n this solo episode, Mariette Frey discusses the concept of false confidence and its impact on decision-making, particularly in the context of moving. She shares her personal experiences of moving multiple times and highlights the importance of considering finances, mental and physical strength, and the alignment with one's dreams when making a move. Mariette introduces the FRED framework, which stands for finances, robustness, ecosystem, and dreams, as a tool for making more informed and mindful decisions. She emphasizes the need for a support system and encourages listeners to embrace their feelings and seek perspective from others. The episode concludes with a message of gratitude and support for the audience.Takeaways

False confidence can lead to overestimating one's abilities and underestimating the challenges of moving.

Consider finances, mental and physical strength, and alignment with dreams when making a move.

The FRED framework (finances, robustness, ecosystem, and dreams) can help in making more informed decisions.

Building a strong support system and embracing feelings can contribute to a more successful and fulfilling move.

Chapters00:00Introduction and False Confidence03:08The Impact of Moving and Comparison05:25Personal Experience with Moving06:51The FRED Framework09:33Moving and Dreams10:29The Importance of a Support System13:16Overconfidence and Moving Decisions14:11Regretting Moves and Lack of Joy20:07Escrow and Insurance Costs22:58Addressing Spending Habits26:08Embracing Feelings and Writing Them Down29:04Building a Strong Foundation30:27Finding Support and Overcoming Shame33:41Conclusion and GratitudeLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices