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Do you want to

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know a secret? secret! Do you

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with your spouse. A secret that

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come on, you must be the

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smallest bit curious. Shh.

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of sorts. This secret fulfills

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Marriages Sexiest Secret.

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Welcome to Marriages Sexy Secret

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Isn't that a song? LK.

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Yes, it is.

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I thought you'd be

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talking about Welcome to the

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Okay, voyeurs

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you Cheshire cats. Here is your

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2022. A New Year is always

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encompassed by setting new

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marital resolutions, things like

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having sex with the lights on.

2:55

intimacy, a better bedroom

2:55

perspective and getting rid of

3:03

Let's talk subMrs. Our January

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theme is putting the best foot

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Why? Because this month is

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international fetish month. And

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bastinado would be a great

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topic, foot torture. This act is

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On subMrs we always mix pleasure

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with pain. So we'll explore foot

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This is the year to become that

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tiger or tigress, Start with

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Not the lights on

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Yes with the

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lights on. Did you know Mr. Fox

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self image and a better image of

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your partner?

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Absolutely.

4:03

A new

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illumination happens you will

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Instead of the rose colored

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glasses we're going to talk

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everyone. 2022 is the year of

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the tiger. Let's get started.

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The Tiger symbolizes

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willpower, courage and personal

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married couple. It takes

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willpower to continue to work on

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other areas get difficult or

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becomes more challenging. Wives,

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you to lead in the relationship

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and to lead your family. Both of

4:55

every couple. It takes personal

4:55

strength to be relentless in

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People born in the Year of the

5:03

Tiger are vigorous and

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sense of justice and commitment

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to help other people for the

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into us, especially into our

5:20

marriage, and it's intimacy.

5:30

D/s-M and find the courage to

5:30

take that journey with their

5:38

are born into the year of the

5:38

tiger.

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Let's cover

5:41

these Tiger characteristics and

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ambitious, enthusiastic,

5:47

generous, self confident, a

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good. We start with vigorous, vigorous

5:56

couples seem to begin this

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relationship. This creates an

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excitement and fortifies a

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lively flourishing D/s-M

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marriage can either maintain or

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marriage. Let's get ambitious. Let's talk

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about being ambitious, having

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by pursuing and growing in your

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dynamic and your roles, you are

6:37

Enthusiastic, having or showing

6:37

an intense high energy or

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in the waters great, go 100% in

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and fulfill both your needs, get

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Let's go into the generous

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aspect. Being generous is

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time than is strictly necessary

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or expected. By both of you

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of your heart more of your mind

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and more of your soul.

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And I would say to LK,

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that probably the most valuable

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our society, we're so focused on

7:21

money, but it's really the time

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the relationship and into your

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spouse and your partner? Yes.

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don't have time for this?

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Yes, like

7:34

being generous means that you

7:40

of everybody. I talked to many

7:40

women that say Oh, but our

7:47

first start D/s-M and look at

7:47

those plates, and find those

7:54

that plate a little bit with

7:54

your D/s-M.

7:58

And I really do think

7:58

too, that most of us like we may

8:03

packed from beginning to end.

8:03

But there is time in there.

8:10

fulfilling or pushing us toward

8:10

our goals or fulfilling our

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Yes, it's an

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investment. It's the number one

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So use your time more

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wisely. So what I would say,

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most important, I would think so

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it requires your time.

8:30

And who would you want to give

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to more than your partner?

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Nobody? Because they give back?

8:36

Yes...

8:36

It's really annoying

8:36

when you use the word

8:41

return on your investment.

8:43

Dividends are gold. Yeah.

8:46

Let's move on to self

8:46

confidence. Okay, so when we're

8:52

qualities and judgment. You both

8:52

will find a new self to build on

8:59

marriage and its intimacy as you

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practice D/s-M.

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Isn't that crazy? Yes.

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It's totally true, though. The

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All those

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great foundational things that

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Yeah, the trusts

9:17

communication. Those things give

9:23

thinking, what their

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expectations are. You don't

9:30

mind.

9:30

Yes, you clean

9:30

the slate. That's one of the

9:35

you start building. And it will

9:35

give you both a new self

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And I would say for

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myself LK it's a confidence that

9:49

Right Because instead I'm always in my

9:50

mind wondering well, is she

9:54

It clears the

9:54

would have should have could

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Justice and commitment

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to help others for the greater

10:07

be commit to helping your

10:07

partner become the very best

10:15

best version of themselves

10:15

through your eyes, rather the

10:22

also be an enlightening part of

10:22

your journey. Imagine how much

10:29

way that they see themselves.

10:29

Another way to do this would be

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community. Join our teams to

10:37

help others in their journey

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overstated. All too often people will become

10:46

paralyzed by staying in the

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They always feel that if they

10:53

only knew a little bit more than

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everybody in their comfort zone.

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The real growth happens when you

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conversations. When you begin to

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analyze and have critical

11:14

by participating. It's time to

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level up. Let's all participate.

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You know it is

11:21

that time that time for New

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to your list? For example, you

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might say this year, I'll spice

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with my spouse. This year, I'll

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spend more sexy time with my

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Yeah

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This year, I

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will become the tiger or tigress

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some people say. When couples

11:51

first come to our communities,

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it's time to be shameless. To

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get rid of any feelings of shame

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everyone, even you, can be a

12:10

sexual and sensual being. A

12:21

and start out this year of the

12:21

tiger with turning the lights on

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ready to purr.

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Alright, LK, moving on

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what makes couples turn off the

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confidence is probably the most

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common reason among couples.

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Absolutely.

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It is your mind or your

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body that is making things dim.

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are two major things I should

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say. Probably is body

13:10

Yes, that's

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probably the number one.

13:12

Right?

13:13

You fight it

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now, you'll fight it forever.

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Roar. It's no secret

13:18

that many women and yes, men

13:25

problem. They don't like the way

13:25

that they look especially naked.

13:32

body? Even in front of your

13:32

spouse? Honestly, is there any

13:40

The second reason or the next

13:40

reason is the mind the lack of

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maybe you've never had sex with

13:48

the lights on before and you

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like. You're just shy about the whole thing.

13:56

Yeah, thinking

13:56

to yourself, what your body

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Right

14:04

Or you think

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it's dirty? You think what

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Maybe it's just an

14:07

you're uncomfortable with the

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These are

14:12

very, very common hangups I hear

14:17

Yeah, so maybe it's not

14:17

even that your body isn't what

14:23

makes you uncomfortable.

14:24

Yes. So either

14:24

it's your mind or your body

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on or you will work on as you

14:31

work in this type of dynamic.

14:36

You know, when you just

14:36

get into marriages, LK, things

14:41

marriages, like there are

14:41

married couples that have never

14:46

Yes, there are

14:46

people that have five and six

14:53

the first child is born.

14:55

Right or even before.

14:56

That's why

14:56

we're doing this podcast because

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they start this dynamic.

15:03

It seems so foreign to

15:03

me, right? Like I have

15:09

Yes, but you

15:09

don't start there. You start

15:13

Your absolutely right.

15:14

Or you're just

15:14

not confident, you know, age

15:20

But you've got to start

15:20

somewhere.

15:23

Right. And that was

15:23

that second example, the whole

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Yeah

15:28

If we really want to

15:28

excel if we want to have.

15:30

Yes. And it

15:30

comes easily. I know right. Now,

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never, I don't, I don't think I

15:36

could do this. Honestly, once

15:43

coming to you naturally, it's

15:43

very organic. So you may shake

15:52

you do this dynamic.

15:53

And it really should

15:53

with your partner. I mean, it's

15:58

naked, right, but with your

15:58

partner in your intimacy, in the

16:06

and comfortable.

16:06

It never needs

16:06

to go out of your bedroom or

16:12

you take it.

16:13

Right. But almost to

16:13

find that level of intimacy,

16:19

keep talking about, but you

16:19

really have to have that I

16:22

And it comes

16:22

it come, We're gonna say we're

16:28

that's one of the things that

16:28

I'm gonna be adding to our

16:37

So know that hang ups are human.

