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Are You SURE You're Still A Christian?

May 5th, 2021 41m 56s

In this sequel episode, we update everyone on how we're processing through our different faith journeys, addressing common questions we've received, and finding common ground along the way. We also discuss a hodgepodge of topics, ranging from s

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BONUS: Clarifying Christian-Humanism

Apr 30th, 2021 36m

Based on a number of conversations, Derrick takes some time to further contextualize and clarify his newfound journey into Christian-Humanism, further defining the 'what' and the 'why' behind it all. This includes comparisons with Secular Human

Am I Still A Christian?

Mar 31st, 2021 1h 21m

This one's a long time coming! In our rawest, diciest, most transparent episode yet, Luther and Derrick discuss where the last year of their faith journeys has taken them. Throughout this discussion, we wrestle with a question that many in our

How Do You Deal With Death? [feat. J. Todd Billings]

Mar 17th, 2021 1h 2m

How do we navigate death in a death-denying culture? Joining Derrick today is professor and author J. Todd Billings, whose recent cancer diagnosis has given him a sobering perspective on life. He enlightens us on how he's learned to embrace his

What To Do With The Old Testament? [feat. Tremper Longman III]

Mar 3rd, 2021 52m 58s

The Old Testament can be tricky to navigate. But thankfully, biblical scholar and author Tremper Longman III has dedicated his life to helping people better understand it. We discuss principles of interpretation, the problem of divine violence,

On The Road #2: Marriage In The Gray [feat. Wives In The Gray]

Feb 17th, 2021 46m 44s

We're on another road trip, this time driving from our co-host Michelle's wedding! We chat it up with the wives to discuss our dating experiences, whether or not we can change our spouse, and our best marriage advice. TimestampsWhat do you ap

The Church in 2021: Adapt or Die? [feat. Caleb Keller]

Feb 3rd, 2021 40m

In Post-Christian America, what does the church need to do in order to be relevant and effective? Should the church be focused on tweaking its current model, or does it need to tear it all down and start over with a fresh approach? Joining us i

Can Violence Ever Be Redemptive? [feat. Kevin Miller]

Jan 20th, 2021 1h 32m

Acclaimed writer and filmmaker Kevin Miller (Hellbound, JESUSA) joins Derrick to wrestle with the relationship of violence to Christian nationalism, scapegoating, and the afterlife. Is there ever a good reason to use violence? Does the Bible te

What Is My Purpose? [feat. Jennifer Fonseca]

Jan 6th, 2021 38m 59s

We're back in a new year with Season 5! After the storm that was 2020, we discuss how to pick up the pieces and rediscover what we might've lost in the chaos: a sense of purpose. Joining us is none other than the Destiny Activator herself, Jenn

On The Road #1: Will There Be Fast Food In Heaven? [feat. Wives In The Gray]

Dec 23rd, 2020 25m 38s

Ready for some unfiltered 'Gray?' Recorded on a road trip back in February, this might be our most ridiculous episode yet! We'll be back in January for the premiere of Season 5. In the meantime, Merry Christmas from the Gray and stay safe! M

Spirit In The Gray [feat. Jack Levison]

Sep 2nd, 2020 1h 19m

Is God's Spirit only in Christians? What do Christians often misunderstand about the Holy Spirit? How does the Spirit confront injustice in our world? Joining us this episode is none other than renowned biblical scholar Jack Levison in one of o

Where Are You At Now? (Luther Edition)

Aug 12th, 2020 40m 41s

Two years ago, we checked in with Derrick to see how his views had changed over time. Now it's time to do the same with Luther as we hear how his views have changed on owning a gun, women in ministry, tithing, sex, and even the Bible. Musi

Race In America: Where Do We Go From Here?

Jul 22nd, 2020 46m 10s

What do we make of George Floyd, police brutality, Black Lives Matter, white supremacy, and protests across the nation? Luther and Derrick once again engage in a passionate conversation on race and why it matters for this moment we find ourselv

Conspiracy Theories: Facts or Fakes?

Jul 1st, 2020 38m 1s

Are conspiracy theories outlandish speculations or covered-up truth? It's time to find out which of us is the craziest as we each share a well-known conspiracy theory that we believe has some shred of credibility based on evidence. Does your fa

The Instagram Quiet Time (And Other Forms of Social Media Spirituality)

Jun 3rd, 2020 34m

What starts off as a rant about the "Christian Girl Instagram" develops into a larger conversation about how social media can hinder us from practicing spiritual disciplines solely for an audience of One.Music Credit: LAKEY INSPIREDTrack Na

Politics ('nuff said)

May 13th, 2020 34m 16s

Can a civilized conversation about politics still happen in this day and age? We give it a shot on this week's episode, once and for all revealing where we each stand on issues, parties, and even presidents. Music Credit: LAKEY INSPIREDTrac

Where Is God During COVID-19?

Apr 1st, 2020 51m 44s

We're back! In our Season 4 premiere, we tackle one of the grayest subjects of them all: God and suffering. We examine the Coronavirus through the lens of God, church, and culture, while giving our predictions for where all this is heading, and

How Do You Live Life In The Gray?

Aug 28th, 2019 1h 4m

For this last episode, we present an unfiltered, intimate conversation about what it means practically to live life in the gray. Listen in for such exciting revelations as to who came up with our name and tagline, what our favorite episodes are

Is America A Christian Nation?

Aug 14th, 2019 39m 53s

Is America more like Israel, God's chosen nation? Or like Babylon, an idolatrous empire? We assess the sins of America's past and present in this intense discussion featuring Casey Cook, the Wives, and even Derrick's daughter.

Is The Reformation Overrated?

Jul 31st, 2019 25m 57s

What begins with frustrations about the Protestant Reformers leads to a greater conversation about how we should really look at the heroes of our faith. This soft sequel to our hit episode "Calvinism" focuses less on theology and more on the ac

Let's Talk About Sex!

Jul 17th, 2019 31m 42s

It's time to talk about sex and the church. We bring on our good friend Kelly Hoeft to examine the in's and out's of purity culture (whether it's healthy or toxic), and discuss how to navigate these topics without resorting to shame. Also liste

Is God Male, Female, Or Both?

Jun 19th, 2019 17m 14s

Inspired by a question asked by one of Derrick's students, we explore some of the awesome and beautiful language used in Scripture to describe God, though we don't agree on what it's all trying to say.

Can A Woman Be A Pastor? (Part 2)

Jun 5th, 2019 23m 49s

Continuing the discussion from our last episode, Luther and Michelle weigh in their thoughts on what Derrick and special guest Marina LaRusso shared regarding women in ministry. We also expand the conversation by discussing whether or not women

Can A Woman Be A Pastor? (Part 1)

May 22nd, 2019 23m 18s

We deep dive into the historical context of Scripture to examine women's roles in the church, where our differing conclusions divide "The Gray." Joining the discussion is special guest Marina LaRusso, who is passionate about this topic.