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that we needed a subject for reading.

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So thank you for stepping forward and

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welcome, Welcome, Welcome

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to the episode. And we do

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not know each other, so this is going to be a fun

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adventure for both of us. Thank you again

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for generous.

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My pleasure to be here,

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and you had.

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Mentioned that you hadn't had an like

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a tarror reading or an astrology reading before.

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Is that right.

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I've never I've never gotten one professionally

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done by someone else. I actually read my

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own tarot quite well, Oh you do. I'm

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very interested in all things

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astrology, divining tarot,

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So your

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lovely producer, Joey. I've given Joey

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a few terror readings over the years.

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Fantastic, fantastic, I

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love it. Okay, great, great, So that we're going to have fun

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today then, but we're going to have

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fun no matter what. But now to

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betake you to the next level. So all

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right, and thank you for sending your information

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so I could do your neurology chart

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in your astrology chart because that's

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always really interesting as well. So

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first things first, we're going to do a

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blessing, right, So we got to get the energy

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vibe, set the parameters

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for the space for us to do sacred work.

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So I'm gonna ask you just to drop

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your focus and your attention into your

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heart space. And

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if we go to the heart space, because the heart

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contains all possibilities, and

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then we get to choose from a very hopefully

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high vibe of what we're willing to

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activate and finance from

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all our options the divine presents

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to us. So as you gently

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drop into your heart space and

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bring a small focus to the areas

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where you would like more attention, more

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focus, more support,

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more insights. Just

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bring a small focus there and

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while you hold that

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frequency, I asked the universe in accordance

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with everything that's good and

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everything that's light, let

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it be in the reading. Excellent,

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beautiful, thank you. Wow. Okay,

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it was so exciting. So obviously

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I spend time with your chart,

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with your extraordinary chart, and

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you have a Piscy sun,

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a cancer moon, and a Scorpio

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rising, so you basically that's

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all three water signs are very activated.

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So and the other thing is

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you may have heard we had a big

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transit earlier this year with Piscy

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or with Pluto moving and

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moving into Aquarius. This

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is this is huge and all these

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all the things, and so

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what what's interesting to me about this is

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that your Pluto is in the

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first house. And so

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as I think about the feeling component

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you have, I imagine every once

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in a while it gets a little a

4:23

little overwhelming for you. The intensity of the

4:25

world you could say that.

4:27

Yeah.

4:27

So what

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I also love is, you know, you have these dogs,

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and the way the dogs

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show up is it can

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be very grounding for you because no matter

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how overwhelmed you are, they have to be walked,

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they have to be fed, they have to be played

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with, they have to write. And I

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would think that's a really good practice

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for you because it gets you because

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otherwise you can be like, I'm going to curl up in a ball

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and not talk to anyone for a couple of days. Does

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this make sense?

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That is so accurate. It's

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actually like making me missy

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eyed. Yeah that's crazy.

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Yeah. So just sometimes

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when you like get frustrated, like oh I can't do this

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today, you're like, thank you so much

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for making me do this today. I need

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to move my body. I need to move

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my body. I need to like, I

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have to feel my feelings and keep

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moving because sometimes when

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you feel your feelings, you can go under,

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right because all that water, You're just like, I'm going

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under. I don't know if I'll ever ever be able

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to come up. So that's

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going to be really something to be grateful.

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For for sure.

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Yeah. I really want to be love that. Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah, So you celebrate them every day because

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they are literally taking care of you, right

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for real?

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Yeah, Yeah, it's funny. So I briefly

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mentioned that I just moved across the country

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and part of the reason that I did that, and

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it felt like a kind of like pithy reason,

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but it was so deep in my soul. It was like, I need to

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be closer to my family dogs so

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that I can have that connection.

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Oh, you didn't have your dogs before.

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Not in New York, because they're

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the family dogs that we got them over the pandemic.

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And then I went to New York for two and

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a half years and like would see them, you know,

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on holidays and stuff, and I

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just felt such a distinct, like part

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of my life was missing. And

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so ever since coming back, it's been such a really

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healing experience to just

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constant that constant connection.

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Yes, yes, super important,

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super important for you. Yeah, I

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would recommend you always have some It's

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funny because we think of that we're

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the caretakers of the pets, but it's actually

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the other way around, right,

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Yeah, I mean they grew takes such

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good care of us, and they remind us like, hey,

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the world is gonna sweep

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us away if we don't like just pay

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attention to the little things and they make

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us they also make us play, like

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no, you must play with me, just like that. You

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know, he was

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pawing, like, hey, are you sure it's not time

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to play? Are you sure? Because

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it feels like it's time.

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Yeah, that's so

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so apt.

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Yeah, Now, I with

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everything you have going on,

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there's so again, I'm not going to do like a full

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astrology reading swinder, just a little bit of everything.

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But there's just a couple of things I

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really want to talk about. Obviously, you have this

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Pisce son, and it's

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at the twenty fifth degree of Pisces,

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right, there are thirty degrees and twenty nine degrees

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in each sign, and so this so

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you have this wisdom

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that I'm sure you here all the time. Gosh,

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you're you're you're older than your

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age, like you have you like have

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an old soul. People would say, does this make sense?

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And is

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it's a constant feedback, which.

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Is, which is wonderful. You have lots of time to grow

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into it. But it's

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true when you're in that, you

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know, in those later degrees there's just

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while you feel deeply at all times

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and you are very sensitive and empathetic and

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compassionate. There's also

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you understand like this is just part

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of life where other people are flipping out

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and you're like, you know, you can't.

8:23

There's things you can flip out about, and there

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are things that are worthy of flipping out about it, but

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this isn't one of them. This is just a thing. It's

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you know, like you take that bigger

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picture, you have that wisdom. I

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imagine it's very comforting to people, although

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it can be a lot to hold. And

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I just want to appouach that because you hold

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a lot when people have issues,

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they come to you, right, They're

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like, what should I do?

