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Care if. It's.

1:01

Great anxiety valued Asia's my friends. Welcome

1:04

back to another one here on inside.

1:06

I'm Cv V. Chris Van Vliet. Are

1:08

you doing? How's everything going? Well Thank

1:10

you so much for being here. Thank

1:12

you for making and say one of

1:15

the top wrestling podcast on the planet

1:17

and this is one I've wanted to

1:19

do in person for a while. You

1:21

know where is the man? You know?

1:24

we're as big time backs. But.

1:26

She is now a New

1:28

York Times bestselling author. Becky.

1:30

Lynch is awesome and I'm so glad

1:33

that she was able to make the

1:35

time to sit down with us during

1:37

a very busy Wrestlemania week. And

1:39

she was also in the middle of a book tour. So like.

1:41

Finding. The time to do this

1:43

was not easy. We were going back and

1:46

forth for like a month. To. Make

1:48

this happen. But. I'm so glad that

1:50

we did! Her book is called Becky Lynch.

1:52

The. Man, not your average average

1:55

girl. It's. A fantastic

1:57

read! I. Talk about how. All.

1:59

The the time in the world that

2:02

we live in. Now you just see

2:04

the finished product, especially on Instagram social

2:06

social media but you don't see the

2:08

struggles along the way. For. You

2:10

don't see something in someone's life that

2:12

you can relate to now because it

2:14

just looks so. Finished. In

2:17

perfect and glossy. And.

2:20

I. Loved it in her book. It

2:22

takes us back. All the

2:24

way in her words to her

2:26

being and on athletic girl with

2:28

an eating disorder. That. Lack

2:31

confidence and you see all

2:33

of these little wins along

2:35

the way. These little things

2:37

that happen that start to

2:39

build her into the person

2:41

that we see now and.

2:43

I mean at an eye on athletic girl with

2:46

an eating disorder is certainly not the Becky Lynch

2:48

we see in the debris to be we now.

2:50

So there's so many lessons. To. Be

2:52

learned from this book and also from this

2:54

interview in just the way that she lives

2:56

her life. So I loved this conversation. She

2:59

dives deep into being a mom and. And.

3:02

Seth Rollins? of course she calls him

3:04

called a' throughout the interview, which makes

3:06

perfect sense. Why would she be calling

3:08

him Seth Rollins? But there's so much

3:10

great stuff here. And yes, We.

3:12

Talk about that recent ponce. Rights

3:15

to Doms Face Crazy Go

3:17

grab a copy of for

3:19

book or actually listen to

3:21

the audio book. To read

3:24

that herself? So it's so good. Are you

3:26

know what was left level up here? By

3:28

the books and then listen to the

3:31

audio book as you're reading it. So

3:33

it's like Becky is sitting there reading

3:35

it with you. That's that's I see

3:38

a big hat. Like I'm a

3:40

way to like, really retain knowledge when

3:42

reading books is to read along with

3:44

the audio. No, we're

3:46

not here for. Book reading hacks

3:49

just snap a screenshot let us

3:51

know you're listening. Tag us so

3:53

we can share it. She that Becky Lynch w

3:55

w we. I'm. A christian leads.

3:58

You. Gonna love this please! Enjoyed

4:00

this conversation. With. Becky

4:03

Lynch. Congratulations.

4:08

On this Thank you best selling Author

4:10

New York Times Bestselling. that's you know?

4:12

Where does this ring on all of

4:14

the great achievements you've had your career?

4:16

This is the thing that I'm most

4:18

proud of. And in my

4:20

career like because it's just it's.

4:24

One I think people expect me to be

4:26

a good western hypocrisy should be. that's my

4:28

job of. But ah, but they don't expect

4:31

you to be a great writer. Yeah, yeah,

4:33

I'm and this is some than that I

4:35

always wanted to do. I'm. An

4:37

I'm really proud of it Mom I'm proud

4:39

of the story that A told them. M

4:42

C Molson that brings and it's it's It's

4:44

got everything you know. It's a. It's

4:47

got comedy, is set, got sadness,

4:49

it's got hurt and the. Hands.

4:51

Really prevalent. the way wrote it makes

4:54

it feel like you're actually like sitting

4:56

there telling me this stores gas as.

4:59

I said that, sat there road as and

5:01

told you these stories. Yeah and. To That's

5:03

what he wanted it to be on wanted it. To.

5:05

Be something where people wanted to

5:07

turn the page and it was

5:09

an easy read. An enjoyable read

5:11

and the people could kind of

5:13

get lost. Them for few hours. Says

5:15

it's such an undertaking to ask

5:18

somebody. To. Pick up a

5:20

book and read it because you have to. Put.

