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180// Blaming The Body - One of the Metaphysical Reasons We Hold Onto Weight

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180// Blaming The Body - One of the Metaphysical Reasons We Hold Onto Weight

180// Blaming The Body - One of the Metaphysical Reasons We Hold Onto Weight

180// Blaming The Body - One of the Metaphysical Reasons We Hold Onto Weight

180// Blaming The Body - One of the Metaphysical Reasons We Hold Onto Weight

Tuesday, 26th March 2024
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0:00

Welcome to the Manifesting Doll Podcast. I'm Barbara Orban from No Diet Babe.

0:05

I'm a spiritual mindset coach and weight loss expert.

0:09

If you are a spiritual babe wanting to up-level your life around your body,

0:15

health, wellness, spirituality, law of attraction and manifestation,

0:21

then this is the podcast for you.

0:23

I'm here to give you the tools, teachings and strategies to manifest the body

0:29

and life of your dreams As spiritual babes,

0:33

we know to focus on love as opposed to fear So get ready to learn how to implement

0:38

spiritual teachings to weight loss,

0:41

wellness and your daily life coming from a place of love and abundance This

0:47

is a celebration of how we can

0:49

shift our inner perception of ourselves and watch our outer selves shift.

0:53

You can become the best version of yourself and I'm here to help.

0:58

Hey babes, welcome to the Manifesting Doll podcast.

1:02

I'm Barbara Orban from NoDietBabe.com and I'm coming to you today to give you

1:08

some words of encouragement and I just want to say that there is absolutely

1:13

nothing wrong with your body. When we struggle with our weight and I know So when I used to struggle with

1:20

my weight, I was really quick to place the blame and resentment and frustration onto my body.

1:27

Now, at first, this actually wasn't that obvious, though.

1:32

I was dieting and I was really stuck in that cycle of I need to lose weight

1:38

and then I'll feel better. I'll feel better when I lose weight. Once I lose weight, I will feel better.

1:44

But in the meantime, I'm going to be frustrated. frustrated

1:47

and that frustration leads to the

1:49

thoughts of how am I going to solve this problem oh

1:52

that's right I'm going to go on a diet and I want you

1:55

to see that that's actually the cycle that chronic dieters are in and that's

2:01

what I want to help you come out of because I was really on the surface level

2:06

it took me a bit of time to realize how much energetic blocks I had with my

2:12

And part of that was the blame,

2:14

resentment and the frustration I placed onto my body.

2:18

And these energies can be very subtle.

2:21

They might not be noticeable to you until you begin to do the work.

2:26

So it's such a heavy burden when you say, I just feel so heavy, I want to lose weight.

2:33

What you need to understand is those heavy feelings actually come before the

2:39

weight and emotions themselves can feel heavy.

2:44

And so the emotions of blame, resentment, shame, frustration,

2:50

feelings of discomfort in your body. So when you feel fat, fat is not really a feeling.

2:57

It's actually fat is when you say I feel fat, you're actually saying I feel

3:02

uncomfortable in my body. And that feeling of discomfort in your body came before your weight issue.

3:09

Your weight issue is actually a manifestation of these emotions.

3:14

And so it's totally fine. I just want you to, first of all, just go, it's totally fine.

3:20

I've been there. I was frustrated. I was disappointed and I was actually angry

3:25

when I started doing this work and I came home from work one day and I tuned

3:32

into the emotion and I was like, I'm really angry.

3:35

I'm really angry about my weight struggles.

3:38

And I'd be snappy towards people that I lived with and I just didn't understand why.

3:45

And it was because I just hated the feeling that I had in my body.

3:49

I hated the relationship I had with food. I hated all of it.

3:53

And I just didn't realize how disconnected I was.

3:56

And I viewed my body as my enemy. Honestly, like not on a conscious level,

4:02

but subconsciously, I felt as though I couldn't trust my body. And that's a huge thing.

4:08

When people rely on dieting, what that tells me is that they're not trusting themselves.

4:14

They're not trusting their body. And it erodes the connection with your body.

4:18

It erodes the connection with yourself. And it's how do you expect to have...

4:24

A connection to your own intuition in regards to how to maintain your weight then, right?

4:30

And this is my intention is that I want you to be able to transmute this doubt

4:37

into this strong intuition and trusting your judgments.

4:42

I want you to transmute feeling powerless to feeling empowered.

4:47

I want you to trust in the signals of your body because when you are disconnected,

4:53

you lose that ability to feel your body's signals.