8:51

Yeah, that's been a historic reality for

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sure. Wow,

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know that that is ringing, very

8:59

very true. Yeahful for that reflection.

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And I imagined there were times even

9:05

you thought you may have even considered going

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in like being a therapist

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or being someone who is

9:13

it. Is it true?

9:14

Yeah? I mean, like if I

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if I were to do the whole like logically

9:19

analyzing my skill set and going

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for a solid career with

9:24

stability quote unquote being

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a therapist, Like it's kind of the most

9:29

logical thing considering

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that I've historically provided

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that service for lots

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of friends without it being

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a profession.

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For Frae, you did it for free.

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It's a hobby. I'm a hobby therapist.

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I guess, Oh

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my god, I love it. Yes, from

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sol soul training, that the

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school training soul training, which is really

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fun. And so I just want

9:55

to acknowledge that. And again, because so that's

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your son, right, that's your sun. And

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then you have your moon, which is literally how

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we process emotions. Also in

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the house is in the sun of cancer,

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and it's also in the eighth house,

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which means you're really really psychic, right,

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totally, that's

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awesome. And then your

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rising sign is Scorpio, which

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is also a really psychic house.

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So it's you know, so

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you've got the trifecta. So abow a

10:30

bow. That's yeah, it's

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awesome. And I will also

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say what's funny is every once in a while

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you'll show up with all kinds of boundaries and all

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kinds of I have a plan. You guys are not going

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to mess with my plan. And then

10:45

people are like, what the hell we'reng What

10:47

the hell does

10:50

this makes sense?

10:50

Brenda? This is so accurate. It's hilarious.

10:54

Like the way that everyone in my life. As

10:56

soon as I'm like, okay, boundaries

10:58

structure, They're like, you

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have changed. We

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didn't sign up for this one, Like

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it's so funny.

11:09

They're like, who are you? And what have you done with our beloved

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rooms?

11:15

So funny?

11:16

And I want to say when you

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do that, when you get that, like

11:21

okay, I've given you, yeah, who's

11:23

enough leeway. And I've bent my you

11:26

know, bent my schedule and turned myself inside out

11:28

to I'm taking charge. This is

11:30

happening, right. That's literally when

11:32

Saturn kicks in, and.

11:34

It's that structure.

11:35

I have structure so I can have

11:37

freedom, right. It's it's

11:40

actually not to restrain people

11:42

or to control them. It actually says, with a

11:44

plan, we can actually get the things done you want

11:46

to get done, which means we have then, you

11:48

know, accomplished something and we feel free. And

11:51

if I let you, you know, like

11:54

like I'm hurting cats here, right, I just like

11:57

I can, if

12:00

I can just like corral you, y'all, we

12:02

can get this done and move forward. And so

12:05

you have Saturn, who is considered the task

12:07

master of the

12:09

zodiac. He says, get it done, do

12:11

it right, and you know, commit

12:14

with discipline and like

12:18

commit like it's a commitment, and we're going

12:20

to set its structure. And this planet

12:22

sits in the house of Taurus, right,

12:25

which is the sign of the bull, and

12:27

it's the bull, like people are like get afraid

12:30

of bulls, And only when they really

12:32

piss you off should they be afraid. Like

12:34

if when people break commitments

12:37

to you, it's really hard on you. It's

12:39

really you're like, oh, I'm not

12:41

going to be over this for a minute. You need to give

12:43

me some space, right, Like I've

12:45

really counted on you. I turned myself

12:47

inside out, I changed my schedule, I did this and

12:49

this and this, and you are a no show? Are

12:51

you kidding me? Right?

12:55

And right? And

12:57

so you just have to tell them,

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hey, you know I have Saturn and Taurus

13:02

and now I must hurt you.

13:06

And then I imagine the Scorpio rising kind of

13:08

kicks in to help me.

13:12

Well, the Scorpio rising will plot exactly

13:18

watch your back. So

13:21

that's how that goes. But you know,

13:24

in this way, just to

13:26

let people know, like this is my

13:28

commitment. You all know how I love a plan. You

13:31

know, do not mess with me in my plan.

13:34

Let them know that's all you have to say is like,

13:37

hey, there are times that can be loosened free, but now we

13:39

have a plan and commitment. Maybe there was money involved

13:41

put down or you know whatever, because

13:44

Taurus also rules your resources,

13:47

resources being time and energy

13:50

and money. Like, hey, I'm already

13:53

committed to this plan. I've already you know, invested

13:55

here. Do not mess with my investments now.

13:58

I make sure we understand and each other here. Okay,

14:02

So that's really important.

14:04

So that's super cool

14:06

to have reflected back to me because that

14:08

is something that has been so present in my

14:10

life and like has resulted

14:12

in this kind of fear of making

14:14

the plan in the first place, because

14:16

there's like a commitment.

14:18

I know, I don't want it to go awry,

14:21

and I feel like, you know sometimes with the herding

14:23

cats, like I can't really put my faith in you

14:27

know, others because I haven't expressed the

14:29

importance of the plan to me. Like so

14:32

the kind of emphasis on like no, if I can

14:35

communicate and you know,

14:37

set up that like this is this is

14:39

my investment. This is very important to me that

14:41

we have this structure. That's

14:44

very empowering.

14:45

Yeah, And I can see that because

14:48

you're so empathetic and so generous

14:51

that you

14:53

you will over extend yourself to

14:55

make the plan work. But

14:58

let me offer you this really wise

15:01

axiom guidance that was

15:03

given to me. Uh, and I

15:06

have to reach for too. That when you're

15:08

working collaborating with people, tell

15:11

them I will work as hard as you, but

15:13

I'm not going to work harder than you're willing

15:16

to work for yourself.

15:18

That is so beautiful and

15:20

right.

15:21

Yeah, it's it's a mic drop moment, right,

15:23

You're like, Oh, I can do that. I can

15:25

set those kind of boundaries, but

15:28

it's actually essential. It's

15:30

really essential, especially because you

15:32

you are so generous of heart, right,

15:35

and so generous with the gifts you have,

15:37

which are many, and

15:39

to be able to do this is extraordinary.