5:22

Everything out You know you have to just

5:24

take that time to pick it up to

5:26

read and the self. I'm asking people to

5:28

do that. I want to make sure that

5:30

it's good and they think it's and it's

5:33

as good or the New York Times bestseller

5:35

list for the movies. This is the book

5:37

that I think is going to inspire a

5:39

lot of people. This is the book. It's

5:41

gonna inspire a new generation. Who

5:43

was the person that the deaf you? Who inspired

5:45

you in that way when you're starting out? Mick

5:48

Foley? Hence why I wanted to see

5:50

the author of my own book. And.

5:52

To make was the person. Who

5:54

I would see my brother be watson

5:56

wrestling and a walk past the T

5:58

V. And who don't. Luna to fake

6:01

like the worst. And. I'm.

6:04

I'm I'm my brother was a kid. it's it's

6:06

gotten really good and then I see I see

6:08

make on the tv. Like. A

6:11

due to a tall and. A.

6:14

The presence that he had you so

6:16

captivating and then he. You know I

6:18

could relate to him because. I.

6:20

Wish this kid who'd been keys for

6:22

being overweight and felt like didn't. Sit.

6:25

Him wasn't a typical. He wasn't

6:27

the typical superstar. And

6:29

and I could relate to that. You know

6:31

when he said like i can't jump high

6:33

but I can jump off a high places

6:36

on the and and so everything about I'm

6:38

spoke to me and also he does look

6:40

like such a good person. And

6:42

then over the years have gone to known.

6:45

And. You know whoever says don't Meet

6:47

Your Heroes their hero wasn't Mick Foley because

6:49

he so great. Like when I told him

6:51

I was right in that like I wrote

6:54

a draft which. Wasn't very

6:56

good at I would say. And

6:59

he went through it and first

7:01

was so complimentary. so encouraging. That.

7:04

I had a voice That I had a

7:06

unique voice. the need to use my voice.

7:09

And then the other thing was he spent six hours

7:11

on the phone to go on. Line by

7:13

Line Three The Book: And

7:15

picking out like even even stuff like where

7:17

I should have put a karma and so

7:19

I know that all of the copy editor

7:21

or sick all that up for lucky to

7:24

talk. That's fine because he cares while right.

7:26

Wow. So you're you were sitting there

7:28

reading this whole thing. You one of the

7:31

process be job. I mean it

7:33

started. With I can find

7:35

it funny when I you know I I.

7:37

Was. Pregnant the world was. Sit there, Like.

7:40

Might. As well start. you know when

7:42

I just said a right and then

7:45

who's just like word vomit on to

7:47

pay. It's like know censoring myself in

7:49

any capacity just like let me get

7:51

words sound on said page. And then

7:53

I reach a certain point to make

7:55

fun of. Ah,

7:58

I get stuck. Then I

8:00

believe it for months on end. and then

8:02

I come back and start again from the

8:04

beginning when I would do this process over

8:07

and over again until like Twenty Twenty Two.

8:10

Twenty. Three Do is write as a

8:12

as of haven't that much beyond that

8:14

wrestlemania. Under I decided to

8:16

take a writing course. And

8:18

each of the year long writing course. And

8:21

there was some. Stuff. with my book

8:23

Feel where. Nobody. Had given

8:25

me a disabled and and and turned

8:27

out to like. Just

8:30

coincidentally, The deadline

8:32

ended up being of right.

8:35

At the end of the book course

8:37

men So so. And

8:39

so it worked out perfectly that now

8:41

I had accountability, I could do it.

8:44

And so so within that year I

8:46

ended up happening in a draft. And

8:48

then he had problems with editors were like.

8:51

Might. One editor. he just disappeared and

8:53

then there was another editor and we

8:55

didn't like someone's and then I got

8:57

this other editor, rebecca sober and she

8:59

was. An easy to the maidens

9:01

or center off the draft. And

9:04

then she came back with a bunch questions and then

9:06

I read it for the first time. Like Reddit back

9:08

in one thing, another. Oh I hate

9:10

this. I hate this. and then I scrub the

9:12

whole thing. When. We wrote it

9:14

in like about five weeks. While

9:16

the As: that's a very long

9:19

story about how how long the

9:21

process took both like you know

9:23

clinics that it will talk within

9:25

three years but also for five

9:27

weeks. What was difficult to right?

9:29

what of it as a very close cassette?

9:32

I. Can say the word. Spartacus.

9:34

Arctic thank you. Well as it's it's

9:36

quite the process, right? saying that they're

9:38

getting it out What was difficult to

9:40

put on paper? Ah,

9:45

Anything with doubly doubly we are.

9:48

I thought I'm needed to be

9:50

handled with great hair. Because.

9:52

I don't think you can absent

9:54

mindedly. I'm. right? About.

9:57

People that are in the public eye. And. You

10:00

have to have a good representation of

10:02

them. An accurate representation of them. Am.

10:06

And so I wanted to

10:08

detail everything. break. Honestly. Face

10:11

actually am without without letting my my

10:13

bias come into play. It like when

10:15

was either. Yeah so I can relate.