4:58

And what happens is we start to make decisions from our mind and your body has

5:04

so much intelligence and wisdom,

5:07

but our conditioning and the way society sees weight loss causes causes us to

5:14

diminish that connection to the hunger and fullness signals and this body wisdom.

5:21

And that's what I have designed my courses to help you reconnect to this body

5:27

wisdom, because this erosion of trust,

5:31

like it actually extends way beyond just your relationship with your body.

5:36

It also impacts your trust with others because everything is a mirror of what's

5:41

going on within us because everything's a mirror of our, the universe is just

5:48

mirroring our beliefs, okay,

5:50

our inner thoughts and belief systems, and every relationship is a mirror.

5:55

And so if we don't have that full trust with our body, it can also impact our trust in others.

6:03

And maybe specifically it's manifesting through you becoming really confused

6:08

about support or advice being offered by others to do with your weight, you might feel,

6:15

perhaps you feel judged or misunderstood by others.

6:19

Perhaps you just feel like, because

6:23

weight issues usually relate to around fear of being seen and worrying about

6:30

what other people think of you and like constantly worrying that people are

6:35

judging you and just a feeling of deep, deep loneliness even sometimes.

6:41

I know that's what it was for me and there's many layers to that.

6:44

But it can just, when you don't address the core emotions and you just continue

6:51

to ignore that and instead diet,

6:54

you just can further isolate yourself into this struggle. And I don't want that for you.

7:00

Because ultimately, Ultimately, blaming your body and not addressing these emotions

7:06

for your weight struggles creates a cycle of negativity and self-doubt that

7:10

can be difficult to break. For a lot of people, they are very deep, deep, deep into this conditioning and the longer you leave it.

7:21

The harder it is to break and also you just want to have a quality of life.

7:27

I'm so grateful that I did this work when I did and now I'm free.

7:32

I'm so free. I have so much freedom now to do other things and not have to worry

7:37

about my weight or dieting.

7:39

So that's what I want for you because at the end of the day,

7:43

the work is about coming out out of, like I said, this cycle of negativity and

7:49

self-doubt that surrounds the weight struggles.

7:53

And I want you to work towards cultivating more self-compassion,

7:57

understanding, and trust in yourself, but most importantly, trust in your body's inherent wisdom.

8:04

Because that's truly, when you're connected to that, weight loss feels so much

8:09

more natural and easy, and it's just a no-brainer that you're going to maintain it.

8:14

Because when you diet, I've said this before in other episodes,

8:19

dieting to me felt like a slingshot that I'm pulling back and I'm holding it back.

8:26

And there's some days where I can't hold it and I just have to let go.

8:31

And a lot of people have this narrative of what if one day you just let go around food?

8:37

And people have said that to to me before, what if one day you let go?

8:42

And I say, well, that would imply that I'm holding back, but energetically,

8:48

I'm not holding anything back. And therefore, there's never going to be a situation where I let go.

8:55

And that's really the key is that you've been trying to lose weight from an energy of holding back.

9:01

And you're always then going to have that back and forth swinging because energy has to...

9:09

It can't be lost. And so it's going to have that effect of swinging back because

9:14

you just can't sustain that energy. So you want to create, I want you to create a sustainable energy and I show you a different way.

9:22

And so that's why I maintain my weight easily because I understand the frequency,

9:28

I understand the energy, I understand that holding back only leads to letting go.

9:34

So we want to to change that paradigm altogether.

9:37

So that's what I teach you how to do that, because it's not just enough to say,

9:43

okay, Barbara said, I've got to not hold myself back.

9:48

It's you've got to understand that these dynamics and these paradigms have sets

9:55

of belief systems, sets of thoughts that I teach you in my course Academy and Emerge.

10:01

So we're going to help you shift through the the main emotions that cause weight issues.

10:07

These courses cover specific things like deprivation and lack of trust in the

10:13

body, feelings of shame and discomfort.

10:15

These create energetic blockages within us that cause our body to hold on to excess weight.

10:22

So these are some of the emotions that we work through in the courses.

10:28

So I want to help you do that because you really need to have Have that trust

10:32

in the body if you want a solid foundation to keep the weight off.

10:38

Remember, my programs and my courses and my coaching are not just about weight loss.

10:44

What's really important to understand is that the most important part of this

10:50

work is that you keep the weight off and you eliminate the need to diet because the dieting,

10:58

the The constant chronic dieting cycle is exhausting,

11:02

and I don't want that for anyone.

11:04

On a subconscious level, subliminally, what people don't usually notice is that

11:10

dieting rules create anxiety with food.