15:43

So I will work as hard as

15:45

you will for what you want, but I'm not going to work harder

15:47

than you're willing to work for yourself.

15:49

Oh my gosh, right, that

15:51

is going to go like on a post it note

15:53

on my mirror.

15:55

Yeah that's yeah, it's

15:57

super important, super important. Okay,

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So that and that's all that Taurus is all

16:03

in the house of service. So

16:06

that's why I really want you to have that boundary.

16:08

You have to have boundaries of how you're

16:10

willing to serve because of your generosity,

16:13

right, because of your generosity,

16:16

that's the sixth house, and that's that's

16:19

the House of Taurus for you. Yeah,

16:21

yeah, yeah, yeah,

16:27

welcome back. So now I want to talk about

16:30

two planets. You're very exciting.

16:32

Well, I'm excited for you.

16:36

You get to decide whether they're exciting or But

16:39

there are two planets that are are very

16:43

super charged, right, So they're in dignity.

16:45

They're in the ruling house. So you have Mars in

16:47

the House of Arias in the fifth house,

16:49

and the fifth house is entertainment,

16:53

creativity, and

16:55

gambling, as in, I'm willing to take risks.

16:58

Oh that's funny, right, unless

17:01

you it can actually be gambling.

17:03

Are you sorry? Like to gamble? Do

17:05

you play poker? Do you do?

17:06

No? But I've been told that

17:09

I should never start because I would probably

17:11

have a like an instant, like

17:14

consistent need for it quote

17:18

unquote addictive personality runs a

17:21

little strong here.

17:22

Well, and well it's because of

17:24

all the water, right, I can just get carried

17:26

away in the current, I can just get carried away

17:28

and I can go unconscious, right,

17:31

So this is a this is while your

17:34

son is in the fourth house, which

17:36

is the house of unconsciousness. So

17:39

that's why I can go. I can

17:41

literally just like get, I

17:43

can numb out really fast.

17:46

Oh wow.

17:46

So that's that's

17:49

your your that's

17:51

your watch out. So you have to that's

17:54

but this is why I really I want you to

17:56

to think about. But

17:58

you you did allude to that you don't

18:00

have a tradition to what you know air quotes

18:02

traditional career. So I'm assuming

18:04

you have some sort of creative, creative career.

18:07

I'm an actor.

18:08

Ah, there we go. Well that void that voice

18:11

fantastic. Okay, great, congratulations.

18:14

So you couldn't ask for a better marketing, right,

18:16

So you literally have Mars

18:19

right, which is like this. It can be very

18:21

aggressive, it can be fearless.

18:24

It's going to fight for what it wants. And

18:26

it's it came to originate. It

18:28

doesn't it didn't come to follow in other people. It can

18:30

be inspired by other people, but I'm an original.

18:33

I'm going to do it my way like it's

18:35

and it's going to be amazing. So you're welcome.

18:38

You know, it's

18:41

right, love to hear it.

18:42

And it's in the house it's

18:44

in its own house, right, so it's it's very

18:47

happy there. So you have full access

18:49

to this charge of Mars that says

18:51

go after what you want. Right. So a

18:54

lot of people have the vision, but they don't have the

18:56

firepower. You have a firepower

18:59

which is also know, especially

19:01

in the fifth house, is like star quality

19:03

power.

19:04

Right to hear that? Yeah,

19:08

do that wonderful.

19:09

Now. I do want to say one other thing. Because

19:12

you have Mars in this house, you

19:15

want to watch that you

19:18

can be distracted by love because this

19:20

is the house of love affairs.

19:23

Right. Notice that I didn't say

19:25

love for relationships, said

19:27

love love affairs. So you

19:30

can be distracted by shiny objects.

19:32

Here what

19:34

me, No, that's

19:36

never happened before.

19:38

It must be somebody else. So

19:43

yeah, like when you when you're when

19:45

your heart goes, you're like, I

19:48

can't think of anything else.

19:50

Yeah that makes sense.

19:52

Okay,

19:55

I just want to remind you of that.

19:58

It's nice to have. It's always it's nice to have astrological

20:01

validation for my elections.

20:03

You know, nice call

20:06

out. That was a call out. I'm

20:09

grateful for the call out.

20:11

Thank you for taking it in the way. It's meant

20:16

life, right, exactly and

20:18

how fun, right, because we didn't come come

20:21

to be, you know, in the back seat the whole

20:23

time, right, so it's fun to like,

20:25

hey, I'm going to burn it up sometimes and I know this is

20:28

but it's going to be a great ride, you

20:30

know for sure, and

20:33

that can be okay, just be really aware

20:35

of what you do. Stay, stay awake, don't

20:37

fall asleep, don't get into that addictive

20:40

cycle. That's going to be super important.

20:43

Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.

20:45

So the other house where

20:48

you have this, where

20:50

the ruling planet is in its

20:52

home base, is you

20:55

have yournness in Aquarius

20:58

and this is in the third house. So the third

21:01

house is all about think

21:03

of it, well, it's a house of learning. It's

21:06

it's it's an air

21:08

sign. So it's about intellect and

21:11

that you you originate

21:14

ideas, You innovate ideas. Like someone says,

21:16

well this is what we're thinking about, and you're like, ooh, good

21:18

fodder. I can create something on my own. This

21:20

is going to be fun, right, you like

21:23

you like to generate, And again that pairs so

21:25

nicely with that Mars energy that just says

21:27

let's go, let's go, let's go, you

21:29

know, which can

21:31

be really fun, and you like, uh,

21:33

you know, you like to have the creativity to

21:36

to break the rules rights.

21:39

As one of my philosophy teachers says, you have

21:41

to know the rules to break the rules, otherwise

21:44

you're just being careless. And because

21:46

it's in this third house, which is about learning,

21:49

I would always encourage you to make

21:51

sure you know the rules before you break them.

