in there trying to figure out
13:40
where we should go in the world , and I've been doing a lot
13:42
of organic research . But I was like what
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if I took all the research that I've been
13:46
doing through Google and put it in
13:48
here ? And it helped me plan a
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three-week trip to the Canary Islands . I
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was like this is the kind of hotel we like to stay at
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, this is how we want to feel , this is what our family is like
13:57
, and it was like , boom , here's a hotel you should Wow
13:59
.
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I was like , okay , I didn't realize it would do
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that . Yeah , so you can plan
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your life if you move to Spain
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. We love whoa yeah
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, but it helps you with everything , Okay
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is there any part of you that feels like chat
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GPT takes the magic out of things ? I think
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that's my block , but I'm also for it . We're doing
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this master class together and why I want to learn from you and
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I want all of us to learn as well . But I really
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want to get into songwriting as well on the side . But
14:23
my my block is melodies . Like I
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start thinking of a melody and then all of a sudden I'm singing
14:27
a Taylor Swift song . I'm like , how did we think of original
14:30
melodies ?
14:30
And so I was gonna go to chat , gpt or or
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something .
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Get an AI generated melody , because
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once I have a melody I can flow . But
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then there's part of me where I'm like , oh , it's not original anymore
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, because I just got it from AI .
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Mmm I .
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Yeah , I see that and it's I
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mean when we talk about shifting your mindset around
14:50
it . I think it helps me generate
14:53
more magic in my life and
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it helps me do the things that I love
14:58
the most . So , if the melody piece is the
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stuck piece and it's the hardest part for you
15:03
, but once I get this thing , then
15:05
all of this other stuff just flows out of my
15:07
body and so it gives
15:09
you access to your magic faster , because
15:12
you're moving through the stuckness faster
15:14
and maybe you don't even use that melody , but it's
15:17
just the thing to get your brain to start
15:19
thinking outside of Taylor Swift so
15:21
that you can come up with your own , coming up with job
15:23
descriptions and Very
15:26
detailed launch strategies . Those are things I do
15:28
enjoy , but it's not where I want
15:30
to spend my time , and
15:33
so if I can utilize
15:35
a tool to do
15:38
the pieces of my life in business that
15:40
Take up a lot of time , like
15:42
maybe the 80-20 rule , they might take up 80%
15:44
of my time but bring me 20% of my joy
15:47
. Or I want to be sending
15:49
80% of my time doing the things that I love by
15:52
having efficiency in the things
15:54
that I don't want to be doing . Honestly , I'd
15:56
rather outsource them , and it would cost me
15:58
Thousands and thousands of dollars
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to outsource the work that I have done . So
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it gets me to . I can
16:05
build this community . I can put the women
16:07
in the room so much faster
16:09
because I Haven't sat around
16:11
letting myself be stuck about something
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. I'm like , okay , I need a job description . I don't have
16:15
any idea what jobs I need
16:18
to launch a membership community . So I'm like , okay
16:20
, chat , gpt . Here's everything
16:22
that I know about this community . What are the first three
16:24
hires that I should make Great
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? Can you give me job descriptions for them
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? That's wonderful .
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What should ?
16:30
they be doing . And
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then , literally so , my director of operations
16:38
. She gave me her proposed job description
16:41
. I put it in there and I was like here's what I
16:43
think . And then I presented it to her and
16:45
we went through line by line and she's like this doesn't really
16:47
apply to me , but this section
16:49
is really important to me and I'm like cool
16:51
, I mean , I just made all this up as
16:53
you do as an entrepreneur . So why don't we give this to
16:55
somebody else who is this for their zone of genius
16:57
? But even that would have taken me so long
16:59
. But instead I get to be with her and be in
17:01
conversation with her and get into community
17:04
and build what I love . So I'm
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curious if that shifts anything for you , just
17:08
hearing that .
