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Welcome to Thought Shower. Intern John. Is my name? My name?

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It if I just like change my name one day, I was like, my name is Stacy. I wouldn't even I would just keep going.

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It's not worth addressing the BSUM a week from now the voting ends. By

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the way, I got nominated for a couple of things, so local Podcasts

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So very exciting, very cool be nominated. I always would hate when

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like celebrities say it's an army nominated. It is pretty cool to be nominated.

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So it was expecting next year, celebrity. So you can say that

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that's fair. Yeah, um vote intern John dot com. Birthday was good.

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It was great, Okay, it was good. Yeah, I mean,

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um, it was fun. I got to see all my friends I

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did it was it was good. It was good. Birthday Yeah, blank

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Way two is lovely. Um. Yes, I think they think we forgot

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about this stuff just because, like I don't really go to concerts less I'm

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working the concert, which sounds douchey by something to be, but it's cool

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to like go to a show kind of like you probably saw a Taylor where it's like there's a bunch of people going to a building who probably would never

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see each other or of anything common other than like the one thing you're going

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to see, and it's it's a weird, like I'm a magical as the

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word, but it was cool. A right here, every here's the step Blinkway two. That's the one thing we have in common. So it's kind

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of like that's what music has always done, Like music just bring for sure

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together. We think we just forgot that the last couple of years because there

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wasn't I'm sure because I remember that song that went viral on the internet about

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us all being like the celebrities singing that Imagine what was it a Matt Yes?

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And that made me really really that Again, sometimes I wonder like we

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put so much stock in what celebrities say. I'm like, these idiots did

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that video in their mansions with their pools outside by the way, But how

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we're all in this together and didn't stop to think. And I know I've

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gonne this ramp before, but it was like fifteen years ago. They did

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this social media campaign. I don't remember the charity, great idea for the

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charity charity awesome, where these celebrities all died on social media and the only

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way to get them back on Twitter was if they raised one hundred million dollars

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for the charity. And I was like, I'm seeing it was like Leo

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DiCaprio, Kim kardash I'll send you the link, Like you guys could just

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written the check. Like how pretentious to think that, like you you're not

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being in social media, it's gonna be enough for us to stop, like

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to donate you. I mean, yeah, that's charity. With the Imagine

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video though, I just always like forget sometimes who was like in that video?

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And then I remember again and I get sad because I'm like, wow,

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like they seemed really cool. I mean, yeah, it was a Galgadote was the first one. Yeah, but there was like, uh like

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Kristen Wigg I think was in it. I don't want to start making up names. I do this all the time on the podcast, where I just

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assume I know and I don't. I could have googled it, but there

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was an actor that it was in a movie I watched a few weeks ago,

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and I was like, I didn't realize they were in that stupid video

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because I googled them. Wait, I found I found it. Okay,

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you found like a list. I don't want to watch the Twitter thing.

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Okay. It was called the Digital Death Campaign Disaster. So this was like,

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here was it two thousand and six, that's Kim Kardashian. That was

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her profile phot Kim Kardashian is dead now. It was four World As Day.

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Great organization, great cause. But again, so all these celebrities the

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goal was to raise let me just read this, okay, so that's like

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really mess up though. I'm just gonna sorry as someone whose uncle passed away

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from HIV, like, I don't like that at all. The idea of

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what they did, like you're dead, yes, you're dead. Yes.

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So the the goal was to raise a million dollars. So it was the

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celebrities like Kim Kardashian, justin timber Lake, Lady Gaga, Alicia Keys were

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expect to raise money within a day or so. Okay, that was the

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other thing because I remember this because I just saw radio in Minneapolis. Because

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the idea was like celebrities like they'll they'll want us back right away. I've

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never even heard of this. I'm gonna be honest with you. And in two thousand and six, Lady Gaga wasn't hadn't just hadn't just danced yet,

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you'd say, Felicia Keys, you could have clearly done that back then.

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They also they only raised two hundred ninety six thousand dollars um as Timberlake on

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that back then. I heard that you just got seven thousand dollars check in

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the last podcast. But I don't care. But that again, like that,

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that's like the that was the whole idea of like who write the check?

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That's I said this before. Rihanna is the realist in the game.

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She has writes the check. Yeah. Anyway, oh my god, that's

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so that, like, that's so gross. I don't remember that I didn't

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have Twitter in two thousand and six or anything. But like, but that's

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like the celebrities because they know better than we do, and it's just like

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just so, no, that's not true. I wan to hit this real

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quick. Fear of Friday. I thought this would be good to get into

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the holiday weekend. The unfortunate signs you're stuck in the past. Oh no,

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I think everybody has like that. One person. Maybe he's signed somebody

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you're friends with. But just like in the circle where it's just like falls,

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I'm kidding. I have done a wonderful work in therapy rival Lauren to

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not dwell in the past. Now you Shelby Sauce remember everything. I can't

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help myself. But my mom my mom brought the other day because she's listening

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to podcasts and my dad brob my dad's I didn't um us Sauce become friends

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because one day she came in with pink hair and you said, hey,

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you have some shoe was going through it. I was like, yeah,

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look see your dad rubbers everything too. Yeah. Yeah. The first sign

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is you can plain constantly. I don't complain, Okay, they say,

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it's every single day. You can plain about the neighbor's dog, even about

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your own shadow. But that's a sign you're stuck in the pass is all

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that reminds me of like an older person, Does that make sense, Like

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someone that's just like kind of been through a lot of life, like hardships

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in life, and then they I don't know. It reminds me of movies

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like the old man neighbor who's just angry. Yeah, the guying up.

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I don't remember up. But yes, the balloons in the house. Yeah,

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I know, I know that, I've seen the pictures. I just don't remember the movie you. Thriving negativity, They say, people who thriving

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negativity look for and stir conflict because they don't want to be alone of misery.

