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Second date update. I interned John in your morning show. You match with

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somebody, You on a date with somebody, whatever it is, you think

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they could break the mold, they could be your person. Then he stopped

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hearing from them. We traft figure out what's going on. Brad, Good

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morning, sir, Hey, good morning. This is a little bit different,

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dude, because usually a second date update is you've been on a date

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or two dates, but you and Jennifer go back three months kind of explain

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what's going on. Yeah, I don't mean they don't really have like a

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fifth or sixth date update, but I guess I need one of those.

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Yeah, what's happening? So, like, I mean, you know,

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we messed on bumbles. I want to say, like three months ago,

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we've been on several like I said, four or five day I'm not sure

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how many dates we've been on several it was like, you know, basically

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every other week just kind of see each other again, nothing serious whatever,

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but more than Carrisable, I think. And it's just it's been more really

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like it's been nothing for three weeks now, like and I'm just it makes

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no sense, you know, like if we were if we were going good

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and then I don't know. I just so we matched three months ago.

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How many dates have we gone on? Roughly? Maybe maybe four, five

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or three? I don't know. Somewhere they are about Okay, let's let's

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go with five. And then were we talking every day? Were we talking

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weekly? How long was how often was it communication? Probably I would say

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at least weekly. It's always always texting, Okay. And then from the

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last time seen her to her stop talking to you? How many how many

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days between that last time? Maybe three weeks? It's been a while,

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yep, I'm saying, like, so the last time you saw her in person, how long until after that did she stop talking to you? Be

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sorry? On Monday? When was the last time you heard from her?

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Like actually, be sure? A spine to a text or something like that.

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Probably maybe like two weeks, a week and a half, I mean,

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like the set like two to answer text, never initiate them, sure,

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and then it just kind of got like longer and longer from responses,

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and then nothing was she answering like conversationally or was it like short two one

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word answers where it's like clearly she wasn't interested in conversation. More of the

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second one okay, more that one? Yeah, okay. And the last

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time you guys hung out, what'd you do is dinner? Movies? Come

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over? I think we just had some We just had like dinner and some

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drinks. Okay. So and nothing from that stands out as like, oh,

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this would be why she doesn't want to talk to me. No,

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And I would tell you, like trust me, like I would, I

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would be like, oh oh yeah, I definitely like this thing happened.

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But yeah, listen, okay, So let me do this. We'll call

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her, try to gear go on with this and figure out what's up,

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okay, because I do think it's it's a bit peculiar that this has been

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going on. You know, three months is a long time, right,

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It's been a while, not one day. And she didn't like me.

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Now I got you, okay, So let me try to get her on. We'll see what's going on. Here. I get Jennifer on the phone.

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Hello, Ali calling for Jennifer please, Hey, it's a interns John.

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I got Sauce Rose here as well. We talked to you in the

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air real quick. Oh my gosh, nothing bad, nothing bad, I

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promise, but like this a quick second, is okay? Yes, okay,

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we are doing a second date update and appreciate you. I've given us

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a time. Jennifer. I have somebody on the other line who matched with

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you on dat APF three months ago. I guess you guys has some dates.

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He hasn't hurt from me a sense brand if you want to say hello,

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Hi, perfect right on time. And Jennifer, so where is trying

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to figure out what's going on? This is so weird because I literally just

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told my girlfriend the other day that I think he's going to do something like

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this. I thought he was gonna do a second date update. Yeah,

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okay, I did. Okay, so here we are. I didn't want

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to. I did not want to, but I guess I did. Wow,

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what's going on? Listen? Brad's really fun. But the main reason

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I just decided, you know, this is not for me is because his

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main way of decision making is flipping a coin. Yeah, he like flips

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a coin for every And I'm not talking like dinner. I'm not talking like

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pizza, chicken wings or you know, not talking like that. I'm talking

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like pay the cable bill or the electric bill, flip a okay, like

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big major life decisions like which apartment to live in, or you know,

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like he told me, like what college he went to, that's how he

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decided a coin flip. Yeah, And I'm and like, it's not like

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a fun thing like this is something like he told me that he makes his

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own luck and that's why he does it that way. This is like his

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bible. Okay, Brad? Yeah, is that how he and no shame

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in the game? Certainly? By Is that true? Well? Yeah,

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absolutely, it's true. Yeah. I didn't think it would be this huge

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issue, but I mean it makes everything easier thinking about how often you have

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a problem making a decision and then you don't know which one to do,

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and then you have like buyer's remorse and you're like, oh, I wish

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i'd done the other thing. I never have that. I never have regret.

