Be a "good girl." What does this even mean? We understand how it can be an automatic phrase used when parenting. It is a seemingly simple phrase that kids can understand. But good and bad, boy and girl, black and white are not simplistic opposites. They are very nuanced and complex terms.

In Spanish there is no phrase that is used in parenting that is the exact translation of "be a good girl." We say "portate bien," which translates to "behave well."

• Do you find yourself using the phrase "be a good girl," with your daughter?
• What are you really trying to say when you use this phrase?
• Is this something your mother said to you?

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