21:53

It's completely fine to break them as long

21:56

as you know them. If you don't

21:58

know the rules and you're breaking them, you being

22:00

careless. Does this make sense?

22:02

Yeah? Absolutely, I love this approach

22:04

to especially like just coming out of

22:06

art school and you know, being

22:08

in the arts and like being in this place where

22:10

like I've had a lot of professors tell me the

22:13

same thing, like you have to know the rules to break them,

22:15

and I really I do love breaking rules.

22:17

I know you do.

22:19

Yeah, yeah,

22:22

so, but I also love

22:25

the study of the kind of traditions

22:27

and the rules

22:29

themselves. So that's again like

22:31

another fun Like I love to be reflected

22:34

in the stars.

22:36

Is fun, It's

22:38

amazing. And do

22:40

you have a neptune in the third house too,

22:42

which is you do like to go deep, you like

22:45

to understand things, and when you

22:47

have a great teacher. You're very excited,

22:49

right, very excited, and

22:52

when you have a bad teacher, you're very annoyed.

22:56

I have been a little insubordinate before.

22:59

When I think that my teacher is doing their

23:01

job, I will say that is something that has happened.

23:03

Yeah, you get surly, right, and it's

23:06

because your mind moves so quickly, and you're like,

23:08

we go back to Saturn and Taurus. This

23:10

is a waste of my time. This

23:13

is a waste of my time, and I'm paying for this now

23:15

now I'm.

23:15

Pissed, right, yeah, yeah.

23:19

And that's okay because you're living your chart

23:21

and that's all of our assignments. That's why it's so important

23:23

to study astrology.

23:25

I love that. Yeah, yeah, assignment.

23:28

This yeah, this is our assignment. So

23:31

yeah, so good for you. The other thing,

23:33

I just want to say, when you break the rules, there's

23:35

always an element of elegance

23:38

to it, like you design

23:40

and beauty that it can be

23:42

physically beautiful, but it's also

23:44

intellectually graceful, like people

23:47

go ooh, that's really good,

23:49

you know, right, Yeah,

23:51

I love that. Yeah, yeah, So I

23:54

just want to I just want to call that out and acknowledge it

23:56

because it's really quite extraordinary. And

23:58

again you have again

24:02

it's Uranus in Aquarius,

24:05

which is all about that

24:07

innovation and designing

24:10

for the collective. You don't do it just about

24:12

you. You don't do it just about you, right,

24:15

and so that's that's important when you're in Mars, when

24:18

you're in that Mars mode, and that's

24:20

that's little that's more individualistic, because

24:22

that's how Mars and Ares is. But

24:25

you've got Uranus in Aquarius, which

24:27

is for the collective. So it's a really

24:29

nice balance. It's a really nice balance.

24:31

Yeah, So it's kind of beautiful to see.

24:34

And then the final planet.

24:36

Again, these are all planets in dignity,

24:38

so they're all like fully charged.

24:41

I mean most people don't have three planets in

24:43

dignity, you know, So just celebrate this. It's

24:45

just a gift from the gods. So

24:48

do I I love it for you, and

24:51

especially as an actor, this

24:53

is extraordinary. Like I didn't know what you did. I knew

24:55

it had to be created creative, but I didn't

24:57

know how it was going to do. So I

25:00

just so many things, Brenda,

25:02

just one word at a time gets out.

25:05

A relatable.

25:10

One word at a time. Well and partly

25:12

because when I get into the chart, like I start matching

25:14

your energy, right, and I

25:17

am not wired to run that energy, so

25:19

I can all trip off you,

25:22

however wired to To

25:25

our audience, I apologize trying

25:28

to get out six words at once. So when

25:30

we have plans and dignity, we have full

25:32

access to them. And so I'm looking

25:34

at these planets. We have full access to

25:37

the energy that those planets bring in those houses.

25:39

And it's such a blessing from from the cosmos.

25:41

It's such a blessing to see that. And

25:44

so again I didn't know what you did, but I knew

25:47

it would be fully charged. And

25:50

you have the moon how we feel, and it's

25:52

home sign of cancer in

25:55

the eighth house, which means

25:58

take the most challenging roles

26:02

from all ends of the spectrum. Do not

26:04

get do not get stereotyped because

26:06

you have that that Uranus and Aquarius.

26:09

Make sure like I do, I play

26:11

a love interest here, I play criminal here, and make

26:13

psychopath here, I play you know, like

26:17

play all play everything because

26:19

that will be fun for you, right

26:22

right, Like take the weirdest

26:24

roles you can like that,

26:26

That's what I would advise you to do, Like

26:29

just as long as you're challenged, and

26:31

it doesn't matter how big or small it is. Obviously

26:34

you have you have financial obligations, blah blah

26:36

blah, but you, but you, But

26:38

really like I want you experiencing all

26:40

of it. That's what's going to be fun.

26:42

That's okay. So that

26:44

is very freeing to

26:47

hear because obviously, like as

26:49

a creative, as an actor, having

26:51

fun is kind of at the forefront

26:54

of my mind. And then like making

26:57

money is like second. So

27:00

I love again the freeo, like the gift

27:02

from the stars of this kind of like ye

27:05

blessing of freedom to go pursue

27:07

that thing that feels like it's already Like everything

27:10

you're saying feels like something that's already so

27:12

clearly written inside of me. And this

27:15

is like giving permission to express it.

27:17

Thank you, Thank you. That's that's exactly

27:20

what we help for. This is exactly

27:22

what we help for. Right, So on one hand,

27:24

I'm not going to tell you anything you don't already know, And

27:26

on the other hand, I want to make it so clear that

27:29

you can't miss it, like how important boundaries

27:31

are for you, because again, you can

27:33

merge with so many but then

27:36

it'll be like putting water on pavement and it won't

27:38

go anywhere. It won't mean anything everywhere.

