This week Lala is joined by the fabulous Oloni. Oloni is a writer, presenter, and sex positive advocate. One half of the amazing Laidbare Podcast, Oloni uses her voice to empower and educate women around all things sex! This weeks podcast topics are:

Have you ever done any wild shit to snag a man?

Is it OK for my partner to watch porn when I am not around? It weirds me out and makes me feel insecure.

When it comes to dating I have a fear that I am going to get assaulted. I find it hard to invite them over even after a few dates. Any tips for security?

How do you cope with the anger that comes after your ex moves on quickly to a new relationship?

Do you think it’s harder to find people to date in this day and age than it was when you were younger?

How do I stop herpes being such a huge barrier to me getting close to anyone? Can I fuck new people without them catching it?

I love my man from the bottom of my heart but his penis is a bit too small. What do I do?

My orgasm is important to my partner, but I have been faking it because I feel choked when it comes to telling him what I want. How do I learn how to communicate what I want in bed?