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Welcome to another episode of Live a Full Life .
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We're with Tampa Bay Midwives . This
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is an exciting one . We work so much with
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the community and labor as chiropractors and
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prenatal chiropractors
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that we love them . We work with
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many different ones , but we love them .
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It's honestly great . We're going to go through some stuff about midwifery
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.
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If you've been through midwives before , then
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you know , but if you haven't
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, why would we ever consider
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a midwife to help us with our
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pregnancy ? Because
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we're just better at it .
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No , but
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because we want people
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to know that we have choices in this
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right . We learn
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growing up that you get pregnant and go to the
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hospital and you have a baby and
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you kind of just do what you're told to do . But that's
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not really how it works . So when you
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seek out midwifery care you're getting a completely
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different experience where you are kind
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of in control and you have
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your provider who's listening but also
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giving you helpful hints
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and informed consent just to
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kind of navigate through pregnancy and postpartum
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.
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And it's a more one-on-one type of
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relationship . Obviously we
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have the on-line not the online
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, but the on-call 24-7
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, which is awesome . Business
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hours , business things we like to keep it
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nine or five . And
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then there's the new emergencies . They can get a full of a
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midwife like that and they don't have that
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. Someone this morning called upset
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because she had some issues . She
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never would have gone through
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to her OB as someone who just had the established care of it completely
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. So it's a very one-on-one , very
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symbiotic relationship
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, giving all the information
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, letting women know that
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they , like a court , has said choices , that
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you do not have to just be
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like cattle and
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do this , do that , you
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have to do this , you do that , you can say no . You
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can say no .
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Yeah , there's a lot of freedom that comes with your
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pregnancy that maybe you don't feel like there is , because
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we've made it condition . It's got an ICD-10
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code . I'm
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like why it's not a symptom , it's a thing
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. So we made it this thing and
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people think that it's not a freedom type thing
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. They say , oh , I have this condition
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, literal condition , that I have to follow
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a prognosis with , when really it's such
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a innate process in itself that you
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really can't follow any program with
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it . I feel ridiculousism and you can talk
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about this . So
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when we go through this freedom and we have
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we're not limited to this matter
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of the medical system what does a healthy
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female that's going to consider pregnancy
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or maybe is early on pregnant right
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now listening to this ? That may be like huh , maybe I
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should look into midwives . What are
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some things you suggest ? When you were looking into the
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river for a minute , maybe listening to Seattle
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, they don't have options to see you , so
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you know what's going on .
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I think women
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, just one , knowing that
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they do have choices to you
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know , researching the , what they have available
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to them locally , like you know
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, like you said , do they have midwives available
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? You know , right
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out of list of questions , I always want people I love
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the list of questions and also have your
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spouse talk to your spouse
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or your partner , or you
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know , friends , family . You know
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and not also know that they all may not
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feel the same way you do about
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your health care , but
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that's okay . You know it's your choice and
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that it's personal to you and
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yeah , so I mean there's lots of resources
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out there to look
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at for to find
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a midwife , yeah I definitely think
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sorry , no not at all
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Doing your research on said
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providers .
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There are licensed midwives or certified
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professional midwives . There's certified
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nurse midwives , and then there's
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OBs . So just
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knowing who you're going to , there are , and
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Florida we have birth keepers who are
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not train
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the way that we are trained , and so just make
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sure that you're with someone who
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knows how you do the things
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when we need to be safe and stay safe in that
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moment yeah , let's introduce 10
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midwives .
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Let's go through each and every one of you in
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your credentials and what you
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bring to the table .
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So I'm Courtney Julian and I'm a licensed midwife and certified
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professional midwife .
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I am Michelle LeFollow . I'm a licensed midwife . I've been practicing
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since 2010
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and I'm Nicole Whiting .
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I am also a licensed midwife
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and certified professional midwife . I'm
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fairly new I only got licensed last
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year but
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I train under both of them and I feel like all
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together we make a really
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good team . Great , you guys are located
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at Tampa Bay .
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Midwives here , and is it loose
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or ?
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under legs , loose , loose , yeah , so
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you guys can look them up right here if you're local to the
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Tampa Bay area You're fantastic .