10:18

like like I need to own that

10:20

like. Let. Me try and see

10:22

the other person's point of view because these

10:24

people are. In the public

10:27

eye and and and you want to represent them.

10:29

In. The way that is most honestly and

10:31

and is another thing that Mick Foley. Tommy

10:35

was. Never.

10:37

Use both to get back. At anybody like never

10:39

use it as our veins tool

10:42

you know, like I'm gonna, I'm

10:44

gonna. Show. Them. They

10:46

don't have the chance to defend themselves and

10:48

and I took that as. I'm

10:51

gonna be the hero of mine store, right? if you're

10:53

reading this for the likely. An

10:55

unlikely painting myself as a hero of

10:57

my story. It's not fair for

11:00

me to paint. Paint. Anybody

11:02

as a villain? especially somebody who doesn't

11:04

have the chance to respond. So I

11:06

really wanted to handle all of that

11:08

stuff. Care he other something this is

11:10

very permanent about putting in and about.

11:13

Yeah like back he said this thing

11:15

yeah and look like headlines will always

11:17

take stuff out of context no matter

11:19

what you say am but a at

11:21

least one to contextualize it in in

11:24

the book. Because. It's

11:26

one thing as well if you say something in an

11:28

interview. That is. it's

11:30

it. You. Know because. Sometimes.

11:32

You just say stuff and you're like a while. I'll

11:35

think about it later on. Like I said, it

11:37

lights up but actually what I meant was this

11:39

am the but when you when you when you

11:41

write him and book. The

11:44

understanding is that you went in with

11:46

more tear. You examined it further. And

11:49

so and and so that was important to

11:51

me. But the other thing about humans and

11:53

life is that. We're. Not obligated

11:55

to be the same person that we were

11:58

yesterday or even a few minutes ago. Man

12:00

which is changing constantly. Our

12:02

opinions are changing constantly. We're

12:04

constantly evolving. And. We should be,

12:06

you know, And so. You. Know that

12:08

was me. When. I was writing

12:10

it in twenty twenty three. You. Know.

12:13

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12:16

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12:19

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12:21

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12:23

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12:26

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12:28

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12:30

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12:32

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12:34

my gosh this is so cute. When we

12:36

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12:38

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12:40

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Was. Your first official date with

15:21

Seth. Ah and almost sounds

15:23

from. As. Much

15:27

ah maybe of was. Add bring

15:29

me the horizon in in the

15:31

form and I'll let. Me

15:34

think that was their first. the great bands and

15:36

of assists on. A

15:38

date. Good. At was it

15:41

was right before the Royal rumble and

15:43

he like showed me this song and.

15:46

Follow. Armor. Alla armor

15:48

much while I'm. And by

15:50

Bring Me the Horizon I'd never

15:52

heard of them before unlike as

15:54

love this song and allegedly it

15:56

reminded him of me and of

15:58

but is it. And he was like

16:01

or can have different they are and he showed me there are

16:03

they stuff. Then. So then we got to

16:05

go see them live and pretty soon up and

16:07

that school and looked and looked at us now

16:09

or could Soon I was alone for year old.

16:12

That's amazing. The Grass St Yeah,

16:14

I'm a girl. Dad, You're a

16:16

girl. Mom's is the best. Months

16:18

and really lousy and phone hold

16:21

zero Ten months? No no personality

16:23

com A Now she's not saying

16:25

real words. Yeah, no, but some

16:27

real personality. Come on out. Yeah,

16:30

how sassy his room only cost

16:32

society. is. Unlike.

16:36

Visitation. Through a few

16:38

as Bombs. Why? Not worse.

16:40

I learned that from the wrong and

16:42

old. Yeah exactly. And that and and

16:44

like you're like. How. Do

16:46

you spawn to that. Is. It's so

16:49

funny. You know what I mean. You're like

16:51

you like. I got to shut this down.

16:53

but also. It's so funny. In

16:56

on so even jesus be just got

16:58

ignore but she and she's got so

17:00

much personality. And she's so

17:03

sweet, she's so kind, she so funny

17:05

and it's a funny to watch like.

17:08

His youth. you. You'll.

17:10

See it. Works.

17:12

I look back at her videos like when she was the little. Baby.

17:16

You know and like she didn't have

17:18

worried they are or. Could.

17:20

Even walk or in but there's

17:22

that essence of like something like

17:24

did that the personality, then it

17:26

just develops me like you were

17:28

always like this. You were always

17:30

disliked. Sassy little funny saying you

17:32

know, So. Cool to see more

17:34

like you are more like south. Ah

17:38

I know it's since he us.