16:37

You know, give yourself a pat on

16:43

Everybody has them or

16:43

had them or I would say even has

16:47

are, there's a hang up somewhere.

16:50

Don't let them

16:50

ruin what could be great. hang

16:57

limited beliefs. But there are

16:57

those things that we tell

17:05

young anymore. I'm not young

17:05

enough. Who would want this

17:18

you think to yourself, What am I

17:18

today sitting here? Think those

17:29

feel sexy, or young. Young

17:29

people are not the only ones who

17:36

or it's shown that you get

17:36

better as sex as you age. That's

17:43

Yeah, I second that.

17:43

And also too, it becomes about

17:51

learning how to please the other partner.

17:53

Yes. And

17:53

getting past the wrinkles or the

17:57

Hey, hey, I don't have any bulges.

18:00

Well I mean,

18:00

we all got a little bulges here

18:02

I do have a big bulge somewhere.

18:04

In the right

18:04

place. But we digress. But 2022

18:14

name. And then once you give

18:14

them that name, you break free

18:23

perspective, keyword Ding, ding,

18:23

ding, ding, ding. You're

18:31

beliefs.

18:32

Yeah, and that really

18:32

is like the key word right

18:38

Yes, we're

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gonna put on those Tiger striped

18:41

Love it. Love it. Okay.

18:41

That was our cat, actually.

18:49

Limiting beliefs moving on,

18:49

right, limiting beliefs, our

18:57

truth. They tend to have a

18:57

negative impact on one's life by

19:06

or professional level. These

19:06

limited beliefs could be about

19:15

its workings.

19:16

That's right.

19:16

So we talk about those limited

19:22

need to stop doing that. And I

19:22

have to tell you, this hang up

19:30

things. I mean, nobody's 100%,

19:30

right? But you're gonna have

19:38

we're going to talk about

19:38

perspective. So it's all about

19:45

around with a bad perspective

19:45

about everything, your day is

19:51

perspective about your marriage

19:51

and about yourself.

19:55

Okay, so it starts with a

19:55

perception of sex. Sex is not a

20:04

people, maybe more, but we're

20:04

gonna go to talk about two

20:10

monogamously committed to our

20:10

partners. Who else would you

20:17

with? Who better to do that

20:17

with?

20:21

Right? And I would say,

20:21

LK, when we're talking about

20:27

trying to think of a couple in

20:27

my mind that I hear people say

20:33

children. So I can't D/s-M

20:33

because there's small children

20:39

Yes. It's not

20:39

actually proven until you try.

20:43

Right? So like, maybe,

20:43

with young children in the

20:50

different, right? But

20:50

everybody's relationships

20:52

Yes. Or we

20:52

have to take care about elderly

20:57

about how are you going to fill

20:57

your plate?

21:00

Right. And that would

21:00

be a perfect limiting belief. So

21:05

that coach.

21:06

Right?

21:06

You almost need to

21:06

contact LK because she coaches

21:11

about those things. How true is

21:11

that limiting belief in your

21:14

Right? Right.

21:14

Like how full is your plate?

21:21

to one another?

21:22

Yeah.

21:23

Sex is fun.

21:23

And sex is not a sin. Who else

21:31

in ways you may have never

21:31

before? Your husband, of

21:37

many years into. A relationship

21:37

that has been built on a strong

21:46

you look like. We're all human

21:46

beings, husbands, wives partners

21:55

decided to attach yourself until

21:55

death do you part? Don't you

22:02

does.

22:03

I want a worn out body.

22:03

Yeah, not another breath to be

22:08

Yes, you've

22:08

invested your mind, body soul in

22:17

investment. You deserve to have

22:17

a magical, loving, hot, sexy,

22:28

So stop self loathing. That's

22:28

one of the other things I want

22:34

partner for what you are and

22:34

where you are in your life. So

22:41

I can't even look at myself. But

22:41

you've given your husband,

22:48

look at where you are in your

22:48

life.

22:51

Right? But also like

22:51

the guy, your husband, your

22:58

It's not how you see yourself.

22:58

It's how your partner sees you.