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So that's great . So when we talk about the
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plan , birth plans this is a
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big thing too . Some women think
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about the plan and some don't
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, but I think they've all had a vision
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since before even getting pregnant or
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as a woman , just having a vision of what
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birth would be like a dream look
5:44
like how do you guys work through birth plans
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? How do you do help moms
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go through their birth plan ? Make sure that they thought
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about all the checks and balances of a birth plan ? What
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does that look ?
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like . So
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most people that come into Midwifery
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Care , they kind of have already done all of
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the research and they have their birth plan and
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we just kind of go with it . But then there
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are people I mean even me when I got
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pregnant , knowing all the things that I know as
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a midwife , I was still like what ? The
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like ? Oh , I really have to think about this Like
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a human's going to
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come out of my body . So , just going over all
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of the things that you have to think about , like
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, are you doing chiropractic care
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in pregnancy ? If you're not , you probably should
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be , because it's going to help with
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x , y and z Like what
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do you want to happen immediately after your baby
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comes out ? Do you want to be the one that puts your
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baby to your chest ? Do you want someone
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to just hold your baby while you take
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a breather to realize , like what just happened , things
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that you want done or not done
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to your baby . And
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I'm like back in the day , washing the baby
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was a thing . Now I'm just like why would we wash a baby like
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that ? Well , I can ask me do
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that ? It's kind of weird , but that's some things that
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people don't think about . Inviting
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UK injections with the
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eye ointment . So really laying out like
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this is what it's going to look like . I
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remember in Midwifery school one of our
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assignments was like draw out your
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ideal birth . And mine was like , oh
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, I'm going to be making cupcakes and then I'm
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going to have a baby . And then literally
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I got my picture of it , but like
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when I actually went
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in to labor , there were no
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cupcakes involved . I was not smiling
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like there were none of the things and it was really
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helping to , because
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some people me was one of those people
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that had really unrealistic expectations and
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to have Michelle be like hey , no
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.
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But that's an ideal birth plan
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, right ? And then of course , it
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never goes that way , but by happy
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. I call it the blueprint . Sometimes you can't
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build the house without the blueprint , and
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even though you start building the house , sometimes
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you have to change the kitchen . You got
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to change your wall and it may not end up the same
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way . I think that's all . Birth is too . So if you're
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overlooking a birth plan , I highly suggest not
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to To have some type of plan , some boundaries
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that don't get crossed .
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And also keeping an open
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mind , because birth is unpredictable
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and we , just as licensed
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midwives in the
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state of Florida . We undergo
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over-versed educational training through
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years plus basically
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two and a half year internship . So
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we are well versed
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in normal and happy . So
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we're going to take care of our moms
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and make sure everyone's small and
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stays within that range
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and have a great birth and no issues
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. So , yes , yeah nice
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.
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What are some things that you find the wiffery
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? Just kind of sales of everything else
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when Pages actually end up using
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it . That just puts them ahead
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or puts them in a good spot or that you
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feel like aside from the natural . If you
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look natural , people listening or all nodding their heads
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right now , I guess great podcast . The
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other ones were like crossing their arms and
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Well wait , I didn't even thought
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about this , I didn't even know this was an option . What
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does it look like ? How do I get into
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this ? I'm already tied to my insurance play or
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this hospital . I did all that homework
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. So just go through that little navigation
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, because I think people who are curious might
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be asking those questions .
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I think it starts with a phone call and
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just asking so hey , I have
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insurance . What does that look like for you ? We
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aren't contracting with any Insurance's
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, but some insurance is offered out of network
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. So we work with the company that will help
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you get that coverage taking
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care of . But
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yeah , the best place to start is just with
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a phone call to ask all of the questions
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. Or it can be an Instagram DM
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or Comment on something . You will
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get a response . It's just like hey , yeah , congratulations
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on your pregnancy . Or sometimes I just ask
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like are we excited about this or how are we feeling
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, just so I can address it appropriately
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. But so we start
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with our phone call and then we set up our very
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first appointment . We
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that can be at eight weeks , that
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can be at 32 weeks . When
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you were just finding out about me with recovery care
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, you've already been in OB care . It's
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just a matter of like all right , let's
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get some records going to make sure that you are
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in that healthy , low risk category and
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our can have a state of .
