The Bible says in Jn. 10:10 the the enemy of your soul, the devil, comes to steal, kill and destroy. He is not your friend. He does not mean well in your life. But he will pretend that he cares only to lullaby you to sleep, enter into your life and then choke you very subtle. I know this sounds extreme but it's the very truth he wants you to avoid. He has tactics and strategies he uses against you and you don't even know. He attacks our marriages, our children, our jobs etc... The Apostle Paul said to the church of Corinth not to be ignorant of the devil's devices, strategies or schemes.