11:13

And this anxiety with food can cause symptoms in the body other than weight gain.

11:19

They can also cause IBS and other autoimmune conditions. conditions,

11:24

if we're looking at, you know, the work of Joe Dispenza and Dr. Bruce Lipton.

11:30

This is really telling us that the cells of your body are listening to the thoughts

11:35

and the thoughts emanate a frequency that affect the cells in your body, okay?

11:41

So that's why we've got to change these thoughts, change these emotions so that

11:47

you can manifest your highest level body, which is what I've done and it's so wonderful.

11:53

Powerful so really what what we need

11:56

to understand is that when we blame our bodies

11:59

for our struggles or we have a focus

12:02

of believing that in order to shed

12:05

the weight we have to have lack and deprivation and this

12:08

will happen subconsciously when you're a chronic dieter we send signals of unworthiness

12:14

and lack to the universe and the energetic vibration will it will it is law

12:20

it It is vibrational law that the vibration will attract more of the same.

12:27

And this is why people take so much action towards dieting, yet they perpetuate

12:32

the cycle of the weight retention and the emotional distress.

12:39

So what you're saying is, when I lose weight, I'll be happy.

12:42

And I'm saying, well, how do you feel now about your weight?

12:48

Do you feel happy about your weight now? and you might

12:51

say well no I'm frustrated I'm like

12:54

okay so now you're manifesting more situations

12:57

to be frustrated about your weight and so that's why I want to help you break

13:01

that cycle by teaching you how to shift these emotions in my course Emerge and

13:08

Academy and also with this bundle that I've put on sale I actually have included

13:14

my three-day course Manifest Weight weight loss as well,

13:17

because I just really deeply want you to get this transformation underway.

13:22

And I've also included my 13 most common weight loss blocks.

13:27

I've discovered the 13 most common weight loss blocks and I've created audios for them.

13:33

So I've included subliminal audios and I've included really meticulously planned

13:39

out affirmations where they include a prayer to the universe.

13:43

And we're not just spiritually bypassing here.

13:46

These affirmations are really in-depth and they're very much focused on kind

13:52

of similar to tapping, but in the form of an affirmation because tapping's great,

13:58

but sometimes I don't have time to go through that.

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But I like when tapping takes you through feeling the emotion first and then

14:07

through to the affirmation.

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So the affirmation and prayer meditation has that kind of a vibe to it,

14:15

which is why I love them so much. They're so transformational. So...

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I really want you to get started on this work. So that's why I've put everything on sale for you.

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So I really want you to get in there and start doing this work because it's

14:30

not enough to just listen to the podcast.

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I really want you to actually get into the how.

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Okay, because in the podcast, I really just teach you, I'm really just telling

14:40

you why to do this work, but in the courses, I teach you how to do the work.

14:45

Okay, so like I said, the energetic vibration will just attract more of the same.

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So when you ask yourself, how do I feel about my body now?

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How you feel on a subconscious level is what you're still manifesting.

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So that's going to be what we're changing in these beautiful self-study courses.

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So similarly, when we lack trust in our body's innate wisdom,

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we are disconnected from that intuitive guidance, okay?

15:16

And we know that when it comes to manifesting our highest outcome,

15:21

we've got to be connected to our intuition so that our bodies kind of guide the way and tell us.

15:27

And that's really what made the difference with me losing 30 pounds once and

15:31

for all is I didn't abandon my body to get there.

15:35

I didn't leave my body behind and say, I'm putting my trust in the diet and

15:40

not listening to my body. I really built that strong connection that still serves

15:46

me to this day, 10 years later.

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Because this distrust can also lead to overeating. It can lead to undereating.

15:56

And all these issues can cause issues, further health issues,

16:00

and it can cause metabolism issues.

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And it just further exacerbates the struggle with the weight.

16:06

Okay so feelings of shame and

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discomfort in your body create an energetic stagnation

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which prevent you from really moving

16:16

forward in this weight issue okay so that's why I really want to help you with

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this because what I see is every single person who comes to me is viewing their

16:27

bodies subconsciously through the lens of judgment and criticism and blame like

16:32

my like I don't like my my body.

16:36

I just want to change my body. And it's really just this thing of when we don't

16:41

love our bodies, it's like, well, your body's the vessel that you're in.

16:46

This meat suit is something you want to really love, not judge and criticize

16:50

it and not make it conditional.

16:53

I'll love you when you lose weight, that type of thing. Okay.

16:56

The beautiful truth is we have the power. We have the power to release the emotional

17:02

burdens and reclaim our vitality.