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Hospital bird . So there's a qualification process for
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all that as well .
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Yes , we have a risk assessment that we have
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to follow and as long as they have the
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records , and the records you
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know look good and they're , you
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know , normal , healthy , we will take them
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. We will take late Transfers
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and have a problem with it , great
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, yeah , I think the difference you're what
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you got a little bit between the wives
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, I think , is the bond
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and the
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communication , but
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I mean our clients become like our families , so
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it's it's more intimate , definitely
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, yeah . So I think , when
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you're asking about differences , I
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think that is one of the big differences between
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the OB world and the midwifery .
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That's what we have three through midwives and three
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babies and and the
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unique connection you have with them through
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the whole broad . They see everything . They see the ultrasound . I
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see the blood work . They sometimes
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draw your blood . I mean they're doing everything there for you , so
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they're in the whole process . So , unlike the
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medical system , which we all know .
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We're not bashing it . It's very I'm , I don't do
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everything .
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They don't see everything . This is report
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. So this depends on your , your flavor . You know
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how you want , how you want to approach
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this . But the big things I wanted to ask about
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on this podcast was you know how to
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seek out midwifery ? What are some
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of the red flags ? You know
11:43
, any of us check that . You do it through the history
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, you're your process and what happens
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if it all seems fine and Andy
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the turn sideways ? Week 37
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, week 39 or
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whatever ? Whatever happens up
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happening ? Pre-compsia Plus
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, there's a preview . We want to have a list of medical terminology
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that can happen during , but what happens
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when those things start happening ?
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So the process is if something you
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know , one , if they're in labor , the
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goal is to identify it
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and get them to where they need to
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be , you know , as soon as possible
12:16
. Our goal is to well , everyone
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is still healthy and normal , to get you
12:20
to the hospital , to where you can
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have we can , successfully
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set you up for a bachelor . That's really
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, you know . Sometimes , maybe
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you know the blood pressure is just
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starting to creep up and it's just
12:34
continuing . It's not resolving . That
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might be a reason to transfer during
12:38
labor , but it doesn't mean you
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have to , you know , be taken by
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ambulance or anything like that . We'll
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go in our , go in your own car . We do have a
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relationship with the midwives
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at TGH , and
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so we can call them and we can one . We can ask
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their opinion too . We can also
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say , hey , I have a mom who's been laboring
12:59
. Or hey , I have a mom , you
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know , maybe all of a sudden baby
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is breached and you know
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, can we look at getting
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a version and what is the
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best ?
13:11
way to do that .
13:11
Sometimes they can help us with the verdict in part . Sometimes they can't
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, but they will take
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transfers midwife to midwife , which
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is so important because you're
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gonna . They understand the type
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of care that we want to give and what the client wants
13:27
. Now they may not be
13:29
able to give exactly that type of care , because
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they do have someone . They have two ends or
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two and we practice mainly autonomously
13:36
, so they but
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they understand . In our community
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anyways , in the Tampa Bay area there's
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a lot of relationships
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being made and just to smooth
13:48
that process for women
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who are worried ?
13:50
what ?
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happens if I , you know you run midwife , what happens A
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lot of times . You know we will go with you . Depending
13:56
on the circumstance , we'll stay with you . Sometimes
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moms just want to get an epidural , go to sleep
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, and you know we'll check back
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in with you . So there's just so many
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different scenarios , right , that could happen
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. Yeah , thanks to blueprint .
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Thanks to blueprint yeah , thanks to blueprint , because we just signed
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up to get up a girl near sleep who's advocating
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for you how one of they advocated for .
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so there's things that come out with that .
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So that's what they do , they think they think
14:20
about all these things for you so that you have the most
14:22
comfortable experience as possible , whether
14:24
it's perfect or not right Anything
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else you guys think is important
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for people to think about
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?