17:40

Like. I say she looks like she don't look

17:42

like him but then he's like give we see

17:44

you when you were baby and looks more like

17:47

give. Em. For personality

17:49

wise, she's so stubborn. And

17:52

I say that. Coby

17:54

Coby says i miss self Side

17:56

of us may be a blend

17:58

of the to yeah. The their

18:00

own thing though. man, she's magic. How has

18:02

being a mom change your perspective of your

18:05

career? And because I feel like you've you've

18:07

got part of you goes. I want to

18:09

be there for every single moment, the my

18:11

daughter's doing anything yeah the same time ago,

18:13

I want to be a great role model

18:16

and example for my daughter and I want

18:18

to just keep kicking ass. Yeah, That.

18:22

That's it's complicated right there. Like because

18:24

Thursday's both sets. It's he just wanna

18:26

spend time with your. Kid. You

18:28

know, like of was gun. she's gone. Totally

18:30

leave me mama. Don't leave me. and especially.

18:33

Near. The last week with the book tour in

18:35

and this week is crazy cause threats linear and

18:37

then we've got a lot of at. Tories,

18:39

Common of. And. Are you

18:41

know we were in person? so at the lever and

18:44

and. Suffers as so heard. it's

18:46

so hard. And. Like I have

18:48

to remind myself that my mom was also a

18:50

flight attendant. She. Was gone but I

18:52

don't remember her being on. I just remember

18:54

her being present. I remember how always making

18:57

cakes for the bake sale. I remember her.

18:59

You know I just I remember snuggling with

19:01

I Am I don't remember. The.

19:03

Absence of her. I just remember

19:05

the present suffer and so I

19:08

need to remember that whenever I'm

19:10

feeling but also. I

19:13

am. It's. I

19:15

feel so lucky that I still get.

19:18

A part. Of me that was. Me:

19:21

Before. I became a mother. You

19:23

know, because you change someone's and you

19:25

become a new person. Priorities switch and

19:27

and that's an adjustment for a lot

19:29

of women. Sick? Maybe every

19:31

woman. Because. You

19:34

now have a new identity and sometimes you

19:36

lose the person that you were before and

19:39

no faster. Or in a

19:41

way enough talk to other people's athlete like

19:43

you have to grieve the person that you

19:45

were before And it's an amazing thing. And

19:47

it's a wonderful thing to do. A mother.

19:49

But. You also in in in some ways

19:52

miss that person you were before I get

19:54

keep that. And they get to sell keep

19:56

the thing that. You. Know

19:58

made me feel like like. Me: The thing

20:00

that I love I may get to have my

20:02

daughter so I feel so lucky. She.

20:04

Made her debut will debate of you a

20:07

debut she did being carried into the ring

20:09

yeah I guess I guess yet how much

20:11

thought went into? Like okay every are you

20:13

ready for her to. In of

20:15

be on Tv for everybody ah.

20:19

Yeah, I'm. A

20:21

little which is you know I think at

20:23

it was his call we had the idea.

20:26

And then were like rudy want to go to

20:28

work with with that and like that and then

20:30

I was like oh my gosh maybe to she

20:32

loves like. Getting her make

20:35

thorns as far. As

20:37

it's wanna get into any get your your hair

20:39

done and see what it looked like Karen. From.

20:42

Frosty the Snowman because she loves Karen's

20:44

from Frosty the Snowman see her daughter

20:46

haired This is a little thing like

20:49

the tried to for buying. Come

20:51

by the time she was on tv zone over the

20:53

place of to you and she's like. Certain.

20:55

Low make a person put like pink eye

20:57

shadow. hundreds of. And. Yeah.

21:01

But then with them. You.

21:03

Know she's like okay rules Brooklinen Go

21:06

in. To. Those are people gonna

21:08

hurt. Me with. This

21:12

is you know she she see she

21:14

sees us would boost. Up on ourselves

21:16

other times you know says he goes in

21:18

and does. Is somebody gonna be

21:20

what like know would never let anybody hurt

21:22

you. Sit trying to

21:24

explain that not all work

21:27

involves getting hurt that I'm

21:29

buying. I'm not all

21:31

friends are pushing each other. him.

21:33

Punching. Each other and. Kind

21:36

of a hard thing to explain to the three

21:38

year the know when she sees Mama and Data

21:40

are working and then we're just. That

21:42

bit of I was surprised to reading

21:44

your book he wrote. I'm not a

21:47

dreamer. I don't think

21:49

you can get to where you're at

21:51

right now without dreaming in the biggest

21:53

way. I'm such a dreamer. I'm

21:56

such a dreamer. Yeah, but I

21:58

like a I thought there was a. A

22:01

flaw in and being a dreamer

22:04

because my dad was a dreamer.

22:06

An. M. And

22:09

I watched him for many years.

22:11

And. Struggle

22:14

to to find a seat. And

22:16

and ah, and and be unemployed

22:19

and you know, and my mom

22:21

found that that quite hard. Am.