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Okay, that's what I want you to do. So through my bundle, which has my courses Academy,

17:14

Emerge, my three-day manifest weight loss, I offer the tools and the practices

17:19

to help you shift these emotions, releasing the weight that no longer serves you.

17:24

And like I said, you also get my Believe You Can Release the Weight Affirmations

17:29

and Subliminal Audios, which has tons of so much.

17:34

This bundle has so much reprogramming content.

17:40

I have bonuses in the Academy with extra resources you can turn to.

17:46

I've got meditations you can do. I've got the Affirmations Subliminal Audio

17:52

Package. like subconscious reprogramming happens through verbal repetition.

17:57

And that's why I've created so much content here for you, because I want you

18:03

to be able to keep doing that verbal repetition.

18:06

That's what I want for you. Because it's really through this mindful awareness

18:10

combined with self-compassion and the eating psychology work that I provide

18:16

in these courses that we can and release these feelings of discomfort, shame.

18:21

Deprivation, and blame, and learn to cultivate and embody the emotions that

18:31

lead to manifesting weight loss. Like I said in other episodes, if you know that scarcity leads to scarcity of

18:40

money and abundance leads to abundance of money, with weight issue,

18:44

it's really deprivation and shame lead to weight issues.

18:48

And there's emotions that I teach you to cultivate in Emerge that are a vibrational

18:53

match to your ideal weight. Okay. So we really want to build that trust in your body's innate wisdom.

19:02

We want to release the shame and discomfort in the body.

19:06

We want to do all of that. So I'm going to help you do that through my self-study courses.

19:12

I really want you to know that this transformation is totally possible for you, okay?

19:21

But you've got to commit to this. Are you ready to commit? Are you ready to do the work?

19:26

Get started with my self-study bundle to release the weight of emotional baggage

19:31

so you can emerge lighter, freer, and more radiant than ever before. So.

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This, like I said, this is a life-changing bundle. It's designed to guide you

19:43

on a profound journey towards weight release and inner transformation.

19:47

It includes subliminal affirmation audio tracks.

19:51

Like I said, they're meticulously crafted to address the common subconscious

19:56

weight loss blocks that keep us tethered to old patterns and beliefs.

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So they're just so, so wonderful.

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You're going to love them. So I can't wait for you to get started.

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It, if you want to head on over to nodypebabe.com slash bundle,

20:13

and the link will be in the show notes, it's only on sale for a limited time at full price.

20:19

This life-changing bundle, each course individually, when you purchase them

20:25

separately, you'll pay $2,800.

20:29

But for literally just a day or a few days, I'm offering all of this.

20:36

Like I said, purchase these courses separately, you'll pay $2,800.

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You can literally pay $444 and get started and start transforming on just complete

20:50

thought, belief, emotion, vibrational levels.

20:54

Like I said, weight manifestation is is really going, okay, I feel uncomfortable in my body.

21:03

So this feeling is going to create more circumstances that I attract into my

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life that create more ways in which I will feel uncomfortable in my body.

21:14

And you can't out, you can't outdo frequency with action.

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Okay. You can't outdo frequency with action, which I talked about in the last episode.

21:25

There's not enough action in in the world that can make up for misaligned energy.

21:30

You will not keep the weight off if you continue to harbor somatically and in

21:37

your subconscious these feelings of shame with your body, body image issues.

21:44

Distrust for your body.

21:46

If you continue to harbor this anxiety with food and the struggle and I feel

21:53

stuck and there's limiting beliefs and everything.

21:56

Of course, there are some people who maintain confidence.

21:59

A great weight, but they're dieting and they're miserable.

22:04

I've coached many of them that you would say, wow, she looks amazing.

22:08

But deep inside, they are miserable. They are struggling.

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They rely so much upon having to eat perfectly to maintain their weight and

22:16

they stress and their weight fluctuates and it's horrible.

22:19

And I don't want you to live like that. I really don't.

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So So I really want you to take advantage of this limited time sale because

22:29

remember, we're not going to change unless we do the work, unless we do the

22:34

deep inner work, and unless we invest in ourselves.

22:38

We have to invest in ourselves to get that transformation. So also while we're

22:43

here, I just want to extend an invitation to private coaching.

22:48

Private coaching is such a wonderful experience with me.

22:51

I've coached celebrity coaches I've

22:54

coached manifestation coaches and I even

22:57

have the author of the secret

23:00

movie and the secret books she's following

23:04

me and why is this because I'm a thought leader in

23:07

weight loss manifestation and so this is a unique opportunity to still get one

23:12

one-on-one time with me and such an amazing opportunity to actually get time

23:18

in close proximity to me at a price point that that's just not going to be available.