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Okay, So I have you used it in like every area your life?

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Yeah? All aspects? All aspects? Fair fair question to ask.

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Have I used it in dating? All aspects my every okay? All right,

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all right, all right, let me do this. I'm gonna put you guys in hold real quick. Are you a team? Brad? A

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team? Jennifer eight seven, seven, nine nine five four six eight one

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to call me nine nine three three eight to text second date update on intern

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John and Your Morning Show. That intern John and Your Morning Show. We

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just talked to Brad and Jennifer. It's a little bit of different scenario because

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they've been hanging out for I guess over the course of three months. She

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thought was on that for major decisions. My man flipped a coin neither here

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nor there would love your thoughts eight seven, seven, nine, nine five

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four six say one or on holds Shelby sauce your thoughts. It is totally

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weirdly does that sure? But have they been hanging out that much? Why

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did she keep doing it? She should have told him instead of ghosting him.

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Yeah, I guess, like if it's worked for him this long too,

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I don't know. I mean it's kind of like I do it,

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flip the coin for like uber eats. Sometimes it's a small thing, ye,

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yeah, not whish bill to pay. Yeah, that's a little bit

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different. Yeah, he's doing it for everything. The thing that bothers me

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most if I were in her situation is he flipped a coin to decide to

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date me. Yeah. That's a bad that's a bad thing to admit that's bad. Like if you're using the flip a coin method for small things in

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life, what to eat, what to wear, cool, that's great for

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big life decisions. Eventually, she's gonna be like, Okay, we're gonna

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get to a point where, oh, is he gonna break up with me?

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Or are we gonna get married? Guess we have to flip a coin. I don't want to lead that to a coin. Now. Yeah,

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that's fair. Yeah, that's even if he did that, brother, don't

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admit it. Yeah, it's not gonna it's not gonna help your case.

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No, let me go in Hyattsville, tearn, good morning, good morning.

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All right, So you used to do the coin flip for big decisions. I actually used to have an app on my phone, but that was

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literally when I was a teenager. Okay, yeah, well there's that permit

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for serious life decisions, there needs to be serious thought because just like another

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just like you said, if you were choosing to marry someone, I want

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to you know, I want someone to think long and hard about it.

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It's not something you just flip a coin on. Yeah, kids, So

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Terry, So you're saying, if if somebody said they couldn't marry you because

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they flipped a coin and didn't land. Right, you're saying that's not a

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good reason. It is not a good reason. I would say thank you

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and goodbye. Yeah, honestly I went to yes, all right, Taren,

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thank you for listening. I have a great day. You're welcome, my man. Man. Let me go in that beautiful Glenn Bernie Jason,

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good morning, sir, Hey, good morning. You're on her side was

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seconded. Update what'd you want to say? So? First off, absolutely,

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flipping a coin from major decisions not a good thing. If it was

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just for like a meal, something like that, from silly, sure,

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why not. But before he even before we even got Jennifer on the phone,

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he couldn't even remember anything. It's I mean, he didn't know how

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many dates he was on. He didn't know any time for probably because he

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was flipping the coin too much. In Jennifer's defense, I bet she flipped

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a coin to stop talking to him. They listen, amen, Jason do

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thank you for listening. I have a great day, my man. Jason

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brings up a good point. I do wonder if because he didn't put so

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flipping the coin right this last thinking, so maybe he legitimately doesn't remember a

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lot of things because he didn't had to put I didn't put a thought into making a decision, and he's like used to living that way, which is

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sad. Let me go in Hyattsville, Sam, good morning, Good morning.

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What do you want to say with second date updates? Sam? So,

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first of all, I wanted to say he sounded so annoying in the

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beginning. He just had to keep justifying himself like, oh, well I

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did this, but because it's because yeah, that's an I've dealt with people

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like that. Second of all, I agree with the previous caller with with

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the terms of Mary, Like, if I'm dating you, this is just

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from my perspective. If I'm dating you, it's for a reason. And

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I don't want to base my future on your coin flip, you know.

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Yeah that's fair. Yeah, yeah, that's that's kind of hard to like

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change your whole life because it happened land tails, which never fails. And

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all agree with that. And how do you make decisions when you're a couple

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when one person wants to do it the coin way and the other person doesn't

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up a coin see who's right? Absolutely? Sam, thank you for listening.

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