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genuinely on. I. Didn't.
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Prepare. And I thought we were smoking weed for
2:06
the spot when I were going to bully him
2:08
just of make him lots of smoke weed and
2:10
will. And then we moved. It's a hearing, we're
2:12
not doing that anymore. So I smoked a bunch
2:14
of we before I came. I. Do. Have a
2:17
bag full of as Mike Tyson at a
2:19
boon for the road we've been collecting or
2:21
the was who two years. Yeah, that's the
2:23
size of the Mike By it's like I've
2:25
had those before so I guess I should
2:28
say that I have collected with seems to
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be Worth Media's largest collection of Athlete branded
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we'd sizes and a tease for an episode
2:34
that we were going to do today until
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I learned. Recently that
2:39
we can't do it. Even
2:41
though I think we should and
2:43
will do what about eventually? Yes,
2:45
because the summer with. Absolutely
2:47
so that's this summer all of this
2:49
will be consumed summer But in the
2:51
meantime I want to explain why we
2:54
can't do it and that is and
2:56
that is of taking those are extended
2:58
break from smoking and and consuming marijuana.
3:01
Be flapping along with into a bunch of
3:03
edible food orders as I've gotten like why
3:05
are we applauding this and I want to
3:07
hear that out I wanna hear they were
3:09
a smile on for him a regal now
3:11
so it's only for Dorks. Were
3:14
like that would? it was actually
3:16
worth the risk and or of
3:18
north in a nurse not like
3:20
this. It had done it. I've
3:22
I've been consistently getting high. Almost.
3:25
Daily since I was fifteen and I'm
3:27
about to turn forty ones with twenty
3:29
six years of. are
3:32
daunting my brain and
3:34
residences And ah, what's.
3:36
The longest break you went on in Anaheim. Five
3:38
days athletic and on a day
3:41
fourteen right now? Mom. And.
3:43
You know quest? Yeah I mean I'm in
3:45
therapy Abedin therapy for thirteen years In there
3:47
becomes is moment I quit drinking Eleven years
3:49
ago and when I quit drinking their became
3:52
this moment where it it felt like it
3:54
didn't serve me anymore. Started.
3:57
Feel like it was hold me back and these are
3:59
feelings that any out. We'll tell you that
4:01
when you're conscious of it, you feel
4:03
like. All am
4:05
I know I need to stop it. I don't
4:07
want to. It's like being in a toxic relationship.
4:10
You like it feels good. but there's a lot
4:12
of bad and I'm ignoring the bad because I
4:14
still like to go to little bit but I
4:16
know in my soul I need to get out
4:18
of it. And you convince
4:21
yourself. I'm. I'm fine. I'm fine.
4:23
I'm fine. So when I started to in therapy.
4:26
Or several on problems in my therapist like
4:28
we're not all economic. I'm not an alcoholic
4:30
and his party sorry I can sorry on
4:32
such a blast. she's a girl. I know
4:34
people say that all the time written that
4:36
line on a poster. what would you sell
4:38
us is different for me. He has noted
4:40
on and on built Difference so I remember
4:43
when I was quitting drinking specifically my there
4:45
I was like you know I drink but
4:47
I'm not my dad. my dad was an
4:49
alcoholic on on out on my services. point
4:51
blank of know you been Zach like you
4:53
that you're drinking and you're not taking ownership.
4:55
Of it, you're using it as an excuse,
4:58
you easy, and you're using it as a
5:00
crutch and as like, no, that's not true
5:02
And then I quit drinking and I realized
5:04
he was right and I have no want
5:06
or need to go back to drinking. It's
5:08
very few and far between with how much.
5:11
Non alcoholic beer has progressed in
5:13
the last seven years is. The
5:16
one thing I miss was having a beer to baseball games.
5:18
Are used to love to go to
5:20
a Met game and have a giant
5:23
beer and and seven more. Ah but
5:25
that first beer was always like this
5:27
is unbelievable and what about it though
5:29
Just explain to baseball's a beer drinking
5:31
spoil Yes you like watch we go
5:33
to the park for baseball You on
5:35
a hot dog and a beer. You
5:37
want to sit there. it's a relaxed
5:39
environment, you're just kind of show and
5:41
I loved a summer day. Or
5:43
a beer and watch and again. yeah and
5:45
when I quit drinking there was a lot
5:47
of things I miss. I miss the getting.parts
5:49
but I missed like I went to a
5:51
Met game as like this is the biggest
5:53
each I've ever had is a want to
5:55
be or but now known alcoholics or so
5:57
good that I can have a Heineken Zero.
6:00
I can have an athletic and be like
6:02
those feel like I'm drinking is a ritual
6:04
gets to be simulated scratches the it's I've
6:06
been smoking weed.whole time but i like doubled
6:08
down on the i was going to ask
6:10
what's the substitution effect when you can do
6:12
the cigarettes and we'd as our smoking cigarettes
6:14
but then I quit cigarettes six months later
6:16
so all I was left with was we'd
6:19
so that got ratcheted up. Quadruple
6:21
How ago? This? Eleven years ago.
