The 47 plus flavors of documented kinks, and still counting. Anita and her panel touch on a few of their favorites. Follow along @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.Cast:Anita Banks AKA Trinity BlakeDiana Ryan, LPC, C

In the Event of a Funky Monkey

Sep 12th, 2023 33m 26s

Anita, Diana, and Jai discuss that when it comes to sex experience doesn’t always equal knowledge and the importance of avoiding the dreaded “Funky Monkey.” Follow along @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTokCast:Anita Ban

Let Your Cookie Run Wild

Aug 29th, 2023 31m 44s

Anita and Diana have a heart to heart discussion about relinquishing control, bringing the perfect scenario in your head to life, and their sex doula. Follow along @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.Cast:Anita Banks A

Red Flags

Aug 15th, 2023 32m 56s

How a fuzzy sense of boundaries, the pitfalls of “potential,” and endless insecurities can cause people to overlook red and yellow flags, and be all together blind to green flags. Keep the fun going and follow us @itsneverjustsexpodcast on Face

Pretty but Vacant

Aug 1st, 2023 24m 37s

Looks aren’t necessarily everything, or are they? What to do when the game is weak and the sex is whack. How to handle consent if you suspect you might become a post party Sleeping Beauty. Follow along @itsneverjustsexpodcast on Facebook, Insta

I'm a Delicate Flower, Damnit!

Jul 18th, 2023 40m 31s

Anita defends her status as “a delicate flower,” Diana is voted most likely to survive a zombie apocalypse, and a lack of topic leads to some wild revelations. Cast:Anita Banks AKA Trinity BlakeDiana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACCJae JizzleJai AKA T

Black Sexuality: Myths and Assumptions

Jul 4th, 2023 38m 55s

A deep dive into how Black sexuality is steeped in our uncomfortable American history. Also, the allure of power couples, bootcamps for threesomes, and 'nasty' vs. 'wild.'Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok

Wifey Material?!

Jun 21st, 2023 34m 47s

Anita explores the vanilla version of online dating, explains why she prefers the “Boyfriend Experience”, and her special skill that earned her the title of “The Dick Whisperer.” Dr. Diana discusses how being up front and direct about her desir

Sex Work : A 21st Century Look at the World's Oldest Profession

Jun 6th, 2023 26m 43s

The world's oldest profession, 21st century style. Would you, could you? A thoughtful, no-nonsense discussion about the many aspects of sex work: the traditional, the transactional, the art of the agreement, why sometimes it pays to pay, and le

Cheaters Anonymous

May 23rd, 2023 36m 16s

The crew discusses what defines cheating, their personal experiences being a cheater or having been cheated on, and Anita shares the relationship food rule she considers cheating. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, a

Kink and Color

May 9th, 2023 28m 27s

The do's and don'ts, wills and won'ts of kinks and fetishes. The panel talks about their experiences as people of color in the world of fetishism, wax play, voyeurism, pegging, and Dr. Diana shares her electro-play expertise. Check us out @it

Condom Sense & Toy Box Etiquette for Parties and Partners

Apr 25th, 2023 33m 38s

Dr. Diana gives a brief history of the prophylactic and discusses the myth of ‘recycling,’ conflict avoidance and clearly defining consent when it comes to having the ‘condom talk,’ and everyone weighs in on etiquette and best practices when it

Loose Ends, Lessons Learned

Apr 11th, 2023 24m 27s

Is it ever really “no strings attached?” The finer points of fuck buddy boundary-setting, overstepping, and how mastering the transition in open settings makes for happier hookups.Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, a

Bonus

Bonus Episode - Celebrating the Podcast Launch!

Mar 28th, 2023 31m 44s

Listen in as we get a little rowdy celebrating the launch of the podcast, International Penis Day, Steak and Blow Job Day, and Diana’s epic style. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.Cast:Anita Banks AKA

Body Count

Mar 28th, 2023 39m 15s

Special guest Mary joins Anita, Diana, and Jai to discuss the current obsession with body count, how men and women judge the number differently, why it does or doesn’t matter, and what types of encounters add to the total.Check us out @itsnev

Future Sex Goals

Mar 14th, 2023 41m 2s

Anita and Diana welcome Jae and Jai as they discuss their sex goals for the future.Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.Cast:Anita Banks AKA Trinity BlakeDiana Ryan LPC, CST, ACCJae JizzleJai AKA The C

An Empowering Conversation About Boundaries, Triggers, Trauma, and Consent

Mar 14th, 2023 27m 35s

Avoiding the landmines of lust by setting boundaries, creating rules for self, understanding triggers and trauma response, and being able to boldly grant and withdraw consent.Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and Ti

Is It Gay For A Guy To Like His Ass Licked?

Mar 14th, 2023 27m 37s

Debating, debunking, and deconstructing the back door gambit with Anita Banks, aka Trinity Blake, and Dr. Diana Ryan.Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.Cast:Anita Banks AKA Trinity BlakeDiana Ryan LPC,

Trailer

An Introduction

Mar 7th, 2023 42s

I’m the girl next door except my blinds are wide open. Join me and my uninhibited friends for uncensored, candid conversations about sex, life, and relationships. Real people, with a real sex therapist, discussing what works in and out of the b

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