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It's not like you have to start over-investing on a

0:02

date, but we should show someone that we're attracted. So

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early on in the date, tell him you like his

0:06

shirt or something you were attracted to in his profile

0:09

picture when you saw him on the app. Every

0:30

single one of us wants to make

0:32

an impact when we're on a date.

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So here are five simple things that

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you can do to stay in his

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mind long after you've said goodnight. Number

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one, give him an early compliment. I know

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so many guys, and I've been in this

0:49

position before too, where you get

0:51

to the end of a date and you don't even

0:53

necessarily know if someone's actually attracted to you. And that's

0:55

because you go on a date and two people are

0:58

playing this poker game where neither one of them wants

1:00

to reveal their hand. We want to

1:02

break that nonsense. It's not like you have to

1:04

start over-investing on a date, but we should show

1:06

someone that we're attracted. So early on in the

1:08

date, tell him you like his shirt or something

1:11

you were attracted to in his profile picture when

1:13

you saw him on the app. Give him

1:15

something that shows that you are attracted because

1:17

that way it opens up the date to

1:19

more possibilities, it makes everyone feel more comfortable,

1:21

it makes it more likely he'll show his

1:23

interest in you, and at the end

1:26

of the date, he will not be questioning

1:28

whether there's a spark. Number two,

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be friendly to the people around you. When

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a guy on a date sees you being

1:35

nice to people that you don't need to

1:37

be nice to, it shows your true character.

1:39

So whether it's being nice to the person

1:41

serving you or whether there's a woman next

1:43

to you at the bar who has to

1:45

shuffle over so that you too can sit

1:47

down and you say to her, I love

1:49

your jacket by the way, or you have

1:51

great style, it shows him your warm nature.

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It also has the added bonus that when

1:55

you interact with someone else for a few seconds, He

1:58

gets to observe you. Without.

2:00

The pressure of interacting with you And

2:02

it's in the moment where we get

2:04

to observe some one that we start

2:07

to really build attraction. Because we're not

2:09

in our heads thinking of things to

2:11

say, we just get to fully take

2:13

them in. Number three: Don't be afraid

2:15

of the date interlude. Now, look is

2:17

nice when a guy has a plan

2:19

for a date and you don't necessarily

2:21

want to disrupt the plans that he's

2:23

got bought. If you happen to be

2:25

doing something when nearby is something you

2:28

wanna do, don't be afraid. To say it,

2:30

it can be playful. It can be spawn. It could

2:32

actually show. Confidence for you to states something

2:34

that you're interested in doing. It could be

2:36

a walk in the daytime. Were all of

2:38

a sudden you realize that you're really need

2:40

to a coffee shop you live in. You

2:43

say? okay whites? we have to get coffee

2:45

here. This place does amazing coffee. The great

2:47

thing for him is that this is a

2:49

pressure valve. Not only does he realize he's

2:51

not solely responsible for creating a great time

2:53

together, it also removes some of the guess

2:56

work of figuring out what you'd like to

2:58

do. Number for order the chocolate cake. I.

3:00

Always think of that moment at dinner where

3:02

the dessert menu comes up and if one's

3:05

really polite and is like the you want

3:07

to the zoo we get dessert. I love

3:09

when someone's just like. We.

3:11

Should share the chocolate cake shouldn't we?

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Because in that moment you know what

3:16

to do. So in. Whatever form

3:18

it takes on your date, say

3:20

yes to. The metaphorical chocolate cake it

3:22

will give him permission to let go and

3:25

have fun to number five differ the nightcap.

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Now I know the temptation when a date

3:29

is going well is to drag it out

3:31

as long as possible because you're enjoying being

3:34

with that person. but that's not always productive.

3:36

Think the best constant you've ever been to

3:38

a probably didn't end to I am when

3:40

you're getting tired. it ended on a high

3:43

and we want our dates to do the

3:45

same. So when someone says you asked, you've

3:47

already had a great time. How you want

3:49

to get like one more. Drink over here

3:52

so be afraid to be like. You know

3:54

what is? Eleven o'clock Skyn a little light. I'm

3:56

gonna get to bed but. We. Should do

3:58

something tomorrow. Will sometime this week. What I

4:00

like about deferring the nightcap is

4:02

it almost gives you a license

4:04

to see the person sooner. I'd

4:07

rather cut this date a little short on

4:09

a first date and see them tomorrow than

4:11

have a really long protracted date now and

4:13

not see someone or feel like I'm not

4:16

entitled to ask them to see them for

4:18

five more days. So there it is, five

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things you can do to be memorable on

4:22

a first date. Before

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