27:41

So that's why containing and

27:43

limits and structure are your friends.

27:46

You have to have those. So you have to have a daily

27:48

routine. Hello, pets. They

27:50

do not let you get away with anything.

27:52

They do not.

27:54

It is non negotiable. You have to take me. You

27:56

have to take me out now because I said so,

28:00

which is fantastic, So and

28:03

how it's a nice marning. But those are the things that really stood

28:05

out to me in your chart. The

28:08

other thing that just one other thing about

28:10

at the astrology, and then we'll move on to

28:13

some other things. But this every

28:16

not everything, but most of your

28:18

how most of your charge

28:21

is in houses three through six,

28:24

is where most of your planets are. And

28:26

so basically you know

28:29

it's in one quadrant

28:31

except for the intellectual and

28:33

the learning and the communication. I

28:36

didn't want to say one thing about the communication,

28:38

because obviously

28:41

you're very smart. You like to study,

28:43

you like to learn, you like to be challenged.

28:45

But sometimes you feel like you

28:47

can't communicate everything you think, does

28:50

that make sense exact

28:54

which I can't. I

28:57

imagine people who are around you don't

28:59

see that, but that's what it feels like

29:01

to you, because they'll kind of be like, what are you talking about?

29:04

We can't understand too fine, and you're like, no, but you don't

29:06

understand how complex it is, and I can't quite get

29:08

it out. Does that make sense?

29:10

It rings so true? And like,

29:13

having examined my own chart, I've always

29:15

been like, it's that mercury and pisces, Like

29:17

it's the fact that I joke

29:20

that I speak and vibe like

29:23

the best way I could ever communicate

29:25

what I'm thinking feeling, what my

29:27

vision is is just like some

29:29

weird, offhanded like description

29:32

of half aesthetic, half like moode

29:35

and only I really know what's going

29:38

on, and I kind of just like a

29:40

lot of times I will start sentences and I'll

29:43

be like, you know, and then my friends will go like, yeah,

29:46

yeah, we know what.

29:50

So So the thing about that is

29:53

have you ever read The

29:55

Night Circus?

29:57

Do you know this that I've heard of it? Yeah?

29:59

You must read it. You must read it speaking

30:02

And the reason I want you to read it is

30:04

because it's such a visually

30:07

stimulating book. Because

30:10

the author is a painter, she's

30:12

trained as a painter, and

30:14

she says I paint

30:16

what I can't write, and I write what

30:19

I can't paint

30:20

I don't

30:22

She's brilliant, she's extraordinary.

30:26

And I'm just going to tell you my personal experience with this

30:28

book because we're terroot readers,

30:30

right, And so I was

30:32

staying I was traveling, and I

30:34

had been doing corporate travel, and

30:36

then I would land it in New York to teach.

30:39

I think I was teaching Toro. But that

30:42

so my friend who just left

30:44

me her New York apartment, she's

30:47

just because she heard her family were going to the beach or

30:49

whatever, so she couldn't be in class. So she's like, just come

30:51

in, blah blah blah, take make the placers. And

30:53

she left me this hard copy book

30:56

that's like three inches thick. I'm like, I've

30:58

been traveling for ten days. I'm not picking

31:01

up I'm not picking up a hard copy book, right,

31:03

Thanks, thanks Darling, But you know that's

31:05

not gonna happen. I

31:08

read the first page and I'm like, I'm

31:10

all in.

31:12

Oh my gosh, this

31:14

book.

31:15

It's one of my favorite. You have

31:18

to read it. You have to read it.

31:19

Yeah, no, absolutely, And also

31:21

like I'm immediately

31:24

sold on any book that can like grab you from

31:26

the get go.

31:27

From first page, I'm all in.

31:30

I was just like what so, yeah,

31:32

okay, so we're gonna take a little break and come

31:35

back and we're going to do some terror, some numerology.

31:38

Yay.

31:45

All right.

31:45

So I've obviously been talking about

31:48

you for a while, and so tell me, do

31:50

you have any questions before we move

31:52

on to other modalities.

31:54

Yeah, I have a quick question about the

31:57

sign of Taurus, just because

32:00

in my amateur astrology research,

32:02

I've kind of come across this almost

32:06

complementary side to Taurus

32:08

that kind of counters the grounded

32:10

earth sign bowl structured

32:14

energy that is kind of the and I think it's

32:16

its relation to Venus maybe,

32:18

but like this kind

32:20

of and this is how

32:23

it's it is in my head, is like this pink,

32:25

fluffy element which to me kind of represents

32:27

like a more material comfort

32:31

energy, like a softer

32:35

version or a softer kind of like interpretation

32:38

of Truss sign.

32:40

Yeah, so remember this structure.

32:43

It's such a great question, right, and so let me just affirm

32:45

yes, yes, yes, all that torusness

32:49

and as someone who has three

32:52

three signs in the second house, which is the natural

32:54

sign of Taurus, right, so

32:57

I live here.

33:00

But what I'd say is that

33:03

the structured part comes because

33:05

Saturn is in your Taurus.

33:08

Oh I see it.

33:09

Okay, so that's what's lighting up

33:11

the Taurus part. Yeah yeah,

33:14

yeah yeah. And because

33:17

it's in the house of service with

33:19

your all your waterness. If

33:21

without the boundaries, without the structure,

33:24

you're going to be water on pavement, right.

33:28

And Taurus is the

33:31

sign of comfort, of

33:33

fuzzy and chocolate and wine and

33:36

you know, like good food. Yeah

33:39

yeah, like that's that's just the sign

33:41

of Taurus, right. You can you can't get any juicier

33:43

than that. So yeah, dead, that's

33:46

amazing. So

33:48

that's it. The other

33:50

thing that's really important is to remember about

33:52

the sixth House because you have Jupiter

33:55

and Saturn. I didn't talk about the Jupiter part because

33:57

it was mostly Saturn eating

34:00

the structure for protection for you and how

34:03

to manage your resources with others. But

34:06

the rule of the sixth House is

34:08

it's all about service. People know that. It's all about

34:10

health. People know that, but we have

34:12

to get the order right. You have to

34:14

take care of your health first

34:17

so you then can be of service when

34:22

you start taking care of others. First,

34:24

your health will be

34:27

impacted negatively. Wow,

34:30

right, Okay, you have to get the order

34:33

right. It's really critical health.

