The final death in this series. We’ve talked about the death of mental, emotional, and physical. Today we discuss the relational death.
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· Putting to death the Fear of being alone or hurt in relationships.
o Dependent Relational Strategy -fear of being alone
o Independent Relational Strategy – fear of being hurt
· Interdependent Relational Strategy – Need vs Want (last episode)
o you trust yourself enough to know whatever happens in the relationship, you can deal with the emotional fallout. Ties into the mental death and fear of pain. Emotional death and managing disappointment. Physical death and being controlled by your body.
o You trust yourself to know that you are lovable regardless of any one person expressing their love to you.
· You have heard me say: everything is relationship. Still true! Step out of the victim role in your story and into the hero role. We each create a narrative about who we are. It may be time to flip the script.
How does death to relational help you LEAD Lucky? Trust is the currency of business, which means the relationship is the goal to succeed in business. However, if you need any one person, you are controlled by them. Allows for objectivity. They meet your need, you meet their need. Relationship…
Closing: What is one thing you will take away from the episode today? What will you do?
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