It’s time to beCOME CLITerate! Today S&M are talking about cunnilingus although this episode will benefit both men and women.  It’s the sex ed we never got in school but should have.  The inspo for this convo came from Ian Kerner’s book She Comes First which is a MUST read for everyone.  It has been called the essential guidebook to oral sex and the philosophy for pleasuring women.  And we agree!

Kerner has identified three essential stages- Foreplay, Coreplay, and Moreplay.  And oral isn’t part of foreplay like most people would consider it to be.  Foreplay is all about stimulating other parts of the body.  Her body is wonderland and it’s time to start exploring!  And take your time.  There’s no rush here with any of this.  Coreplay is where oral takes center stage. The book includes diagrams and descriptions of different techniques and positions that work best for women.  We talk about the ones that are less than optimal and how we feel about them.  And then moreplay is all about more orgasms. Yes, please!!!  Need we say more?

We discuss the importance of incorporating fingers into playtime as well as lots of other tips and goodies including taking the time to get to know someone’s body, connecting with each other, enjoying the pleasure palace, and communication (shocker, right?).

So, rev up your engines!

EVERYONE NEEDS THIS BOOK!

She Comes First by Ian Kerner

https://www.harpercollins.com/products/she-comes-first-ian-kerner?variant=32207941861410

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