6:24
Okay, so. What Did You quit? Cigarettes Eleven
6:26
years? Yeah, I quit smoking a
6:28
good drinking in March of two thousand
6:30
and Thirteen and I quit cigarettes. June
6:32
Bride for my thirtieth birthday, so I
6:35
didn't want to don't Am I thirty
6:37
smoking cigarettes? So I quit June twenty
6:39
third. Two. Thousand and. Two. Even remember the
6:42
year and you remember the. Day. I remember the
6:44
day because on the cigarettes still the
6:46
Us and I was going to ask
6:48
about it. So hardest thing the clarets
6:50
partisan request for me that I know
6:52
other people have different feelings. I miss
6:54
cigarettes daily. Trading. I talk about
6:56
at all times she quit cigarettes. She's actually she's
6:58
not gonna brag about this. We're very proud of
7:00
her shoes on Nicorette gum and minced and in
7:03
quit in January. And she's but as of September
7:05
to November Fourth, there you go. See you remember
7:07
the day. Is only because this is Christmas Eve
7:09
and we were on a road trip and then
7:11
like two days later were sleeping in our car
7:13
and else I could really go for yet another.
7:15
She had a job right now. I still have.
7:17
One. The Enemy and she never used it
7:19
and I was very impressive. She quit nicotine
7:21
nicotine in the. Lamest thing to have to quit
7:24
is a little candies. you put your mouse every.
7:27
Little realize that is a romantic two wheeler,
7:29
others a rigid yeah. Well that's what I replaced
7:31
him with Pablo. Thank you. Shudder to the where there's some
7:33
the the new and all different flavor. By the way
7:35
says walk him through bags not more. I went
7:37
out and put down or I were in March.
7:39
There were were those rappers everywhere. On.
8:00
The question of the edge off and
8:02
that of fact is that will you
8:04
miss to be specific about like what
8:06
cigarette a garage or mean they're coups.
8:09
I miss going outside. I missed the first. still
8:11
have some around yeah sorry but still sound
8:13
when the light hits the paper. A really good
8:16
at first poll that like and in the
8:18
woods go against. The.
8:20
African I don't. Do it it's a running start,
8:22
this is the thing that I'm like, don't start,
8:24
yeah, I'm like, let us talk about missing and
8:26
the when we. After a lotta young kids
8:28
are getting dozens and they're getting into
8:30
stuff I think, just go straight to
8:32
they bring or straight to Zooms. You're
8:35
missing the coolest part yes, which is
8:37
more at Emory and Dipping. It's like.
8:40
When with a smoking bar I get because I've seen
8:42
movies. Yeah yeah. like I want to look like that.
8:44
Didn't really bring what stripping can be pretty good. I
8:47
have a lot of friends that are. Assessing attack
8:49
and let it says this does it does
8:51
your breath away as and carry around us
8:53
as a bartender like I am down into
8:55
lines as a clear people's like state. The
8:58
abrupt anyone that adept watching this goes
9:00
i get a donor like I mean
9:02
down emergency my was this guy is
9:04
assist or did it that optimistic because
9:06
our our member who pick me up
9:08
in queens in his pocket lip and
9:10
i've been waiting to get out the
9:12
smoking cigarettes i miss sick cigarettes but
9:14
when i quit cigarettes. I
9:16
found a to talk to me and
9:18
it fills. The same age as of they see
9:20
a lot of the I member they say. That.
9:23
A lot of it's the physical act, so they'll say like
9:25
cut to at like cut a straw real sort. Of each one
9:27
of the way said the and. Just like do that
9:29
like Dominoes suggests. They said I dined
9:31
on you hampered me Replay Smoking with
9:33
smoke yeah with with coolers was yes
9:36
and. I. Just always loved.
9:38
We'd like. since Thomas fifteen, it's
9:40
like getting high. Alert. You
9:42
know as two or three for you but you
9:44
from Colorado gear which it was illegal to twenty
9:47
fourteen so what's the A deer? remember what I
9:49
do. This is where we talked about first time
9:51
he smoked weed I guess below and cause for
9:53
depends on what kind of weeds out with us
9:55
Mozilla his wag. When I was in like.
9:58
that's little button the most people smoking. oh
10:00
I believe was slated for hims. Yes, exactly.
10:02
It's the garbage. as he
10:04
really like that because the the high
10:07
from swagger is. Very
10:09
red eyes, very hungry, very
10:11
giggly. A crass your lights
10:13
is and in the first
10:16
time I smoked. Chronic.
10:18
Is what we called it back
10:20
when I was a child. So forty
10:22
years ago. Arts. Twenty six years ago.
10:25
stay on the joke and shut out
10:27
Bryant and Bombs God or he rolled
10:29
up one of a We're we're
10:31
this girl. Embers, house parties like oh,
10:34
did I got Chronic. And it was.
10:36
I remember the day because it was
10:38
a year to the day my dad
10:41
died last December. Twelve, Ninety Ninety Eight.
10:43
And I mean Brian smoked a blunt
10:45
of Chronic that he got from
10:47
Boulder. Boulder, Colorado had incredible we'd stuff
10:50
was the light green with the
10:52
red hairs know six know seeds and
10:54
he rolled it and we smoked
10:56
in his backyard and I got. The.
10:59
Greatest I have ever had in my
11:01
life. I was laughing my ass off.
11:03
I was wearing a Mountain Dew box
11:05
as a hat. sort of. On.
11:09
A separate attacks house. I slept
11:12
exact house and. I'm
11:14
told the story before but I was
11:16
so high that the next morning i
11:18
to we'd hang over which is that
11:20
was degree and hungry and I went
11:23
home and my mom's boyfriend Joe was
11:25
watching you. Cons: women basketball. And
11:28
I was like was like and in the mornings and
11:30
I was like. Which. Order Pizza
11:32
Hut. Use like what and I
11:34
was like we should get one of those
11:36
they cannot the Brooklyn Xl pizza and I
11:38
was like risk in Brooklyn so pizza like
11:40
of humor one of those as using. Know.
11:44
And I kept doing nothing alike. Come on
11:46
jobs are trying to get a bonding moments
11:48
of use out of like of a lot
11:50
more. If you to go like a you
11:52
know if you a judo oriental would want
11:54
us to do you do a digital it's
11:56
good good It's Chino supply of a lot
11:58
of. And
12:00
he shot it down and I are
12:02
going in. My son just suck. It.
12:05
Just became like oh, Like.
12:07
It's it's like going from drinking
12:10
ah, three dollar vodka to the
12:12
first time you try like good
12:14
liquor, Regal like oh, this is
12:16
like a different category. Yeah, like
12:18
I like this. So then it
12:21
just became. Who. Can get
12:23
chronic but smoke balls and then
12:25
it got outta control. Like hydrant.
12:27
That means. Gravity. Bong Hits
12:29
We're we're doing Shot Guy, Are you
12:31
making a gravity bong a death of?
12:34
absolutely. I agree on it and Zola
12:36
failure. Rate: This is during the developmental
12:38
years of your brain Pm. Or whatever.
12:40
dude. It worked.
12:42
It was weird take a gallon of milk and
12:44
then we'd cut off the bottom or then with
12:46
the top we would use aluminum foil, the mailbox
12:49
more than at the airport, the holes in it
12:51
and then we put the ball and then we
12:53
put it in like this are as it was
12:55
a kid, he boxers over there. Are
12:59
going to be open a similar toy limited
13:01
to two? Now we're not, even though you
13:03
didn't realize it will bull and we watched
13:05
it out as we knew what it was.
13:07
so we put water in as a blitz
13:09
rabbit. Of a pitcher out our house going to
13:11
be take your gravity bong hits a we would.
13:14
Just. Give rift and we were just
13:16
finding ways to give up. And. Then
13:18
it became ah of whatever money you made your
13:20
job. Can I go get in a it's I
13:22
who had aids sonos Devon I think he's in
13:25
prison renounce but Devin have as the apartment complex
13:27
my my house others that in prison for weed
13:29
not tickets mighty murder satellites I know that lot
13:31
as a to projecting that were dead to the
13:33
thing that Sammy Sosa did when he hit a
13:36
home run to death and who might be in
13:38
jail. shudder devon do i know
13:40
you're on the inside but we're on the
13:42
outside live in for him as we are
13:44
senior year we voted him most likely to
13:46
brighten your day in the school changed it
13:49
because they found out who are now zero
13:51
i know we're not giving the to a
13:53
drug dealer really not enough but he are
13:55
most likely he was the most likely the
13:57
right us so we just became kind of
13:59
like i didn't know dad I had died
14:01
of cirrhosis, so I kind of saw what
14:03
alcohol did. So I was like, well, this
14:06
ain't booze. Not knowing I had
14:08
an addict's brain and just being like, well, I'm just
14:10
smoking weed. I just became like
14:12
a huge pothead and I just like loved smoking
14:14
weed and I stayed loved smoking weed up until
14:16
14 days ago. But
14:18
the question of like, what does being
14:21
a huge pothead actually
14:23
entail for people who aren't huge potheads and want
14:25
to like visualize that? I'll give you this example.
14:27
When you go to the doctor, they
14:30
ask you how many drinks you have a week. That's
14:32
the thing that you do. No one ever, I remember never
14:34
telling the truth. Never one tells the truth. I didn't go the
14:37
lowest, but I went to the middle one, even though
14:39
I knew that I was probably like the third or
14:41
the one that said four more. I
14:43
feel like I did the like three to six a week.
14:45
Yeah, I'm on the Mediterranean diet. I think I
14:47
can just drink a glass of red wine. I
14:50
have a couple of grubs. I remember I was
14:52
drinking 16 drinks a night. Oh my God, oh
14:55
my God, you're such a tall tree. I would
14:57
do eight beers and eight shots. That's right, because
14:59
I'd do a shot and a beer, which Nate
15:01
Parchetti always would be like, if you eliminate shots,
15:03
you're all right. And I was like, I don't
15:05
know if that's true. I still think I'm drinking
15:07
eight beers, but I used to do a shot
15:09
of Jameson with a blood back, blood
15:11
heavy. That's funny,
15:13
I did not know that because he had quit drinking
15:15
by the time we met. But like, that's the guy
15:17
I'm gonna marry. That's what he would have
15:20
been. And then when I got a little money, the
15:22
guy in the time capsule is your husband. But ask
15:24
anybody and they knew. That's the guy I would have
15:26
picked. A shot of
15:28
Jameson with a blood heavy. And then a couple of camel
15:30
lights in between right now. I mean, my true love,
15:33
that's my soulmate. This is all making sense. So
15:35
finally I said that to a doctor. I go, I don't
15:38
know, I'd do like eight beers, eight shots a night. And
15:40
the doctor was like, Jesus Christ. Like
15:42
complete professionalism out the window. They're
15:45
like, I gotta make a call real quick. I think he went
15:47
like, God, all right. No,
15:50
no, don't do that. So
15:52
what I said to my therapist when we were talking about quitting, I
15:54
said, that was my Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000
15:56
hours. I'm like
15:59
an expert at getting. out of my
16:01
tits. I'm so good at
16:03
getting f**ked up. I can like
16:05
if someone was too high call me
16:08
like Winston the wolf. Like I can walk
16:10
I've walked her back a couple times. Okay
16:12
so let's explain this. What makes Dan Soder
16:14
good as this? Why am I good at
16:16
it? Because he's been up there. And what's it like when he
16:18
is guiding you? He knows where the exits are. So
16:21
he knows how to get you to the I
16:23
mean I go. Do you remember during
16:25
the pandemic? Which one? Uh
16:27
the godweed. The god nug.