22:24

In terms of oftentimes she be that

22:26

that that the biggest bread winner. In

22:29

the house. and it's kind of one of those things that

22:31

I didn't. A Freaking. till

22:34

it was too late like. Am. Sympathetic.

22:36

Me my teen years a kind of looked at as

22:38

as a bad day. And of course

22:41

now I look at it as a great

22:43

they are especially. Because

22:45

my dad, my dad was a dreamer. My

22:47

Mom was. Tactical. One the

22:49

one that that had that work ethic. And

22:52

so the blend of the to allowed

22:54

me to to dream. But. Worked

22:56

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Said something else. It's a phrase that I love how

24:42

you do anything as I do everything. Yeah, For.

24:44

Someone who's never heard that phrase before. What

24:46

as I mean to you am. On

24:50

as as as it is you know if he

24:52

if he. Is.

24:55

Is if you're if you're half assed.

24:57

About. How you do.

25:00

Whatever. Whatever it area can be half assed and

25:02

how you do everything. but if you get into

25:04

the habit. Of doing things

25:06

with with precision and excellent.

25:10

Then it becomes a habit and that's are you.

25:13

Ah, That's how you

25:15

approach everything and and life. Think.

25:17

Is is the but how do you had you

25:19

take that. As you're right I

25:21

think like if you're willing to take shortcuts on some

25:23

things are nobody of find out. Then.

25:26

You're probably will it, take shortcuts on other

25:28

facts and yeah right, but there is like.

25:30

Here. Is there's the other interesting thing

25:33

about that, right? is I'm not

25:35

a perfectionist. To. Am.

25:38

A set so sometimes I

25:41

find last. Like. Like I'm

25:43

a much should I be more of a

25:45

profession, but Elsa don't think you can. Be.

25:47

In life because if you want things to

25:50

be perfect, And. Other

25:52

never going to be a perfectly on attain of it's

25:54

it's own a chain of yeah so it just like

25:56

to. Do my best It to

25:59

your best see. Where are

26:01

just trying to do our best? You know? I think

26:03

that's. I. Think that's it. What's

26:05

your most perfect wrestling match? Or of.

26:08

Ah and was a perfect as on a

26:10

table but definitely no such thing. Oh my

26:12

God is no such thing like. And

26:15

ah my my. One

26:17

of my. May be.

26:21

I really love the the much

26:23

that. Fresh, And.

26:25

I had. And I'm fine.

26:28

It's like that was one where I

26:30

didn't leave. Go And ah. You

26:33

know, and. It. Is

26:35

even a like I'm I'm thinking of

26:37

all my favorite matches like mad. Am.

26:41

Sorry. Let our evolution.

26:43

Ah, There was still some things with. And.

26:47

Beyond got a resume thirty eight, one of my favor,

26:49

much of the vault on that of Hot. The

26:51

resale sometimes. Side.

26:54

Kick the right and say see and you know

26:56

to meet likes to stuff like that. And.

26:59

Ah, the maybe Ended up making a better

27:01

but but sometimes. That's. Also, the

27:03

thing or not that kicking Bianca right

27:06

in the face and given or a

27:08

massive black I made a better and

27:10

maybe more brutal but obviously I Pollard's

27:13

heists am a bullet. Ah, But

27:15

sometimes sometimes it's the flaws and things

27:18

that make them. That. Make

27:20

them better And make them.

27:23

And. Give. Them the

27:25

priest and they also have a lot. I

27:27

love. Grits I don't like. I don't

27:29

like pristine things, you know, Like.

27:31

Old that I have great and worthless

27:33

and. Specially. In a wrestling match?

27:35

you know I don't like everything to look clean

27:37

and percent and. Sent.

27:40

To scrap and I've of a scrap of

27:42

as of a matter of skirt. Was.

27:45

You punching dorm square in the face

27:47

was unintentional. All yeah yeah one hundred

27:49

percent A so have a slow caught

27:51

on my on my on my I

27:54

get that yeah well scabs as much.

27:57

As as one of my favorite in slow

27:59

motion, it's. Really high. U S

28:01

is really going to try to like

28:03

that a mogi were like the this

28:06

phase. oh god yes there. As

28:08

great. As one of my one

28:10

of my proudest moments I mean behind right

28:12

in this book. Sister was there was right

28:14

right. they're doing the lord's work pals that

28:16

like right on the button death of he

28:18

went down He did go down there is

28:21

great. You better watch out though I was

28:23

gonna it's gotta be some sort of a.

28:25

For. Venture for that. You. Think

28:27

on me he's a he's coming off the

28:29

most of he might send someone after your

28:31

well I think yeah I think he felt

28:34

that punch and probably won't probably won't I

28:36

think she's probably done with me that the

28:38

yeah yeah yeah I would suggest if he

28:40

is marked that's right as he is smart

28:42

he will probably be done with me. A

28:44

of the voice. Sound. Too common.