23:02

Yes, and

23:02

that's putting these Tiger

23:07

and we're not supermodels. So

23:07

let's quit comparing ourselves

23:13

perspective. If we have shame

23:13

over our bodies, and D/s-M gives

23:22

loathing. Both partners need to

23:22

get on the same frame of thought

23:32

the Eye of the Tiger like Rocky.

23:32

Set an intention to both find

23:41

thing about themselves. You got

23:41

a bumping hot ass, or you got

23:50

themselves.

23:51

I wasn't gonna say

23:51

anything. LK, but my breasts are

23:53

Yeah, you do have good brass.

23:55

Yeah, they're rockin.

23:56

But you have

23:56

to start somewhere, you got to

24:01

Think about the positives. Look

24:01

at what your relationship can

24:12

word need again, you will feel

24:12

the need for a better self. When

24:20

make time to maybe jump on the

24:20

treadmill. You know what, I'm

24:27

visually seeing ourselves and

24:27

your partner as a sexual being.

24:32

You are internally that same

24:32

sexy man or woman that you were

24:41

that inside sexy back out. Think

24:41

what could you do and take a

24:50

self improvement. Self

24:50

improvement starts in the mind

24:58

but I don't think we are

24:58

reminded enough, self care is

25:04

When you talk about some type of

25:04

self improvement. Have you ever

25:14

movement right now self care.

25:14

Taking control and self control

25:24

at somebody who's taking care of

25:24

themselves or trying to take

25:29

should be doing that. Self care

25:29

is not just about working out.

25:39

Trying to be a better YOU having

25:39

a better marriage. When people

25:47

building your relationship

25:47

skills. That's building your

25:55

we'll be jealous.

25:56

LK, some how during

25:56

these podcasts, you always get

26:00

downstairs for whatever reason,

26:00

sexual hotness is doing it for

26:06

Self serving self care.

26:10

You said something a

26:10

minute ago that like is so

26:15

was self improvement starts in

26:15

the mind and then moves into the

26:21

Yes,

26:22

Yeah. Because so many

26:22

people I think, want to look a

26:26

Right? And sex

26:26

begins in the mind and goes to

26:29

Right? But once you

26:29

embrace the feeling, and you're

26:36

materialize for you, right? Like

26:36

that, quote, self improvement

26:42

awesome.

26:43

Yeah, you have to have the want.

26:46

Yep, and be able to see

26:46

it that it's a reality in your

26:49

Yes.

26:49

To make it happen.

26:50

And then take

26:50

that I'm gonna go put my

26:54

have to ask yourself, what is

26:54

that first step? What can I do

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Speaking of

28:13

conversations, having sex with

28:19

actually enhance your control

28:19

during sex. Oftentimes, both men

28:29

actually enhance your control

28:29

during sex. What do you think of

28:34

It's obvious

28:34

but not so obvious.

28:36

Oftentimes, both men

28:36

and women can get caught up in

28:44

when we can't actually see

28:44

what's happening. Our minds will

28:51

don't put our best foot forward.

28:51

We're not very complimentary to

28:59

be more present in the moment

28:59

and take more decisive actions.

29:07

negative scenarios that do not

29:07

really even exist. We now have

29:14

in. The darkness is now

29:14

illuminated in our minds now

29:23

stimulation right? Women and men

29:23

are both stimulated during sex

29:32

out of our heads and more into

29:32

the moment. Many couples find

29:39

participation in their desires.

29:39

When it makes perfect sense.

29:47

catalogue of sexy stimulating

29:47

images to add to their database,

29:55

these images in our minds and

29:55

remind ourselves of the

30:01

Yes, I think

30:01

about there are certain scenes

30:08

forever.

30:10

It happens to me all

30:10

the time. And I think for guys,

30:15

were seeing all of this stuff.

30:15

And I think like for myself

30:24

carrying those thoughts with me,

30:24

right, like something might

30:30

home. And I'll be looking back

30:30

on that remembering our intimacy

30:38

our memories are coupled with

30:38

other senses, they're more

30:44

begin to fantasize and be turned

30:44

on by one another in the little

30:52

a new competition in the house.