16:29
The one that made me think that
16:32
we already knew. Okay the Orson Welles one.
16:34
I don't even know if I can speak
16:36
about. I don't even remember. I just remember
16:38
the only part I remember is that we
16:40
were watching we got high. Very high. Very
16:42
high. And we were watching remember when Orson
16:44
Welles, I'm gonna f**k this up, released he
16:46
released like two movies at the same time
16:48
and one was a movie of like. Citizen
16:51
Kane. No. It but it
16:53
was like and then the other was a documentary
16:55
about the making of that movie or something. I
16:57
feel like I heard about it from Ride Home.
16:59
And so I felt like it was going to
17:01
be like an artsy endeavor for me. It was
17:03
like the most recent release. They put out this
17:05
like Orson Welles something. Okay we
17:07
were very high. Either way we're watching. That's your memory.
17:09
And I'm already going into this going is this
17:11
the movie or is this the documentary about the
17:14
movie? Which when I'm high is exactly what f**ked
17:16
me up. It's the concept of some I'm playing
17:18
a video game or someone's playing a video game
17:20
and I'm being played by them. And the thing
17:22
inside the thing when I'm high makes me go
17:24
well what is and what thing am I inside?
17:26
And let me explain to you as a
17:28
sherpa. Yes. The ground has been moved from
17:30
under her. Right. So then there is a
17:32
mental freefall. Right. The mental freefall is when
17:34
you have to grab someone and pull them
17:36
back up. Well the Reason that it was
17:38
a thing that triggered it was Orson Welles
17:41
is doing the voiceover of this documentary. And
17:43
In it he's saying things he's saying and
17:45
now pay close attention here. And It's like
17:47
a clip from an old movie, but then
17:49
it would go into people talking. But If
17:51
I close my eyes, my voice just heard
17:54
like one continuous audio stream and it sounded
17:56
like the clips that Orson Welles was using
17:58
in the movie were narrating this. Documentary.
18:00
So then I was like. Though
18:02
not the a horse and was talking directly to
18:04
us Year when it gets it's name is Rewind.
18:06
And dance like it's what you're saying is happening,
18:09
isn't happening. Are you feeling okay? And then I
18:11
went. I. Don't know where am I to and
18:13
that I just dropped to the ground and he was like.
18:15
All right yourself away and that's where you
18:17
are. like Usaf and yourself on the mountain.
18:19
There you go. You didn't open linebacker, he
18:21
opened or non aligned our daughter water. Opens
18:24
the sliding door but a glass of water
18:26
next to me. Cold wind and water
18:28
harmed myrtle. Down to Myrtle? Gone. What's going
18:30
on? Mom's. You're looking for a non blondes
18:32
freaking out dogs. Understand this. Dogs know
18:34
when your spirit and. Know that's
18:36
why they're great companions still. Do. This thing where
18:39
if I give her a like the right lutz said i'm not
18:41
conscious of still come over to start licking my hand to be
18:43
like come Back Down. To Earth is the only one
18:45
is a resounding no. Well, yes, Myrtle. try to
18:47
tell people. Laugh
18:49
at his last. It's to me that
18:52
a well that's exactly what emailed it's
18:54
and his bed around super high people
18:56
whether be mushrooms whether a be received
18:58
or acids you understand that you need
19:00
to tether them back to the years.
19:02
Yes, you just need to go arrive
19:05
what your feelings as I what you're
19:07
hearing. This was the best advice I
19:09
ever received and I I I don't
19:11
know if this man is alive or
19:13
dead. Prez a guy we used
19:15
by mushrooms offers and he always he
19:17
always said. Before. You'd
19:19
strip right on your hand I
19:21
I'm tripping. It's okay, smart and reason
19:24
that you from before so that
19:26
gives him a round meant oh so
19:28
you're human ancestor so that when it's
19:31
and I dared been some muslim
19:33
rothys him here is I was. You're
19:37
right, Guys are
19:39
but I'm sipping are always remember i i'm
19:41
tripping it's okay guy like you'd looking dog
19:43
or cat got it it. So this too
19:45
shall pass you for an intellectually get them
19:47
to buy into. That is this too shall.
19:49
Pass. That's all you need. Understand is that
19:51
it will come back And you will. And
19:53
that's like a plane with Give it a
19:55
little bit, find your floating right now. you're
19:57
going to come back down. It's to a.
20:00
Willie Wonka burp Yeah but yeah and
20:02
you come back to what loses you
20:04
is your up there and you go.
20:06
I'm never going to come back down
20:08
again. You fly higher. Yeah you do
20:10
go As the part that my experience
20:12
the worst I ever felt. With.
20:15
With weed was eating the smallest part of
20:17
a brownie that a friend had told me
20:19
like animals do something different the early ordered
20:21
of second. Unreadable waves. And
20:23
it was the feeling of oh no they
20:25
put clearly based on how I feel something
20:28
other than we'd in bed at within an
20:30
hour later on the ground. Yeah yeah, we
20:32
I likely free floating through space the i'm
20:34
hoping we'd a swimming pool. edibles are swimming
20:37
in the ocean. Guess. It's
20:39
Peterson Mossy where the sure
20:41
if there's a riptide. One
20:57
of them moments I knew I had to quit
20:59
drinking was ah I read I used to. I
21:01
used to work a lot in the city, I
21:03
was on the road a lot and I was
21:05
working at the Comedy Cellar and I would do
21:07
like for five spots on the night and I
21:09
would go to a bar called Three Owners in
21:11
the West Village was right around the corner from
21:13
Sellers and I do some day and drink. this
21:15
is I didn't want to do day and drinking
21:17
at the seller to the they want them dawn
21:20
This new guys getting to Harvard not as civilians.