28:46

Know. When. We

28:49

talk about things having flaws not being

28:51

perfect. I. Don't know if Uber as

28:53

you've talked about the for what happened at

28:56

the end of Wrestlemania thirty five because it

28:58

looks like Rhonda kicks out at one or

29:00

it. Yeah, maybe what happens there. I

29:03

have like houses in the moment. Am.

29:05

But he added a new no idea

29:07

I couldn't see it. Am.

29:10

But. You know that the discourse

29:12

afterwards and also the sound of the

29:14

audience. May did die. Made.

29:18

It seem like something had gone wrong, but odyssey at

29:20

the time I wasn't aware. And.

29:23

Yeah, I don't know. I don't know

29:25

that was intentional or accidental like am.

29:28

I could see the motivation for it

29:30

being intentional like oh well. This

29:32

will be my out to to get to get

29:35

a second much you know and I mean an.

29:37

End. In the long, in the long game

29:40

or. Could. Have just been accidental, but

29:42

in that was the way the match was supposed and.

29:44

Ah with a with a pencil. Not with that know

29:46

what? the shoulder? Off Yeah, yeah, but with pen

29:49

fault? Yes, yeah. Are

29:51

you talking you book about how the original

29:53

finish was for tapping out shortly. I'm like

29:55

well this is so that was that was

29:57

that the creative that was laid out and.

30:01

And so she she had that her driver

30:03

taken her to the wrong spot and so

30:05

she said of things like an hour and

30:07

we'd been talking to stuff. And

30:09

I'm. And ah and

30:12

and and Tj or producer. Amazing.

30:15

Producer Teacher Wilson known him since

30:17

I. Am since two thousand

30:20

and six and we were road trip

30:22

and caught cross canada him into Washington

30:24

and Portland. it's of. The. Wild

30:26

Journey and. Anyway, he's

30:28

like maybe maybe you have Rhonda in

30:30

an hour and an iron bar? She

30:33

those She She looks like she's a

30:35

vegetable. And so Rhonda one hundred comes

30:37

under and we tell a the creative. And

30:39

that and that. say and then you're you're

30:41

almost. That's tough as saw know my mom

30:44

wouldn't wouldn't look me in the i talked

30:46

to me again as far as I looked

30:48

like ice bats up at villa or it

30:50

was probably not gonna help out on finished

30:53

seventh out and ah you know like the

30:55

she'd never tapped out in their careers so.

30:58

Sam. Understood it

31:00

respectively and the and and moved on

31:02

quickly like I was gonna when I

31:04

was gonna win two titles. In

31:06

the main event of Wrestlemania like it was nice

31:08

to, it was not a big deal whether she

31:10

tapped out or not. it was. An

31:13

of i was when is it was event you do

31:15

in the on the risk of made into a much

31:17

bigger thing than it actually was. Began.

31:19

Of wait what the there was like

31:21

headline. ah yeah I mean headlines always

31:24

such a thing Like people always take

31:26

anything that you say and make a

31:28

headline out of it and it's taken.

31:30

Have contacts and you know there's been

31:32

so many times where where as in

31:35

ah. I said that that's not

31:37

what I'm at the enough but I think I

31:39

explained that in. The Book. You know what I mean.

31:41

I going to say that. I.

31:45

I I didn't. Either way I

31:47

was going to win. It did not matter

31:50

to me know how was done. That's

31:52

gotta be a difficult party your job because you gotta

31:54

take the good with the bad. With all of this

31:56

right? Like to hear so much good. And.

31:59

Then there's some. Frustrating things I'm

32:01

sure that come with that course,

32:03

of course, I mean that

32:05

you know you wouldn't You wouldn't change it in

32:07

I wouldn't I wouldn't give you all They are

32:09

a good that it's given. Given. Me

32:11

for that for the. Small. Amounts

32:14

of arguments and sons of stress that

32:16

are also causes me of wealth. but

32:18

that's life isn't it? Well it's you

32:20

know, like can't. Can't. Have

32:22

everything. It. And. It.

32:24

In that regard like it is always

32:26

can be stress. Is always gonna

32:28

be. Anxiety. There's always gonna be

32:31

things that you wish you didn't say this I was

32:33

from be things that you shouldn't do. A.

32:35

Life for not perfect, we just. Gonna.

32:38

Move on and do our best inner

32:40

men. Sometimes you get happy accidents like.

32:43

Getting. Punched in the face, cf your

32:45

face being bloody, Yeah and com

32:47

the man. Yeah, Exactly. You know I'm

32:49

like so stuff like that. Naya.

32:52

Like I said, attacks are you

32:54

I'm so sorry. You know that

32:57

felt and I don't read this

32:59

and. Felt horrible

33:01

anybody. Who worked? Somebody feels horror.

33:04

Ones. That didn't happen. then it wouldn't have

33:06

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Granger. For. The ones. Who get

34:09

it done? When.