30:54

That's right,

30:54

they always have the lights on

30:57

Well, you know what?

30:57

That's true. It'd be pretty

31:02

Even though

31:02

some of porn I wish it would be

31:08

drapes and the sofa and the

31:08

pimples on their butts.

31:11

You pull up some pretty

31:11

crazy stuff. Your Google account

31:17

Yes, if

31:17

something happens to me dump my

31:23

But already, the audio

31:23

and videos are so horrible,

31:29

room, it would be really

31:29

terrible.

31:31

Yeah. So we're

31:31

gonna say be like the porn

31:37

video it. But at least turn the

31:37

lights on.

31:41

Becoming better at

31:41

marital intimacy is a team

31:49

things for yourself to be that

31:49

better partner, that trickles

31:55

I can't say

31:55

enough, I can't say enough about

32:03

to bring couples back into love.

32:03

Giving couples ways to

32:13

will be magical. We're gonna talk a little bit

32:16

about taking control. Taking

32:25

taking control of yourself, or

32:25

having self care showing that

32:33

So you take control of you, your

32:33

bedroom atmosphere, your

32:43

attracted to their spouses. So

32:43

we're going to talk a little bit

32:53

We want to make sure that we

32:53

have visually pleasing

32:59

playtime, right? Does your

32:59

bedroom feel relaxing or

33:07

spot atmosphere, it can also be

33:07

very exciting or have pops of

33:17

completely picked up. It just

33:17

has to have those little things

33:26

generally but new bedding new

33:26

pillows, that always helps the

33:35

the room. Now I'm not saying has

33:35

to be perfect. But I'm saying

33:41

bedroom or not. So I'm going to

33:41

like bust it out there and tell

33:49

long did I have exercises I'm in

33:49

the bedroom a long time. A long

33:56

clear the air if you have items

33:56

in your bedroom that are not

34:05

to and I understand that. So get

34:05

a screen and screen them off. So

34:15

essential oils or candles, find

34:15

this perfect sense. Don't just

34:24

something to you because I

34:24

bought a million essential oils.

34:29

like two that I really, really

34:29

enjoy. So find those perfect

34:40

Find those good romantic

34:40

lighting. You know, I'm not

34:46

while you're having this fun,

34:46

right? Even though you know you

34:53

don't have to necessarily have

34:53

big bright spotlights. You can

34:59

with

35:00

I just want to point

35:00

out to you that this is

35:04

atmosphere, especially for where

35:04

you're having the scene is so

35:11

certain things to create that

35:11

atmosphere. And it's a lot of

35:20

it's not new bedding and new

35:20

pillows, because I wouldn't know

35:25

terrible. But I talk a lot about

35:25

not even necessarily cleaning

35:32

laundry somewhere, right? That's

35:32

going to distract your wife or

35:40

So it is really important to

35:40

make sure that you at least make

35:46

what I'm talking about. Make

35:46

that quick scan, make sure that

35:52

would distract her mind or take

35:52

her out of the scene doesn't

35:58

polish the furniture. This sense

35:58

is a great one. I've talked

36:04

that I like. And Will is really

36:04

not part of this podcast. But

36:11

that out in my own dynamic.

36:13

Yeah. So then

36:13

we go into taking control of our

36:23

so sexy. Like, when you're like,

36:23

ooh, that person is working out

36:31

it doesn't even matter if it's

36:31

losing weight, it's just taking

36:38

Mr. Fox is so in control of

36:38

himself. I'm the one that's not

36:47

care of himself. Like I can't

36:47

say enough about how sexy that

36:53

Here's what I would say

36:53

right now, though, to everybody

36:59

about how you see yourself. And

36:59

okay, it means a lot that you

37:06

honest lately too, it is LK that

37:06

is inspirational to me in the

37:16

or her flow. And I in even me

37:16

being well disciplined can just

37:23

and recognizing that your

37:23

partner does it right, she might

37:28

things that will change somebody's body.

37:30

I'm not a supermodel.

37:31

No, you are I'm talking about everybody.