21:22
Do besides you smarter than it could have been.
21:24
I. Mean I was. I was born in the
21:26
darkness molded by ear I knew where to go
21:28
to to gets with and one night I came
21:30
back for a late show and I was to
21:32
stop and I literally felt like I had swam
21:35
too far away from the beach and and that
21:37
was the feeling a hat on stage was. I
21:39
can't control my words, I can't control my thoughts
21:41
and then the next morning I woke up and
21:44
as one does hung over I felt ashamed, I
21:46
felt anxious and I was like man if I
21:48
want to be a comic stick up for the
21:50
rest of my life I gotta change because I'm
21:53
to For I was to. For on stage
21:55
last nights at a place that I have.
21:58
dreamt about working since I
22:00
was 17. So I need
22:03
to cut drinking. But weed
22:05
was always there, baby. And I
22:07
would always and I love weed. I
22:09
still do, you know, but it got
22:11
to a point where I, you know,
22:14
I just released a special in March.
22:17
Yeah. Double now on YouTube. Really, thanks.
22:19
It's called On the Road. In
22:21
1997, the United States enacted the Deadbeat
22:23
Dad Law, which meant if
22:25
you didn't pay child support, you were
22:27
going to jail. My dad died
22:29
in 1997. I'm
22:39
in the process of building and I just, uh,
22:41
I just felt like, man, I need
22:44
to get better. I need to
22:46
get better. And I think that's always a step. Someone
22:48
feels professionally where you're like, what can I do? How
22:50
can I, I want every
22:53
step to be an improvement. Even if it
22:55
can't be, I want to try to improve.
22:57
So your comedy, your craft was
22:59
the reason. It's just around, you know, I
23:01
don't want to go lebucard and talk about
23:03
art and the artist and all
23:08
that. But in terms of just, you love
23:11
comedy and I want to be very good at it. I
23:13
want to be the best that I can be. If I
23:15
get old and I, and I'm like, Oh, I could have
23:17
done this. I'll beat the,
23:19
I'll beat my, I'm very good at beating
23:21
myself up as she knows. That's the only
23:23
domestic violence in our house. In my brain.
23:25
But I, I just like, I'm just like,
23:28
I want to be as good as I
23:30
can be. I had the
23:32
same feeling with weed that I was having about
23:34
alcohol all those years. I was going to say,
23:36
you've identified now like being on
23:38
stage with alcohol as the turning point
23:40
in this too, seemingly being getting words.
23:42
I was forgetting trains of thought. I
23:44
was forgetting like, where am I going
23:46
with this? And I'm already kind of
23:48
dumb. So like it was making me
23:50
dumber. And I just kind of felt
23:52
like, all right, well,
23:55
let's try. Let's just like, uh, and I
23:57
had the same talk, same therapist, you know,
23:59
and he. he said, what about
24:01
quitting weed? And what it
24:03
was specifically was, I have a lot of anger
24:05
and a lot of stuff that
24:10
I haven't worked on from the death
24:12
of my father and my sister. Because
24:14
after my dad died, that
24:17
December 12th, 1998, I started smoking weed. My
24:20
sister was killed in the car accident on October 29th, 1999. And
24:24
so I go through that and I'm
24:26
just getting more f***ed up and then I
24:28
lose my aunt in 2007 that I was close
24:30
to and I'm just getting more f***ed up and just people
24:32
I knew were dying and I was just getting
24:35
like, well f*** it. Like,
24:37
I'm good at this. Did it feel like
24:39
self-medicating? Yeah, 100%. Like you were
24:41
aware that that's what was happening. No, but
24:43
I kinda did. It made
24:45
you feel better enough. Yeah, I made me feel great. F***ing
24:48
great. But then, you know, I was talking
24:50
to my old roommate, Vecchione, about this today
24:52
at breakfast, where I
24:54
kinda had this false, this like
24:57
fake persona of like, I'm
24:59
a chill weed guy. But then I'd
25:01
lose in a video game and f***ing
25:03
explode. And then we had to get a new table. Shout out
25:05
to IKEA. It was from IKEA, so like they are easy
25:07
to break in. Well, I just wanna let you know. It did break.
25:10
Down and in. Down and in. I
25:13
f***ing cleared that thing. I lost a rocket. I
25:17
was gonna say, I believe we missed that one. This
25:19
was rocket league. It was rocket league. Dude, that was
25:21
my- Rocket league. Give me my black belt.
25:23
The gun was out too. Aaah!
25:25
I f***ing shattered that motherf***er.
25:28
And then she heard it on the chat. I
25:31
go, what was that? And
25:33
I'm immediately ashamed. But
25:36
I just wasn't tied to my emotions.
25:38
I just kinda felt like, oh,
25:41
this is self-medicating. And when you start realizing that,
25:43
you go, what if
25:45
I take the medication off? Like, what if we, you
25:47
know, I talked to my therapist and my therapist was
25:49
like, maybe you're using this as a crutch. Maybe you
25:51
need to feel things. Katie was in LA doing
25:54
work for a week. And I
25:56
looked online and they said, you know, withdrawal
26:00
symptoms usually last about seven days. And
26:03
I did the math. That was where I was like, let's
26:06
chill for a couple months. That's wild to me, if
26:09
I may, because I was like, wouldn't
26:12
you want me to, I would love
26:14
to be there to help you through whatever withdrawal symptoms
26:16
you're experiencing. You
26:18
don't have to hide. I know I didn't have
26:21
to hide it, but I didn't want to inconvenience her.
