In this episode Nate and Sam discuss what they were like in high school and what they would have done differently if they were to go back and do it again. If you're in high school and need a question answered email us at lovetheprocessdating@gm

Why Dinner and a Movie Sucks - Brainstorming Great First Date Ideas

May 19th, 2020 16m 22s

In this episode, Sam and Nate discuss their go-to first date ideas and why it's a bad idea to meet up for dinner and a movie. We discuss meeting up for ice cream, watching movies at a drive-in or driving around LA to see famous film locations.

Why You Should Set Realistic Expectations

May 12th, 2020 23m 37s

In this episode, Nate, Alec and Sam discuss the importance of maintaining realistic expectations with regards to your dating life and why unrealistic expectations can turn you angry and bitter. Also, we make fun of Nate for destroying an eyebro

What is Awkwardness

May 6th, 2020 28m

In this episode Nate, Sam and Alec talk about awkwardness. What it is, where does it stem from, and what you can do to prevent it. Most importantly, however, is our discussion on why awkward moments are NOT a big deal and how you can actually u

Why Is She Not Messaging Back?

Apr 29th, 2020 11m 29s

In this episode, Sam, Nate and Alec discuss the reasons why a girl might not be texting you back. We discuss how different women take apps like tinder not as seriously as others, how some women have tons of guys texting them constantly, and the

One Thing We Did To Improve Our Dating Life

Apr 23rd, 2020 25m 35s

In this episode, Nate, Sam and Alec discuss one thing they each did to improve their dating life in their late teens/early 20's. We talk about growing more confident, not portraying a fake version of ourselves, and Nate shares another embarrass

Female Perspective - Interview with Lisa

Apr 18th, 2020 35m 24s

In this episode Sam and Nate sit down with LA based writer Lisa Tuholski to discuss online dating from a woman's perspective. Lisa shares her horror stories, her triumphs, and everything in between. We talk about what to do to make a profile th

When To Go For The Kiss

Apr 13th, 2020 31m 30s

In this episode, Alec, Nate and Sam discuss when the right moment to lean in for a kiss is. Nate shares an awesome horror story, Alec discusses his technique to get a woman to kiss him, and Sam struggles to get Alec to do a proper outro.

Being A Bad@$$ This Apocalypse - What To Do During Quarantine

Apr 8th, 2020 13m 16s

In this episode Nate, Alec and Sam explore what listeners can do during the Covid - 19 quarantine to stay productive.Links to mentioned books:Nate's dad's bookRyan HolidayRobert GreenMark Manson (great dating book)Steven PressfieldLoving What I

How To Survive The Apocalypse - Dating In Quarantine

Apr 4th, 2020 29m 45s

In this episode, Sam, Alec and Nate discuss the effect of the Covid-19 quarantine on dating. We talk about using dating apps, doing video chat dates, and how to best go "full throttle" during this extended "vacation" time.

Quarantine Self Reflection - Why Am I Obsessed With Women Liking Me?

Mar 29th, 2020 32m 22s

In this episode Sam dives deep into some of his personal issues while Nate and Alec help him explore his feelings on a deeper level. We discuss feelings of inadequacy, striving for unrealistic goals, and the struggle between the rational and em

Queer Eye For The Love The Process Guy - Interview with Ben Friend

Mar 24th, 2020 16m 49s

Sam sits down with Ben Friend, a fitness buff and studio manager for a hip gym in LA who also happens to be a gay man. In this episode Ben gives us the low down on what women talk about when straight guys aren't around. Ben's role as the "gay b

Interviews With Experts - I Have A Terrible Diet, What Can I Do About It?

Mar 19th, 2020 20m 53s

In this episode Sam sits down with his friend Natalie Colla to talk about transform your diet to becoming healthier. What foods to avoid, what food to buy, what a calorie even is, all of your questions and more will be answered in todays episod

Core Philosophy - Actually Giving A Sh*t

Mar 14th, 2020 28m 8s

In this episode, Alec and Sam dive into on of the core philosophies of the show: actually giving a sh*t about others. We talk about why we believe this, and what it actually looks like in action by comparing two hypothetical guys on a date.

Incels - Introduction

Mar 9th, 2020 31m 25s

In this episode Sam, Nate and Alec dive into the "incel" phenomenon. Who are they, what do they believe, and what they still need to learn about them.

Introduction

Mar 4th, 2020 20m 7s

In this episode your hosts Sam Balas, Nate Pate, and Alec Heinrich introduce themselves and discuss their prior dating history. We also talk about our plans for the show and what we hope to cover, along with what some of our core philosophies a

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