34:15

You went to the back after the

34:17

infamous man Moma. hear your face as

34:19

bloody here in the crowd. What?

34:22

What was the conversation like? Backstage?

34:24

Ah. I had no

34:26

clue Where was I know they

34:28

were was Isaac where. Where.

34:31

Are we? How did I get here? like

34:33

I was able to. Run on auto pilot

34:35

all the way up to that. And.

34:37

Then. And then I just.

34:40

As. If it had, I had no

34:42

clue. Members. Stephanie Mcmahon can

34:44

ask to in the trainers room.

34:47

I've been very kind. And

34:49

I just remember the coldness in

34:51

Kansas. That. Nice and that.

34:54

Yes out either. I don't know what conversations

34:56

with conversations were. I. That

34:58

I break my neck like I remember my

35:01

met some and me I'd I'd no idea

35:03

what happens. When. Did

35:05

you start to piece it together? I wasn't till I

35:07

was in the hospital. A hand.

35:10

Noddy, Bailey and Sasha came to

35:12

visit me. And. Like. I

35:15

was like lion there and they came

35:17

in. And. And they were like,

35:19

you know what happened, Know sick. Know. But

35:21

I remember those are really good match. Near

35:24

a really good much why Before and

35:26

and then I started pieces together. Like

35:29

spots from their much and telling

35:31

them their their own months back.

35:33

And then I was a can. then we came. and then

35:36

it served. Its kind of come together a bit better. How.

35:38

Does the girl who had that Debris W

35:40

E debut the one that you described to

35:43

me as be worse than Shock Masseur? Yeah,

35:45

How does that girl become? the woman sitting

35:47

in front of me right now. Got

35:50

asthma attack us from earth

35:53

and shock masseur about a

35:55

year. He

35:57

didn't is so here's the difference. He

36:00

did the and tend to fall over.

36:02

I intended to do that. Court

36:05

the it's you know and I mean the

36:07

So I think that makes it worse. you

36:09

know I think I think on Texas and

36:11

he thought makes it worse as probably thought

36:13

it was great at the time. ah one

36:15

get on T V and of the pie

36:18

manic see was so gimmicky and. I

36:20

had no shame and. The

36:23

look like this. Like I said, we are

36:25

not obligated to be the person that we

36:27

are. A. We were yesterday. Can

36:29

only say a long ways. Evolve. Am.

36:33

I'm and and we asked to continue to do

36:35

that and I think I talk battle a lot

36:37

in the book like a beat myself up cause.

36:40

Of every. Probably

36:44

bad thing. It's.

36:46

About the right. But. It's also good

36:48

day because. Because. Of that

36:51

I'm always trying to evolve. Molly

36:53

trying to look at how I can be better.

36:55

How. I can do better how I

36:57

can. Change.

36:59

And and and as I I try

37:02

to be self aware as possible. Donald.

37:04

That I always on foot at least

37:06

try to be and and try to

37:09

be as self correcting as as possible.

37:11

I try not to. Am.

37:15

I try not to answer. I'd do it.

37:17

Offered a try not to put the heat

37:19

on other people here for for like. Ah

37:22

like how how can how can what

37:24

can I do to change to the

37:27

i can be better to that I

37:29

can be undeniable that they can't overlook

37:31

me anymore like an an. An.

37:34

Approach that with. As.

37:38

Much gentleness as possible and non monsieur,

37:40

blow myself our our can be very

37:42

hard on myself. Wrestling.

37:44

Is like this. It's good school

37:46

again. something's happening right now. With

37:48

rustling where it's it just feels

37:50

different. What do you think

37:52

it is? Am

37:54

I think it is? The

37:57

leaders that we have right now and

37:59

the things. Thought

38:01

out. Because. It was

38:03

no secret. That

38:05

before. The. Show would

38:07

be rewritten as. It. Was going

38:09

on I talk about in the book. It.

38:12

Wasn't unheard of for them to have

38:14

a show on paper. And. We.

38:16

Showed up and. Since.

38:19

with terrible and and. We'd.

38:21

Start from scratch and then. Six.

38:24

Pm your creative changes and then you're

38:26

like oh, okay, well what do? we

38:28

don't? and it didn't always play often.

38:31

thought we don't last week and now

38:33

I'm. With Hunter in charge,

38:35

he has a vision. He. Sees a

38:37

true. And that.

38:40

And. That's. Where he

38:42

need for tv show you know what injure i

38:44

you don't start. Filming. Succession

38:46

Episode One Without Knowing. Where.

38:49

You going in episode fight? you know

38:51

and and so. Am I

38:53

think that's been been a

38:55

huge chains. And. And

38:58

then you know that the reins are off

39:00

a little bit In In In in terms

39:02

of of. Letting.