26:23
They wouldn't have. I'm so busy, let me tell you.
26:25
But one of the things is like, I didn't sleep.
26:27
I didn't sleep the first week. I
26:29
just was like, you don't sleep. Cause
26:32
I'm getting sedated. I
26:34
just had a physical like two months ago and my
26:36
doctor was like, all right, marijuana use. I was like
26:38
daily. And he's like, how much? And I lied like
26:40
we do about our drinks. I was like, yeah, once
26:42
a day. But I was like, I
26:44
smoke when I wake up. I would
26:46
smoke before the shower. And then
26:48
that's just how I start my day. And
26:50
then throughout the day, I just keep smoking.
26:52
And then at night it was like, bong
26:54
hits edibles. Let's go. Before
26:56
you go to sleep, you'd take at least an edible. 25
27:00
milligrams at least after
27:02
smoking all day. That's just a date mate. That
27:04
would sedate. I would be, you talk about losing
27:06
the ground. I'm sleeping through the night. So
27:09
not even really kind of, but something that
27:11
I want to know from Katie's perspective about
27:13
all of this is to what extent did
27:15
Dan seem stoned versus also being functional, which
27:17
is a, let me tell you something about
27:19
the sodas. We hide getting up
27:21
very well. Yeah. Dan never really
27:24
comes into the other room and says he's freaking
27:26
out. But the next day Dan will
27:28
go, I freaked out a little last night. And
27:30
I'm like, where was I? He
27:32
doesn't go through it out loud. He goes through
27:34
it all inside. He's flunking through his shirt. Which
27:36
I'm like, then I immediately think of all the times
27:39
I've been on the ground needing him to fan my
27:41
sweaty back because I don't know where I
27:43
am. He wants the Sherpa and Dan is
27:45
out there soloing. And then I
27:47
feel like a monster because I'm like, I was in the
27:49
other room just goofing off, probably getting frustrated at you
27:51
because we're in the chat and you're not responding. And
27:54
I'm like, are you on your phone? Where are you
27:56
answering us? You guys play video games
27:58
from different rooms. Yeah. headset
28:00
with other people we're not just like on headset
28:02
with each other in the same apartment yeah in the same
28:04
whatever sometimes um should I be more ashamed when
28:06
I say no no no I just want people to understand
28:08
what whatever man yeah so anyway he goes through
28:11
it um kind of alone um
28:13
and yeah as one does no I
28:15
know uh but it's so it's I don't always
28:18
know so it's but I can't that's only
28:20
child syndrome there's I'll notice when he's when he
28:22
gets really really I mean he'll usually come out and
28:24
go like I'm gonna get scary high tonight it's
28:27
literally my words I'm gonna go I'm gonna get
28:29
scared he's like what if I was thinking what
28:32
if you know that weed that we've stopped smoking
28:34
because you're so afraid of it what if
28:36
I uh put that into a bong and
28:38
I just do binger bongers um and I'm
28:40
gonna I'm gonna get going and I was
28:42
like why do you aspire to get so
28:44
scared isn't that the bad part why are
28:46
you chasing the bad part I'd sit there with
28:48
a full bat just to these
28:51
you know and a lot of my friends
28:53
we get high like that is just kind
28:55
of just everybody I've ever been friends with
28:57
that's just what we do you know before
28:59
the bonfire we'd f***ing rip like Keith dipped
29:01
this f***ing ch some
29:21
of us just like to take a little edge off with
29:23
the question of like walking around
29:25
the world and being functional enough while
29:28
also overcome is it does it feel
29:30
like I am overcoming the thing
29:33
that is making me stoned
29:35
does it feel like there is a challenge
29:37
or I think you enjoy about like I
29:39
can do something that they can't I
29:41
think I have a lot of anger in me that I've never dealt with
29:43
and I think I have a lot of frustration
29:45
in me that I haven't dealt with like
29:47
health like in a healthy way like actually
29:49
worked through it and I think weed was
29:51
like dude put it up on the side
29:54
I also I feel like
29:56
you you have a constant running I don't know
29:58
because I'm not in there but You've
30:00
got an inner monologue of anxiety
30:02
that you've, it's like a hum that has
30:04
been humming for so long that you've kind
30:07
of learned to just like, fish
30:09
it in the back, but when you smoke weed, it
30:11
goes further in the back. So you can really not
30:13
even tell that it's... It's putting on noise
30:15
canceling headphones. Yeah. It's like, I
30:17
get high, I put on those noise canceling headphones, and I'm
30:19
like, just walking around.
30:21
And what's crazy is, since I've
30:24
stopped smoking in the past two weeks, my
30:26
anxiety levels have dropped. Yeah. I
30:28
don't have any anxiety. I
30:30
get anxiety in certain situations that cause
30:32
anxiety, but I'm not anxious.
30:35
You know, I don't think I'm done smoking weed.
30:38
I think I'm done drinking for sure. I
30:40
don't want to go back to drinking. I don't want
30:43
to become that person again. Cigarettes, God only knows. But
30:46
weed, I just need a break. I just needed
30:49
like, let me get two months. And by the
30:51
way, I talked to friends that
30:54
are huge potheads and they go, well, yeah, you got
30:56
to take a break. And I go, you guys want
30:58
to take a break? I'm gonna do
31:00
that twice a week. When I told Katie immediately, we were
31:02
in LA, getting dinner and she told me about this, she
31:04
broke the news to me that we couldn't do our athlete.