34:35

First, move with your dogs,

34:37

eat the right stuff now. Granted

34:39

it's all in Taurus, so you can be like, hmm,

34:42

chocolate and wine for dinner again.

34:45

Yay,

34:47

no, no, no, no, okay.

34:50

Yeah, that's fascinating because I've always

34:53

heard the sixth House referred

34:55

to as just like work and health, and it's always

34:57

felt like that, you know, I think those

34:59

are.

35:00

It's it's like checking the box, right,

35:03

but it's not at all. It's a whole

35:05

mindset of how can

35:07

I care for the vessel that

35:10

cares for things in those I love?

35:13

Right?

35:14

Right? How can I care for this right I

35:16

have? I have accountability for this vessel

35:19

in a way to create health and wellness

35:22

and embody that like you say, I

35:25

move through the world, you know, vibing things

35:27

you you actually do because you get

35:30

paid to project this

35:32

this frequency out to humanity as

35:34

an actor. That's what you're doing, right, Join

35:36

me here, This is what I'm feeling, right,

35:38

and this is my instrument for God's

35:40

sakes, right, this is so yeah,

35:43

So it's absolutely how I work and

35:45

how I serve, right, so

35:47

it's my my work

35:49

and my vocation. Right, so it's really both

35:52

super important. Great question, does

35:54

that help you think about it differently?

35:56

Enlightening has given

35:58

me so much insight

36:02

and the health first

36:05

for the good of service is really

36:08

specifically very helps

36:11

me kind of align my priorities.

36:14

It's super important, super important.

36:18

Yeah, and especially as an actor. Yeah,

36:21

it's just really important. The

36:23

other thing just about Saturn, because Saturn

36:25

does get a little take a bad

36:28

rap, you know, it's so persnickety, it's bossy

36:30

and oh god, you have Saturn in the sixth house

36:32

as much suck. But the truth is,

36:36

like anything else in your chart, when

36:39

you make friends with it,

36:41

it just it just snuckles right in and

36:43

supports you. Right, Like

36:46

if you've ever met like a dog that's all snarly

36:48

and you're like, oh, but I have treats.

36:56

What are you talking about alcohol with you?

36:57

Right?

36:59

And it's saturns like that. You

37:01

show me discipline, you commit to

37:03

me, you work with me, you

37:05

create structure. I will protect

37:08

you and support you, and

37:10

that's how you get to Jupiter, which brings

37:12

all the gifts.

37:15

This is like, so I

37:18

have no other words other than like empowering,

37:21

inspiring. Like I feel

37:24

it's something about the way you were describing that, like

37:26

if you commit to me, if you because

37:29

there's within the watery

37:31

depths of my there

37:33

has always been this like desire

37:36

a need for structure,

37:40

and like you.

37:41

Know, and you and you still resist it though.

37:44

Because I so and you said this earlier,

37:46

but the structure to allow for freedom thing

37:49

rang so true because I

37:51

like have a visceral need

37:53

for a feeling of autonomy and freedom.

37:56

And I think that like the resistance was

37:58

so much of me thinking that

38:00

like the structure and the routine were somehow kind

38:02

of disallowing my own

38:05

freedom.

38:06

It's the exact opposite, right, So.

38:08

The paradigm shift there is really powerful.

38:12

Right, And you get to

38:14

choose it, right,

38:16

You get to choose it. Yeah, and that's

38:19

a discovery because it's like, well

38:21

this works for now, but it may now work always

38:24

right right? Yeah,

38:26

super cool, super good, Such

38:30

a great question. Yeah, I'm

38:33

so glad. Yeah.

38:35

The other thing this would just tell me just so you know,

38:39

I know, we talked about the

38:41

the reasonable

38:43

career path of being a

38:45

therapist or coach, like you

38:48

should also be a teacher with how your

38:50

mind works, you know that right.

38:54

Not only have I just like known

38:57

that my whole like had like this like

38:59

deep little but I literally

39:01

like it came up through my tarot

39:04

before, like

39:08

I know in like deep

39:10

in my knowing soul that like at

39:12

some point I will be teaching

39:15

whatever it is, but like I will be teaching,

39:18

I plan to be a very eccentric old professor

39:21

with like feed jacket and

39:23

fireplace with books all

39:25

or an other things.

39:27

Yeah nice, nice,

39:30

yep. I just needed to say

39:32

that before I moved down to numerology.

39:33

One, that that's also in the chart,

39:35

like this is crazy that all of this is

39:38

so reflected.

39:39

Yeah, it's it's pretty fun. So

39:42

I just want to show you the data

39:45

for your in numerology

39:48

is correct. I just need to confirm that with you. It's

39:51

so good, excellent. So

39:54

so the the think of numerology

39:57

as the framework that holds

40:01

holds this slice

40:03

of your gifts. Okay, and

40:06

how you fill in that framework can

40:08

change depending on what you're doing,

40:11

right, but it says these are the gifts you bring to every

40:13

situation. These are kind of the blind spots that

40:15

you want to mitigate or get people around you

40:17

to have, you know, fill in and have your back

40:20

sort of thing. Okay, So one

40:23

of the reasons, which

40:25

this is so interesting to me, so many people

40:28

actually start reading. Most

40:30

people start with the Moon's the sun, moon

40:32

and rising. Many

40:34

people also start with Saturn because

40:37

they say, no matter what planet rules

40:39

your chart, and for you it's Mars

40:42

rules your chart, but Saturn

40:44

rules all the charts, that's what they say.