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Oh yeah, I hate I hate people like that. But I don't

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think I'm stuck in the past, so I'm not seeing you. I just

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can't relate the exactly makes me so tired and drains me. This one might

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be one of the biggest ones to me. You bury your head in the

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sand, so when you're stuck, you reject any information or feedback that challenges

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your status quo. Um. Yeah, but some people like I don't think

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that necessarily means you're stuck in the past, though some people just like like

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you. I like always will tell people I don't have the mental pascity for

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something. If I'm going through a lot of stuff at once, so something

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so I will bury my head in the sand. Yeah, but I think this is more so like if you keep doing the same thing wrong and they're

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like, I can't believe again today I got a speeding ticket on fninety five.

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I'm like, well, why don't you just go to speed limit?

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No, I'm just gonna like. I think it's more so that where it's

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like you like being in the negative, like you almost like the bad choices

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after me again? Yeah, okay, I mean I think that's kind of

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like the or like I always keep dating the same bad people. Why don't

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you change? Well, yeah, but that's that's a bad example because you

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don't know what yeah you do, No, you don't know. The last

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person you told me about Vegan. I was like then that that particular colors

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who cares I was? And that's that's that wasn't even the flag. I

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just like my girl, I could tell you you could give me the characteristics

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of somebody I could tell you right away that ain't got work for you.

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That was like the hang at work. He sent me flowers. That was

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the first lie he sent me flowers. Yeah. I opened the car and

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it said XO XO your number fan and I looked at Morgan. I was

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like his first lie, and I just put down, Yeah, okay,

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next ones. You reject opportunities. People are stuck now opportunities presenting to them,

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not because of the the opportunities, because it take issue with who made

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the suggestion. I mean, that's where some of us have trauma that we

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just need to work on you ten harder than we tend to think. Opportunities

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are presenting you to undermine your intelligence. That's like the idea of like I

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had an analogy about somebody um years ago where it's like this person if they

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were drowning and you said, hey, you're drowning, here's a life fest,

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they'd be like, oh, same thing, I can't swim, and then they'd rather drowned. That kind of vibe where it's like yeah, yeah,

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and I even talking about you say yeah, this was this is a

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long long time ago. You hold on to grudges or unresolved issues. Shelby,

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I do not hold on to grudges. I just think that as an

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adult that I don't like men are tackie. I hate them. No,

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no, no. My thing is that I think that I am very like

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I don't want to say like I'm a people pleaser, but I do like

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let things go easier than others in certain situations, to the point that I

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sometimes I feel like a doormat. But then also I feel like if I

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keep letting someone behave a certain way, I'm rewarding their behavior for treating me

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crappy by letting it go all the time. I agree with that, and

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that's my problem. That's why I've gotten a little bit more of a backbone

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the last few years. Good for you. I also use scoliosis, So

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no, that's a lie. I do not have scolios. No, no,

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what are you talking, brace or something? Yeah, I was in

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a car accident. I was guy. Never mind, I take that back.

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I did have a scoliosis. I was in a car accident. Here I am thinking I was like giving a compliment for like fixing your scoliosis,

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But that wasn't the case. At all. Oh my god, I'm like,

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okay, okay. Continue. Next one is signs on the past.

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You hold on to grudges or unresolved issues. So I just said that.

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No, I didn't, Yes you did. No, I didn't. I

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about you did. No. No. The last one was hold on the

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last one was you're jacked opportunities. No, you already said the grudges thing.

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No, I didn't, Yes you did. No, Okay, you

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know you're getting old. No, because I was gonna say, I think I've gotten better at this. They say, holding on the grudges yearning for

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revenge, in which, in the worst others are signs of lack of forgiveness.

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I think I used to be fueled by that. I've worried better to

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be like, I'm just gonna work with myself. I did not just do that. Yes you did. I'll bet you, okay, I bet you

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one hundred bucks. I bet you one hundred dollars. Okay, fifty dollars.

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Now it's fifty. No, it's fifty. Okay, I about you

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fifty. Okay. I'm on vacation right now. Um, so we'll like

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replay it later. Um, what's the next one. I'll replay it next. What do you mean play it later? We will. I'm gonna let

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you know this podcast is at a one PM. I'll let you know by

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one oh one oh one. Okay, I just have to go because I

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have an appointment and coming up soon. So that's why I'm like, I

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can't I can't wait wait around for you to reply it. Okay, I

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trust you, I don't trust you. Yeah, no, I understand that. Okay. Um, you haven't made plans for the future. Interesting,

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so while everyone around you use made plans for near future and far ahead,

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you refuse you and set envisioning and working towards a better future for yourself.

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You're content with seeing your current situation. That's kind of sad though, Yeah,

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but I think it's so crazy. We've talked about like the how it's

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important to have like little things look forward to, whether it's like for you

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like the solid was that soccard you plotties like a ploties class on Friday wherever

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it is, or like like a trip like having little like things look forward to or major? Yeah major? Last one is you blame yourself for everything?

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Yeah, I say you can play. You make a plan a lot

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about everything going on. But you also have tendency a place blame on yourself

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for situations outside your control. You don't do that. You never once placed

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blame on you. You know what I'm saying. I do that all the

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time with made you, No, not with you. Everybody else. Yeah,

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it must be nice to everybody else who gets the mercy. It must

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be nice. What do you mean, I don't blame everything on you because

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you can't. Okay anyway, Hey, um my birthday is next in the

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list. I'm very exciting. Actually, what Rose isn't two weeks or month?

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Actually my brother, my brother ns Rose's birthday month twenty fourth. Damn

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it close enough? All right? You can follow a Sauce at Shelby saw

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