17:10
Yeah , and look , I can attest to this because
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so when Melissa and I were planning up this
17:14
masterclass , we divided and conquer . Okay
17:16
, I'm gonna put up the sales page , you're gonna , you're
17:18
gonna do the copy for it . And Melissa
17:20
got our tasks done . I could see on a Santa
17:22
, they're just like tick , tick , tick like
17:25
you did it all in like half an hour to an hour
17:27
max . We said , actually , so this is kind
17:29
of cool . Almost everything
17:31
for this , all things chat gpt
17:33
to produce , overwhelm and boost creativity
17:36
was generated through ai . So the , the
17:38
sales copy , the questions for this podcast
17:40
interview I think the intention was to do it for
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our the emails that we would send out . I took care of
17:44
the emails and I didn't
17:46
use chat gpt and I'm pretty quick with
17:48
emails , but you saw , I sat on it for a while . I was
17:50
like sorry , melissa , like I just
17:53
run it , just running a bit behind on things , like Okay , I'm gonna
17:55
get to it today . And as
17:57
a result of you using chat gpt , you were
17:59
done in seconds . Like I was like holy
18:01
crap . Yeah for me . Despite being
18:03
excited about this , it
18:05
was a thing I was like , oh , I really gotta get to , I really gotta get
18:07
to it . But in my mind I was like this is work . I
18:09
gotta sit down and write this email and I gotta
18:11
set up this and it just it blocks
18:13
that . So I can totally see what you're saying and it's
18:15
a perfect example of . Yeah
18:20
yeah , so let's let's jump into that
18:22
. Maybe chat about what you're gonna be covering in the
18:24
class and I'll talk about what I'm gonna be covering .
18:27
I've given some practical examples here
18:29
today of ways
18:31
that you can use it , so really
18:33
specific ways that you can use this to
18:35
move through these blocks , so
18:37
we'll dive into this a little bit more . How to
18:39
amplify your creativity . Decision-making
18:43
is a big piece of where
18:45
we have slowdowns and blocks
18:47
, even to your point of like . Okay , I'm
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going to have to make a lot of decisions about these emails
18:51
, so I'm going to keep pushing it down the road because
18:53
it's going to take a lot of time to get through my mental space
18:56
, and so a lot of
18:58
times , we avoid things that we know we
19:00
have to make a decision about . That takes a long time
19:02
, and so I'm going to also talk
19:04
through how you can enhance productivity
19:06
, enhance your efficiency and make
19:09
more effective , efficient decisions which
19:11
can move you through things a lot quicker , and
19:14
ultimately tying it back into what
19:17
you're going to talk about , and what I'm passionate
19:19
about is holistic well-being
19:22
. How do we use a
19:24
tool like this to really enhance
19:26
our lives so that we can thrive
19:29
instead of feel
19:31
like we're just barely having our heads above water
19:33
? I wear a lot of hats . I have a six-year-old
19:35
son . I'm primary parent in my household
19:38
, I work what
19:40
I don't know if it's full time , but it's a full
19:42
time gig that I try to do in his life .
19:44
You work full time . A few hours is possible
19:46
, though .
19:47
And my husband works and I
19:50
am responsible for the household . I have all of these roles
19:52
and all of the hats in my business too . To
19:54
tie it back into what I said earlier really
19:56
utilizing this to help my whole
19:58
life and help your
20:00
whole life as a entrepreneur , professional
20:03
woman , and what are some of the tools
20:05
that we can use and pull from ? This
20:08
is more of what I would call like a masculine tool
20:10
. That's very like the strategy
20:12
and the how to , and knocking out the to do masculine
20:15
stuff , which usually takes up most of our life
20:17
, so that we can get to the more feminine parts
20:19
of our life and the parts that bring us more joy . So
20:21
that is what I'm going to be diving
20:23
into in more detail than
20:25
the class , and so I'd love for you to share what
20:28
you're going to be talking about as well .