37:35

That's a limiting belief.

37:38

But it's those things

37:38

that you will see things change,

37:43

harder, maybe it's a little

37:43

flatter, there are all these

37:48

make them up you if you're

37:48

watching, if you're paying

37:55

And when you acknowledge that to

37:55

the person, it will make them

38:05

partners part in this whole take

38:05

control of your mind and your

38:13

that you see the change, and

38:13

that you acknowledge it it will

38:19

Yeah, I think

38:19

that we always look to our

38:27

least i i think I'm like that.

38:27

So I am, I fall off the wagon.

38:34

on. I think it's important. You

38:34

know, especially as we get a

38:40

Mr. Fox always doing that it, I

38:40

love it. So even though I can't

38:49

You're getting pretty good at it. LK,

38:52

But we are

38:52

going to talking about taking

38:56

your overall health, right?

38:56

Fitness, maybe a little workout,

39:05

is into that full on workout,

39:05

you don't have to be, you know,

39:13

said, like Mr. Fox mentioned

39:13

that he feels like that's kind

39:19

am not one of those people, but

39:19

I have to actually work it

39:26

not like you have to be this

39:26

person that has to do everything

39:32

choices, that's the idea of

39:32

eating well make better choices.

39:36

What an important point

39:36

that is to right. It's not like

39:41

but just that you've set a path

39:41

to eat better.

39:45

Yes, it's just

39:45

making better choices.

39:47

And whatever that looks like for you.

39:48

So if you're

39:48

looking at something and you

39:56

sandwich in your life, huh?

39:56

What's the better choice Turkey

40:04

still eat the big burrito,

40:04

right? But then if you're making

40:10

progress. Again, stop the hang

40:10

ups, right? So and this, this I

40:19

started doing it and has made a

40:19

huge difference in my life. And

40:28

enough rest, take control of

40:28

your rest, get enough rest, take

40:40

couple naps are great. I am not

40:40

a great single Napper. But if my

40:50

ahead and just lay down for like

40:50

an hour. I'm going to take it

40:58

mind. Like I can't even explain

40:58

how important getting enough

41:06

even if you had take couple naps

41:06

instead of capital's playtime,

41:12

No, no, no, not better.

41:12

Maybe, maybe important.

41:19

Yes. But

41:19

you'll have a better scene if

41:25

well rested. That's true. You'll

41:25

be a better person. If you're

41:32

it over to Mr. Fox.

41:33

You're going to give it up to me?

41:34

I'm giving it up.

41:35

I love this. I love it.

41:35

filling in the blanks, or the

41:41

Yeah, we

41:41

talked about that earlier about

41:46

I love those analogies,

41:46

bringing light into the

41:53

with the light being in the

41:53

light can be stressful. And here

42:00

help alleviate some of that

42:00

stress. Maybe stay present with

42:06

Yeah, I think

42:06

that's important. You stay

42:12

in the blanks that's going

42:12

through your head, like he

42:20

stomach. You got to not think

42:20

negative. And you got to just

42:28

do that. Again, once you start

42:28

this dynamic and you practice

42:33

present in that moment.

42:35

Yeah, I think the mind

42:35

is the biggest. I don't want to

42:41

probably finding that attribute

42:41

or those attributes that they

42:49

there, and you're not totally

42:49

confident in yourself, you're

42:57

maybe you criticize yourself in

42:57

front of the mirror, but the

43:02

about everything that they find hot.

43:05

Yeah, and it's

43:05

there's nothing wrong with

43:09

like, calmly? Are you with me?

43:09

Like, when you're new to this

43:17

you know, at first doing things.

43:17

So I would say check in with

43:24

partner is doing all right.

43:26

Yeah. And don't allow

43:26

your mind to start making up

43:32

of it right back to what Okay,

43:32

talking about perspective, it's

43:39

And being okay

43:39

in silence. Silence is okay. Do

43:46

things or whatever. Having sex

43:46

with the lights on or during

43:54

silence. Silence is okay, too.

43:54

But we all like a little bit of

43:59

Absolutely. I love it.

