‼️POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECT OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT 👇🏼

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Losing yourself in love...⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

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When you devalue yourself and overvalue the relationship; you become a chameleon⠀⠀⠀

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In my past when I was “chameleoning” (let’s make it a verb shall we?!😜) I would hide parts of myself that I thought made me undesirable to my partner...⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Things like my hobby of writing poetry, my love for @champagnepapi and Kendrick Lamar, my obsession with matching athletic wear outfits, and my tendency to blast the music with the windows down on long drives...⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

I.hid.myself.💔

To make room for a fake version of me who I believed “wouldn’t be abandoned”

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And guess what?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

When relationships ended I’d feel like a knife twisted in my gut -because I felt like “I changed for you...and I STILL wasn’t good enough” 🤯⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

THE LESSON: When you’re securely attached you are YOURSELF⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Receive what is meant for you baby and tell the rest “Wish you the best byeeeeeee”⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Ready to move towards being your authentic self UNAPOLOGETICALLY?! Then I have a special treat for  you: 

TODAY on the podcast I was joined by the one and only Jordan Power @jpowercomedy (make sure you follow him if you’re not already!)

He got very vulnerable about his journey to loving himself, removing himself from toxic relationships, and learning how to set boundaries! 

We laughed, we got REAL real, and overall had a very honest conversation about:

-Choosing healthy coping over numbing (aka substance/unhealthy relationships

-Getting off the dating rollercoaster 

-Setting boundaries with unhealthy relationships (including unhealthy friendships) 

Aaaaand so much more!

Check out the episode and let us know what you think by screenshotting the episode and tagging us in your IG stories - @jpowercomedy @drmorgancoaching 

For more Jordan: 

Jordan Power is a writer and comedian who has sold out live shows across North America. He is the former co-host of Shame On You, a podcast that was downloaded millions of times in over 120 countries. On November 13th he will launch his new podcast, Unmentionable, on all players and on Youtube. He has a best-selling book “Famous Anus” available on Amazon. For podcast updates, tour dates, and more, he can be followed at @JPowercomedy