40:47

Yeah, Saturn just rules all the charts no

40:50

matter, which is why

40:52

we spent a lot of time on it today. But

40:55

you're in your numerology. The

40:57

one of the reasons you came to the planet, like

41:00

one of the callings you really wanted to

41:02

learn is structure and planning.

41:08

So you in

41:11

spades. You've got this in spades. But

41:13

what's interesting is that

41:17

what people see from you is

41:21

the the deep wisdom,

41:24

but they don't really know what to

41:26

do with it because it's it's

41:29

not necessarily within their frequency to grasp.

41:33

Sometimes it'll tell their head they're like, WHOA, that's

41:35

really that's really

41:38

deep, or that's intense, or

41:40

how do you know that you know? But

41:43

like sometimes they can't really yeah,

41:47

hold it for sure. But

41:50

what they do know is they trust

41:52

you. You appear for someone who has

41:55

all that water. You appear

41:57

very steady to people, and

42:01

I think it's because of the zen

42:04

element of the sun and Pisces, and

42:08

it just seems to really work for people

42:11

because you understand human nature

42:13

in a way that other people don't get

42:16

the fullness of it. People experience

42:19

the wisdom

42:21

of what you say, but they're not really sure, like how did

42:23

you get there? Because

42:25

you understand the depth of humanity

42:28

and the emotions and they and

42:31

so you understand the depth, the core essence

42:34

of it, but they more stand the surface,

42:36

and so they kind of get pushed around by

42:39

the waves on the surface. And you're like,

42:41

yeah, but if you understand the core essence

42:44

that when people are really jerks, it's because they're

42:46

afraid. And you're like, how do

42:48

you know that? I just thought he was an asshole,

42:50

you know, And you're like, yeah,

42:53

just be nice to them. They're just afraid. You

42:55

know, it'll just take it down a notch, It'll

42:58

be okay, you know, that sort of thing.

43:01

And that's why you show up steady.

43:04

It's because you understand human nature.

43:08

This, yeah,

43:10

this is it's very much ringing true,

43:12

and it's also kind of like, I

43:15

mean, obviously nice to have it reflected just

43:17

because sometimes I'm like, am I

43:20

reading? Like how do I know that?

43:22

Am I just making this up?

43:25

Like what?

43:28

Like the wind told me?

43:29

That's

43:32

exactly right, That's

43:36

awesome. So part

43:39

of the life lesson in your numerology

43:43

is actually so supported by that mars

43:45

and Aries that we talked about earlier that

43:48

says, don't be afraid to

43:51

step out on your own. You

43:54

are empowered to create.

43:57

You are empowered to take that initiative

44:01

to break the rules. But

44:04

we want you breaking rules so you can

44:06

show us where to go. Right

44:09

because of the inspiration you have, because

44:12

of the the you can like you

44:14

know how it's like read the room. You're like, I'm

44:16

reading the globe right

44:23

right right, and and

44:26

you know it's too small. If you read the room,

44:28

You're like, humanity's got

44:30

to go over here, come follow me, it's going

44:32

to be amazing. Like that's that's

44:34

what you have. And and so this

44:36

is and it's hard because the truth

44:39

is, you know, it's

44:43

it's hard at this age

44:46

to feel completely empowered to do

44:48

that that people won't even follow you, and

44:51

I'm telling you they will.

44:56

And I wow, okay,

44:59

thank you,

45:01

like yeah, thank

45:03

you for that. Acknowledgment.

45:08

I don't even know how to express like how

45:11

much that kind of like reaffirmation

45:13

of faith is important

45:16

to me, especially at like this part

45:18

point in time. Wow,

45:22

I'm wow.

45:23

Yeah, well, And I just want to acknowledge

45:26

that you are someone who's very respectful,

45:28

So you're not going to be like, oh, you

45:31

pompous, you know whatever. I'm just you

45:33

know, you don't want to because this is the right way.

45:35

You're just you're just talking out your butt,

45:37

you know, like you're not that, You're

45:40

not that kind of person, but you also know

45:43

what you feel. And

45:45

I want you to start talking

45:48

about what you feel because because I see

45:50

what you're talking about, and that makes sense, and I

45:52

can understand how you get there, But have

45:54

you ever considered or would it be interesting

45:56

or helpful to explore? And

45:58

then you start talking and then people

46:00

are going to turn and go, what the hell? I wanting

46:03

to follow him? I'm following him. I don't know where

46:05

he's going, but it's gonna be cool. Start

46:09

talking, Start talking. Don't

46:12

be frank, now's the time.

46:14

That's crazy that you say that, because

46:16

and I don't want to like take up too much of our time with

46:18

like a little.

46:20

Like, oh, this is it's your time, this

46:22

is your freaking thank you.

46:25

So on Monday, we had the solar

46:28

eclips crazy energy. I

46:30

got super sick, like right

46:32

after kidding, kidd The

46:35

crazy thing was I have

46:37

had this like inkling for

46:39

a really long time simultaneously

46:42

that my throat chakra is really really

46:45

important in my life and that my throat

46:47

chakra is incredibly blocked or

46:49

like restricted. So

46:51

then Sunday night, I was sitting there

46:53

and I was literally just like kind of in

46:55

my room a little bit of meditating,

46:58

very light, but I like specifically it was kind of like

47:00

sitting there with my throat chukra and like

47:02

really working

47:05

on the energy and just kind of like trying to like tussele

47:07

it out a little bit and like pull some of the gunk out

47:09

energetically. And woke

47:13

up the next morning with a sore

47:15

throat, had a super

47:18

sore throat and respiratory cold

47:20

through the rest of the week. And

47:22

now we're covering and then you're saying, but

47:25

on the flip side of that, this entire week, I've for

47:27

some reason felt like really able to like

47:30

express my opinions with ease,

47:32

like saying things and like posting

47:35

things on the internet, like talking to people about

47:37

things that I would never have felt comfortable

47:40

with going that kind of like vulnerable

47:43

or deep, even though it's literally just like me

47:45

saying like this is how I view the world, this is

47:47

what I think. But

47:49

it was it's a it's been a crazy

47:51

shift. And then you're just you know, sitting here

47:54

saying like talk talk,

47:56

and I'm like, oh my god, that's this

47:58

is really wild.