31:06
Which we will do. We will do, again, we're going to
31:08
do it. Trust me. And if we
31:10
don't, it's okay. Yeah, but I don't care. When
31:12
you're a Hall of Famer, you got them all. But
31:16
what I told her immediately was, and
31:18
again, forgive me for not being the best
31:20
advice giver, given that you are currently trying
31:23
to stay in the state that you're in.
31:25
I was like, but when you do return
31:27
to it, it's going
31:29
to be incredible. Well, that's kind
31:31
of where I want to get. I want to
31:33
turn it. Like when I don't smoke
31:35
weed for a while, I come back and I'm like, oh,
31:38
this is why I fell in love with them. Well, that's
31:40
what I want. I want it to be a treat. I
31:42
want it to be a cake. I
31:44
don't want it to be a daily vitamin. I want
31:46
it to be cake. I want it to be like,
31:48
hey, dude, let's have some cake. And then you're like,
31:50
oh, you get that excitement of like, yeah, dude, I
31:53
can have some cake right now. The way I was
31:55
smoking, I needed to do it before I left the
31:57
house. And Katie will tell you that she'd be like,
31:59
Hey, I'm like, all right, hold on. And then the
32:01
window would open and I'd fucking. You know, or I
32:04
did. I had my one hitter on me, like an
32:06
ankle gun. I just kept that saying on me. I
32:08
would just be like, oh cool. Just walk in and
32:10
be like, and then you're like, man, and it just
32:12
like, dude, I don't have anything against weed.
32:15
This isn't a thing where I'm like, and now
32:17
I found Christ. And I, I love weed. This
32:20
is me. Yeah. This is me. Just let
32:23
me get out the pool and dry off. This
32:25
many years consecutively, you had nothing to
32:27
justify to anybody. Your brain has not
32:29
had a second to go. Maybe we
32:31
should build some neural pathways sober.
32:33
Maybe we should have a thought
32:36
process function soberly through your brain.
32:38
I had bathtub fingers and I just want my fingers
32:40
to go back. Yeah. You've been, you've had wrinkles. I
32:43
just, let me get out of the water for a little while.
32:59
I've said it to friends of mine who
33:01
have had real problems with addiction, like real,
33:03
real bad problems. People, friends of mine that
33:05
have relapsed, other friends of mine that have
33:08
gotten through it. And they, the
33:10
friends of my life, I've seen a
33:13
reaction from people where you
33:15
have people in your life that you trust,
33:17
that you love and you trust. And when
33:19
it's a consensus, you go, I'm going the
33:21
right way. And enough people have
33:23
gone like, all right. Like Zeki on this
33:25
morning at breakfast, he didn't know. And I
33:27
told him, he's like, fuck yeah, dude. All
33:29
right. I'm excited to see this. You know,
33:31
Bar-getsy was like, all right buddy, here we
33:33
go. You know, like let's go. And
33:36
Katie immediately understood. She went, yeah, yeah, yeah,
33:38
take a break. And by the way, I'm not
33:40
mad at her for smoking weed. She smokes weed
33:42
before I play rock. I was going to ask what to say. I
33:45
also don't have any alcohol in the house. So like I'm
33:47
already, I feel like I'm doing my part. And since you're
33:49
just taking a break from this one and we have all
33:51
that weed, it's not going to smoke itself. We have a
33:53
lot of weed. And so I, especially today, I felt I
33:55
had a duty to stay
33:57
true to the confidence. But you know, what's
33:59
funny is. I don't, I'm like, dude, cook it high. Well, so
34:01
I was gonna ask, I do it in a different room.
34:04
Yeah, she was respectful, but I was joking around. And you can't
34:06
smell, so it doesn't really. Yeah, I have no
34:09
sense of smell, so I'm like, dude, go f***ing rip it. I
34:11
don't, I don't, I'm gonna hang out with
34:13
my friends to smoke weed and I'm probably gonna watch them smoke
34:15
weed. And I'm like, dude, that's great. My
34:17
dad's family is all addicts. I
34:19
mean, top to bottom, you know,
34:21
and they're all dead. And it's
34:24
me and my cousin, and we're kinda like, damn,
34:26
everyone was f***ed up. And it's
34:28
like, oh, we, our family, my dad's family normalized
34:30
it. Like, this is what we do. We get
34:32
f***ed up, we're good at getting f***ed up, and
34:34
we are, we're very good at getting f***ed up.
34:36
But time to take a break. I'm
34:39
in my 40s now. I just kinda don't wanna be.
34:42
I'm not yet, I just. I just kinda don't
34:44
wanna be an old stoner. I kinda wanna have
34:46
my wits about me as I get older. So
34:48
whatever I have to do, I've been doing it
34:51
consistently for 26 years. 26 years?
34:53
Yeah, I don't remember most of my
34:56
life. But I, you know, I just felt like,
34:58
f***ing whatever, man. It's time to chill out for
35:00
a little bit. One of the things that I
35:02
was in LA for was, because
35:04
I had all of these 420 ideas, but
35:06
really what I'm so glad to do is
35:08
like actually get to what's more interesting about
35:10
all of this with people who actually like
35:13
sincerely have a relationship with weed. And like,
35:15
it's nuanced and it's not as simple as,
35:17
oh, so. Well, let me tell you this.
35:20
420 is the potheads, what New
35:22
Year's Eve is to alcoholics. It's
35:24
an amateur's holiday. And especially in New York,
35:26
we're- Thanksgiving is where you
35:28
get high. Really, my favorite Twitter search is like
35:30
weed on Thanksgiving weed
35:32
plus like cousins. It's like everybody
35:34
attesting to the joy of discovering
35:36
this forbidden thing of getting high
35:38
with your cousins once a year. My mom brought,
35:41
my mom kinda kicked that door down for everybody. Shut up,
35:43
Cam, dude. We'll f***ing rip it on Thanksgiving.
