The goal of all endeavours should be our happiness, peace and satisfaction. It comes from doing what we are good at and what we enjoy doing. Any achievement which happens is just a by product and not the purpose. But the majority of people are

Without a closure its meaningless but so it is, even after that!

Jun 23rd, 2016

There is no meaning to any activity without a closure. Its rendered useless without reaching the eventual purpose. I, you and everyone else seek the means to an end in our every pursuit and the most mundane involvement or participation. Imagine

Everybody lives in their own imaginary world

Apr 7th, 2016

We have a incessant construction going on in our head. The world we keep building and modifying within. We keep picking elements knowingly and unknowingly, on a subconscious level. Hence losing our purity and innocence in the process. As no mat

Making love out of nothing at all

Jan 19th, 2016

The most intense form of sensory pleasure that we humans can experience is having sex. It engages all our five senses and mind at the same time. There is no other feeling more overwhelming than the contentment drawn from this act. The only cat

Sense of degradation

Jan 19th, 2016

निकलना खुल्द से आदम का सुनते आयें हैं लेकिन बड़े बेआबरु होकर तेरे कूचे से हम निकले । by Mirza GhalibIts been experienced by different men over ages ever since our existence began. There is always an underlying sense of degradation within us th

We are all self-inflicted slaves

Jan 19th, 2016

How can you be happier and more satisfied in your life? I thought of using this as a title of this post. Its the most common question asked and answered in self-help/improvment guides. But I realized it has something to do with the submissive n

Accept and respect

Dec 14th, 2015

These are two simple and common words which are very easy to understand. There is no complexity and broader meaning here. Yet its something very difficult to come across. You see difficulty in accepting one’s circumstances or the people aroun

Multitude to singularity

Mar 15th, 2015

You can only taste one dish at a time, enjoy one song at a time, cherish one scenery at a time, fully be with one person at a time. We do like many things of multitude tastes and preferences but only enjoy one at a time. Even if you try to ea

you can't see if you always keep looking

Oct 31st, 2014

Even though we are always looking for what we seek knowingly and unknowingly, we cant see it. The most profound and evident feelings, emotions and experience cant be seen with our naked eyes. It requires delving inside. We all have felt at so

Life is a debt!

Oct 10th, 2014

When an infant cries over a broken clay toy, we smile affectionately at the silliness; when a child raises hell over separation with a friend owing to change of school/city, we smile and cajole them out of it; when a young one nags over a new

Perils of Pretense

May 21st, 2014

For as long as I can remember there have often been some things around that stopped making sense. I used question myself and people around me. I would always get the same advice from others that is to ignore it and pretend it never happened. Ho

The flight of a kite is similar to our ever wandering mind

Jan 14th, 2014

Always wanting to tread familiar or unfamiliar skies, horizons & wind. Such is the plight of our mind. Its always chasing nothings in the thin air. It struggles if there is no wind of subjects of our senses. However light or strong our mind jus

Everything is changing except you

Nov 6th, 2013

Why does it happen? will remain an unanswered question if we try to put it in words but it can only be realized within. All the people you meet, love, care for, live with, see everyday or are strangers have only one thing common in them, they a

The fear of abandonment & other things......

Sep 29th, 2013

With the first advent of knowledge there is a desire to share it with someone and being recognized for it. Though gradually with time even an acknowledgment becomes precious. It doesnt matter whether your knowledge is borrowed from books or int

Victim of lonliness

Jun 2nd, 2013

We are at our loneliest state when we are in deep sleep. We all wake up feeling very fresh from it and its essential for our existence. Still in our so called wakeful state we try and run away as much as we can from this physical & mental inact

Unanswered Questions

Apr 7th, 2013

Why did it happen? What does it mean? Did I or you really deserve this? Why do I or you admire something or someone so much? Why can't I or you stand something or someone at all?What is love, success or fame? Who made these? Why do they become

how do you feel in the morning?

Feb 10th, 2013

I have made an observation during my travels. Its almost common everywhere I go. During the day I see people shuffling between all kind of moods & states. They are excited, passionate, dull, irritated, etc. By the nightfall I see some tired, ex

Deprived Dreams

Oct 13th, 2012

Go sit on your rooftop or a place open to sky without walls. Now make two lists. One of all the things you want to do, achieve or posses in your remaining life and second of all the goals & wishes you have accomplished /fulfilled already. Warni

do you know the meaning of this dilemma?

Jun 7th, 2012

I am not uncertain depressed or restless. it's just that there is no where I want be, nobody I want to be with, there is nothing that I want to have and I don't look forward to do any particular activity. I find it hard to determine anything su

How strong is your word?

Apr 23rd, 2012

We are all a generation of logic & rationals. It has given us great deal of hollowness leading to discontentment. As without sparing we look for reasons, benefits or convenience in every aspect of our lives. Nobody wants or accepts to endure ev

Awake or asleep

Apr 16th, 2012

Some dear ones who care for me in their own way often ask me as to when will I get back to normal life. I guess I have written so before. Post accident my memory doesnt serve me better. I find myself pondering over this definition of normal. Ev

Aftermath of a road mishap

Jul 2nd, 2011

There are plenty of incidents and events that do not seem logical or reasonable to us with their occurrence. Its far more easy for us if we can hold someone responsible or blame somebody for such cases. It somehow becomes acceptable. I guess th

Void Everywhere

May 4th, 2011

Its there inside each one of us. Some know about it and others oblivious. It can be marked from the very start of life making sense to us. The great big void. Initially it may not seem all that huge but with time as life passes by it keeps incr

Life Flirts! - 3rd Anniversary Journal

Mar 1st, 2011

Its the 3rd anniversary of my beginning to pen down things on this blog.Even the smartest wisest and most pragmatic fall prey to life. You know why? Essentially because we never chose life ourselves. Life chose us and for how long is life gonna

The Poker of Life

Dec 15th, 2010

Life is a casino where a never ending game of poker is being played by everyone. Nature is the dealer here. There are many different tables with the range of bets varying. Some are public and some have reserved admittance only. Different aspect

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