Here’s a harsh truth for many men to understand, especially the pleasers and fixers: 

It’s not your job as a man to continuously attract your woman or to make her happy. Instead, it's about understanding the elements that naturally cultivate attraction and happiness within a relationship.

But this approach to dating and attraction is a lot harder because it requires improving yourself at the deepest levels instead of putting on a façade. 

But you know what? 

Despite it being harder, it leads to a more fulfilling relationship. And yes, this includes sexual fulfillment too. 

In today’s episode, I’m answering some tough questions like: 

1. What are women actually attracted to? 

2. What keeps women committed in a relationship, especially a long-term relationship where the initial spark has died?

3. And how do you not only attract a woman, but keep her? 

And I reveal my 3H and 3P methods for helping you understand the complex dance of attraction and commitment that are the cornerstones of building a successful long-term relationship.

Listen now. 

Show Highlights Include:

• Why the initial spark in your relationship dies when you don’t understand this… (0:56) 
• How wondering how to attract your ideal woman is a sneaky way to display your neediness (and how to stop being needy) (3:59) 
• The “CRW” secret for naturally attracting women without even trying (7:08)
• Are women sexually attracted to wealth? Here’s why they’re not (even if they say they are) (13:08) 
• How meeting the emotional needs of your partner naturally sparks, and intensifies, your attraction to her (and the “P-word” that strengthens these emotional bonds) (18:09) 
• Why downloading a meditation app on your phone can significantly enhance your attractiveness to women (20:06) 
• How to both improve the sexual relationship with your partner while also strengthening the emotional bonds that glue the relationship together (28:57) 

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 17 years, I’ve helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I’m therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to take this quick quiz to access my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://dtphd.com/quiz now.

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https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

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