20:29
Yeah well , I'm so pumped to hear about that
20:31
and the approach that I'm bringing is solving
20:34
the same challenges around reducing
20:36
overwhelm and decision making and
20:38
but bringing in the mindset perspective , so
20:40
really sharing about how we can really
20:42
tune into the awareness of our
20:44
thoughts to realize where we're
20:47
getting in our own way and just how looking
20:49
at a situation differently because we always
20:51
have the opportunity to how
20:53
looking at a situation can either increase
20:56
your energy or drain your energy and how
20:58
to stay in that sort of high vibrational
21:01
and solution oriented energy
21:03
so we can keep the momentum going
21:05
and let things feel the way that we want them
21:07
to feel . Overwhelm is a choice , right
21:09
, and when we have the tools the mindset
21:11
tools , the chat , the BT tools we can
21:13
shift out of that state and
21:16
get business and our life feeling the way that
21:18
we always wanted it to .
21:20
Yeah , and as it ties into inner
21:22
rebel , we want
21:24
to do life and business in our own authentic way
21:27
, and we talked about how does
21:29
this take away your authentic voice ? And it's like
21:31
no , let it enhance your authentic voice
21:33
. Let it help you get your authentic voice out there
21:35
. Who says that we have
21:38
to struggle so much to
21:40
be quote unquote successful by
21:42
a patriarchal , capitalistic standard
21:44
? These are all different tools that
21:46
we can pull together so that we can stop
21:49
buying into this bullshit narrative that
21:51
it has to be so hard and let ourselves
21:53
create ease where it's possible and
21:55
let ourselves get supported where it's possible
21:58
, instead of being like I have to do
22:00
it all on my own and it all has to be hard and this
22:02
is how it has to go . I'm calling bullshit on
22:04
all of it and anything that I can bring into
22:06
my life that has integrity . I
22:09
want to use it because I'm trying
22:11
to do things the hard way . I'm
22:14
not trying to do things just
22:16
because somebody else said that's how it has to go
22:18
. I'd rather be innovative and I'd rather
22:20
think outside the box and
22:23
bring my voice
22:25
to life and bring the people together that
22:27
I know I want to have together . And if
22:29
I can use an AI tool to help me do
22:31
that , then apps are freaking loopy because I
22:33
want to go for a hike today .
22:35
Yeah , oh , my gosh , I love this
22:37
so much . I'm so pumped to co-facility
22:40
this with you , but also to learn from you . Yeah
22:42
, start leaning into this . And part of my
22:44
personal journey has been leading in my feminine
22:47
. I love when I can be in my feminine in my business
22:49
, yes , but the reality is that a lot of the
22:51
time I'm a one-woman show with some contractors
22:53
or team members , so I have to be in my masculine
22:55
. I have to run the show , I have to hold the structure . But
22:58
it's much more difficult to access that
23:00
flow , the creativity , when you
23:03
are having to be more predominantly
23:05
masculine . So if I can pass
23:07
that role off to
23:09
my trusty chat GPTT member
23:11
, I'm freaking pumped too .
23:13
Yeah , yeah , let's
23:15
just grow juicy feminine businesses
23:18
as total badass women
23:20
that do
23:22
get a lot of . We do get a lot done . We need to get
23:25
a lot done and it feels really good too , but
23:27
it's the how we're getting things done and
23:29
it's the why underneath the doing
23:31
. That is everything , and so if
23:33
we can start to shift how we're
23:36
looking at our doing and
23:38
why we're taking the actions we're taking , or
23:40
why we're not utilizing certain tools
23:42
, and what's our foundational belief about
23:44
those things , then
23:47
we can start to live a life that we actually want
23:49
to be living and feel the way that we actually
23:51
want to be living . So I'm
23:53
pumped and I'm excited to collaborate with you
23:55
. This is also a feminine way of doing business
23:57
is collaborating and honestly
24:00
, I'm going to speak to the sister wound quickly
24:02
. We could look at each other as having
24:05
competitive businesses
24:07
because we do serve
24:09
similar audiences , but
24:11
at no point have I felt like Rachel's
24:14
gonna take my people away or I'm
24:16
gonna take her people . I look at
24:18
our skill sets and we have such
24:20
complementary skill sets . Plus , I love you
24:22
and I'm like can I please work with my friends ? Yeah
24:26
, I love you I think this is a really beautiful
24:28
example of cross-collaboration
24:31
, when you could consider somebody
24:33
a competitor , but there's so many people out there
24:35
right Totally who's gonna resonate with
24:37
you might not resonate with
24:40
me , and vice versa . I also want us to use
24:42
this as a model of how
24:44
we can come together in life and business
24:46
and really lean on one another instead
24:48
of viewing one another as competition . So I
24:50
think that's a beautiful side thing that
24:53
working with you is making me really present too
24:55
.