43:59

And also, if you find yourself

44:05

partner to where you're

44:05

thinking, what what do I find

44:12

of all the things he might not

44:12

find a sexy try to think of,

44:18

on. Whatever it is right, x, y

44:18

and z. It'll change everything

44:23

Yeah. So

44:23

you're verbally being

44:28

Right?

44:29

Right. And then say

44:29

that to him. That's the verbal

44:34

Yeah. And how

44:34

and yeah, and how do we remember

44:44

think both Mr. Fox and I both

44:44

have the five senses are

44:52

on our sites, sight smell, all

44:52

of that you can say oh, you

45:01

Use all your senses to

45:01

verbalize. That's an easy way to

45:06

It's a super easy way

45:06

to get started down that whole

45:12

senses when you can't remember

45:12

anything like Okay, so let's

45:18

What are you tasting? Right?

45:18

What are you feeling?

45:21

What are you

45:21

hearing? I love your moans.

45:27

each other. And you can volley

45:27

it's so much fun to volley with

45:34

bedroom. You can volley and like

45:34

I say you always make your

45:41

movie or the perfect thing in

45:41

your head. You just volley back

45:46

Volley for a little

45:46

while then the ball gag will

45:48

Yeah. Then

45:48

there, then you're sirs of like

45:53

We're gonna switch this up a little bit.

45:56

You just keep talking to each other.

45:58

I swear as we keep

45:58

talking during the podcast, like

46:03

That's the whole idea.

46:04

Yeah, these are good for me.

46:05

So what's our

46:05

next one?

46:09

I think probably like

46:09

getting used to looking at one

46:13

Yeah, I agree.

46:13

Like, yeah, to just get used to

46:21

You'll be surprised

46:21

you're both gonna find each

46:25

Yeah. And

46:25

like, sometimes we'll just walk

46:31

it's just normal to us where

46:31

before? We never would do that.

46:38

our windows.

46:41

You might not find me

46:41

so sexy.

46:45

But your eyes

46:45

say 1000 Words. So use your eyes

46:50

Absolutely.

46:51

He can look at

46:51

me in a certain way or certain

46:56

were a little kid and your mom

46:56

would give you the eye or dad

47:02

gonna get a weapon when I get

47:02

home. You know, or whatever. You

47:08

Yeah. So they didn't

47:08

even need to say where do you

47:11

Yeah, so the

47:11

opposite here. beak with your

47:16

eyes. Learn your own sensuality.

47:16

Right. Learn your partner

47:26

partner through touching,

47:26

rubbing exploring each other.

47:35

Yeah, and I talked

47:35

about so much like the power of

47:42

touches a

47:42

number one thing the number one

47:50

It's so important that

47:50

like I don't even know how to

47:54

probably could enlighten me

47:54

okay, but I swear there's like a

48:02

instantly calming. When when

48:02

we're skin on skin.

48:06

Yes, it's an

48:06

energy. You put off energy I put

48:13

It's almost an instant

48:13

stress relief to me to be

48:19

kind of spas such every spa? Oh,

48:19

not the spa type. But maybe I'll

48:26

You go all the

48:26

time. But it feels really good

48:33

like No buddy else does. Right?

48:33

Yeah, so and then I think I have

48:44

have to be butt naked right from

48:44

a one beginning. But you know

48:54

just like, I don't want to be

48:54

like, show my whole body at one

49:01

some of your I love those fake

49:01

fur blankets. They're so sexy.

49:10

just use a blanket to kind of

49:10

cover yourself and let your SIR

49:15

Yeah, that'd be sexy in itself.

49:16

Right and it's

49:16

freaking chilly. Usually

49:21

It is.

49:22

I think we're

49:22

just gonna start closing this

49:28

with our new eyes projecting our

49:28

new perception of sexual

49:37

on and focus on our partner and

49:37

the pleasure we can give to one

49:47

has sex and has kinky fun sex

49:47

and when you wake up the next

49:58

made a little bit of magic with each other.

50:00

Okay, Im in.

50:02

Me too. Thanks, everybody.

50:05

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50:05

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50:08

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50:08

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