It is at this time of year that we look at RESOLVING our lives. That is why today in Life Defense, we will examine the similarities between physical fights, and arguments. We will contrast them with RESOLVING, or “RE-SOLVING” life relationships, and consider life-saving outcomes through RESOLVING life.

A physical fight, is a type of argument, and is mostly a losing proposition. From the world of self-defense we know that winning a fight is a fallacy.

When two people square off to physically fight, the outcome is mostly decided from the onset. Not who will win necessarily, or who will lose, rather that both will end up mostly broken in the end. It is here that life is lost.

Consider that in self-defense we are talking about physical confrontation where bones are broken, bleeding, bumps and contusions occur. Is a verbal or written argument so dissimilar?

The argument in comparison to the fight has direct relatedness. No noses may be broken, no bleeding may occur, and no trips to the ER may be necessary. However, emotional disruption, energy bled, and relationships broken are the result.

If the argument was with a stranger, chances are it will not end in friendship. If the argument was with an acquaintance, the relationship stands a really good chance of being broken, most likely beyond repair. If the argument is with a close friend, or family member the relationship might still be broken, to be possibly mended at some future point. However, arguments are not likely mended in the immediate time frame. Mental and emotional disruption or injury, not unlike physical injury takes time to heal.

Even the closest relationships ending without RESOLUTION will more than likely create scars. Scars that may carry on for years, scars that fragment families, and friendships for the rest of our lives. This is life lost.

In these last few moments of the year as you consider how much weight you will lose, how much money you will make, of how many miles you will run, consider RESOLVING, or “RE-SOLVING” in many ways is superior to fighting and argument. To “RE-SOLVE” a mathematic equation using a different variable changes everything! Consider changing on thing and RE-SOLVE your life….

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