24:55
Yeah , I love that you mentioned that and I've
24:57
been doing a lot of my work and offerings on my
24:59
own for several years and
25:02
it's funny because this just goes
25:04
to show that once you decide that something , it happens
25:06
. I was like I want to collaborate , I want to create
25:08
with someone , like I don't want to do this thing alone anymore
25:11
. Even when I was putting together our sales
25:13
page , I was like business alignment
25:15
coach and you have a community membership of women
25:18
and me as a mindset coach for entrepreneurs and
25:20
I have a community of women and I think , just for anyone
25:22
listening that feels like , oh
25:24
, the market's saturated , there's no place for me
25:26
, or how am I going to stand out you will stand
25:28
out because you are you and
25:30
no one can ever be you , and I know that sounds like stupid
25:33
things that your mom tells you , but it's true . It's
25:35
so true though it is true . If
25:37
you want a free , liberated
25:40
, nude , predominant dancing
25:42
queen of an approach , come
25:45
hang out over here . And actually , like you
25:47
do relate to that in many ways too , but you've got your
25:49
flavor and I've got my flavor .
25:50
Totally .
25:51
Why not create more virtual
25:54
and IRL homes
25:56
for people and entrepreneurs in the
25:58
community , so then they can find where
26:00
they belong ? It's not about oh , I
26:02
got more people or you got more people . It's about creating
26:05
a home for everyone so they can feel like they belong
26:07
.
26:07
Yeah , and multiple homes . As
26:10
I'm growing Nova , several people have said to me like why
26:12
would you choose to launch a community in Colorado
26:15
? That's one of the most saturated communities and there's
26:17
already all these communities that
26:19
are thriving for women in networking groups and I was like
26:21
because I want to partner with them
26:23
and I want to promote them . And
26:25
I know that we belong to multiple communities
26:28
and that no one really
26:30
just belongs to one . We're belong to
26:32
multiple . We're always trying to find our people . I was
26:34
like that's such an interesting
26:37
thought that you have about this ?
26:38
Yeah , totally yeah , it's real . So , yeah
26:40
, yeah , so Okay . So I'm tempted to be the
26:42
podcast host here , because that's my former persona
26:44
too , and to close this off and tell
26:47
people how to get involved in Masterclass , but I'm going to let
26:49
you do the honors , so when is our Masterclass
26:51
. How do people sign up ?
26:52
So we are doing this on Tuesday
26:55
, july 25th , at 12
26:57
pm Eastern Standard Time and 10
26:59
am Mountain Standard Time . We'll
27:02
be promoting it through our social media channels
27:04
and we'll also put the link to sign
27:06
up in the notes for this podcast so
27:08
you can click on the landing page to sign up , and
27:11
we promise it's going to be epic because
27:13
you get to hang out with us for an hour , if
27:15
nothing else .
27:17
To be really friends .
27:18
Yes , yes , and we're just so excited . Obviously
27:21
, we love being together and we love sharing our magic
27:23
with as many people as we can , so we hope this
27:25
speaks to you and can't wait to see you there
27:28
.
27:37
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