Family Secrets (Part Three) Emotional Manipulators is part three of three episodes of Family Secrets. The reason for this show is because Victoriously Speaking did a workshop on Family Secrets at a mega church back in 2009 and there were several chaperones from across the country that took their teenagers out of the class when they found out what the topic of the workshop was about. It was clear to her at that time that family secrets plays a big role in the growth and development of youth and families, because of things unsaid and also because of the things that are said. As a Child Protection Services Investigator for (4) years, Victoriously Speaking served many families where family secrets caused long lasting physical scars and emotional wounds. It is her vision to help people understand how family secrets of abuse and neglect ruins generations of families and communities. This series is also an attempt to assist families in healing and reconciling their differences.