47:59

Yeah, So the congratulations,

48:02

right, because you're living in your chart and that's

48:04

really really important.

48:06

What I want to be really clear about. Just because you talked

48:08

about the power of clearing chakras, there's

48:11

so many ways to do it. You can't

48:13

really do it wrong, and you

48:15

can do it more gently right than

48:18

because you're basically pulling things out from the

48:20

etheric layer. But

48:24

the seed sounds, by doing the

48:26

mantras of the seed sounds, can be really

48:28

helpful. And

48:31

so starting at the rude chakra, it's lum,

48:33

second chakra is vum,

48:36

third chakra is ram

48:39

a, fourth chakra is yum.

48:43

Fifth chakra is hum, which

48:45

you would think, right, hum, right,

48:47

And anytime we're humming, so anytime

48:50

we're saying any of these sounds. We're helping the

48:53

vagus nerve calm down. So like, this

48:55

is really helpful to be chanting and saying

48:57

over so you can say it quietly, but

48:59

to really and then the sixth

49:02

chakra is oh

49:04

so. And the best book

49:06

out there is Chakra Rituals

49:09

Releasing the Wild Woman Within, and it's by Christy

49:12

Christensen. It's an amazing book.

49:14

It has all this information in it by each center.

49:16

But pulling. If you are going to like

49:19

clear things out by pulling out the energy, the

49:22

first thing before you go and pull gunk out,

49:24

the first thing you do is in hell

49:26

and bring your energy out of the pattern

49:28

that you discern. Okay,

49:31

and then you release the pattern.

49:34

Okay, right, because that's why you had

49:36

a start throat, because you didn't.

49:39

Yeah, it was a bit of a like I think it was a little

49:41

too hard, too fast.

49:43

You went hardcore, right, But that's that Marsonaries,

49:46

that's marsinary.

49:47

I was like, let'll just do it.

49:48

I guess I'm just gonna it's

49:51

happening, it's gonna get done. Yeah,

49:53

that's tough.

49:54

Marsonaris, So helpful, thank

49:56

you, Yeah, funny,

49:58

Look.

49:59

It's amazing book. It's an amazing book.

50:03

So the other thing is I just want

50:05

to again plug

50:07

Saturn one more time because

50:11

the chart I have in

50:13

front of me says that in your

50:15

more senior years should

50:18

be your freest years. Now, we all

50:20

hope for that, but we don't all get this

50:23

marking like it will

50:25

be your freest years if you play your cards

50:27

right, lots of discipline, taking

50:30

care of your resources, and

50:33

yeah, it's gonna be amazing.

50:34

It's gonna be amazing, so beautiful.

50:37

Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

50:39

So any so I can remember that, like

50:41

my discipline now means that in my eighties I

50:43

get to be like weird, wild and crazy.

50:46

It won't be eighties, baby, you can do it a lot sooner.

50:53

Yeah, we won't

50:55

have to wait that long. Thank

50:58

Yeah. Yeah, So that's

51:01

really what I want to talk about for your numerology,

51:04

So thank you.

51:05

I just wanted to ask a quick question about yes

51:07

question I could. Yeah, this is

51:09

going to sound so funny. Could

51:12

the kind of prevalence of Saturn

51:14

in my life be why I'm drawn to dating

51:16

Capricorns at all?

51:18

Or is that so

51:21

just to let the people at home know that Saturn

51:26

is at home in Capricorn. So

51:28

right, there's an attraction there, right, So Saturn

51:30

rules house the sign of Capricorn.

51:33

Yeah, so yeah, that that makes a lot

51:35

of sense. But that's I mean, think about that. There's not

51:38

a balancing quality there. There's just a lot

51:40

of earth and structure and some pressure.

51:43

Right, So there's right,

51:45

because there's there's just not a lot of spaciousness

51:47

and compassion and flow other than

51:49

what you bring with all your water. So

51:51

you may want to think about you may

51:54

want to consider broadening your taste your type.

51:58

Have been a lot more thought full about my

52:00

approach. I

52:04

swear I go for like it's the mars

52:07

Ares. I'm just like, let me

52:09

take the sign that will make my life

52:11

like the craziest for

52:13

the while, and I'm going to date them

52:16

and see what happens.

52:19

Well, it's also Venus and Pisces,

52:23

you know, like, oh, let's just

52:25

go on the deep end.

52:26

What the hell jump right in, let's

52:28

go.

52:34

Yeah, You're never bored, You're never gonna be

52:36

bored. You will never lack partnership.

52:38

For trust me, you can have you can play

52:40

however you like until

52:43

you decide to be dedicated

52:46

and committed and steady. And whence you

52:48

decide, it won't be a problem. But

52:50

until then, yeah, enjoy Okay,

52:54

yeah yeah, because

52:57

you'll actually see someday and

52:59

it's not today, it's not probably for a while,

53:01

but when you are

53:03

in a committed relationship, that's where your heart

53:05

will really be free because

53:08

you actually don't trust easily?

53:12

Girl, How did you find that out?

53:17

This was for real, just

53:23

saying so.

53:26

I'm just going to start like this episode

53:29

every time I meet a new friend or like I'm

53:32

a partner, I'm just sending them

53:34

this and they have to listen to it. Before

53:36

they didn't talk to me.

53:40

You are hysterical. This

53:43

has been such a joy to spend time

53:45

with you. Thank you so much.

53:46

Oh my gosh, thank you. This has been really

53:49

really enlightening. I have had the best time.

53:51

Well me too, So I want to

53:53

thank you Ronan for joining

53:56

us and being so generous in this reading

53:59

and playing so graciously.

54:01

So thank you, thank you, thank you, and remember.

54:04

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54:07

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