Think of it like this … don’t be the mother fucker who comes to the “potluck” empty handed but trying to leave with the most plates. It’s a potluck… it’s much more enjoyable when everybody contributes and adds to the mix instead of just taking from it. You don’t wanna be the “hostess with the mostest” and invest all your time, energy, money, resources into cooking for everybody and they all show up to eat and then leave! No appreciation for the things you do! You shouldn’t just give it away out of the kindness of your heart, not everybody deserves that PRIVILEGE! It’s a privilege to know such a generous soul. Know your worth/value. Don’t let wolves take advantage of that.