39:05

People have a bit more freedom to

39:07

try things out. Fry. Tail

39:10

and see if things work. see if

39:12

they don't. Am and have a

39:14

conversation. There are things that just makes a

39:16

world of difference here. feels like it. or

39:18

also how good a succession although I gotta

39:20

grind my god. afraid we, you know it

39:22

is. it's any Tv show you see. I.

39:25

Am do it. He can't

39:27

just be like okay Tom

39:29

is going to getting reluctantly

39:31

I give you know and

39:33

I mean like. An.

39:36

Com is going to blow up the building

39:38

site. What happens next week I'll offer Go

39:41

Out In Order Me These characters need to

39:43

know where they're going. They need to have

39:45

an earth yeah and and is when you

39:48

know where your go away. Then.

39:50

Okay, well. Okay, we're

39:52

here and I know that I'm going

39:54

to their. How do we get

39:56

dirt the best way possible. Yeah makes

39:58

a. Makes. A world the difference

40:01

since South has the roughly school

40:03

which Seth Rollins moves. Have you

40:05

taken. Haven't. Taken any. Have.

40:08

I taken only had or know how you feel like

40:10

you might mix it up and are a little best

40:12

know I've taken month is myth okay yeah no us

40:14

and on thing I know you're like I have no

40:16

desire to take a stab. At All

40:18

As in like, oh, taken. Away from here. Oh

40:21

yeah no one ever done know I'm not saying

40:23

no, I don't want to move from of Nazar.

40:25

Yeah yeah I thought you were saying that out.

40:27

What moves of I sell at know have a

40:29

song I've never used any with Ms Am. Not.

40:32

Intensely a new. Than. The

40:35

and. Now. You've ever

40:37

been to the rails Their fear I this thing. Ah,

40:40

come on over here. No.

40:42

No the A Students for last see

40:45

students for that on the sake of

40:47

this the Miles isn't such a such

40:49

a nazi on the job for know

40:51

and then announced get em We wrestled

40:53

around and like when I was coming

40:55

back from. I'm. From

40:58

from at. From. Haven't

41:00

ruled. Like we did a lot named

41:02

to trying to think if if I took any of

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his signature of i don't think I did I figured

41:06

people just have this great image of like. You.

41:09

Gotta stop herself for a yes or

41:11

no. I don't think so. He probably

41:13

went for one than they probably have

41:15

that bomb or are a liar. He

41:17

I am. Yet to. Grads

41:19

on this to grass on everything. It's

41:22

such a pleasure to be able to sit down and

41:24

person to be able to the saw? Yeah, yeah yeah,

41:26

I'm not. I'm not a zoom person. I. Don't

41:28

have a lot either. I just. You know,

41:30

I feel like there's this. Add these

41:32

the energy. That you, you, Don't.

41:35

Have when you're when you're on a Zune

41:37

because. There's.

41:39

Always that like I'm a i'm a my

41:41

about talk for you Just read that in

41:43

in person. You know what? I. Mean people

41:46

are always talking over each other in the

41:48

thick of a sinister and now it's yeah,

41:50

I just saw. You. Know what else

41:52

is you're looking at a two dimensional representation Or

41:54

that sort of person not even looking at the

41:56

person said we ask you this, do you meet

41:58

someone like I do It. The What: You'd actually

42:00

met someone? If you've only Mademoiselle. No

42:03

no no no no I yen's

42:05

easy to test forget it was

42:07

specially. You know, or. In this world

42:09

and we're meeting people. Calm down. But. Like

42:11

I think. ah. Yes, Becomes harder

42:14

to to remember those interaction and when you

42:16

see them and first is always like so

42:18

good to finally please yes yes and then

42:20

like how much time do you spend like

42:22

look in a cell. And with. It.

42:25

So through know what I mean. So you're

42:27

like Iceland, such a vein asshole killer. Death.

42:31

By and I'm glad we did. The sort of

42:33

person meter I and every interview with gratitude such

42:35

a big part of my life. I wake up

42:37

every day. I say out loud three things I'm

42:39

grateful for and we do it before we go

42:41

to bed. So. What are three things in your

42:43

life? Or a for for my

42:45

daughter, my husband. Ah, Ss

42:48

and be in. A New York Times that. Of

42:53

a Zoc send you some was telling me

42:55

you're You're awesome. Hope

43:05

you enjoyed this conversation with Secular is

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as much as I did. Hello! I

43:09

actually feel like this is actually more

43:11

Rebecca Quinn than it was as he

43:13

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43:15

masses. She had a rough media forties

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I can't wait to see what's next

43:19

for her in the debris to be

43:21

we and then however many years she

43:23

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43:25

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43:27

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43:29

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43:31

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quote from De Vaughn Franklin. Don't.

43:59

Down grade your dream to match

44:01

your reality. Upgrade your

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face. To match your

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destiny. Be. Great.

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Be great We will see you

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on the next one for some

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more insight we got ask see

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