23:26

In the future. And it's currently on sale for this week only.

23:31

So reach out to me if you want to work with me privately.

23:36

So you have weekly sessions with me and Voxer support, and it's a very close

23:42

knit container. You'll feel very, very supported.

23:45

I get testimonials constantly from my private clients.

23:49

I literally have them reach out years later, still telling me how much that coaching package,

23:57

which they've invested, you know, $8,888 in me or $4,444 with me.

24:08

Some have invested $12,000 and some have invested $20,000 and some have invested $5,000.

24:16

There's different people have invested in different capacities,

24:20

but they're all been coming back to me saying, that's the best money I've ever spent.

24:25

This is the best investment. You've completely changed my life.

24:28

I have people coming back two years later, three years later,

24:33

they've lost the weight. They're keeping the weight off.

24:35

They're living so free from the shackles of dieting.

24:39

This is such a powerful container because I really intend that my my clients, I manifest this.

24:46

I manifest that my clients benefiting for years to come.

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And that's why it's such an amazing opportunity to work with me.

24:55

And so yeah, reach out to me on Instagram at NoDietBabe.

25:01

Send me a DM if you're ready. I have limited spots.

25:05

And like I said, for the rest of this year, there's only a few spots left.

25:10

So yeah, really hurry and sign up if you've been thinking about private coaching

25:16

to help you with your emotions and beliefs and.

25:22

Shifting your frequency around your weight to manifest permanent weight loss

25:26

and let go of dieting for good because we don't want that shit.

25:31

We don't want to be dieting for the rest of our lives.

25:33

Imagine being in your 90s and trying to put something into MyFitnessPal. Are you serious?

25:40

I haven't used MyFitnessPal for years.

25:43

I don't even look at calories in food.

25:47

I don't even know. Yes, I had an awareness at some point and it was aligned

25:52

for me to know that, but it was a completely different frequency to what most people carry.

25:56

And honestly, today, for the last 10 years, it's just been, what do I feel like eating?

26:05

What's going to nourish me? And most of the time, yeah, I end up craving.

26:10

I'm like, oh, I'd love some veggies, all this and that.

26:13

Occasionally, yes, of course, I'm going to crave ice cream and chocolate.

26:16

But so easy to portion control.

26:18

And some people will be like, oh my God, that's crazy. I could never do that. Yeah, cool.

26:23

Neither could I. My mom was telling me the other day how she knew that I was

26:28

hiding food packets underneath the bed. She knew that. She said, you know, I saw them. I saw all the food packets.

26:34

I saw the Krispy Kreme dozen donut boxes.

26:38

I saw all the chocolate packets. it's like you weren't it wasn't you weren't

26:42

hiding them from me but I had so much shame,

26:46

and I would steal my housemates food I would

26:48

I would just feel so out of control with my eating I couldn't have any type

26:53

of food in the house because I would just eat it I had no self-control and now

26:57

I can have anything in the house and feel complete self-control I have more

27:01

self-control than Robbie Robbie ends up eating all the chocolate in the house

27:05

and I'm like why you do do that. You're eating all my stuff. Save it for me.

27:11

So yeah, you can literally just completely transform your life.

27:17

And honestly, it's not just me. Tria, one of my clients who's lost 12 pounds so far, she said to me,

27:24

oh my God, I remember thinking you were crazy because I just did not think I

27:27

could portion control and now I'm actually doing it and it's amazing.

27:32

So it's not just me, It's honestly my clients.

27:36

I have so many client testimonials now, so many happy clients that have lost weight.

27:42

But not only that, they're just feeling at home in their bodies.

27:46

They're no longer relying on dieting to maintain their weight. Imagine that.

27:51

So I'd love for you to join my world. Come join me.

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Go to nodietbabe.com slash bundle or go to Instagram at nodietbabe. Send me a DM.

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Like, let's get started. Let's do this shit. it. I'm so on board with helping

28:06

you. You're going to feel so wonderfully supported.

28:08

I can't wait to work with you. Okay. I will see you in the next episode. You guys love you. Bye.

28:16

Thank you so much for tuning in today. If you loved this episode,

28:21

I'd love for you to leave me an iTunes review.

28:25

Don't forget to follow this podcast for more uplifting teachings to come.

28:30

For more tips, inspiration and teachings, come follow me on Instagram at NoDietBabe

28:37

or check out my website, NoDietBabe.com.

28:41

Until I see you next time, babes, lots of love. you.

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