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when considering the periphery . Well , I think hiring a doula is
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very important and
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a doula is . So a doula is
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a professional or a support person
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. Only they usually
14:46
do a prenatal visit with you
14:48
. They go there with you early labor
14:50
, active labor , transitional
14:52
labor . Obviously they run deliberate and
14:54
then they stay with you post part only for
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a few hours and then they usually
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do a post part of visit . So
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the difference between a doula and a midwife and
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this is a question we get a lot-
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what is the ? difference because you're my doula , right . Well
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, at the end of the day , as
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your midwife , I am responsible for
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your life and your baby's
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life , so I am the clinical person as
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much as I want to you know , give
15:20
you a massage , or you know , brush your hair
15:22
. At the end of the day , I'm looking at
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this , you know , I'm looking at what's happening
15:26
and that mom is safe
15:28
, baby safe , and we're gonna have this baby and go like
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that . A doula is the person
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that's going to be behind you giving you the massage
15:35
, helping your . Your partner , you
15:37
know , do the things that
15:39
they need to do to help you get you
15:41
to the next level , to the next level to have
15:43
this baby . If
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you are looking for a doula and
15:47
they want to take the blood pressure , for
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service , you know , do
15:54
more medical , listen to the baby . They are
15:56
not acting as a doula , they're acting
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as a medical
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professional without a license , and that's
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kind of a problem we have there .
16:07
Oh wow okay , good question
16:09
. Yeah , so that kind of hits
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why I'm touching on it . Yeah , okay that's
16:13
important . I mean we all have our lanes
16:16
because we have the credential with the Florida Department of
16:19
Health to do what we do here in Florida . But every
16:21
state has that as well and there's federal guidelines
16:23
as well .
16:24
so don't mess with that stuff . Anything else
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, that that's worked , I think , knowing
16:29
that nothing is set
16:31
in stone . So if you are with an OV
16:33
provider and you wanna switch
16:35
over , that is an option . But just
16:37
because you come into the Wiccarie care , you
16:40
may decide like actually I was
16:42
just kidding , I want an epic girl . We are not gonna be like
16:44
, oh no , you said Like we're
16:46
gonna support you and make you feel empowered
16:48
. Sometimes you think you can like oh
16:51
yeah , this is not gonna bother me , but the
16:53
body keeps score . It's a great book
16:55
if you haven't read that and things come
16:58
up in labor where you're like , oh no , it's taking me
17:00
back somewhere else and you need to
17:02
be in control in whatever ways that
17:04
you need that , we wanna support that
17:07
. So just know that , like , you have
17:09
options and you can change your
17:11
mind , but you want a strong
17:13
, solid team that's gonna support you in whatever decision that
17:15
you make .
17:17
One of the . I've seen some clients
17:19
that work with both OVG and
17:21
midwife , but when you dissect it it's
17:23
really kind of a bounce back and forth . They're
17:26
not both co-carrying for them at the same time . So
17:29
I've seen that too . When they start off with
17:31
an OV , then they're like you know what ? No
17:33
, I'm gonna go to midwifery . And then maybe something
17:35
comes up or whatever , or their plan changes and they
17:37
go back to OVG and that's
17:39
perfectly fine too .
17:40
They're happy to help . They're
17:42
totally happy to help .
17:43
So that's for you too . But I think a question
17:45
that sometimes can I have both at the same time . The
17:47
reason . I say no is because
17:49
they're not both gonna run labs on you at the same time
17:52
. They're gonna use each other's things . So it's
17:54
like bouncing between two doctors for these exact same
17:56
wellness checks and they to no sense . So I hope
17:58
that through .
17:59
Yeah , yeah , yeah , definitely .
18:02
But again , it all comes down to a choice and
18:04
we support everyone's choice . Like Courtney
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said , if you want an epidural , let's
18:09
go , girl , first we're gonna take you to the
18:11
hospital . We're gonna have the best epidural
18:13
ever . And then we're also gonna help
18:15
you , you know , avoid
18:18
any other cascade interventions that might happen
18:20
. But you know it doesn't matter , we're
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there to support you . 110% .
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Nice , perfect , love it . Anything
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else , yeah . So if you're thinking about having
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a baby , you call Tampa Bay midwives
18:30
. If you're an 8-weeks pregnant , you call
18:33
Tampa Bay midwives . If you were 31-weeks pregnant
18:35
, you call Tampa Bay midwives .
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If you have a baby , call them next time . All
18:40
right , sounds like a plan . If you have a baby
18:42
next time , all right , there
18:44
you go , thanks guys Thank you , thank you .
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