35:45
I'll be back. But I
35:48
just don't kinda want, like I said, I
35:50
don't wanna make it the standard. I don't
35:52
wanna, I'm just kinda wanna dry off. Yeah,
35:54
so one of the things I asked in
35:56
LA of an interview subject, Matt Barnes, former
35:58
NBA player, Was the preeminent
36:01
stoner while active in the NBA was like,
36:03
what do you think about the hunter? And
36:06
a boss. Yes nine minutes. I watch it I
36:24
Anybody from the country was like just grab
36:26
the thing throw it outside man and I'm
36:28
gonna kill you What I
36:30
wanted to know from Matt Barnes was what's his view on? On
36:33
cannabis as a performance enhancing drug because he
36:35
smoked so much before games And again, there's
36:38
nuance to the ritual and how far ahead
36:40
of games and so forth But for you,
36:42
did you ever have a thought of I
36:45
am made better Because of this man bonfire
36:47
ripped when we got high if there's a
36:49
certain high J and I would get where
36:51
that radio show would Be fucking cooking because
36:53
we're buddies We're genuine friends and I love
36:55
getting high with big J and we would
36:58
watch silly videos and it would be like
37:01
Everything I did in high school that brought me
37:03
joy after school I got to do that job
37:05
for eight years and I love it and I
37:07
love it and I still love going over to
37:09
J's And smoking a joint and watching YouTube fails.
37:11
I feel like Something you said about
37:13
alcohol is what you're maybe getting at correct
37:15
me if I'm wrong Is that
37:18
when you quit drinking you were
37:20
afraid that your talent was tied
37:22
to drinking? I still feel that about
37:24
right I still feel You
37:27
know, I just headlined my first weekend without
37:29
weed in Omaha and it
37:31
was like I could not be more fascinated
37:33
as to how that Felt it felt I
37:35
was nervous Until I
37:37
got on stage and I was like
37:39
I was doing stand-up Gotta
37:42
write better jokes I'm
37:45
still here. That's how that's not so here and I had a
37:47
phone and I was I was What
37:49
I found was I didn't lose my
37:51
place in my set I found like I felt like
37:53
it was a little more concise. I felt like it
37:56
was a little more like oh You
37:58
know, I think you kind of want to learn how to hit
38:00
the baseball without steroids. It's like if
38:02
I can, you know, if I can hit
38:05
dingers, not on juice, well, then I've got, I've got
38:07
the goods, I've got my swing back, but
38:09
the swing stays your swing. I feel like
38:11
it doesn't get away from me as fast as it did
38:13
when I was high all the time. I
38:16
feel like stuff would get away from
38:18
me. And I back where it's
38:20
like, uh, are you catch, you like saw
38:22
that concentration as the lions or is like, and
38:24
then it falls in my hand and you're like,
38:26
oh, when I, when I'm sober now I can
38:29
kind of see, I don't go like, I'm just
38:31
like, oh, just, just put your
38:33
hands out. And there it is. So what it sounds
38:35
like, I mean, then this is something that I was
38:37
hoping, um, you would have insight
38:39
into was just like, Oh, absent
38:42
this variable, I am like
38:44
this. And I've learned that actually the thing,
38:46
not that, you know, the real championship was
38:49
the friends you made along the way, but
38:51
it really is, it is that like, you,
38:53
you've of course been the guy going on
38:55
stage the whole time. Yeah. That like, you
38:57
know, the cliche and superhero movies where it's
38:59
like, I've lost my powers and it's like,
39:01
no, you always had your powers. You just
39:03
thought that this emulate or this thing gave
39:05
you your powers. And it was visibility cloak.
39:07
Yeah. And it's like, no, you don't really
39:09
need that. And again, this is something that
39:11
I have gotten to myself. I don't
39:13
expect everyone to feel this way. It's
39:16
just something that like, if you're
39:18
struggling with substances, just know
39:21
it's probably, it's not
39:23
the substance. It's you can get rid
39:25
of it. You know, I think one of
39:27
my favorite things about comedy and being able to
39:29
do podcasts and a radio show and is when
39:32
I talk about drinking, people reach out to me
39:34
and they go, you don't demonize it. You don't
39:36
make it like there's
39:38
a lot of programs out there that make you
39:41
white knuckle and they go like, you can never
39:43
do this again, but you go, well, if you
39:45
understand the relationship, you understand sometimes you don't need
39:47
it. So I don't know. Yeah. I just think
39:50
substances in this country are a lot, a lot
39:52
of times marketed well and taxed heavily. So they
39:54
like people to be on them and that can
39:56
kind of blur your relationship
39:58
with the substance. especially now that weed
40:01
is legal, there's a lot of people pushing it
40:03
that demonized it 10, 15 years ago. And
40:06
those of us that are lifelong weed
40:08
smokers, it's like, man, some of y'all came to
40:10
the party when it was safe and we think
40:12
it dorks. So maybe
40:14
stop thinking like, I gotta... No,
40:16
you were smoking weed before that. Yeah, a little
40:19
bit, like the year or two before that, but not most
40:21
of the... If any of my high school friends still listen
40:23
to things I make, which I bet they don't, but if
40:25
they do, shout out to Ashley Sudley, who right now is
40:27
thinking, lady, when we got high
40:29
in high school, you got on all fours
40:31
in the driveway. And we're like, I'm dying,
40:33
call an ambulance. Yeah, but that, I
40:35
mean, I think there's just people who go through
40:38
that. You're like, you see people go through it
40:40
later when it's safer and you're kind of like...
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